They’re Probably Up There Making Love…Or Playing Dungeons & Dragons…Or Both. At The Same Time.

Posted on January 25th, 2010 in Does All Her Own Stunts, LARP, Life List, Made In Ontario, Three's Company

It’s Monday!  I realized, while driving the eldest minion to school this morning, that I haven’t blogged in over a week, but I promise that I have good reasons for that. Last weekend I went out with friends on Friday night and saw Daybreakers (pretty good movie, but unless you’re really into non-sparkly vampires, I would [...]

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Actually, It Would Put Them At Very Convenient Biting Height

Posted on January 10th, 2010 in Are You Gonna Eat That?, Carnal Confessions, Does All Her Own Stunts, Life List, Made In Ontario, Mating And Relating, Photos, Polyamory

Things I learned over the weekend: Metal shoehorns will leave bruises with hardly any effort at all People get kind of excited when you serve Cornish hens and leave them whole.  Like “We get a WHOLE bird?  Each?” Kolach, while the most beautiful of breads, is less like bread and more like a giant pretzel [...]

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Vancouver – Day 3 & Day 4

Posted on October 29th, 2009 in Body Mods, Collar And Cuff, Does All Her Own Stunts, Life List, Photos, Tie Me Up

I woke up early Saturday morning, packed up my things, left a goodbye note for my siblings, who were sleeping off our late night out, and then walked to the 7-11 on the corner for a coffee.  Caffeine in hand, I walked to the skytrain station, bought my ticket, and waited for my train. I [...]

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24 Inch Deluxe Leather Riding Crop Review

Posted on October 27th, 2009 in Bedroom Bling, Photos, Reviews, Tie Me Up

I am *really* behind on reviews, but better late than never I suppose.  Anyway, to make up for the delay, I’m putting up some photos to go with this product, and it’s the first time in a loooooooooooooooooong time that I’ve included photos! The 24 Inch Deluxe Leather Riding Crop (also known around here as [...]

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I’m In Love With How You Feel

Posted on October 20th, 2009 in Budge That Pudge, Does All Her Own Stunts, Mating And Relating, Polyamory, Reading Is Sexy, Tie Me Up

Having just returned from spending four awesome days out in Vancouver, I’m reluctant to settle back into the daily demands of ‘normal life’ but settle back in I must. Details and photos of the trip are pending, but I don’t have the time or inclination to upload the pictures and relate all of the stories [...]

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Protected: Life Is Supposed To Be A Thriller

Posted on October 8th, 2009 in Does All Her Own Stunts, Emotional Angst, Mating And Relating, Polyamory, Tie Me Up

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If You Accept Surrender, I’ll Give Up Some More

Posted on July 29th, 2009 in Carnal Confessions, Does All Her Own Stunts, Made In Ontario, Mating And Relating, Polyamory, Tie Me Up

You’d think that a long drive across America would be the perfect opportunity to get some writing done, but for reasons unknown, the ideas I’ve been mulling over just don’t want to gel into anything useful. While I ended up having to cancel my date with Kade on Saturday night, I did get to spend [...]

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The Cat Wished That It Was A Bee

Posted on July 20th, 2009 in Does All Her Own Stunts, Emotional Angst, Life List, Made In Ontario, Polyamory, Tie Me Up

Isn’t it always the way, that for weeks one has very little desire to write, and nothing much to write about, and then suddenly all hell breaks loose and there are more things to recount than there is time to recount them?  Certainly seems so around here. Saturday at Tease was a mix of awesome [...]

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If You Just Change Your Perception Of Sex, You TOO Can Be A Slut Like Me

Posted on July 16th, 2009 in Carnal Confessions, Does All Her Own Stunts, Life List, Made In Ontario, Mating And Relating, Polyamory, Tie Me Up

Note: Any names/details involving other people have been posted with their permission. Friday morning at Tease dawned bright and early.  Fortunately my sore throat was nearly gone, so I was geared up and ready to go. Most of the morning was spent watching the BDSM games, the Fox Hunt, and the Pony Games.  I won’t [...]

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Will You Be My Pretend Friend?

Posted on July 15th, 2009 in Does All Her Own Stunts, Life List, Made In Ontario, Polyamory, Tie Me Up

I’m still recovering from the four days I spent at Tease last week.  I’m generally not prone to sub-drop, but I certainly have Tease-drop.  On the way home from camp I felt emotional and weepy.  Since then the adjustment to ‘regular life’ has been slow.  Last night I went to a local kink munch and [...]

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A Little Birdie Told You… (Tease Week Edition)

Posted on July 12th, 2009 in Does All Her Own Stunts, Made In Ontario, Tie Me Up

Last day at Tease. Workshops and rope suspension today. Not pumped for packing up. # This weekend was exactly what I needed to remind me of why I enjoy BDSM so much. I’d forgotten over these last few months. # Packed up all of my stuff so that I could relax for the afternoon and [...]

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A Little Birdie Told You… (Tease Week Edition)

Posted on July 10th, 2009 in Does All Her Own Stunts, Made In Ontario

Had a good sleep in this morning. Went to AM coffee as part of a chain gang and then had a good shower. Making brunch at the moment. # Really enjoyed watching the Fox Hunt. We are off to take in the Pony Games now. Then time for some workshops! # Been distracted with friends [...]

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Her Panties Will Come Off So Fast*

Posted on April 8th, 2009 in Advice, Does All Her Own Stunts, Emotional Angst, Ethics And Morality, Made In Ontario, Mating And Relating, Polyamory, Tie Me Up

Last Saturday morning I helped to host a kink brunch that is becoming a regular event in my area.  Sparked by plans to get together in order to swap some toys, my co-hostess and I began inviting additional friends and before we really knew it there were upwards of 20 people planning to join us, [...]

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Handy Slapper Review

Posted on April 3rd, 2009 in Bedroom Bling, Reviews, Sex Toy Care, Tie Me Up

I hope you’ve enjoyed the recent increase in BDSM equipment reviews as much as I have.  It can be difficult to accurately rate or comment on some of these items, due to the fact that what might be considered quite stingy to me could barely even register with heavier pain sluts. The Handy Slapper, provided [...]

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Bondage Tape Review

Posted on March 10th, 2009 in Bedroom Bling, Carnal Confessions, Reviews, Tie Me Up

You know I’ll use just about any excuse to get tied up and beaten on.  How could I turn down the opportunity to test a roll of Bondage Tape, courtesy of Babeland? Bondage tape looks and feels similar to electrical tape, although it won’t stick to skin, hair, or anything besides itself.  You can use it for [...]

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Interview With A Macrophile

Posted on January 26th, 2009 in Mating And Relating

When you run in kinky or alternative lifestyle circles, you often have the good fortune to meet and get to know people with all sorts of fabulous fetishes or sexual interests, which may be vastly different from your own.  Over the years, I’ve been lucky enough to learn more and more about sexuality, and the [...]

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Basic Leather Flogger Review

Posted on January 2nd, 2009 in Bedroom Bling, Reviews, Sex Toy Care, Tie Me Up

I’m generally reluctant to order any bondage/BDSM toys from mainstream adult product retailers, because honestly, the quality is often low and the price high.  I often purchase my own equipment from local craftsmen, or from stores who cater specifically to the kinky set. That said, some sex toys retailers DO carry some adequate, and even very [...]

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Spoon Meridian

Posted on December 10th, 2008 in Are You Gonna Eat That?, Does All Her Own Stunts, Life List, Photos, Tie Me Up

Montreal is just such a grand old city.  We didn’t get to see as much of it as I would have liked, but the parts we did see, I fell in love with.  I’d consider moving there, even though I can’t read or speak a word of French. Have you ever stood outdoors, in the frigid [...]

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Super Cuffs Review

Posted on December 2nd, 2008 in Bedroom Bling, Reviews, Tie Me Up

Having a number of vegan/vegetarian pals, some of whom also happen to be kinky, I thought it would be nice to feature a non-leather bondage product on my site for the benefit of those who do not like more traditional BDSM items either for ethical or aesthetic reasons.  Babeland was kind enough to supply me [...]

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Oooo Girl! Shock Me Like An Electric Eel

Posted on November 3rd, 2008 in Bedroom Bling, Carnal Confessions, Does All Her Own Stunts, I Like To Kiss Girls, Made In Ontario, Photos, Polyamory, Tie Me Up

I’ve been to some really fabulous play parties as of late.  Unfortunately, blogging about such parties and the happenings therein is generally frowned on upon in the kink community at large. As it were, I can’t give out TOO many details, but I will say that much fun was had by V and myself. At the [...]

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