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Oh, Say That Again, Slower And With Your Pants Off

Posted on May 12th, 2008 in Are You Gonna Eat That?, Does All Her Own Stunts, Emotional Angst, I Like To Kiss Girls, Made In Ontario, Mating And Relating, Polyamory, Tie Me Up

I hope that all the lovely mothers, mums-to-be, and dare I say, grandmothers, who read this blog had a wonderful Mother’s Day Weekend.

My weekend was both fabulous and tragic all at the same time.  Friday night Jack and I filled up our enormous bathtub, lit some candles, cracked open a bottle of 2006 Jackson Triggs Reisling, and turned on the jets for a nice long bath together.  We had a really good conversation while we soaked in the hot water and got thoroughly relaxed.  You know, the more people I date, the more I am grateful that I’m already with the most wonderful man ever.  We have a really beautiful life together and I am so, so very thankful for that.  After we had thoroughly lobsterized and prunified ourselves in the tub we crawled into bed together to cuddle. 

I slept so soundly that night, and woke up the next morning looking forward to going out for breakfast as a family.  Before we left I poked my head into my hobby room to make sure our fluffly little hamster had water and food, only to lift up her igloo and find her laying there perfectly still, and very much dead.  My heart dropped as I scooped her up and cradled her already stiff body in my hand.  I didn’t want to tell the kids right away, and I was a crying mess myself, so I placed her back under her igloo where they wouldn’t see her and went to tell Jack what had happened.  We didn’t go out for breakfast because I was far too upset.  She was my hamster more than anything, and it was so sudden, with no warnings.

The kids had a play date that afternoon so we decided to wait and tell them later on, so as not to ruin their day.  I took them to the park and they had a lot of fun with their friends.  I did my best not to think of how sad I was and how hard they were going to take the news.  I distracted myself with mom chat and taking pictures of the kids playing.

Needless to say they were upset, and we all had a long cry over the loss.  I found a small box leftover from packets of tea and put some tissue in it and then the hamster.  We explained to the kids that people live much, much longer than our pets and that it’s ok to be sad and to miss the hamster, but that she really enjoyed being our pet.

We took them out for supper, and picked up Nia as well, hoping that she could help us take their minds off what had happened.  It was nice to be out, and I’m so glad the my kids love sushi because it’s one of our favorite things to eat.  Naturally we don’t let them eat anything raw quite yet, but they enjoy the maki rolls with the artificial crab meat and avocados and so forth.  Jack encouraged Nia and I to go to Goodhandy’s for the night.  Get out and drown our sorrows and all of that.

After putting the kids to bed she and I got ready and off we went.  Before hitting the club we stopped at Flavia’s house and picked up her and her girlfriend and two male friends of theirs.  We got to Goodhandy’s, which was actually fairly busy.  We had drinks and watched people dance naked.  There were two really attractive transsexual girls having some fun on this platform beside the dance floor, which was hot to watch.

I wasn’t in much of a partying mood, but I had fun none the less.  That really beautiful trans women I’ve mentioned in a past post was there.  She came over and talked to me for a while and gave me a wonderful neck massage.  There was also some dirty danging and kissing.  She complimented me highly on my skills with my lips and tongue, which was very flattering.  She and I ended up hanging out quite a bit throughout the evening which I enjoyed a great deal.

One of the males in our group also wanted to get his first spanking.  I somehow got voted most ‘Domly’ in our group, and thus received the honour of welting his adorable little ass on the spanking bench, on stage no less!  He did, very, very well for his first time, and I’m sure he had a bruise or two the next day, Tee Hee.

It was fun being on the giving end, and I certainly understand the appeal of being a Domme.  While I certainly prefer being submissive, I still identify as a switch because I do enjoy giving out a good beating now and then.

Sometime shortly after, that hot trans gal was bent over and at least three or four of us were collectively spanking her.  Yum!  You know her and I got to talk quite a lot outside while having a cigarette at the end of the night and I’m always inspired by people who have undergone such amazing and difficult transitions in their lives.  I am really glad for the opportunity, however small, to get to know her a little better.

Nia and I headed home in the wee, wee hours of the morning.  It was a long drive, and I think I crawled into bed only minutes before 5am.

Sunday morning I woke up and came downstairs to Jack bringing home stuff to make breakfast.  I kind of spoiled their hopes of bringing it to me in bed, but it was delicious anyway

Then he coaxed the kids downstairs and they resurfaced minutes later yelling “Happy Mother’s Day” and presenting me with gifts.  I got a new griddle/grill that fits over the burners of our gas stove, and a margarita maker for the summer.  I can’t wait to test that thing out!  Strawberry margarita’s are sooooooooo yummy.

We decided to take the kids to see Horton Hears A Who, and then go for a drive and then out for supper.  The movie was so very cute, and the kids just loved it.  They fell asleep during our drive and so Jack and I got to have a great talk with each other and really enjoyed the time together.

Had Chinese food for supper, which was of course very good, not to mention filling.  I was happy that I didn’t have to cook at all on Mother’s Day, and as I tucked them in, I thanked my little rugrats for giving me such a wonderful time.

I hope you’ll forgive me, but I’m feeling wordy so this post is going to be pretty long, LOL.

Tomorrow night there is a kink munch near here which I plan to attend.  Last month there was a certain young Dom in attendance who is very new to the lifestyle and has been dabbling some in the realm of BDSM.  He caught my eye immediately, since he was quite attractive, and clearly someone I’d be interested in getting to know.  He was talking to a Domme friend of mine when I introduced myself on the way out the door, so I was sure to pull her aside to ask her to put in a good work for me if he seemed like a good guy.

A couple of days ago while I was chatting with her on MSN she mentioned said young Dom and that she intends to mentor him in the lifestyle and the practices of BDSM.  She also happened to inquire if I knew of any willing subs who would allow him to practice on them.  I couldn’t put up my hand fast enough!  She only laughed and said that she was glad since she knew I had liked him and she was hoping I would volunteer so she wouldn’t have to ask me out and out.

He will be playing with me in her dungeon, under her supervision.  Mmmmmmm two very attractive and confident Dominants for the price of one.  How much better can it get?  We’re going to sit down together, the three of us, and hash out the details and arrange times and dates at the munch tomorrow night.  Needless to say I can hardly wait to get started.  I’m getting tingles just thinking about it.  Certainly I will keep you posted!

Speaking of play, Asha and Holt are planning on going to the next party at Goodhandy’s and were hopeful that Jack and I might join them.  The idea of a foursome is becoming more and more appealing the more I think about it.  I still have to get it figured out with Nia if she can watch the kiddos for us that night, but I’m keeping my fingers crossed that it all works out.  Even if we don’t all hit it off as a foursome, it would be really hot to play with Jack or with them at the party.

Parties bring us ’round to the next topic of excitement, Padme’s visit!! Only 30 days to go before she arrives for her trip out here.  She and I discussed it on the phone today, going over the itinerary of her time here.  We plan to go for sushi on Thursday night, and then a walk, and then a long coffee date at Starbucks.  Friday morning we are hitting the gym together and then grocery shopping for the fondue on Friday night.  The afternoon will be spent drinking coffee and cutting all of the veggies and meat into bite-sized pieces.  Once the kids go to bed the three of us are going to chat over a pot of hot oil while drinking strawberry margaritas.

Saturday morning we’ll be off to Toronto bright and early for a day of shopping at Eaton’s Center and along Queen St.  I’m going to take her Banufor vodka shots, Zaban, and chicken kabobs and then to Dufflet for pastry.  We’re going to shop at Misbehavin and Come As You Are.  Saturday night will be spent getting naughty at Goodhandy’s I Love Sex Party and who knows what other mischief we’ll get into.

Sunday we’re going to Niagara Falls, and on a wine tour of the Niagara wine region.  We’ll be hauled about in a passenger van, tasting wines and cheese at several wineries.  The tour also includes a full ‘behind the scenes’ look at the Jackson Triggs Estates winery.  I know both Padme and myself are looking forward to that part a great deal!  We’ll likely go for supper at Niagara On The Lake, and then make our way home for a relaxing bath in my ensuite tub, while sipping ice wine and reliving the highlights of the weekend.

Monday we will likely go to the gym in the morning, and then a driving tour of the area where I live.  We’re going to take it easy so that I don’t send her home totally worn out

We’ve been counting down for weeks it seems!  I’m so excited that there is only a month left to go.  It’s starting to feel a lot closer now.

Hopefully the next four weeks pass quickly!