My Life List

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‘List Of Things To Do Before I Die’

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This list will be added to over time until it reaches 1,000 things

1. Stop biting my nails

2. Visit the Toronto Zoo

3. Hold a spider (of the non-poisonous variety)

4. Teach a workshop

5. Reach my goal size

6. Do 5 chin ups

7. Run a 5K marathon

8. Plant a garden

9. Take photography classes

10. Volunteer for a good cause

11. Fire walk

12. Make myself a koi fish teapot

13. Learn a second language

14. See New York City

15. Backpack across Australia

16. Fit into my pin-stripe skirt

17. Use all my tile scraps to create something beautiful and unique

18. Learn glass blowing

19. Become a life coach

20. Spend a day naked outdoors

21. Write a book

22. Teach myself to pee standing up

23. Learn to roller blade

24. Take belly-dancing lessons

25. Touch a giraffe

26. Hike The Appalachian Trail

27. Ride a camel

28. See the pyramids

29. Learn to kayak

30. Go whale watching

31. Take my kids horseback riding

32. Go white-water rafting

33. Visit Norway

34. Scuba dive

35. Coach at Choices

36. Try deep-sea fishing

37. Go to Disneyland

38. Own my own coffee shop/bakery

39. Ride on an actual train

40. Send a message in a bottle

41. Take tango lessons

42. Learn to play a musical instrument well

43. Ride in a hot-air balloon

44. Attend a really huge rock concert

45. Fast for 3 days

46. Camp in a tent by myself for (at least) 1 night

47. Eat something really bizarre (like animal testicles)

48. Pilot an aircraft

49. Get my motorcycle licence

50. Eat fried green tomatoes

51. See the Great Wall of China

52. Have a pet ferret

53. Sell my art to a stranger

54. Drive a Dodge Viper

55. Have a pet dove

56. Visit a monastery

57. Eat bread and cheese in Paris

58. Visit Stonehenge

59. Walk through the Historic District of Quebec City

60. Visit Prince Edward Island

61. See the Moai of Easter Island

62. Give money to a cause I feel strongly about

63. Write my will

64. See Stomp perform live

65. Try surfing

66. Skinny dip in the dark

67. Donate blood

68. Attend a Gay Pride Parade

69. Taste Foie Gras

70. Go to Vegas

71. Donate bone marrow

72. Keep tree frogs as pets

73. Go to a Drive-In movie theatre

74. Visit Thailand

75. See Cirque Du Soleil live

76. Have a food fight

77. Buy a sport bike

78. Take pole-dancing lessons

79. Steal someone’s lawn gnome or animal trinket and take it on vacation with me. Complete with it’s own website and lots of photos of it doing tourist stuff

80. Play paintball

81. Go to a spa for a massage

82. Take my mother on a trip back to Singapore, just the two of us

83. Sleep in a hammock for a night

84. Try welding

85. Ride in a limousine

86. Make out in a library

87. Buy fresh produce at a farmers market

88. See the Grand Canyon

89. Spend a day in Bangkok

90. Visit the Parliament Building in Ottawa

91. Tour The Louvre

92. Take a road trip across Canada with friends

93. Witness the birth of a child (yes I’ve had two of my own but you can’t really ‘watch’ with all the screaming and pushing)

94. Spend an afternoon drifting in a small boat and reading a fantastic book

95. Save up and buy a really good digital camera

96. Watch leatherback sea turtle babies hatching and then heading for the sea

97. Meet someone with my first name (not an easy task since it’s a rare name)

98. Play poker at a casino

99. Order a bottle of Dom Perignon Champagne

100. Buy an old character home and completely renovate it

101. Get the fourth tattoo I have planned (a symbol of my marriage)

102. Go up to the observation deck of the CN Tower

103. Make my Great-Grandmothers fudge recipe (by myself, no assistance, which is harder than it sounds)

104. Grow my own vegetables

105. Build a fountain/pond in my back yard

106. Buy a bicycle

107. Learn how to change the oil in my vehicle

108. Live near an ocean

109. Bake homemade bread

110. Finish my kids First Year scrapbooks

111. Learn to snowboard

112. Sell my pottery

113. Take my kids to a water park

114. Ski the Alps

115. Take a wine tour

116. Eat at the revolving restaurant in the Calgary Tower

117. Go to the Niagara Ice Wine Festival

118. Get the third tattoo I have planned (for my children)

119. Take a girls-only vacation to Mexico

120. Get the tribute tattoo I have planned (for my Grandfather)

121. Walk through ByWard Market in Ottawa

122. Make food for the homeless

123. Go sailing

124. Become totally debt-free

125. Tour the National Arts Center

126. Get a passport

127. Renew my wedding vows in some eccentric way/location

128. Learn American Sign Language

129. Become a massage therapist

130. See The Rideau Canal Waterway

131. Have my own pottery studio

132. Take a ride in a Gondola in Venice

133. Spend the night some place haunted

134. Experience Canada Day in our nation’s capital

135. Visit Quebec

136. Ride a dog sled

137. Read A Streetcar Named Desire by Tennessee Williams

138. Visit New Brunswick

139. Spend at least a weekend in Tofino camping with friends

140. Successfully grown a plant from a seed that came from a fruit that I have eaten (like a lemon or mango)

141. Visit Newfoundland and Labrador

142. Cook pheasant

143. Hike up the side of a volcano

144. Go snowmobiling in the mountains

145. Visit Nova Scotia

146. Read Stranger in a Strange Land by Robert A. Heinlein

147. Go to a bee farm, eat honey directly from the hive

148. Visit the Yukon

149. Touch a glacier

150. Visit the Northwest Territory

151. Learn to use Microsoft Excel

152. Own my own skidoo

153. Visit the Nunavut Territory

154. Make steak tartar

155. Prepare a dish that incorporates truffles

156. Tour the Museum Of Civilization

157. Work at Starbucks

158. Spend a night at the Banff Springs Hotel

159. Get a manicure

160. Learn how to make paper

161. Teach my kids to downhill ski

162. Eat at Susur

163. Make soap from scratch

164. Go for a hot stone massage

165. Eat at a restaurant owned by a celebrity chef

166. Make my own candles

167. Sleep under the stars

168. Tour a brewery

169. Watch the Changing of the Guard at Parliament Hill

170. Have dinner with Jack at The Rainbow Room in New York City

171. Ride a double-decker tour bus

172. Go to Caribana in Toronto

173. Read The Narrative of Arthur Gordon Pym of Nantucket by Edgar Allan Poe

174. Publish a children’s book

175. Spend a weekend in Ottawa without my kids

176. Have poutine in Montreal

177. Live on a different continent for at least a year

178. Work at a library/bookstore

179. Celebrate New Years Eve in Times Square

180. Host a fancy cocktail party

181. Read Life of Pi by Yann Martel

182. Work as a bartender

183. See James Blunt in concert

184. Start a club or organization

185. Take Jack to Radium Hot Springs

186. Drive a sea-doo

187. Read Marriage: A History by Stephanie Coontz

188. Make Christmas dinner all by myself

189. Learn to play chess

190. Buy an iPod

191. Start my own cake-making business

192. Watch The Passion Of The Christ movie

193. Take tap dancing lessons

194. Go on a trip alone

195. Swim with dolphins

196. Send a postcard to PostSecret

197. Decorate my entire house exactly the way I want it

198. Throw someone a big surprise party

199. Create a big piece of art for my home

200. Lay in a field at night and look at the stars (either alone or in good company)

201. Read The Secret by Rhonda Byrne

202. Go to a Taste Of [Insert City Name Here] event

203. Take an afternoon tea with friends at a little tea shop (large hats and broaches are required attire)

204. Be part of a flash mob

205. Stand on the equator

206. Take my kids to the jungle (I promised my son that I would)

207. Spend Chirstmas Day on the beach

208. Attend a demonstration

209. Complete the Monopoly Board Pub Crawl in London

210. Try riding a unicycle

211. Visit the World’s Largest Pysanka

212. Go to a swingers/sex party

213. Learn to make glass beads

214. Have sex in a public bathroom

215. Photograph zebras in Africa

216. Have sex in the rain

217. Climb the Mayan Ruins

218. Dive for pearls in the Persian Gulf

219. Ride a zip line

220. Celebrate Mardi Gras in New Orleans

221. Have a MFM threesome

222. See the Blue Man Group perform live

223. Watch all of the Star Wars movies in a row

224. Build my own bondage furniture

225. Take erotic photos professionally

226. Visit the Viking landing place in Newfoundland

227. Boil eggs in the natural hot springs of Mt. Fiji

228. Learn tribal drumming

229. Have my fortune told

230. Try archery

231. Ride a mechanical bull

232. Eat vegan for a month

233. Make homemade ice cream

234. Stay awake from Friday morning to Sunday night

235. Experience life in a third world country

236. Visit the SPAM museum in Minnesota

237. Go to Burning Man

238. Build my very own website

239. Eat according to the 100 Mile Diet for at least a month

240. Eat raw for at month

241. Go two weeks without using a computer

242. Give $100 to someone in need

243. Spend a night in the Ice Hotel in Sweden

244. Float in the Dead Sea

245. Slow dance under the stars

246. Watch the entire Lord Of The Rings Trilogy in one day

247. Drum with the Dragon Ritual Drummers

248. Visit Canada’s Wonderland

249. Attend part of Pride Festival in Toronto

250. See the Chinese Lantern Festival in Toronto

251. Eat at Tantra Restaurant in Miami (it has a grass floor)

252. Visit the Tiger Temple in Thailand

253. Learn Poi and become proficient enough to do Fire Poi

254. Go to a Full Moon Partyin Koh Phangan

255. Visit the BioDome in Montreal

256. Play in public at a Kink party

257. Eat a bug

258. Hang out at Foufounes Electriques

259. Receive a bouquet of Shasta Daisies

260. Collect a jar of star sand

261. Have lunch at The Red Tea Box

262. Be part of a Polar Bear Dip

263. Do Vodka shots at Banu

267. Take home a pastry from Dufflet

268. Swim from Alcatraz to the main land

269. Make a podcast

270. Do at least one vlog post (video blog)

271. Ride the GO Train

272. Learn to play tennis

273. Try outdoor bondage

274. Trade spouses with someone for a weekend

275. Give up fast food for 6 months

276. Make a wedding cake for someone

277. Ride a segway

278. Have hot wax poured on my naked body

279. Send a message via carrier pigeon

280. See a ballet performance

281. Meet Padme in person

282. Participate in a triathlon

283. See the World’s Largest Penguin

284. Bet on a horse race

285. Throw a ‘Politically Incorrect’ party

286. Send someone flowers or a gift anonymously

287. Go to the Opera

288. Participate in a Pagan celebration/ritual

289. Throw a Kink Play party

290. Have a coffee with Daryl

291. Experience knife play

292. Ride a horse on the beach

293. Take a photo of Chicago from the Skydeck of the Sears Tower

294. Have a grown ups pajama party

295. Make jam from scratch

296. Watch all of the Harry Potter movies in a row

297. Make dill pickles

298. Visit Kalamazoo

299. Stay in the best suite at a five-star hotel

300. Go to a nude beach

301. Take my kids to a Rainforest Cafe

302. Ride in a helicopter

303. Paint on someones nude body

304. Play strip poker

305. Organize a huge scavenger hunt (for adults)

306. Take Mz. F out for a wild night of drinking, partying, and risque adventures

307. Play ‘Bitch Or Loon’ again and this time not end up passed out on the floor in my underwear

308. See a Broadway musical

309. Throw a big housewarming party

310. Have every single box in my house unpacked (seasonal decorations aside)

311. Try raw oysters

312. Go rock climbing

313. Go on a second honeymoon with Jack

314. Teach Jack to ski downhill

315. Take Jack horseback riding

316. Go to a Hamilton Tiger-Cats game in Hamilton

317. Make caramel apples

318. Go trail riding on horseback through the mountains at least one more time

319. Stand under a waterfall

320. Start and grow a bonsai tree ‘from scratch’ (meaning do not buy it already potted)

321. See Niagara Falls from on board the Maid Of The Mist

322. Make popcorn balls

323. Walk through a real castle

324. Visit the Wings Of Paradise Butterfly Conservatory

325. Make beef jerky from scratch

326. Spend a week on the street, living as a homeless person

327. Drive a Smart car

328. Make ‘Beer Can Chicken’

329. ‘Live off the land’ in the wilderness for a week

330. Have sex in the back of our Nitro

331. Throw a wine tasting party

332. Dive off of a cliff

333. Take a photo of a turtle crossing sign

334. Visit the Art Gallery of Ontario

335. Go to Legoland in Denmark

336. See the Tian Tan Buddhain Hong Kong

337. Visit the Colosseum in Rome

338. Watch a bull fight

339. Stand on Hoover Dam

340. Visit the Bombay Sapphire (Gin) Distillery in England

341. Bench press my own weight

342. Make my own bath bombs from scratch

343. Slide down the pole at a fire hall

344. Keep a tadpole until it turns into a frog

345. Remain totally silent for a week

346. Spend a Saturday being a window model at MissBehav’N

347. Wear my grad dress one more time

348. Buy a drink for a stranger

349. Have henna done

350. Make prison hooch in a garbage bag

351. Get a double labret/snake bite piercing

352. Go to the Valley Zoo in Edmonton

353. Join a roller derby team

354. Spend a night in an igloo that I built with friends

355. Make out at a drive-in movie

356. Have a drinking contest with Jack (and whoever else might care to join)

357. Go to a BDSM play party

358. Spend a day shopping on Queen Street W in Toronto

359. Go to the Toronto Film Festival

360. Wander through the Textile Museum Of Canada

361. Read Different Lovingby William Brame & Gloria Brame

362. Foster animals who are waiting to be adopted

363. Make homemade chocolate truffles

364. Go bobsledding

365. Experience cupping

366. Go to a monster truck rally or demolition derby

367. Read When Someone You Love Is Kinky by Dossie Easton & Catherine A. Liszt

368. Go ice skating at Rockafeller Center

369. Taste ostrich meat

370. Buy a bottle of $100+ wine

371. Collect a set of coins that were minted in the year I was born

372. Build a bat house

373. Learn to skateboard

374. Visit the Elephanta Caves

375. Watch someone get a tattoo

376. Take a cooking class with a friend

377. Take a pee in the robot potty in Calgary

378. Go to a high school reunion

379. Participate in a ‘Free Hugs’ Day

380. Read The Myth Of Monogamyby David P Barash Ph.D & Judith Eve Lipton M.D

381. Eat a cupcake from Crave

382. Make a scrapbook for someone as a gift

383. Go to the Just For Laughs Festival

384. Play a round of golf with Jack

385. Meet CunningMinx in person

386. Touch a stingray

387. Make donuts from scratch

388. Take my kids mini golfing

389. Go off-roading/4x4ing

390. Eat butter chicken and naan bread in India

391. Throw a tailgate party

392. Get a Blackberry or iPhone

393. Take a spinning class

394. Make my grandma’s homemade playdough with my kids

395. See The Vagina Monologues (again)

396. Go back to school

397. Make creme brulee

398. Smoke pot in Amsterdam

399. Take a cruise

400. Dive The Great Barrier Reef

401. Photograph penguins in the wild

402. Make Vietnamese coffee

403. Swim with sharks

404. Spend the night on a boat

405. Have a smoked meat sandwich in Montreal

406. Watch the RCMP Musical Ride

407. Eat sushi in Japan

408. Start a fire using only sticks and kindling

409. Dye my hair blue

410. Make pysanky (again)

411. Try hookah

412. Tour the Smithsonian

413. Have a Violet Wand used on me

414. Go spelunking

415. Rappel down a cliff

416. Go to a Super Bowl

417. Help build a Habitat For Humanity house

418. Have a part of my body casted

419. Try fire play

420. Jump in a big pile of leaves

421. Receive a lap dance

422. Eat Chicago deep dish pizza in Chicago

423. Spank a total stranger

424. Close my eyes, throw a dart at a world map, and then travel to where the dart lands

425. Learn more about tantric sex

426. Live out of a van for a week

427. See The Door To Hell in Russia

428. Get a photo by the Cloud Gate/Giant Bean

429. Lick the Giant Lobster

430. Spend a night at an undersea hotel

431. Try uni (sea urchin roe)

432. See the Body Worlds exhibit

433. Learn to water-ski

434. Make bannok

435. Drink sake

436. Draw more often

437. Take a trip somewhere with my sister

438. Make pasta from scratch

439. Make wine jelly

440. Learn to paint with watercolors

441. Go to TOnightmarket in Toronto

442. Climb the stairs at the Eiffel tower

443. Taste caviar

444. Stay overnight at a Bed and Breakfast

445. Walk on the beach under the moonlight with someone I love

446. Check out the Toronto Pottery & Glass Show

447. Ride The Mindbender at West Edmonton Mall

448. Tour Alaska

449. Ride on the back of a motorcycle through the country

450. Smoke a cigar

451. Dip my toes in each of The Great Lakes

452. Have a Tubby Dog

453. Have buffalo chicken wings at Anchor Bar in Buffalo, where they were invented

454. Be some body’s Maid Of Honor

455. Collect a vial of water from the Nile River

456. Celebrate Holi Festival in India

457. Visit the Lotus Temple

458. Canoe down part of the Amazon River

459. Go to a dinner theater

460. Chew on fresh sugar cane

461. Try suspension bondage

462. Make pirogi from scratch

463. Buy a violet wand

464. Eat at Nobu

465. Learn to preform fire play

466. Walk through a corn maze

467. Go to Shibaricon

468. Drive a convertible

469. Make the trek to Washington for Black Rose

470. Do electrical play on someone

471. Visit a science center

472. Make cheese from scratch

473. Go to Tease

474. Take a guided tour of Toronto

475. Learn to hula dance

476. Go to St. Jacob’s Farmers Market

477. Visit the Elora Gorge

478. Make a ‘sand angel’ in the Sahara Desert

479. Vote in an election

480. Go to a poly camp

481. Make pumpkin pie from scratch

482. Weave fabric on a loom

483. Read The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy

484. Ride a bicycle from the west coast to the east coast of Canada

485. Have a pint at Wheat Sheaf, the oldest bar in Toronto

486. Rollerblade, walk, or bike the Toronto Waterfront Trail

487. See a show at The Elgin and Winter Garden Theatre Center, the last double-decker theatre in the world

488. Learn to juggle

489. Solve a Rubik’s Cube

490. Learn to play Sudoku

491. Walk on stilts

492. Take a helicopter tour

493. Take someone(s) on a surprise picnic (again)

494. Go to TESFest

495. Get a pedicure

496. Have a party with V and a ton of our pals in the penthouse of the Shore Club Hotel in Miami

497. Hike the Huashan Trail

498. Visit John Wayne’s grave site

499. Make chocolate-covered bacon

500. Ride a wooden roller coaster

501. Tour a chocolate factory

502. Play the slots in Las Vegas

503. Drive a vehicle while naked

504. Travel to the Arctic

505. See the water show at the Bellagio

506. Drink a yard-long margarita

507. See a polar bear in the wild

508. Party at Studio 54

509. Touch an iceberg

510. Ride an elephant

511. Go to Folies Bergere

512. Learn to play the harmonica

513. Go heli-skiing

514. Try indoor skydiving

515. Enter Boston’s Tough Guy Competition

516. Visit a wax museum

517. Get a family dog

518. Drive the autobahn

519. Camp in the winter

520. Have sex on the beach

521. Donate my hair to Locks Of Love

522. Visit the Vatican

523. Climb a mountain

524. Compete in the Eco Challenge

525. See the Devil’s Bible

526. Change a tire

527. Taste fresh mozerella

528. Eat cheesecake in New York city

529. Collect sea shells on the beach

530. See the light show on Freemont St.

531. Bungee jump

532. Tour Auschwitz

533. See the salt flats

534. Walk through the Bone Chapel

535. Go to the Kentucky Derby

536. LARP

537. Participate in a sweat lodge ritual

538. Complete a multi-day thru-hike

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