I spent the morning looking back through the archives of this blog. Reflecting on the evolution of this blog, this situation, my relationships…trying to figure out where it all went so wrong. I don’t know that it can be pinpointed in the archives, I have found this blog to be a rather incomplete reflection of [...]
I have been pondering this blog the last couple of days, and it occurred to me “What would I write about here if things did not work out with K?” I mean, if you look back, things before K were pretty boring around here. So let’s suppose that we decide The Poly Experiment™ with K [...]
I’m afraid that some people misunderstood some of the things I said in my last post. Particularly my statement about people being miserable and living in boxes. I was not speaking against monogamy at all, I assure you. My intention in those statements was to speak about the entire spectrum of life choices. People who [...]
I was planning to write a big long involved post about the rest of my weekend, but I just can’t get the motivation. So I’ll give you the Stiletto Diaries Condensed Version and well move along with what has happened since then. Basically while I was away at V’s Jack and K talked online and [...]
I have decided to divide tales from the long weekend into two parts. First the fun part, then the shitty part So Saturday night I went to V’s place, and we decided to go out to this pub that we frequent. We were going to be meeting two of V’s friends there for a drink [...]
This week’s best of the sex blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Want in Sugasm #35? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the linklist by the end of next Monday night and you’re all set. Erotic Writing and Experiences Lost and Found (aliferestarted.blogspot.com) Out of [...]
How can someone with a husband, a boyfriend, and two best friends feel so totally alone in the world? I feel neglected by Jack, which I suppose I deserve, being the horrid little bitch that I am. K and I can’t see each other, but he tries his best to be supportive and optimistic. It’s [...]
I just wanted to see how this whole mp3 hosting thing works. I think it would be cool to include songs with some of my posts. The Devlins – Almost Made You Smile I don’t know much about bandwidth and all that, so I don’t know if you should right-click and save it, or what. [...]
I’m BACK! Got myself a new modem, but then had company for a couple of days, so I haven’t had time to update till now. Glad to see ya’ll didn’t wreck the place while I was away And thank you to my darling K for letting people know that I was still alive, just experiencing [...]
You may have noticed that I removed the most recent CBW photo, as well as the one from last week. I’m sorry to the contributors, and thank you so much for the photos, but really the whole thing was not going a positive direction, and I just didn’t feel like dealing with it.
Al was kind enough to answer some questions for me about the Tantra Chair, which I thought would be if interest to my readers. The Tantra Chair is designed to enhance a very wide variety of sexual positions. How exactly did the entire Tantra Chair concept occur to you? The concept for the Tantra Chair [...]
After months of anticipation, I was very fortunate to receive a Tantra Chair of my very own last week. I want to say a few words about my experience ordering the chair before we get into the good parts. My first contact with Al Vitaro (the CEO of Zen By Design, and designer of the [...]
I know all sorts of good stuff was supposed to happen on this blog this week, but there just hasn’t been time. Monday I decided to invite K, V, DF, and V’s other best friend over for BBQ and poker on the weekend. After some making of plans and then switching of plans we are [...]
This week’s best of the sex blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Want in the next one? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the linklist by the end of Wednesday night and you’re all set. Audio Audioblog Posts 1 and 2 (alwaysarousedgirl.blogspot.com) First Ever Audio [...]
Brand new issue of my column this morning: Social Insecurity It’s all about control and manipulation in relationships. Enjoy!
Canadian Customs hates me. There is some sort of issue with the item I am having shipped in. I am anticipating a lot of complicated paperwork in my very near future. They are holding my brand new Tantra Chair hostage at the Customs warehouse. Apparently you should have some sort of broker to do all [...]
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