The worst part of major life upheavals, in my opinion, is how long it takes to find a regular schedule again. With the kids back in school, things are beginning to fall into a rhythm. Jack works shorter hours now, and seems very happy in his position here. Even though it was a bit of a [...]
This weekend Jack and I will celebrate 8 years of togetherness. We’ve spent exactly 7 of those years in wedded bliss. Have I mentioned that he and I were married on the 1-year anniversary of our first date? I’m pretty sure that I have, somewhere in this blog. We’ve booked a room with a king [...]
Varick phoned me yesterday re to check in with me. It’s always good manners for a Dom to get in touch with a sub within a couple of days of playing, to see if said sub is alright and to find out how they are feeling about the scene that was had. I was happy to hear [...]
It’s been a week…a week without posting. I suppose I should have predicted that I wouldn’t have much time to blog with a ton of life responsibilities piling down the pipe at me like some sort of twisted avalanche. Really I’ve not minded that much, except I miss blogging, and chatting, and generally having a [...]
It was touch and go there for a few days last week, but I think I am finally getting over this horrendous sinus/throat infection thing that crawled up into my head last week and waged war on my body for days and days. Thus I was in no shape to blog, nor do much of [...]
It’s been one of those weeks. The kind where time passes quickly, and you feel like you’re not getting anything done at all. Or at least nothing of substance. I didn’t even realise I’d gone nearly 4 days without blogging. I kept meaning to write, and yet, I had nothing to say. Uninspired: the theme [...]
Disappointment is a funny thing. You can only feel disappointed if you’ve set yourself up for such things through beliefs and expectations. I’m fond of saying that expectations are dumb, and are the fastest route to general unhappiness. For the most part I make a very conscious effort to avoid expectations. I realize that sometimes [...]
I wasn’t quite certain what to think when Newf Cosmetics contacted me about doing a review of their Venereous intimate shaving products. You all know what I’ve said about shaving down there in the past, never again! Waxing is the cats meow when it comes to my girly bits down south. However, in the name [...]
On Friday night Nia and I had planned to go out to this goth/industrial night, a weekly feature at a local bar. Some weeks ago I purchased some synthetic dreadlocks designed to wear with natural dreads, so I decided Friday would be an ideal time for a test run. They were easy to put in [...]
It’s been a while since I felt the need to write and yet had NOTHING TO SAY. Generally in that situation I just do exactly what I am doing right now. I start typing and hope that the subsequent rambling makes sense. Ok that’s all I’ve got for today. Kidding, LOL, sort of. Jack and [...]
Getting a Brazilian wax during your period is unwise. Your skin is all extra puffy and super sensitive. It hurts so much more and even 24 hours later, I was still very sore there, which is unusual for me. I feel like I want to write something of substance, something important and insightful, but it [...]
Hurray it’s Hump Day! The week is half over and tomorrow I am taking my kids to my mom’s place for the weekend! Jack and I are going to check out some vehicles. I really love the Dodge Charger or the new Dodge Nitro. We will probably end up getting something second hand, or maybe [...]
On Sunday I convinced O and her friend and V to come with me for waxing It was V’s second time, my third, and O and her friend had never done it before. I think that O and her friend were a little traumatised by it. It hurts like a bitch the first time, but [...]
I want to blog this morning. I am not really sure what I want to say. I am struggling with the recent events, with the desire to take my pain out on Jack. Sometimes I think “How can he ask me to stop loving someone. How do I turn the feelings off?” My feelings don’t [...]
Ah the thrills of having your pubic hair yanked out by it’s roots. Actually it wasn’t that bad at all. First of all, I made an appointment at a home-based waxing business. For one thing it saved me $20.00 compared to what the local spas charge (the few that even do Brazilian waxing). For another [...]
You will notice that I removed the previous post (the one with the lyrics to “Goodbye My Lover”). I put it up initially because K and I did have a break up of sorts. I didn’t think that there was much hope of Jack and I working anything out. However, after a very emotional day, [...]
Today’s post is likely just going to be a random collection of nothing. I am still sick as hell and coherent thought seems to be escaping me. I know that I wanted to write something of substance, but we’ll see how it goes. K and I have continued to be under restrictions imposed by Jack. [...]
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