I wish I had something fantastic to write, but last week was primarily spent doing my best to get over a sinus/chest cold, which I have now passed on to Aiden it seems. Jack was away on business during the end of the week, and spent the weekend in Banff with P. They had a [...]
Some of you may have noticed that I haven’t mentioned Kade around here for a long time. Not since October 21st, to be precise, and before that it was August 12th. The relationship ended, as far as I was concerned, sometime mid-September, but I’ve been avoiding dealing with it since then because I hate giving [...]
In response to Monday’s post, Sharon asked: I’m very curious on how you are going to discuss this with your children now and on-going? That’s an excellent question, and deserves a post unto itself. As an aside, if anyone would like to ask questions about our co-habitation arrangement, that I can’t answer in a sentence or [...]
“He practically lives at my house” I remarked the other day to a friend during conversation. Even when he’s not here, you’d not know it. His socks, and other items of clothing, are regularly found mixed in with the rest of the laundry that languishes, unfolded, on one of the spare beds. When I do [...]
Sometimes the most difficult parts of poly are juggling time between partners, negotiating schedules, and discussing emotions ad nauseum. Sometimes the most difficult parts are agreeing on which movie to rent on a Friday night, or whose turn it is to wash the dishes, or which bed to sleep in. Lately, the most difficult part [...]
The only unfortunate aspect of having a whole lot of awesome in ones life, is that it generally doesn’t allow a lot of time for writing, LOL. Not that I’m complaining Karma Gods. Please don’t kick me in the ass for appearing ungrateful. Between spending time with Jack, the kids, Aiden, the dogs, and trying [...]
I’d set my alarm for 9am on Sunday morning, but after waking up just long enough to shut it off, Aiden and I went back to sleep until around 11. After getting up (which seems, for some reason, to take us a while, LOL) and putting some clothes on we ventured out to find some [...]
I know, it’s been too long since the last time I wrote anything here. After our 36-day ‘vacation’ away from home, all I’ve wanted to do since coming back is catch up with Aiden and clean my house. The first one I’ve mostly accomplished, the second is on my ‘To Do’ list for the next [...]
It’s often easy to become frustrated with the world we live in. Global warming, Wal-Mart, and politics aside, there is the fact that the ‘lifestyle’ I chose to live is mostly unheard of, and probably light years away from social acceptance. I’ve had this stuck in my craw for days, so I figured I might as [...]
After my date with Aiden last week, it occurred to me that Kade and I hadn’t yet set down any sort of parameters in our relationship regarding this sort of situation. I’d always had the distinct impression that Kade wasn’t all that interested in my dating habits. He’s never asked me if I was seeing anyone [...]
Ever since seeing Bedouin Soundclash there in September, I’ve been on The Sound Academy mailing list. They regularly send me e-mails regarding upcoming concerts and events, and links to their contests, which I generally enter, even if I don’t know the band that well (who says no to free tickets?) Wouldn’t you know it that [...]
On Tuesday evening I drove down to Kade’s for the first date we’ve had in a month. I’ve missed him very much, and we were both looking forward to spending some time together. As Wednesday was Canada Day, and Jack didn’t have to work, I had the luxury of staying at Kade’s overnight, which I [...]
You may not believe this, but sometimes I spread myself too thin. This month has been no exception, as I’ve overloaded myself with projects, and then tossed a new dog on top. Yes, I really did expect it all to go smoothly, but as life is wont to do, it turned all of the clocks onto fast-forward and [...]
Lack of blog is generally an indication that I’m going through a phase of being to self-involved to bother writing much. The past few weeks are no exception. I’ve been falling desperately in love with a certain young greyhound, and quite deeply into like with a certain young virgin. The hound will be coming home [...]
My recent date with Kade (The Virgin) went exceptionally well. We met for breakfast in his neighbourhood, and although I could tell that he was nervous, we hit it off immediately. He looks less like K in person, to my great relief. We had coffee and bagels before driving to a nearby mall to do [...]
Curse of the Water-Bearer: Pt 1 By: Lov Doc and Recipe for Romance at Food Network social media site Recipe Forromanceat Facebook Recipe4Romance on Twitter I’d rather have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all!! Hi! I’m LD, a two letter word that is an enigma. I dance to the beat of a [...]
After my last post about The Virgin I consulted a close authority on the subject of anxiety, Nia. She makes a good argument for each side, and I really appreciated her feedback and insights. On one hand the boy clearly needs someone with patience and experience. Someone who can understand and appreciate the difficulties that [...]
Last Saturday morning I helped to host a kink brunch that is becoming a regular event in my area. Sparked by plans to get together in order to swap some toys, my co-hostess and I began inviting additional friends and before we really knew it there were upwards of 20 people planning to join us, [...]
Very recently Jack began chatting with a local couple who are looking for a bi male to play with. It would seem that they are all hitting it off quite well, and they have plans to meet on Friday night for drinks and most likely a threesome. Perhaps because it’s just been such a looooooooooong [...]
My regular laptop is in the shop having it’s LCD screen replaced, and I’ve been lacking the patience to pick my way through a blog post on the tiny keyboard of my Asus Eee PC. However, I figured I’d better put something up here before I lost all of my readers, heh. The friend from [...]
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