A Bear Is Just A Man Who Made A Choice

Posted on May 24th, 2010 in Made In Ontario, Migration Paths

We are presenting an offer on another house this weekend.  Jack was in Calgary for a couple of days recently and was able to scout out some homes for us.  One in particular seems to meet all of our requirements, and it’s a great deal, so we are making a move on it, even though [...]

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Sometimes I Need What Only You Can Provide: Your Absence

Posted on December 9th, 2009 in Made In Ontario, Mating And Relating, Photos, Polyamory

While I was tidying yesterday, I was rooting through a drawer, looking for the USB cord to my iPod, when I came across this broken ring.  Initially I had planned to post only a photo of it, saying I had finally thrown it out, but that would really only mean anything to less than half [...]

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And Those Prophecies May Come To Pass

Posted on September 23rd, 2009 in Does All Her Own Stunts

Last night I had a rather vivid dream about K (among other things).  Believe it or not this was actually a welcome shift from the nightmares that have plagued my subconscious as of late. In this dream I was having a large gathering at my home.  It was a BBQ or something of similar nature, [...]

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Polyamory And Things I Want To Gripe About

Posted on August 12th, 2009 in Emotional Angst, Mating And Relating, Polyamory

It’s often easy to become frustrated with the world we live in.  Global warming, Wal-Mart, and politics aside, there is the fact that the ‘lifestyle’ I chose to live is mostly unheard of, and probably light years away from social acceptance. I’ve had this stuck in my craw for days, so I figured I might as [...]

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Her Panties Will Come Off So Fast*

Posted on April 8th, 2009 in Advice, Does All Her Own Stunts, Emotional Angst, Ethics And Morality, Made In Ontario, Mating And Relating, Polyamory, Tie Me Up

Last Saturday morning I helped to host a kink brunch that is becoming a regular event in my area.  Sparked by plans to get together in order to swap some toys, my co-hostess and I began inviting additional friends and before we really knew it there were upwards of 20 people planning to join us, [...]

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People Stop Talking To You Because You’re Awful, Accept It

Posted on May 11th, 2008 in This And That

Douchebag, It has been drawn to my attention that you are accusing me of turning people against you. Much to my amusement, you’re actually managing it all on your own. Keep up the great work! If you’re going to insist on blaming me, I will happily take all the credit anyway.  Really, I wish it was my [...]

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Relationship Destroyer Battleship

Posted on April 21st, 2008 in This And That

I’m certain my cryptic post late last night has caused some confusion, and certainly inspired some concerned messages and e-mails today. Please know that I am ok, although angry, and feeling a little foolish. K and I had a falling out.  The last one we will ever have I am sure, since I’ve decided that [...]

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The Voluntary Human Extinction Program Is A Good Start

Posted on April 20th, 2008 in This And That

Ew! I can’t believe I gave you yet another chance. You’re still slimy, skeezey, and desperate.  Clearly nothing about you has changed. I’ve been stupid and forgiving for the last time. Fuck off, and never speak to me, or anyone I know, ever again! Shasta P.S. Good job on screwing up, again.

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Glitter Is The Herpes Of Craft Supplies

Posted on April 18th, 2008 in Carnal Confessions, Does All Her Own Stunts, Made In Ontario, Mating And Relating, Photos, Polyamory

Beyond the night of the party, I know I haven’t blogged at all about K’s visit or any of the other fun things we did while he was here.  Between actually spending time with him and planning for the party and then having the party and recovering only to fly out to Calgary for an [...]

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I’m Not Going To Write You A Love Song

Posted on April 12th, 2008 in Are You Gonna Eat That?, Does All Her Own Stunts, Made In Alberta

I had wanted to write a post yesterday before we left for Calgary, but I didn’t have time. Ah well. It’ll wait, churning about in my brain, until I have the time to get it all out here. I’m writing this from V’s computer, while we get geared up to head out for the evening. [...]

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My Van Is Full Of Loose Carrots!

Posted on April 9th, 2008 in Carnal Confessions, Does All Her Own Stunts, Made In Ontario, Mating And Relating, Polyamory

Gathering from the e-mails and Twitter messages I’ve received thus far this week, I can tell that some of you are fairly dying of curiosity over how the sex party went on Sunday night. Perhaps I should be nice and fill you in on the details? Hmmmmm… Oh, alright. I figure I’ve made you wait [...]

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I Need To Kill Myself If All The Girls Want A Piece Of Me

Posted on April 4th, 2008 in Made In Ontario, Polyamory

I <3 My Antibiotics! Feeling significantly better since Wednesday, and I’ve been able to eat without getting sick. Plus, K arrives in less than 9 hours! Woot! We chatted last night, and when it was time for bed I quickly typed “See you tomorrow” and then it occurred to me how long it had been [...]

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Rock Out With Your Cock Out

Posted on March 12th, 2008 in Does All Her Own Stunts, This And That

*** This post has been edited and re-published for accuracy *** Some of you noticed, I am sure, that I’ve mentioned an upcoming party several times in previous posts over the past month. I think I alluded to hosting it a few times, which isn’t exactly the truth. The event in question is actually a [...]

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Dinosaurs Return. Want Their Oil Back.*

Posted on February 22nd, 2008 in Budge That Pudge, Made In Ontario

Friday has finally arrived, and with it, the beginning of what I expect will be a very good weekend. To get ourselves into a weekend kind of mood, Nia and I did a yoga class this morning, followed by a nice hot shower at the gym and about 15 minutes in the sauna together. Nia [...]

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H-Bombs Dropped; We All Died.*

Posted on February 13th, 2008 in Emotional Angst, Polyamory

Ex-Lovers can often be a precarious topic, particularly when there is a lot of complicated history involved, and especially when one wishes to write about them, knowing they will read it. I mentioned in a recent post that K and I had been working on getting past some of the bitterness and bad feelings left [...]

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Really Officer, I Can Explain!

Posted on February 9th, 2008 in Budge That Pudge, Does All Her Own Stunts, Emotional Angst, Made In Ontario

Some of you may have noticed that when my favourite holiday of the year rolled around, I did not post a list of resolutions or goals for 2008. That was intentional on my part, since I decided this year was going to be slightly different. No more January promises that barely last into the third [...]

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Starfish Rarely Make Sense

Posted on September 13th, 2006 in Does All Her Own Stunts, Emotional Angst, Mating And Relating, Polyamory

I’ve been meaning to post here for a few days now, but lack of time, lack of motivation, and problems with Blogger Beta have prevented that from happening. Ah well, I’m here now and I have quite a few things to talk about. First of all, if any of you have stopped by K’s blog [...]

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I Think The Name Of The Band Is Skinny Kitty…

Posted on June 19th, 2006 in Does All Her Own Stunts, Made In Alberta, Mating And Relating, Polyamory

If you have been over to K’s blog in the last day or two you will know that we had a really good time on Friday night. To be honest with you, initially I was dreading it. In the later afternoon K and I were talking a bit on IM and he was not in [...]

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My Piercing Experience and The Strangest ‘Double Date’ Ever

Posted on June 12th, 2006 in Body Mods, Does All Her Own Stunts, Polyamory

Edit: It was not your imagination or any hallucinogenic drugs you may have been on, there was a picture here of my piercing. After some discussion about protecting our secret vanilla identities, Jack and I decided that said photo (combined with the details in this blog) would probably lead any friends or family to correctly [...]

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Happy Birthday K!

Posted on June 3rd, 2006 in This And That

I know this entry is post-dated. I will not be here over the weekend so I had to publish it ahead of time. Cyanide & Happiness @ Explosm.net This comic made me laugh. I hope you have a good birthday K. Traditional Gemini Traits Adaptable and versatile Communicative and witty Intellectual and eloquent Youthful and [...]

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