Since we moved here I’ve longed for more excitement, and now it’s finally coming around, in droves no less.
Tomorrow morning I am fetching the lovely Mz. F from Pearson airport. She will be staying with us for a stretch this summer, which pleases me greatly.
On Thursday evening I have plans with Varick. We’re going to Deja’s to watch Secretary, since Varick hasn’t seen it, and then play afterwards. He’s a little gun shy about doing a big scene, after what happened the last time, so we’re going to take it easy. I made it clear at the play party that I do not put any expectations or pressure on him. BDSM is heavy, especially when you are new, and I don’t want him to be put off forever. We’re just going to have fun and go with whatever makes him feel good, that’s all I care about at this point.
Jack was being so sweet last night while we were talking about Varick. He’s happy that I’m being treated well and says that Varick sounds like a very nice guy (they haven’t had a chance to meet yet, but hopefully soon). He also remarked that he’s glad I’m seeing someone who is good to me, after that string of lackluster encounters.
Speaking of those other boys, Nelek messaged me the other day. We haven’t talked much since the beginning of May, for the most part because he had a girlfriend and pretty much stopped messaging me or showing any interest in chatting. I was a little surprised to hear from him, until he explained that he and his girl had just broken up that day. He hinted around at getting together but I put him off. I mean seriously, I am NOT your booty call buddy, nor will I be your entertainment between girlfriends (this is the second time he’s done this by the way). As cute and fun as he is, I’m tired of that game. I don’t expect him to not date of course, but ditching me completely every time he does? Not cool.
On Friday night Mz. F has offered to watch the children so that Jack and I can have a night out to ourselves. He’s made dinner reservations some place nice, but he’s keeping it a secret. All he would say is that I have to dress up a bit, and that he can hardly wait. I’m curious, but I don’t want him to tell me where we are going. I am REALLY looking forward to it at any rate
Saturday night is Pride Sex Party at Goodhandy’s. We were trying to work it out so that all of us could go, but unfortunately we could not get sitting for that night, so Jack has generously offered to stay home and let me take Mz. F and Varick. I’m disappointed that he isn’t able to come with us, but our regular sitters are out of town and he doesn’t want a new person watching the little ones for such a prolonged stretch the first time.
Neither Varick nor Mz. F have ever gone to a sex party at Goodhandy’s so I’m quite pleased to be taking them there for their first time. I imagine the place will be extra crowded due to Pride this week, but the more the merrier in my opinion!
I’ve been doing a lot of cleaning and organizing in the house so far this week, and Jack has given me a long list of things to get done before the end of today. I like having the place tidy and organized before company comes, so that I don’t have to worry about doing much while they are here and can spend time visiting. Jack only agreed to let me go out with Varick on Thursday night because I swore I would get the list finished. If I don’t, then I’ll have to cancel, and I really, really, really don’t want to do that.
Blogging might be slow for the rest of the week, since I’ll have company and be quite busy around here. There’s a good WTF? Thursday post lined up though, so be sure to check in for that (it’ll be password protected because it’s a tad graphic, so make sure to get on the password list if you haven’t already).
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