Stiletto Diaries

A few months before the birth of this website (now almost 3 years old!) I purchased my first pair of stiletto heeled shoes.  Being more of a chunky shoes girl prior to then, these were a bit of a stretch, but I was looking for something hot to wear to a wedding and these certainly fit the bill.

The title of this blog was originally inspired by these particular shoes, and the soft-core porn series that Jack and I used to watch together on Friday nights, titled ”The Red Shoe Diaries”.

These sexy little heels have seen a lot of action over the years.  I wore them to my first sex party at Goodhandy’s, where they were slung over the shoulders of a very orally talented man.  I wore them to a recent play party, and on any number of dates and other sexual escapades.  They remain my very favorite pair of hot-as-hell heels.  I hope they last to see me through another 3 years of debauchery and blogging!

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Just a note, before I begin my post about the weekend.  You may have noticed that all of the Twitter Digest posts are now gone.  I took a quick poll of my readers yesterday, and since most of you disliked having them on the blog, I removed them.  Personally, I go back and forth between liking them and being annoyed with them.  When is a good time to have them?  When should I turn them off?  Do people even read them?  Etc.  At any rate, they are no more.

Now, on to the good parts!

On Friday evening V and I drove into Toronto and down to the Sound Academy, which is located on a pier, along the shore of Lake Ontario.  I’d never been to this particular venue before, but we were both quite impressed with the interior, and then we wandered out onto the back patio and saw the lake.  After walking down a short flight of stairs you find yourself standing right beside the water, while the waves lap against the pier.  We could see a fantastic view of the Toronto skyline at night, all lit up.  The CN tower was in clear view, and the downtown looked brilliant, towering above the shores of the lake.  Unfortunately I had neglected to bring my camera, so I don’t have photos, but hopefully you get the idea.

The opening bands were great.  V and I had some drinks and really enjoyed ourselves while we waited for Bedouin Soundclash.  Both of the openers were from Ontario here, so it was a 100% Canadian concert, which I like.

We were pumped up and ready when Soundclash finally took the stage.  It was really awesome to see them preform live.  I’ve loved their music for several years now, and it was so cool to hear them play in person.  They did both of my favorite songs, and we managed to get pretty close to the stage (it was a general admission thing with no seating, so the entire audience was crowded together).  We danced and sang and oggled the bassist.  It was a great time!

At the end of the concert we grabbed a hot dog from one of the street meat carts and then headed for home.  We were both exhausted and I hardly remember going to bed.

Saturday passed quietly.  V wasn’t feeling well most of the afternoon, and wasn’t sure if she was up for clubbing.  Nia ended up having to cancel due to having a very long day and feeling much too tired to join us.  Things were not looking good, but then V decided to join me after all, so we got dressed and packed a change of clothes (since we planned to spend the night at Deja’s) and off we went.

We stopped to pick up Deja, who lives far closer to Toronto than I do, which is why we planned to spend the night there.  She and V seemed to hit it off pretty well, and by the time we made it to Goodhandy’s they were better acquainted.

It was really nice to see Todd again, who gave me a big hug when we arrived.  I introduced V and Deja and then I gave them a tour of the club.  They were both really nervous, and I had to laugh when we passed a man vigorously masturbating in the hallway on our way back from the bathrooms.

We got a table and V excused herself to go outside for a cigarette.  An older gentleman whom I’ve talked to at the club during previous visits came over and offered to buy Deja and I a drink.  Deja was obviously reluctant to accept, but since I knew a bit about this man I gladly allowed him to bring me a gin with 7up.  Deja did end up taking his offer as well, and after he brought us our drinks he took off and didn’t bother us again for the rest of the night.

V returned and we all had a few more drinks.  We watched other people, and chatted some.  Nothing too exciting was going on.  This one very unattractive man came over and sat near us.  He began talking to Deja, who was obviously uninterested and more than a tad uncomfortable.

We all went outside together, to get a little air and so that Deja could escape the weirdo.  I didn’t want either of them to have a bad experience there, so I made sure to mention that we could leave at any time.

Back in the club we relocated to a new table with a different view.  One of the regulars (I see him there all the time) was masturbating up on the balcony, which I pointed out to V, who started laughing awkwardly.  We also go to see Naked Dancing Guy, who is another regular, and generally just busts a move in nothing but a black cap and a pair of beat up sneakers.  He was wearing boxers most of the time, for whatever reason, but we did catch a glimpse of him totally nude by the DJ booth and upstairs.

Towards the end of the evening there was a threesome on the balcony.  Two men and a cross dresser.  One was giving her a blow job while the other fucked her up the ass.  That was quite a spectacle, although I wish they had come downstairs to do it so that we could have had a better view.

The creepy man had returned and was hitting on Deja, who kicked V under the table to signal her distress.  V finished her drink quickly and I went to say goodbye to Todd before we left.  The guy seemed pretty disappointed when I beckoned Deja away, but she was relieved to be rid of him.  When we got to the car she told us that he had offered her $100 to flog him, which she had wisely refused.

We drove back to Deja’s place, even though we were all still wide awake and feeling ambitious.  So we had some more drinks and we helped Deja set up her massage table so that we could do a little playing!  I really wanted V to see what fire play is like, and since Jack had given me permission to do fire play with Deja, I thought I would take advantage.

I stripped naked and got onto the table and stretched out on my belly.  I could feel Deja apply a strip of alcohol down my spine, and then a moment later there was heat, and then cool, and then heat, and then cool, until all the alcohol was burned away.

She repeated this process many times over on different parts of my back and legs.  V was really impressed while watching.  It was so cool to be able to share that experience with her.  Deja dripped alcohol down my ass and then lit it, which made me squirm.  Apparently it looked all kinds of awesome with my butt all lit up like that, LOL.

Eventually I turned over on my back and Deja went to work on my chest and breasts and tummy.  It was a tad unnerving watching my front side be set ablaze, but I trust Deja completely, so I just did my best to keep still.  Having my nipples set on fire was totally awesome.

V let Deja do a strip of fire on her arm as well, and then invited her to try doing some fire play on me.

“Do you trust me?” V asked, half kidding, while she stepped around the table beside Deja.

“Of course I do!” I said, grinning.

Deja showed her how to use the fire play wands and her hand to put out the flames after lighting them.  You can’t let it burn for very long or it’ll leave a mark (or worse).  V did a few strips across my chest, and she caught on right away.  It was a neat experience, and I’d like the chance to do a little fire play myself.  I am going to get Deja to show me how to make the wands for it, and give me a lesson.  It would be awesome to be able to do it to other people.

After the fire play, Deja got out her Violet Wand to show V.  I dread the wand, but I also love it.  She turned it on and ran it over my skin, which made me squirm and yelp.  V thought the wand was brilliant, and really loved how it felt.  Deja hooked up the body probe, which is basically a metal rod that one person holds onto and then the current runs through them and into anyone they touch.  V started poking me and shocking me and I pretty much had a giggling fit because that’s what I do when I love and loath something.  Deja gave her these metal fingernail type things, which only intensified the effect.  It was really wild, and I was so glad that V was really enjoying herself and getting into it.  We had a riot.

When I was all out of breath and they were done with me, I got into my pajamas and we all sat around chatting and laughing.  We talked briefly about doing some cupping, but decided to save that for another time.

We started scheming for the last weekend in September.  Jack and I had planned to go to Deja’s for the evening so that she could show him what fire play was all about.  I’m hoping that Nia might be able to babysit for us so that V can come along as well.  I’d like to try cupping then, and also maybe do a little fire play myself on Jack.  He expressed an interest in wanting to try doing it on me, so there will be fun all around!

V and I got to sleep in Deja’s dungeon that night.  It was a really neat experience falling asleep surrounded by paddles and bondage furniture, and every manner of kinky item.  Deja has a beautiful dungeon.  The walls are painted and textured to look like stone, and she has some really creative lighting fixtures and candle sconces everywhere.  I’m highly jealous but maybe eventually I’ll have such a room as well.

We got ourselves rounded up sometime after noon on Sunday and then headed for home.  Before we left I invited Deja to spend Thanksgiving with Jack and the kids and I, since V plans to go back to Calgary to visit for that weekend.  I hope she will take me up on the offer.  It would be lovely to have her over.

It was a really great weekend, and I’m so glad to know Deja, and to be learning so much from her.  I was also really happy that she and V got along so well.  They both agreed that we should all hang out more, so we have plans to go to Deja’s for movie night this Thursday.  I’m really looking forward to that!

*Title Courtesy Of My Spam Folder

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Mz. F suggested some weeks ago that while she was here, Jack outta take me out for dinner on Friday night.  He and I don’t often get time alone, so we’re generally willing to graciously accept such offers as they come.

He remained mysterious all week about where we were going, and last night when he walked in the door from work, I was dressed up and ready to go.  He kissed me and then with a grin told me that I had five minutes to run upstairs, pack a change of clothes and whatever other items I would need and then get out to the car.

I was completely surprised, and mostly confused.  I rounded up something to wear and a change of shoes and off we dashed, even though I had no idea where he was taking me.

As it turns out, Niagara Falls was our destination.  He’d booked us a night at Embassy Suites, with a room overlooking the water.  We had dinner reservations at The Keg, and the room had a large whirlpool tub for afterwards.

I don’t know how many of you have been keeping track, but Jack and I have only been away from our children overnight ONCE in the past year.  We had a brief night away for New Years Eve, courtesy of the grandparents.  Sure we’ve had dinners and movies and the like, but a whole night out away from home, kid free?  Only once in 365 days.

In other words, I was totally thrilled.  I really can’t thank Jack enough for being so thoughtful and generous.  He takes great pleasure in orchistrating grand surprises for me, and I’m so greatful to have such a wonderful husband.

I don’t have time to give you the details right now.  We’re having a birthday party for our son in a short while, and then Mz. F and I are off to Varick’s and then Goodhandy’s for a wild night of debauchery.

I’m going to be ‘off’ for a few days, so I’m turing the Twitter digests back on until I have a chance to blog again.  Have a great weekend lovelies!

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Since we moved here I’ve longed for more excitement, and now it’s finally coming around, in droves no less.

Tomorrow morning I am fetching the lovely Mz. F from Pearson airport.  She will be staying with us for a stretch this summer, which pleases me greatly.

On Thursday evening I have plans with Varick.  We’re going to Deja’s to watch Secretary, since Varick hasn’t seen it, and then play afterwards.  He’s a little gun shy about doing a big scene, after what happened the last time, so we’re going to take it easy.  I made it clear at the play party that I do not put any expectations or pressure on him.  BDSM is heavy, especially when you are new, and I don’t want him to be put off forever.  We’re just going to have fun and go with whatever makes him feel good, that’s all I care about at this point.

Jack was being so sweet last night while we were talking about Varick.  He’s happy that I’m being treated well and says that Varick sounds like a very nice guy (they haven’t had a chance to meet yet, but hopefully soon).  He also remarked that he’s glad I’m seeing someone who is good to me, after that string of lackluster encounters.

Speaking of those other boys, Nelek messaged me the other day.  We haven’t talked much since the beginning of May, for the most part because he had a girlfriend and pretty much stopped messaging me or showing any interest in chatting.  I was a little surprised to hear from him, until he explained that he and his girl had just broken up that day.  He hinted around at getting together but I put him off.  I mean seriously, I am NOT your booty call buddy, nor will I be your entertainment between girlfriends (this is the second time he’s done this by the way).  As cute and fun as he is, I’m tired of that game.  I don’t expect him to not date of course, but ditching me completely every time he does?  Not cool.

On Friday night Mz. F has offered to watch the children so that Jack and I can have a night out to ourselves.  He’s made dinner reservations some place nice, but he’s keeping it a secret.  All he would say is that I have to dress up a bit, and that he can hardly wait.  I’m curious, but I don’t want him to tell me where we are going.  I am REALLY looking forward to it at any rate

Saturday night is Pride Sex Party at Goodhandy’s.  We were trying to work it out so that all of us could go, but unfortunately we could not get sitting for that night, so Jack has generously offered to stay home and let me take Mz. F and Varick.  I’m disappointed that he isn’t able to come with us, but our regular sitters are out of town and he doesn’t want a new person watching the little ones for such a prolonged stretch the first time.

Neither Varick nor Mz. F have ever gone to a sex party at Goodhandy’s so I’m quite pleased to be taking them there for their first time.  I imagine the place will be extra crowded due to Pride this week, but the more the merrier in my opinion!

I’ve been doing a lot of cleaning and organizing in the house so far this week, and Jack has given me a long list of things to get done before the end of today.  I like having the place tidy and organized before company comes, so that I don’t have to worry about doing much while they are here and can spend time visiting.  Jack only agreed to let me go out with Varick on Thursday night because I swore I would get the list finished.  If I don’t, then I’ll have to cancel, and I really, really, really don’t want to do that.

Blogging might be slow for the rest of the week, since I’ll have company and be quite busy around here.  There’s a good WTF? Thursday post lined up though, so be sure to check in for that (it’ll be password protected because it’s a tad graphic, so make sure to get on the password list if you haven’t already).

*Title courtesy of my junk mail folder

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We got up bright and early on Saturday morning, since we wanted to have a full day in Toronto before our evening out at Goodhandy’s.

Since we were going to be staying the night in the city we packed up a suitcase of clothes, toys, and whatever other paraphernalia we thought we’d need that night and the next day.  We grabbed coffee and breakfast at Tim’s on our way out of town, since Padme and I both require copious amounts of caffeine for survival.

We made great time getting into the city, and the first order of business was to find parking at Eaton’s Center, and then go shopping in the mall.  If you’ve never been to this particular mall, basically the attraction is that it’s really big, with lots and lots of great stores.  My favorite part of the mall is the display of 50 Canadian geese, suspended from the atrium ceiling.

Not my best photography (by far!) but these should give you an idea of what I’m talking about:

At the mall we went into Indigo, where Padme and I browsed the sexuality section, and she picked up a book of memoirs written by a submissive.  I imagine it would be a great read.  If I wasn’t already up to my neck in books that need to be read, I may have been tempted to pick up one of the books on tantric sex, since I’ve been wanting to learn more about that much talked-about style of intimacy.

We also made a stop at one of our all time favorite stores, Lush.  We browsed all of the wonderful smelling products they offer, torn between what to buy just then.  I ended up treating myself to a Big Blue, a Geo Phyzz, and then decided to try something new with one of their bubble bars, Bathos.  I’ll be sure to let you know how I end up liking it

Padme and I are both chocolate junkies, so we couldn’t resist making a little purchase at Godiva.  Since the summer specials aren’t available all year long, I splurged on a box of six truffles from their new collection.  I had a few later that evening, and let me tell you, SOOOOOOO delicious.

Since we’d seen pretty much all we wanted to see at the center, we made our way out to the truck, and then up the street to NorthBound Leather.  Now, I’ve been reading about this place and drooling over their website for YEARS, and finally I was actually going there to check it out.  Padme and I were both beside ourselves with excitement.

Really it was everything I expected it to be, and more.  That earthy leather smell never fails to give me tingles, and the outfits…totally exquisite.  It took every ounce of will power I had to look through everything and not spend every dime I had.  I drooled over this dress, but I didn’t even try it on for fear I wouldn’t have been able to leave there without it.  There were boots and collars and all manner of fetish gear and toys.  If I ever win the lottery, I think I’ll go back there and just purchase one of everything, LOL, it’s that amazing!  I’m thinking I’ll have to take Varick there and talk him into buying a pair of leather pants.  Mmmmmm…

We managed to drag ourselves out of there, however reluctantly, without crippling our bank accounts.  There were a couple of other adult/fet wear shops nearby, so we decided to take a look around before we headed to Queen St for lunch.  I found a long, black PVC skirt, with slits up both sides, which I decided to pick up for future nights at Goodhandy’s.  It looks pretty hot on me, I must say :P  Perhaps I’ll get around to taking some photos for posting here sometime soon.

Padme picked up some more stockings (you would not believe how many different nylons and stockings that girl has, seriously) although she was still on the hunt for a new skirt or something similar to wear out that evening.

We left Yonge St and made our way over to the ’shopping district’ of Queen St. W.  On our way we cruised past Much Music, which was setting up for the MMVA’s.  The street was an absolute zoo, and I was relieved that our destination was quite a bit west of there.  We found parking near to Banu, which is where we planned to have lunch.

It’s a really sleek little place.  Trendy couch-type chairs to relax on, and tables tiled with small turquoise squares.

Padme and I both ordered vodka, 2 oz each, on the rocks.  She had the Stolichnaya Elit (Russian) and I had Zubrowka Bison Grass vodka (Polish).  We were also brought a bowl of seasoned pistachios, which helped tide us over until our food arrived.

I’ve never been keen on drinking spirits straight up, so that was an experience in itself.  Had it not been such fine vodka I doubt I could have managed it without gagging, LOL.  At any rate, it was satisfying to cross yet another item off the bucket list:

263. Do Vodka shots at Banu

And that wasn’t all!  For lunch Padme ordered Joujeh (grilled chicken wings in a saffron citrus marinade) and I ordered Zaban (braised cow tongue in a tomato saffron sauce) followed by Dom balan (‘Urban Oysters’, lamb testicles marinated in vodka) for us to share.  Scroll over the photos to see what they are in case you’re not sure.

The beef tongue sandwich was really tasty.  The tongue was done perfectly, juicy and tender, and it went so well with the pickle chutney on the side.  Padme even tried a nibble and agreed that it was delicious.  Her chicken wings were fantastic, and I think should I ever go back to Banu, that’s exactly what I would order.  She let me try one and it was seasoned so perfectly and grilled just right.  Yum!

When the lamb testicles arrived, I was excited to try them.  They were surprisingly soft, easily cut with the side of a fork, with a very mild flavour.  I suppose you could compare it to liver, except not disgusting.

47. Eat something really bizarre (like animal testicles)

I think I’d even go so far as ordering these again, particularly if I was in the company of someone else who wanted to try them, but who didn’t want to commit to have to eating them all.  Padme tried a bite, but wasn’t exactly enamoured with them.

We debated ordering a hooka while we were there, but decided against it since we still had shopping to get done and we wanted to leave ourselves lots of time to get ready for Goodhandy’s later that evening.  The chef had never cooked the cow tongue before, and I praised him highly on it, which apparently paid off because he’d omitted it from the bill (or perhaps it had been an accident).

Our bellies full, we strolled up Queen St. and visited a few shops.  Padme found a VERY sexy, short PVC skirt at MissBehav’N.  I was so glad she found something because I know she’d been itching for a new skirt.  It looked fabulous on her, and she’d brought a little white top that ties in the front, to go with it.

We also stopped at Come As You Are, and browsed their impressive collection of toys and books.  Honestly I could have come home with dozens of books, I saw so many that I wanted, but I managed to restrain myself, somehow.

358. Spend a day shopping on Queen Street W in Toronto

Dufflet Pastry was our last stop of the day.  I wanted to take home a treat for Jack, to thank him for watching the kids for the weekend so that I could go out.  I picked up a baby truffle for me, and a blueberry buttermilk euro tart for him.

267. Take home a pastry from Dufflet

Padme picked out a coconut cream tart, and then off we went.  Our hotel was nice and close to the club, and we checked in with plenty of time to get ready, which was good, since it had been a hot day and we both felt like having a shower before going out.

We had some coffee, and then each of us had a shower.  I debated back and forth about what to wear, and we got into the vodka and gin we brought with us.  We were really excited about going out for the night and partying.  I was well on my way to drunk by the time we left the hotel.  I was wearing a very short, very see-through, bright pink and black tutu, and a black tank top.  I was carrying a riding crop, and giggling maniacally.  Padme said I fairly sprinted across the lobby, laughing my fool head off the entire way, and drawing far too much attention to myself in the process.  Ah well.

Goodhandy’s was still fairly quiet when we arrived, which I’d planned on, since I wanted us to have time to chat with Todd before he got terribly busy.  I introduced Padme to him and we had a chance to sit down for a chat together.  She showed him her new tattoo, which he seemed to like.  He also treated us to a round of drinks, which was so very sweet of him.  He asked if the rest of my ‘entourage’ would be making an appearance that evening, and I told him I wasn’t sure.  Nia was out of town for the weekend, so I didn’t know if Flavia and the rest of the bunch would show up.

When the club started to fill up, Todd had to excuse himself to keep an eye on everything.  I had noticed one of the spanking benches was up on the stage, but behind a curtain which they close to provide an area for women and trans people to get away from the drooling mass of males.  I asked Todd if it would be ok to drag the bench out to the front of the stage later, which he said would be fine.

Padme and I danced some, grinding against each other and putting on a bit of a show.  I sat down and she gave me a sexy lap dance, which was very hot, and it seemed like the guys were enjoying what we were doing.

421. Receive a lap dance

At some point Padme started talking to this attractive gentleman.  He bought us a round of drinks and the three of us ended up dirty dancing together.  It was great fun having a girl-guy-girl sandwich.  Padme and I made out some, but I was right in the middle of my period of course, which was kind of a downer.  Still, I wanted her to have a great night and get lucky :P  She asked me if I thought she should hook up with the guy.  He seemed very nice and he was totally good looking, so I encouraged her to do so.

She and he and I all went upstairs after we’d had enough dancing.  We staked our claim in one of the larger booths upstairs, although it didn’t have a curtain.  No matter, I was happy to sit by the doorway, riding crop in hand, to keep back the masses, and boy did I have my work cut out for me.

Padme and the guy started getting into it with each other.  Clothes started to come off and almost instantly there was a crowd gathered at the door.  I asked a few of them to step back, flicking my crop and then using it as something of a barricade.  One of them, a much older man, who was masturbating, put his hand on my leg and I shot him an unimpressed look.  You’re not supposed to touch without an invitation at Goodhandy’s, and he’s lucky I didn’t call over security to have him removed.  He pulled his hand away and then asked if he could touch me.

“Only if you want a serious ass kicking” I said, glaring.  He took a step back, and I was glad the the rest of the group heard me because none of them made a move on me after that.

Padme and her friend were really enjoying themselves.  They were fucking and groaning and kissing and licking each other.  It was quite a sight.  I was very pleased that she was having such a great time.

I noticed a somewhat familiar face in the crowd that was gathered at the door.  I recognised her as a cute cross-dresser whom I’d spoken to there once before.  Smiling, I invited her to sit down beside me on the bench while the others looked on enviously.  She thanked me for letting her sit down and we made some jokes about me guarding the entrance.  In fact the running joke between Padme and I for most of the evening was that I got to be the gatekeeper, and would only grant access to those whom I favoured.

One of the men watching was masturbating very close to one of my feet, because I had my legs crossed which put my foot almost directly under his exposed junk.  I remarked to my new friend (the cross-dresser, who probably needs a name, so I’ll call her Nikki) that if the guy came on my shoe I was going to crop him, hard, right on the cock.  He must have heard me because he seemed a little flustered and not sure what to do.  Nikki giggled and told me I should tap him on the cock with it anyway, and we both laughed.  She’s a bad one, she kept telling me to do it and I kept saying “No way!  You’re terrible!!!” and then we’d giggle some more.

Padme and her friend eventually got finished, after the whole club heard her screaming I am sure.  She’s a LOUD cummer, LOL.  While she went to get cleaned up, Nikki and I went downstairs and I pulled the spanking bench out from behind the curtain.  Nikki stripped down to her adorable bra and panties and up on the bench she went.

Having never played with her before I made sure to warm her up good.  I also paused to ask her how she was doing and if she wanted it harder/lighter, and that sort of thing.  She really seemed to be enjoying herself, and it wasn’t long before Padme returned and joined me in the exquisite torture of our willing victim.

There was also some play which involved Padme bent over, side by side with Nikki, and I was spanking them both simultaneously.  That was pretty neat really, LOL, and they seemed to enjoy it.  My concept of time was a little off, so I’m not sure how long we played like that, but we had drawn a bit of a crowd.  Eventually Nikki was finished her turn, and after she got off I jokingly swatted the bench with my crop and shouted “Who is next?”

Well this little old Asian guy standing near the stage stripped so fast I barely had time to realise what was happening.  Up on the bench he jumped in all his half-naked glory, with his man bits exposed for the whole room to see.  I just chuckled and started in on him.  I had my crop and also a small leather flogger, plus I used my hands.  Padme was complaining that she wanted a turn but I made her wait for it.  The guy seemed to really be enjoying himself, although it was a little too tempting to really go to town on his dangly parts with my crop, HA HA.

423. Spank a total stranger

When I grew bored of beating on his ass, I dismissed him, and he slinked away to get dressed again.  Padme was next on the bench, and I didn’t even bother with a warm up, I just laid into her with the crop and the flogger.  While I was doing this, a kind of odd guy came up, and he stood near her back end where I was working and looked generally confused.  He seemed to be trying to edge in as close as he could without getting the the way of my crop.  I was standing to one side of Padme’s ass, up on the stage, and he was standing on the floor directly across from me, on the other side of her.

Then, he reached out and put his hand on her leg, and I reacted in a split second, smacking him across the face with my crop.  Like literally, right on the cheek.  Not too hard, but certainly he made an impression.

“Do NOT touch without asking” I growled.  He stepped back, clearly startled.  I just glared at him, I wanted it to be completely clear to him and anyone else who was watching that I would not tolerate that sort of behaviour.  There are signs all over the club which clearly state that touching is not allowed unless there is a clear invitation, and in this case, there certainly was not.

He backed away, but returned later to pester us some more.  I shooed him away after he asked Padme to suck his dick.  Seriously buddy, get a clue!

I was getting played out from all the beatings I’d been giving, and finally decided to take a break.  I left Nikki and Padme while I headed outside for some air.  Who should I run into out there?  The clueless guy, of course!

“You know what the trouble with this club is” he said, clearly annoyed “the women don’t participate!”

I just chuckled.

“Sure they do.  Just not with YOU” I replied with a smirk.

He just shook his head and wandered off, dejected.  You know he was good looking too, so it’s a shame he was such a moron.  I mean what does he expect?  To go to a club and have women falling all over him and just fucking anything that moves?  Does that really happen anywhere in real life besides carefully organised private parties??  Somehow I doubt it.  99% of the women I know are a little more discriminating than that.

The night was winding down when I went back inside.  We gathered our things, said our goodbyes, and then Padme and I staggered back to our hotel, totally exhausted.  We barely made it up to our room before we collapsed.

However, we were STARVING, so I began searching online for pizza joints that still delivered at 3:30am.  Finally I found one, ordered a large chicken and cheese, and then promptly passed out.  Padme was already mostly asleep in bed, but she nudged me awake some time later, saying she thought the pizza was there.  I staggered to the door and took the pizza, paid, and then brought it into the room.

“Pizza is here” I said, then set it down on the chair.  Padme didn’t stir and I thought to myself “I’ll just lay down for a minute and then eat something”.  A minute tuned into four hours, and before I knew it, we were rolling out of bed to get the next day started.

Wild Weekend Posts:

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Tomorrow, in about 27 hours, I’ll be picking up Padme at the Pearson airport for our weekend of adventure and debauchery.  She and Master Anakin sent me this awesome pin from their online store, in celebration of this very special trip.  I thought it only suitable after the fantastic photo she posted, that I come up with something creative as well to kick off her visit here!

Take this photo, by myself, with the pin perched over my clit, was quite an exercise, but overall I’m pretty content with the results.  I hope everyone else enjoys it as well

It’s difficult to believe that after being friends online for soooooooo long, tomorrow I’ll finally get to meet Padme in person and give her a big hug.  She and I met through our blogs (not this one of mine, but a previous incarnation) and became fast friends.  We’ve certainly had our ups and downs, as most friendships do, but we’ve stuck it out, and now we’ll get to have morning coffee together in person at last.

We’ve sure got a lot packed into this weekend as far as plans go.  Sushi and shopping, partying at Goodhandy’s and spending a night in Toronto, a wine tour, seeing Niagara Falls together, plus something extra special that I have planned for her (can’t tell yet, you’ll have to wait and see afterwards).  She and I will both get to cross a ton of things off of our respective bucket lists, plus we’ll have memories to last a life time.

I just know that tomorrow I’ll be a bundle of nerves.  The past couple of days have thrown me off some, but now that Sadie is fine, I can focus on the weekend again, and get ready for everything we want to do while she’s here!  I feel a little overwhelmed because I lost those two days of preparation time, so now it’s like there is SO much to do, and so little time to do it.  I know she isn’t coming here to judge the organization of my house, LOL, so I’m just going to do as much as I can and be happy with that.  After all, I hadn’t counted on spending two days in the hospital, and there is nothing I can do about that now.

As I’ve mentioned before, I will be updating Twitter over the weekend, so if you’re interested in keeping up with our activities, be sure to check in for those.  There will be much to blog about after Padme heads home I am sure.  Hopefully I’ll have the energy to write about it all, LOL, I get the feeling I’m going to be pretty wiped out.

Who knows what will happen this weekend ;)  I’m certain it’s going to be a hot and sexy time, that’s for sure :P  Until next week, my lovelies…

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After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja’s before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy’s that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn’t slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the scene from last weekend. I’d also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he’d find tons of useful information in SM 101 By Jay Wiseman, and Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

He flipped through SM 101 and we read passages together, discussing some of the topics covered and commenting on a few things we’d like to try. He was especially glad to see a pre-scene negotiation section, as well as extensive checklists of BDSM related activities.

We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

At one point the sidewalk was too narrow for us to all walk side by side, so Deja and I fell into step behind Varick, and after a few yards of following him she and I exchanged looks and she remarked that we must look like a pimp with his bitches, and I started laughing so hard because I was having the exact same though. We’re kind of ridiculous actually.

The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I’ll be attending my first play party later this month Looking forward to that.

Bellies full, we sauntered back to Deja’s place. Varick decided that all my cheekiness had certainly earned me a good whipping, so he sent me off to the dungeon to get ready. I stripped down, put on my cuffs, and waited for him by the St. Andrew’s Cross. He opted to blindfold me again, and then snapped my cuffs to the cross and ran his hands up my body. He started on the outsides of my thighs, slowly proceeded up over my hips, my sides, around to my breasts, and then up to my collar bones. He was pressed against my back and his chin was resting on my shoulder. I was already trembling with anticipation, and when he asked if I was ready to begin, I nodded enthusiastically.

He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. “Harder” and “Green” were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja’s single-tail, which hadn’t been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the ‘breeze’ it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn’t fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her violet wand, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off the bucket list:

413. Have a Violet Wand used on me

I could tell that something was off with Varick. He seemed different while he cleaned up, and I was unsure what was wrong. Deja had some things to do in her office so he and I went downstairs. I sat on the couch, stretched out on it, and had him come and sit down, between my legs, which I wrapped around him, with his cheek on my chest. I asked him quietly what was wrong and he said he just felt weird, and kind of down. I thought it might be Top Drop* so I just stroked his hair and kissed his forehead.

I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn’t push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he’d let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say “Yeah, I do that to people all the time” but it wasn’t really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn’t feel like going out, but didn’t want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he’s usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

“Maybe he’s falling for you and he’s all conflicted about it” she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he’d said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he’d been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja’s house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn’t really expected that. He said he hadn’t been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it’s not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

“What happened to you?” I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn’t allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he’s been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy’s without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn’t in any shape to go and if he wasn’t coming with us, we didn’t want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked I Am Legend, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything ’scary’ LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman

We settled in to watch. It wasn’t as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don’t think I’ll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in The Notorious Bettie Page, which I’ve seen before. I liked watching it again, because it’s an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn’t seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn’t think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she’s pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he’s kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to ‘go slow’ with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn’t want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I’m going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I’ll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he’s afraid of what’s happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn’t want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn’t press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he’d want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the Tantra chair, and the sex swing. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he’ll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what’s caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I’m actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: Colloquial A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.

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I hope that all the lovely mothers, mums-to-be, and dare I say, grandmothers, who read this blog had a wonderful Mother’s Day Weekend.

My weekend was both fabulous and tragic all at the same time.  Friday night Jack and I filled up our enormous bathtub, lit some candles, cracked open a bottle of 2006 Jackson Triggs Reisling, and turned on the jets for a nice long bath together.  We had a really good conversation while we soaked in the hot water and got thoroughly relaxed.  You know, the more people I date, the more I am grateful that I’m already with the most wonderful man ever.  We have a really beautiful life together and I am so, so very thankful for that.  After we had thoroughly lobsterized and prunified ourselves in the tub we crawled into bed together to cuddle. 

I slept so soundly that night, and woke up the next morning looking forward to going out for breakfast as a family.  Before we left I poked my head into my hobby room to make sure our fluffly little hamster had water and food, only to lift up her igloo and find her laying there perfectly still, and very much dead.  My heart dropped as I scooped her up and cradled her already stiff body in my hand.  I didn’t want to tell the kids right away, and I was a crying mess myself, so I placed her back under her igloo where they wouldn’t see her and went to tell Jack what had happened.  We didn’t go out for breakfast because I was far too upset.  She was my hamster more than anything, and it was so sudden, with no warnings.

The kids had a play date that afternoon so we decided to wait and tell them later on, so as not to ruin their day.  I took them to the park and they had a lot of fun with their friends.  I did my best not to think of how sad I was and how hard they were going to take the news.  I distracted myself with mom chat and taking pictures of the kids playing.

Needless to say they were upset, and we all had a long cry over the loss.  I found a small box leftover from packets of tea and put some tissue in it and then the hamster.  We explained to the kids that people live much, much longer than our pets and that it’s ok to be sad and to miss the hamster, but that she really enjoyed being our pet.

We took them out for supper, and picked up Nia as well, hoping that she could help us take their minds off what had happened.  It was nice to be out, and I’m so glad the my kids love sushi because it’s one of our favorite things to eat.  Naturally we don’t let them eat anything raw quite yet, but they enjoy the maki rolls with the artificial crab meat and avocados and so forth.  Jack encouraged Nia and I to go to Goodhandy’s for the night.  Get out and drown our sorrows and all of that.

After putting the kids to bed she and I got ready and off we went.  Before hitting the club we stopped at Flavia’s house and picked up her and her girlfriend and two male friends of theirs.  We got to Goodhandy’s, which was actually fairly busy.  We had drinks and watched people dance naked.  There were two really attractive transsexual girls having some fun on this platform beside the dance floor, which was hot to watch.

I wasn’t in much of a partying mood, but I had fun none the less.  That really beautiful trans women I’ve mentioned in a past post was there.  She came over and talked to me for a while and gave me a wonderful neck massage.  There was also some dirty danging and kissing.  She complimented me highly on my skills with my lips and tongue, which was very flattering.  She and I ended up hanging out quite a bit throughout the evening which I enjoyed a great deal.

One of the males in our group also wanted to get his first spanking.  I somehow got voted most ‘Domly’ in our group, and thus received the honour of welting his adorable little ass on the spanking bench, on stage no less!  He did, very, very well for his first time, and I’m sure he had a bruise or two the next day, Tee Hee.

It was fun being on the giving end, and I certainly understand the appeal of being a Domme.  While I certainly prefer being submissive, I still identify as a switch because I do enjoy giving out a good beating now and then.

Sometime shortly after, that hot trans gal was bent over and at least three or four of us were collectively spanking her.  Yum!  You know her and I got to talk quite a lot outside while having a cigarette at the end of the night and I’m always inspired by people who have undergone such amazing and difficult transitions in their lives.  I am really glad for the opportunity, however small, to get to know her a little better.

Nia and I headed home in the wee, wee hours of the morning.  It was a long drive, and I think I crawled into bed only minutes before 5am.

Sunday morning I woke up and came downstairs to Jack bringing home stuff to make breakfast.  I kind of spoiled their hopes of bringing it to me in bed, but it was delicious anyway

Then he coaxed the kids downstairs and they resurfaced minutes later yelling “Happy Mother’s Day” and presenting me with gifts.  I got a new griddle/grill that fits over the burners of our gas stove, and a margarita maker for the summer.  I can’t wait to test that thing out!  Strawberry margarita’s are sooooooooo yummy.

We decided to take the kids to see Horton Hears A Who, and then go for a drive and then out for supper.  The movie was so very cute, and the kids just loved it.  They fell asleep during our drive and so Jack and I got to have a great talk with each other and really enjoyed the time together.

Had Chinese food for supper, which was of course very good, not to mention filling.  I was happy that I didn’t have to cook at all on Mother’s Day, and as I tucked them in, I thanked my little rugrats for giving me such a wonderful time.

I hope you’ll forgive me, but I’m feeling wordy so this post is going to be pretty long, LOL.

Tomorrow night there is a kink munch near here which I plan to attend.  Last month there was a certain young Dom in attendance who is very new to the lifestyle and has been dabbling some in the realm of BDSM.  He caught my eye immediately, since he was quite attractive, and clearly someone I’d be interested in getting to know.  He was talking to a Domme friend of mine when I introduced myself on the way out the door, so I was sure to pull her aside to ask her to put in a good work for me if he seemed like a good guy.

A couple of days ago while I was chatting with her on MSN she mentioned said young Dom and that she intends to mentor him in the lifestyle and the practices of BDSM.  She also happened to inquire if I knew of any willing subs who would allow him to practice on them.  I couldn’t put up my hand fast enough!  She only laughed and said that she was glad since she knew I had liked him and she was hoping I would volunteer so she wouldn’t have to ask me out and out.

He will be playing with me in her dungeon, under her supervision.  Mmmmmmm two very attractive and confident Dominants for the price of one.  How much better can it get?  We’re going to sit down together, the three of us, and hash out the details and arrange times and dates at the munch tomorrow night.  Needless to say I can hardly wait to get started.  I’m getting tingles just thinking about it.  Certainly I will keep you posted!

Speaking of play, Asha and Holt are planning on going to the next party at Goodhandy’s and were hopeful that Jack and I might join them.  The idea of a foursome is becoming more and more appealing the more I think about it.  I still have to get it figured out with Nia if she can watch the kiddos for us that night, but I’m keeping my fingers crossed that it all works out.  Even if we don’t all hit it off as a foursome, it would be really hot to play with Jack or with them at the party.

Parties bring us ’round to the next topic of excitement, Padme’s visit!! Only 30 days to go before she arrives for her trip out here.  She and I discussed it on the phone today, going over the itinerary of her time here.  We plan to go for sushi on Thursday night, and then a walk, and then a long coffee date at Starbucks.  Friday morning we are hitting the gym together and then grocery shopping for the fondue on Friday night.  The afternoon will be spent drinking coffee and cutting all of the veggies and meat into bite-sized pieces.  Once the kids go to bed the three of us are going to chat over a pot of hot oil while drinking strawberry margaritas.

Saturday morning we’ll be off to Toronto bright and early for a day of shopping at Eaton’s Center and along Queen St.  I’m going to take her Banufor vodka shots, Zaban, and chicken kabobs and then to Dufflet for pastry.  We’re going to shop at Misbehavin and Come As You Are.  Saturday night will be spent getting naughty at Goodhandy’s I Love Sex Party and who knows what other mischief we’ll get into.

Sunday we’re going to Niagara Falls, and on a wine tour of the Niagara wine region.  We’ll be hauled about in a passenger van, tasting wines and cheese at several wineries.  The tour also includes a full ‘behind the scenes’ look at the Jackson Triggs Estates winery.  I know both Padme and myself are looking forward to that part a great deal!  We’ll likely go for supper at Niagara On The Lake, and then make our way home for a relaxing bath in my ensuite tub, while sipping ice wine and reliving the highlights of the weekend.

Monday we will likely go to the gym in the morning, and then a driving tour of the area where I live.  We’re going to take it easy so that I don’t send her home totally worn out

We’ve been counting down for weeks it seems!  I’m so excited that there is only a month left to go.  It’s starting to feel a lot closer now.

Hopefully the next four weeks pass quickly!

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There are new developments to report in regards to that nice couple I flirted with at Goodhandy’s last weekend!

Before I get into the details, these nice people need some names.  Hmmmm, I think I shall call them Asha and Holt.

So the night before last I got up the cojones to call Asha and talk to her about the possibility of playing in the near future.  It rang, and rang, and my heart was pounding with anxiety, but the good kind.  Her voicemail picked up so I left her a message letting her know it was me and that I hadn’t wanted to wait too long before getting in touch with her.

Some time later my phone announced that a text message had arrived, it was Asha.  We started texting back and forth, exchanging snippets of useful information about each other.

First off, she is only 21, and had assumed I was her age, while I had assumed she was my age.  We had a bit of a giggle over that.  I mean really, 4 years isn’t much of a difference, although I am always a bit wary of young people who are swingers/poly because they tend to not know a heck of a lot about themselves.  However, we all know that age is not a good indication of self-awareness, intelligence, or emotional health.

Holt is 40, although I had guessed he was closer to early or mid 30’s.  They are not married, merely dating, and she has been swinging with him as a couple for about a year.

They don’t live together, but they do play outside of clubs/parties.  They are also into some light BDSM play and seem quite open to just about anything.

It was she who suggested that Jack and I do dinner and possibly more with the two of them at the earliest mutually agreeable juncture.  This is a very exciting opportunity, as I think it would be a lot of fun for Jack and I to play together.  I’m quite confident that Jack will find her attractive, and he’s so charming and sweet, I have no doubt that she will be interested in him as well.

We haven’t set anything in stone at this point, as far as a specific date for getting together.  Holt apparently has a precarious work schedule, and so I told her to discuss his availability with him and get back to me.  She and I are both eager to play some more so I am hopeful that I won’t have to wait too terribly long.  You all know how patient I am

Tonight is dinner at Susur.  Come hell or high water we are not rescheduling again.  We don’t have much planned for the weekend at this point, so this will be a lovely little night out for Jack and I.

Speaking of the weekend, Nia invited me to a Beltaine celebration this Sunday, so I’m hoping that I can attend with her.  I’ve never been to anything like that before, although Nia tells me that it can involve sex outside somewhere, if you’re into that sort of thing.  That reminded me of this song, which Nia and I agree should become the official theme song of Beltaine:

 

 

And speaking of songs/music, I’m starting drum lessons sometime this month.  Since drumming is on my list, and I found someone willing to teach me, I might as well get started on that.  My brothers are both musicians (neither of them drummers however) so I’m really looking forward to being able to jam with them sometime.

There is also a hand drumming workshop later this month that Nia and I signed up for.  I am really looking forward to that as well, and it feels really good to be picking up some new talents again.  I like to be constantly learning new things, new skills, etc and lately I’ve felt a bit stagnant in that department, so all of this drumming is just what I need!

I’m off to the gym this morning.  Happy May Day!!!

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Some of you may have seen mention of it on my comments board, but I figure it’s about time I actually blogged about it officially.  After all, it’s a SUPER BIG DEAL, at least to me

Padme is coming to visit me in just over a month!  Master Anakin (her husband and Dom) has already allowed her to book her ticket, and she’ll be staying with Jack and I for almost 5 whole days!

We’ve been discussing plans for her stay, and all of the things we can see and do.  I’m going to take her to the gym with me for yoga class, and we’re going to eat sushi and have a hot oil fondue.  A wine tour, shopping in Toronto, and a sex party at Goodhandy’s are also on the list.  No trip to southern Ontario would be complete without a visit to Niagara Falls, so we’ll fit that in there too I am sure!

Mainly I’m looking forward to getting to spend time with her in person, and having coffee together in the morning.  We have been friends for so long online, it’s going to be wonderful to finally meet in person and hang out.

 Another exciting aspect of her visit is getting to cross a few things off of our respective Bucket Lists!  I should be able to finally check off #115. Take a wine tour and perhaps #267. Take home a pastry from Dufflet and #263. Do Vodka shots at Banu as well

Naturally #281. Meet Padme in person is the most important of all!

She and I are both counting down the days!  Only 44 days left to go before she arrives

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