After my date with Aiden last week, it occurred to me that Kade and I hadn’t yet set down any sort of parameters in our relationship regarding this sort of situation. I’d always had the distinct impression that Kade wasn’t all that interested in my dating habits. He’s never asked me if I was seeing anyone [...]
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After my last post about The Virgin I consulted a close authority on the subject of anxiety, Nia. She makes a good argument for each side, and I really appreciated her feedback and insights. On one hand the boy clearly needs someone with patience and experience. Someone who can understand and appreciate the difficulties that [...]
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Last Saturday morning I helped to host a kink brunch that is becoming a regular event in my area. Sparked by plans to get together in order to swap some toys, my co-hostess and I began inviting additional friends and before we really knew it there were upwards of 20 people planning to join us, [...]
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In my rush to get my entry about Forbidden written and posted, I forgot to talk about a few interesting aspects of the weekend that I particularly enjoyed. The first was the nudity. I have had serious body issues for years, and I am none too keen on taking my clothes off in front of [...]
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I really, really want to write about my weekend at Forbidden, but it feels like my thoughts are scattered and disjointed. The entire experience was so surreal…so intense, on so many levels. It was pleasure and pain and wonder and distress, all wrapped up into a scant 41 hours. Before I begin, let me say to [...]
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I can’t get up the gumption to write much about the days before I left Ontario, but I figure I should at least record the fire play incident, if only for posterity. Mz. F and Varick accompanied me on Thursday evening (June 26th) to Deja’s house, to watch Secretary and do a little fire play. [...]
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After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja’s before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]
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Ethics are a funny thing. Everyone has their own set, much like fingerprints. Generally, Jack and I agree with each other when it comes to morals and ethics, which is nice, and certainly makes life easier. Recently, a question arose that has us at odds with each other, and in an effort to perhaps gain [...]
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It was touch and go there for a few days last week, but I think I am finally getting over this horrendous sinus/throat infection thing that crawled up into my head last week and waged war on my body for days and days. Thus I was in no shape to blog, nor do much of [...]
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Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I’d never been over to that particular blog before, but I’m certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it’s very well written.
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However, I felt a need to post a little something about Bloggers For Choice Day. I’d write my own long-winded thoughts on the topic, but a witty young thing already said it better than I could, so just go read her post. Comments are off since this isn’t up for debate here (trust me people, [...]
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At the suggestion of a friend, I’ve decided to resurrect a few posts from my first sex blog (which was written a few years back). Most people don’t know that this is the third incarnation of my sex blog, and the following post is from my first attempt. I don’t have an actual date for [...]
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It’s not often I am lucky enough to be asked to review a book. In fact, to date it’s only happened twice. This particular book is very special to me because I got to read it before it was available to the public (the very first edition) and because the author and I have become [...]
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Recently I posted in a thread on one of the forums I participate in, and the content of my post came as quite a surprise to one of the regular readers of this blog. So much so that she contacted me privately to express her surprise over an apparent contradiction between what I’ve written here [...]
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I’ve been having a lot of conversations lately about personal strength and being a woman. Before I get rolling on this let me say first that I do not really consider myself a feminist, nor have I ever claimed to be one. I’m not trying to say “Hooray for women, we are so great”. I’ve [...]
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I should open this post with a disclaimer of some sort, LOL. It’s PMS time in the lair of Shasta and I’ve been right irritable all week. Luckily not at Jack, since so many other people seem to be giving me plenty to be annoyed about. Take The SmartAss for one. Some days ago he [...]
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Tonight I have been seriously rubbed the wrong way. It started off that I got all owly about one thing and since it’s not my place to vent about that, a phone call from Jack has got my back up over something else. Namely, flaky people. What do I mean by that you might wonder? [...]
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I mentioned in my last post that I did not intend to tell The SmartAss about my blog. This is an issue I’ve been rolling around in my head for weeks. Now that I live in a new city I have the option of keeping it secret. In Calgary it was hard because I started [...]
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I wanted to delete this blog today. The whole thing, just get rid of it all. It doesn’t feel like a safe place anymore. A place where I can vent my feelings openly and honestly. I feel like I have to edit myself, consider the feelings of others first before I just go off on [...]
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I’ve been reflecting a lot lately on my relationships with others. Specifically on friendships and the wide variety of friends I have, how they came to be, and what keeps us in a relationship with each other. My extremely close friendship with V has often been the subject of envy and curiosity from others. I’m [...]
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