It’s been one of those weeks. The kind where time passes quickly, and you feel like you’re not getting anything done at all. Or at least nothing of substance. I didn’t even realise I’d gone nearly 4 days without blogging. I kept meaning to write, and yet, I had nothing to say. Uninspired: the theme [...]
Disappointment is a funny thing. You can only feel disappointed if you’ve set yourself up for such things through beliefs and expectations. I’m fond of saying that expectations are dumb, and are the fastest route to general unhappiness. For the most part I make a very conscious effort to avoid expectations. I realize that sometimes [...]
Friday has finally arrived, and with it, the beginning of what I expect will be a very good weekend. To get ourselves into a weekend kind of mood, Nia and I did a yoga class this morning, followed by a nice hot shower at the gym and about 15 minutes in the sauna together. Nia [...]
Shasta: Good day Random Friend: IS IT REALLY? IS IT? Shasta: For me, perhaps not so much for you Random Friend: Hehehh Yeah Shasta: Are we angry? Tired? Frustrated? Random Friend: Tired as fuck and work is extra gay today, running 2 machines, doing 3 things on each 3 unrelated tasks Random Friend: Its gay [...]
It feels like I’ve had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, “What the hell have I been so busy with?” Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I’d been accustomed to [...]
After the complete flop that was Loki (he was totally non-committal as far as getting together went and I only had patience for that the first week) I decided not to mention new guys, and waste perfectly good names on them, until something had actually come of it. So, last night I had a date [...]
Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I’d never been over to that particular blog before, but I’m certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it’s very well written.
Last night I had the extreme pleasure of judging the first annual Goodhandy’s Diamond Doll Pageant ’08. Nia joined me on the judge’s panel, along with James, the third of our little trio. Todd met us at the bar soon after we arrived and we talked a bit about the pageant. I think Nia and [...]
Love,Shasta
Ex-Lovers can often be a precarious topic, particularly when there is a lot of complicated history involved, and especially when one wishes to write about them, knowing they will read it. I mentioned in a recent post that K and I had been working on getting past some of the bitterness and bad feelings left [...]
Hello Shasta, I found your blog through researching some toys for the bedroom. I know this is a bit strange for the blog, but I’m a male asking a serious question because I am so terribly confused. My girlfriend and I are looking to get into some anal play, and she has this fantasy where [...]
Some of you may have noticed that when my favourite holiday of the year rolled around, I did not post a list of resolutions or goals for 2008. That was intentional on my part, since I decided this year was going to be slightly different. No more January promises that barely last into the third [...]
Congratulations To The Following Entries (And Their Submitters) Female Category Winner: Male Category Winner: Couple Category Winner: (The flower was added for the sake of anonymity) Congratulations Again Winners A Big Thank You To Everyone Who Entered!
Shasta: Have you ever had someone randomly come up to you, grab one of your dreads, and PUT IT IN THEIR MOUTH? Random Friend: Um . No. Random Friend: I have however, done that to others. Shasta: HA HA HA, are you serious? Random Friend: Because I am a creep. Shasta: That’s sick, maybe you [...]
Oh dear! I hadn’t realized I’d gone so long without posting. My apologies, followed by brief explanation and update. A lot of my time over the past week and some days has been devoted to a large and time-consuming project (not blog related). It has been eating up most of my days, and a lot [...]
Good Day readers! This afternoon I’m totally thrilled to be bringing you another Stiletto Diaries first, a clothing item review. Mind you, it’s sexy, and footwear no less, so I feel it fits in well with the general vein of reviews here. Thank you so much Red Door for your generosity, and excellent customer service, [...]
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