I’m Not So Good With The Advice, Can I Interest You In A Sarcastic Comment?

Posted on February 10th, 2010 in Collar And Cuff, Emotional Angst, LARP, Mating And Relating, Polyamory, Three's Company

In response to this post, Tonya enquired as to our contract and how Jack feels about another man ordering me around and telling me what to do.  I wanted to address this in it’s own post because a comment reply could potentially be five miles long, heh  Ya’ll know how I get so wordy sometimes. [...]

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Engaging Your Superior Colliculus Since Sometime In The Past

Posted on February 1st, 2010 in Collar And Cuff, Mating And Relating, Polyamory, Three's Company

Aiden has now “officially” moved in with us.  He has basically been living here for the past two weeks, but yesterday he gave notice to his landlords, and we fetched a bunch of his things from his apartment. While we were in town we had dinner with his parents, and he let them know that [...]

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Murlocs Stole My Knickers!

Posted on January 16th, 2010 in Carnal Confessions, Mating And Relating

“Ask for it” he says, his head propped up in one hand while the other is pressed between my legs.  I squirm uncomfortably, while my brain attempts to force words out of my mouth.  I can scarcely remember to breath while his fingers draw circles around my clitoris. I hate it when he makes me [...]

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Actually, It Would Put Them At Very Convenient Biting Height

Posted on January 10th, 2010 in Are You Gonna Eat That?, Carnal Confessions, Does All Her Own Stunts, Life List, Made In Ontario, Mating And Relating, Photos, Polyamory

Things I learned over the weekend: Metal shoehorns will leave bruises with hardly any effort at all People get kind of excited when you serve Cornish hens and leave them whole.  Like “We get a WHOLE bird?  Each?” Kolach, while the most beautiful of breads, is less like bread and more like a giant pretzel [...]

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The World Will Never, Ever Be The Same, And You’re To Blame

Posted on January 6th, 2010 in Collar And Cuff, Emotional Angst, Mating And Relating, Tie Me Up

Monday marked the end of my second month as Aiden’s slave. Typing that word in reference to myself still makes me cringe a bit, but not as badly as it did in the beginning.  I’ve grown accustomed to some aspects of wearing a collar 24/7, but many are still a struggle. Asking for what I [...]

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We’re All In This Thing Together

Posted on November 23rd, 2009 in Mating And Relating, Polyamory, Three's Company

“He practically lives at my house” I remarked the other day to a friend during conversation.  Even when he’s not here, you’d not know it.  His socks, and other items of clothing, are regularly found mixed in with the rest of the laundry that languishes, unfolded, on one of the spare beds.  When I do [...]

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If There’s Anything More Important Than My Ego Around, I Want It Caught And Shot, Now!

Posted on November 22nd, 2009 in Collar And Cuff, Emotional Angst, Mating And Relating, Polyamory

Some days it’s really, really hard to be a good slave. Ok, in my case, it’s just about every day, but cut me some slack, I’m a beginner. I forget to follow the rules, or sometimes I just don’t feel like it and disregard them on purpose.  I don’t really want to be disobedient, I [...]

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I’m Sick Of Following My Dreams. I’ll Just Ask Them Where They’re Going And Hook Up With Them Later

Posted on November 9th, 2009 in Collar And Cuff, Does All Her Own Stunts, Mating And Relating, Polyamory, Tie Me Up

It’s been five days since Aiden fastened that lovely steel collar around my neck, in a sort of impromptu exchange that only involved the two of us.  Earlier in the day we went over together and finalized our contract.  We also went over and agreed upon the rules (some of them were a little harder [...]

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No Roads Less Traveled Than The One We’re On

Posted on November 2nd, 2009 in Collar And Cuff, Does All Her Own Stunts, Mating And Relating, Photos, Polyamory, Tie Me Up

I’ve hinted and mentioned here and there that Aiden and I have a certain amount of D/s in our relationship.  For those of you who are maybe not familiar with the finer points of kink relationship dynamics, D/s refers to Domination and submission.  One person in the relationship is the Dominant, and the other is [...]

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Vancouver – Day 3 & Day 4

Posted on October 29th, 2009 in Body Mods, Collar And Cuff, Does All Her Own Stunts, Life List, Photos, Tie Me Up

I woke up early Saturday morning, packed up my things, left a goodbye note for my siblings, who were sleeping off our late night out, and then walked to the 7-11 on the corner for a coffee.  Caffeine in hand, I walked to the skytrain station, bought my ticket, and waited for my train. I [...]

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The Things We Said – Do As You Are Told

Posted on October 24th, 2009 in The Things We Said

Jack:  I’m going to go and get this shelf from Canadian Tire so that you can put it up Shasta:   Sounds good, but I’m not going to put it up today Jack:  Why not? Shasta:  Because I’m tired Jack:  Aiden, tell her that she HAS to put up the shelf, today! Shasta:  Goddamnit

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I’m In Love With How You Feel

Posted on October 20th, 2009 in Budge That Pudge, Does All Her Own Stunts, Mating And Relating, Polyamory, Reading Is Sexy, Tie Me Up

Having just returned from spending four awesome days out in Vancouver, I’m reluctant to settle back into the daily demands of ‘normal life’ but settle back in I must. Details and photos of the trip are pending, but I don’t have the time or inclination to upload the pictures and relate all of the stories [...]

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Basic Leather Flogger Review

Posted on January 2nd, 2009 in Bedroom Bling, Reviews, Sex Toy Care, Tie Me Up

I’m generally reluctant to order any bondage/BDSM toys from mainstream adult product retailers, because honestly, the quality is often low and the price high.  I often purchase my own equipment from local craftsmen, or from stores who cater specifically to the kinky set. That said, some sex toys retailers DO carry some adequate, and even very [...]

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Super Cuffs Review

Posted on December 2nd, 2008 in Bedroom Bling, Reviews, Tie Me Up

Having a number of vegan/vegetarian pals, some of whom also happen to be kinky, I thought it would be nice to feature a non-leather bondage product on my site for the benefit of those who do not like more traditional BDSM items either for ethical or aesthetic reasons.  Babeland was kind enough to supply me [...]

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Rascal Wear Leather Wrist And Ankle Cuffs Review

Posted on April 25th, 2008 in Bedroom Bling, Reviews, Sex Toy Care, Tie Me Up

I’ve greatly enjoyed dabbling into BDSM toy reviews, being honestly VERY skeptical of quality when it comes to purchasing such things from ‘mainstream’ sex retailers.  Often I feel it is wiser and even cheaper in some cases to support local or non-commercial crafts people who do leather work.  However, not everyone has that option, nor is it [...]

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Rubber Bit Gag Review

Posted on March 12th, 2008 in Bedroom Bling, Reviews, Tie Me Up

Some time ago I made mention of a bit gag in the content of another review. I decided in all fairness I should also review the aforementioned bit gag for comparison purposes, you know, in the name of science and all. Sensual Direct was excellent enough to oblige me in that regard and the gag [...]

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Fleece Lined Blindfold Review

Posted on November 9th, 2007 in Bedroom Bling, Reviews, Tie Me Up

I’m really enjoying doing these reviews of some light BDSM toys Something new for the blog thanks to Sensual Direct. Today’s item is a fleece lined blindfold that I felt went VERY nicely with the paddle and the ball gag Now, I went to the site to fetch the product link, but it appears they [...]

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16-Inch Oval Leather Paddle Review

Posted on November 2nd, 2007 in Bedroom Bling, Reviews, Tie Me Up

I hope that you all are enjoying the new BDSM toy reviews I am doing I thought it would be nice to add a little variety. Today’s toy is a 16-Inch Oval Leather Paddle, from Sensual Direct. Despite what it says on their product page, this paddle does not have fleece on one side, it’s [...]

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Gator Restraints Ball Gag Review

Posted on October 30th, 2007 in Bedroom Bling, Reviews, Tie Me Up

Recently, on a Sunday night, I found myself on all fours on our bed with the Gator Restraints Ball Gag between my teeth and Jack’s cock between my legs. How I got there is a story for another day, but we couldn’t have had such a great time without Sensual Direct, who sent me the [...]

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