Stiletto Diaries™

I’m In Love With How You Feel

Posted on October 20th, 2009 in Budge That Pudge, Does All Her Own Stunts, Featured, Mating And Relating, Polyamory, Reading Is Sexy, Tie Me Up

Having just returned from spending four awesome days out in Vancouver, I’m reluctant to settle back into the daily demands of ‘normal life’ but settle back in I must.

Details and photos of the trip are pending, but I don’t have the time or inclination to upload the pictures and relate all of the stories just now.  Needless to say it was an excellent trip.  I got to spend time with my brothers and sister, and with one of my best friends in the whole world, the lovely padme, and her husband Master Anakin.

I miss the ocean already.  I hadn’t seen it in 10 years, which seems crazy to me now.  Walking on the beach and breathing in that salt air was one of my favorite parts of the trip.

All the time spent on planes and in airports gave me an excellent opportunity to catch up on some reading, and writing.  Aiden and I are working out the final details of our D/s contract (more on that to come, I promise).  There is also a paper journal I’ve taken to keeping, and Aiden asked me to do a bit of writing for him on why I want him to collar me (more on that too).  I managed to finish Viola Johnson’s book: To Love, To Obey, To Serve which was just amazing.  I have a borrowed copy, but I’m adding it to my want-list of books.  Flying is truly one of my favorite things, and even though I forgot my iPod and headphones, I hardly noticed between writing words and reading them.

While I was in Vancouver I had the pleasure of attending a play party, my first outside of SW Ontario, and got the opportunity to observe a completely separate ’scene’ than the one I’m accustomed to.  That was fascinating, although the similarities are greater than the differences.  I will perhaps have more to say on the subject after the upcoming play party I’m attending with Aiden this Sunday.

This week is going to be incredibly busy, as I have chores to catch up on, tasks to complete for both of the men in my life, and then obligations to kids and dogs and friends as well.  On top of it all, I’m getting back to the pool, and to the gym.  In two hours I should be half-way through my first length of the pool, after rounding up my swim gear this morning.  If I have any complaints about swimming it’s that I have some of my best ideas while I’m paddling away through the water, and yet I forget a lot of them since I can’t write them down.  It’s the perfect time for thinking, as it’s a very solitary sort of activity, and doesn’t require much brain effort.  When I find a way to take notes while doing it, I will have nothing to gripe about, LOL.

A box of 3000 aluminum rings should be arriving on Friday, because I needed another hobby and Aiden wants some new chainmail.  I’m sure photos of the process and eventually the finished project will find their way onto the blog.  By the time I’m done I should be able to add yet another skill to my list of semi-useless talents, HA HA.

Thus far the IUD hasn’t given me much trouble.  I had some very light spotting while I was out on the coast, but nothing significant.  I’ve also noticed had a few acne outbreaks, which I am not usually prone to, and that is slightly annoying, but not unbearable.  I haven’t had any depression or changes in mood, which is the greatest relief of all.  It’s been almost three weeks since I had it inserted, so I expect if I were going to get depressed, it would have happened by now, as normally I am quite sensitive to shifts in hormones, and notice changes in my feelings within a week.

Jack and I decided to put it to the test this morning and he came inside me for the first time in over five years.  It was pretty hot, and hopefully that little bit of plastic does what it’s supposed to do.

So that’s a bit of a condensed update on my recent activities, and a few teasers regarding upcoming posts  I have a lot of writing to catch up on, LOL, for now I’m off to the pool!