We just love us some anal toys around here, and the Lelo Bob is no exception.  Made entirely of satiny silicone, this is the ideal toy for butt-play beginners. It provides fantastic stimulation, and although it’s made of silicone, is rigid enough to make insertion easy.

Due to it’s diminutive size and prostate-friendly shape, it’s perfect for men who are curious about anal toys, or for those who don’t like anything too large back there.  Women may also enjoy this toy, although clearly it has been designed with the male in mind.

I really liked the ring/handle at the end, which made it easy to insert and to wiggle around.  Being silicone mind that you use water-based lube, and NOT silicone-based lube.

The Bob is easy to sanitize.  Anti-bacterial soap and water, or boil it for 10 minutes, and you’re ready to go again.  Note that you should never leave toys unattended while you are boiling them.  I’ve heard far too many (very funny) horror stories of the water boiling away, leaving one with a lovely silicone blob in the bottom of the pot. Always dry thoroughly before storage (and speaking of storage, the Bob comes in a lovely little satin bag).

Thanks to Pure Pleasure for making this review possible.

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The size is also a bit intimidating.  With 8 inches of insertable length, this toy is not going to leave you feeling empty inside

The shaft of the Kama Diva is made from a very hard polyurethane, which is not at all what I was expecting.  There is a certain rigidity about hard plastic sex toys that isn’t generally my cup of tea, particularly for insertables.  When it comes to clitoral stimulation, I’m all for whatever gets me off, but something so unyielding in my vagina almost hurts.  That said, I know a number of ladies who prefer their vibrators to be hard and inflexible, so I’m not docking it points just because I prefer something a little more bendy.

Speaking of the shaft, it’s covered with knobbys, which provide an interesting situation.  They don’t really look like much, and I only really noticed them as the toy was going in and out, but it’s different than something with a smooth shaft.  I didn’t actually try it for anal, but I suspect the effect would be quite enjoyable actually.

The vibration intensity is controlled by a knob on the bottom of the shaft.  Really quite standard in terms of speed overall.  It requires 2 AA batteries, which you insert in the bottom by unscrewing the base.

This toy is NOT waterproof, so keep it on dry land.  I recommend cleaning with an antibacterial wipe or soap and water, being mindful to keep the base clear of moisture.  Remember to take the batteries out when it’s not in use.

All in all it’s not a bad toy, and it would certainly be suitable if you’re looking for something quite large and rigid to pleasure yourself with.  Also, I do quite enjoy the ‘melted crayon’ look

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The Handy Slapper, provided by Babeland, is a 2-in-1 toy with all sorts of sadistic potential.  It’s fairly small in size, which is something I always consider when it comes to toys that I pack around with me to events.  I really don’t want to be hauling one of my regular toy boxes around with me, so I have to be choosy about what I take in my travel toy kit, and so toys that are small but effective are most appreciated.

The handy slapper is made out of two layers of stiff latigo leather that have been riveted together.  This particular kind of design creates a heavier product, and the dual layers will generate an enticing sound when they come into contact with something, like your backside.  Noisy is one word for it, but I quite enjoy the sharp smacking it makes as it falls.

A devious addition to this slapper is the handle, which it so much like the end of a quirt, I feel as though I own two of them now.  Jack finds this feature quite fantastic, particularly for eliciting yelps of pain from yours truly, while he uses it on my breasts and nipples.  It seems to be just the right length and weight for such methods of torture.

I would describe both ends as rather stingy, although the handle end more so, for obvious reasons.  The sensations are not really the same, although they are both sharp and cover only a small area, as opposed to something broader, like a paddle.  The diminutive size lends itself well to applications that a larger slapper would be unsuitable for.  Breast and nipples, as mentioned above, as well as cock and ball torture, the insides of thighs, the bottoms of feet, and the pussy area of course.  Any place where you want to…ahem, make an impact while still retaining enough control over your implement to land exactly on target.  On the other hand, this would not be my tool of choice for prolonged wailing on someones ass or back.  Other toys will achieve quite the same effect with far less effort.

Overall, we really liked this toy.  It’s heavy enough to withstand years of use, and I was pleased with the craftsmanship.  I would rate it as a medium to heavy toy, in terms of intensity.

To keep all of your leather in good condition, or if it requires cleaning (toys that are used for impact play, and come into contact with fluids, particularly blood, should be cleaned after use) I would recommend a soft sponge, and some saddle soap (which is available at tack stores or online).  Follow the directions on the bottle, allow the leather to thoroughly air dry, and then oil it with a leather preservative (also available at tack stores and online).  Please note that most BDSM gear is unfinished leather, so take that into account when you look for advice on cleaning and stain removal.

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The first thing that struck me about the OhMiBod is that it’s way bigger than it appears in photos.  I mean, I was imagining something smallish, designed more for external stimulation than internal.  I joked with V about wearing it to the gym, because I figured it would be small enough to stay nestled inside me while I sweated it out on the elliptical trainer.  However, when it arrived, I was surprised to find it was more like a standard sized vibrator.

The OhMiBod can be used both with an MP3 player, or on it’s own.  You don’t need an iPod brand MP3 player either, any one will do.  The vibrator does not run off of the power of your MP3 player either, it requires batteries.  It includes a splitter, which plugs into the player, and then your headphones and the vibrator are plugged into that.  It also comes with a handy little storage pouch.

It actually does pulse to the music.  The intensity of the vibration is dictated by the volume of the music.  When you turn up really loud the pulsations decrease, I would assume because there is no more room for the toy to go ‘up’.

This toy is especially fabulous because you can create your own playlist of songs to get you grooving.  It will be as fast or as slow as you want it.  You can adjust the intensity to suit your mood.  There really aren’t any drawbacks that I can think of.

The body of the vibrator is made of hard plastic.  Cleaning it with an antibacterial wipe is likely your best bet, although soap and water will work.  Be careful not to get water in the base.

OhMiBod has plenty of power, and aside from being just a really fun toy, great for stimulation inside and out, it gets the job done.

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There are all kinds of clitoral stimulators on the market these days, and you’re most certain to find at least one or two of them to suit your purposes.  I really like this particular vibrator, because for one it’s shaped similarly to my favorite toy of all time, with the same controls and the same range of intensity.  And for two because it’s been designed to fit comfortably between two bodies who happen to be rolling about together in the throes of passion.

It’s long enough to be held easily during intercourse, and the vibrating end is shaped almost the the bowl of a spoon, which I have found snuggles perfectly over my clit.  It’s not really designed for internal stimulation, but I see no reason why you couldn’t use it for that, if you were so inclined.  There is a joint in the shaft (where the silver ring is) however, so I would encourage you to use a condom if you plan to put it inside of anything.

The pleasure paddle is made from hard plastic, which has then been coated in this wonderful satin-finish rubber.  It’s a lot like silicone actually.  It requires 2 AA batteries, and the intensity is controlled by a knob at the base of the toy.

This toy is also waterproof!  Fun for both the bath or shower.  It’s also easy to clean with antibacterial soap and water.

Compared to other sex toys I have tried, this one really is rather unobtrusive during intercourse.  It works well during doggy style, missionary, girl-on-top, and most anything else we could tangle ourselves into.  It’s got a really wide range of vibrations, and plenty of power.

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As always, the packaging was quite pretty.  Frosted plastic and simple but pleasing.  The vibratoreven included 2 AA batteries, so I didn’t have to pull any off of the charger to give it a go (I’ve had to switch to the more environmentally friendly type, as you can just imagine the batteries one goes through around here). This particular toy is designed for both external and internal stimulation.  The shape lends itself beautifully to both applications.  I found maneuvering the curved end between my legs, to rest snuggly over my clitoris, provided an intensely enjoyable masturbation experience.  The shape and rigidity also work well for g-spot stimulation.

The body of the vibrator is made out of hard plastic.  It provides three settings for vibration intensity, controlled by a slide-type switch near the base.  Unfortunately there is also something of a seam which runs along the length of this toy, which as you know, I always take issue with.  I’d use a condom with it, especially if you’re planning to share.

As it’s not water proof, I recommend wiping it down before and after use with an antibacterial cleaning cloth.  If you must use water and soap, mind you don’t get any into the battery cavity.

This toy also works quite nicely for clitoral stimulation during sex with a partner.  It’s long and light enough to be comfortable held at the base, and thin enough that it won’t interfere with penetration in most positions.

I really do enjoy this toy.  It’s simple, straightforward, and gets the job done.  Nothing fancy, small enough for travel, and with adequite power.

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Perhaps it’s the simplicity and durability of this particular toy that made it one of my favorites?  The shape and size are quite wonderful for both clitoral and g-spot stimulation.  If you’re looking for something to make your pussy feel ‘full’ then pass on this one; as the name indicates, it’s slender.

When I received this particular g-spot toy I was a tad disappointed to note the rather significant seam running along it’s length.  Any of you who read me on a regular basis know how I hate seams and crevices, the perfect breeding ground for bacteria, if you’re not careful.  My original was fused together tight, so I’m docking this one points for being somewhat unhygienic.  If you plan to share this, or are not inclined to clean it thoroughly every time, with antibacterial soap, put a condom on it.

The body is made of hard plastic, and the vibration intensity is controlled by the tail-end of the toy, which turns it on, up, down, or off, with a twist.  Speaking of vibration intensity, this little thing has MORE than enough.  I’m never disappointed or frustrated when I have it nestled between my legs. As far as battery powered vibrators go, this thing has plenty of juice.

I love, love, love, love, LOVE that this toy is waterproof.  It’s taken up permanent residence in my shower, where I can play with it on a whim.  My original version was not, which I always found most unfortunate, considering it was my favorite toy for a number of years.  You can use this toy in both the bath and shower, just be mindful not to accidentally twist it open while you’re mucking about with the controls.

The quality of this particular item was not what I’d hoped for, although I’m not about to discard it, and if you’re looking for something effective and versatile for under $10, you’ve got yourself a winner.

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One of the first things I fell in love with was the adjustability of the angle.  You can use this thing in all sorts of positions.  It even has holes in the back designed to allow you to hang it on the wall!  I kid you not, you can mount it here, there, or anywhere.  My favorite way to use is it by leaning over the edge of the bed or a large pillow and then sitting back on the love machine and letting it do all the work.  I’ve also used it laying on my back, sitting on it, and squatting over it.

This sex machine also includes SIX attachments for your masturbatory pleasure.  It even has a toy for the men, which may look scary, but actually proved to be quite pleasurable.  While I felt that the attachments *could* have varied more in size, I actually tend to only use one of them, and unless you’re a serious size queen, you’re going to be satisfied with what’s included.  I also must point out that the attachments are lower quality than what I generally prefer, and I wish that additional attachments were available (sold separately) in case one wanted to spring on bigger and better add-ons. While I didn’t dock any points for those minor complaints, I felt they were worth mentioning. I would encourage you to use condoms with your attachments, and always wash them well before and after use with mild anti-bacterial soap and warm water.  Among the attachments are two vibrators, which plug into the side of the machine (no batteries!) and I really enjoyed the dual stimulation.

Both the vibrators and the thrust action are controlled by a hand-held remote.  This is an awesome feature, since increasing the intensity is easy, and doesn’t distract you from the, ahem, task at hand

The love machine is surprisingly quiet (considering) and it’s diminutive size makes it easy to store.  The convenient handle also makes it easy to move from one place to another.

This bad boy will last longer than you can.  It just keeps going and going and going, as hard or as softly as you like.

Need I remind you that Valentine’s Day is coming?  This is the sort of gift that says “I want you to have more orgasms!” AND it’s on sale right now   What are you waiting for?

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Today I have a curious-looking little anal probe review for you, care of Vibrator.com and Jack, who assisted me in testing.

The first day that we had the Fun Factory Wanda Anal Probe, the three of us got some great laughs out of sticking it to different surfaces around the house.  You see, the concave base allows this green wormie to suction cup itself onto most smooth surfaces.  Everywhere from the kitchen table to the glass on the front door.  It was stuck to walls, toilet seats, and the bathroom mirror, where it stared at us with its beady eyes.  Indeed, much fan can be had with this toy.

Wanda, being made by Fun Factory, is a very high quality toy.  She’s made from 100% premium silicone, which makes her easy to clean, although incompatible with all silicone based lubricants.  You can boil this toy for sterilization, or simply scrub it down thoroughly with anti-bacterial soap and hot water.

The flared base makes Wanda compatible with most strap on harnesses.  As mentioned before, she can also be anchored to smooth surfaces, such as chairs or walls, for some self-sodomy games!  Her unique shape provides all kinds of wonderful stimulation, and she’s narrow enough for anal beginners.  This has become one of Jack’s favorite sex toys.

Wanda is flexible, while remaining ridged enough to get the job done.  Her curves and ribs are absolutely wonderful, so you’ll never be bored with her.  She will last to provide years of pleasure if you take care of her properly.

Jack and I both enthusiastically enjoy this anal toy.  It’s kind of like anal beads, only better!

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That said, some sex toys retailers DO carry some adequate, and even very good leather and fetish goods, which is why I chose this flogger from SexToy.Com for a review.

The Basic Leather Flogger is an affordable and practical choice for both new and more experienced players.  If you or your partner are really just getting into the lifestyle, this flogger, like so many others you will find, won’t break your bank, and if you don’t like it, you won’t feel like you wasted a ton of money just to be disappointed.

On the other hand, I have a great number of leather toys, and this is one of my new favorites.  The sensation range falls towards the stingy, rather than thuddy, and I’d rate this particular flogger as medium to harsh in terms of intensity.  This is not a soft warm-up flogger.  I would pull this one out towards the middle or end of a scene for maximum enjoyment.  It will leave welts by the way, and if used hard enough, certainly has the potential to break skin.

It has 15 falls, and for a flogger in this price and quality range, it’s pretty alright in terms of balance.  Balance, for anyone who is unfamiliar, refers to how the weight of the flogger is distributed.  If all of the weight is in the tails, and none in the handle, your arm will tire out pretty quickly.  The reverse is also true.  Makers of custom floggers will often balance handles with lead weights, which are put inside the handle until the weight is equal, and the flogger can be balanced on one finger where the handle meets the falls.  This is generally most important with very heavy falls (or tails) which isn’t the case with this flogger, but it’s something to be mindful of when purchasing such implements.

The handle is covered with a single piece of leather, and completed with some decorative finishing nails.  A small turk’s head knot at each end, and a d-ring for hanging it from a belt or wall complete this toy.  I advise you to store this toy (and all floggers for that matter) hung up whenever possible.  It keeps the falls from becoming folded or wrinkled, and extends the life of your flogger.

Cleaning leather can become a bit precarious, and I would recommend consulting Google or your local tack shop.  Most BDSM toys are made from unfinished leather, and there are plenty of commercial cleaners available for the task of keeping your toys in great condition.

I love this flogger, and it’s become one of the toys the select toys I carry with me to play parties and events (I certainly don’t bring them all, so I have a large tool box for designated play party gear).

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The first item on the list is a Blueberry Twist Glass Juicer Dildo, care of Pink Cherry.

I’ve seen juicer style dildos before in porn, and I’ve been lusting after them ever since.  The idea behind the juicer dildos is to stimulate both the inside of the pussy and the clitoris and labia at the same time.  The shaft portion is inserted into the vagina, and then the handle is used to turn the dildo, spinning the disk portion over the outside.  Generally the disk portion is grooved or has bumps on it to increase the stimulation.  If that doesn’t sound like a ton of fun, I don’t know what does!

My first impressions of the blueberry twist was the attractive packaging and the diminutive size.  The twist arrived in a satin-lined box, which is actually very nice for storage because glass toys can be chipped if you just let them roll about in your toy box or drawer.  It was much smaller than I expected, although very aesthetically pleasing with the lovely blue swirl up the shaft.

The first time Jack and I played with this toy it had been sitting in my bedside drawer in it’s box, and when I pulled it out it was much cooler than body temperature.  Our room is generally much colder than the rest of the house, which in this case was quite delightful.  I really enjoy that particular property of glass toys.  You can heat/cool them as you like, which expands all sorts of erotic possibilities.  Please never freeze or microwave your glass toys, and dramatic changes of temperatures can be damaging (for example taking it out of the fridge and plunking it in a pot of boiling water).

Glass can be easily sterilized, either via boiling or with a bit of anti-bacterial soap and warm water.  This particular toy is also safe for anal play, and it’s small enough for the less experienced.

Personally I found this toy a bit too small.  Jack also found it difficult to turn, probably due to the smaller size.  I think had the disk portion been larger it would have been easier.  However, if you generally prefer a more slender or short toy, you will no doubt enjoy this particular piece.

While it wasn’t everything I dreamed it would be, it’s not a bad product overall.  As I said above, it’s perfect for women who find more traditionally sized toys a tad too large.

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What sets the rabbit pearl apart from other vibrators I’ve used is the fact that the controls are separate from the toy itself.  This is actually a lovely feature, because we all know how irritating it can be to try fiddling around down there when you’re all lubed up and about to have an orgasm.  The functions are controlled by two separate sliders, which is a fairly common feature amongst rabbits.  One slider for the vibration, another for the swivel of the shaft.

This particular rabbit is made out of elastomer, which is latex and phalate free (and therefore less likely to cause irritation or an allergic reaction).  Since this toy is NOT waterproof, care must be taken when cleaning.  Anti-bacterial soap and water, or an anti-bacterial wet wipe should do the trick.  Please do not expose it to extreme temperatures.

Due to the fact that rabbits have two motors, they unfortunately tend to burn out after only a few months of use.  I would recommend that you do not run the average rabbit for longer than 15-20 minutes at a time.  Like the furry mammal variety, these rabbits are sprinters, not long-distance runners.

I found the vibration intensity of the clitoral stimulator to be WAY more than adequate.  It was fantastic actually, and certainly got the job done in a hurry   It’s easy enough to position the little bunny ears juuuuuuuust right!

The pearls are situated low enough down on the shaft to be more stimulating that other varieties of the rabbit.  I found the fact that they bulge out from the rest of the shaft to be delightful.

The shaft portion was…meh.  Nothing to write home about really.  I LOVE the sensation of dual stimulation, and the shaft is certainly long and wide enough, but the motor seemed a little weak.  It did the trick for sure, but I think it could be a tad stronger.

That aside, this is a great little toy, and one of the more affordable rabbit toys out there.  As they say, there’s nothing quite like the original

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The sex toy industry has been happy to cater to those of us who wish to develop stronger kegel muscles and tighten ourselves up naturally, without the invasive surgical intervention.  One such product, which I’ve had the pleasure (and benefit) of testing is the Natural Contours Energie, brought to you by Adam & Eve.  This weighted pelvic floor exerciser is specially designed to provide the right amount of resistance to get those PC muscles in tip top shape.

Aside from making your vagina feel tighter, stronger pelvic muscles can result in longer and stronger orgasms, and a more fulfilling sex life overall.

I particularly like the shape of the energie, because the curve and bulbous ends work very, very well for g-spot stimulation.

To use this exerciser, simply stand with your feet a littler wider than shoulder width apart.  Begin with the larger end, and insert into the vagina until the toy is half-way inside of your body.  Then, clench your pelvic muscles and let go of the end you are holding.  Continue clenching, holding the energie inside of you for the count of 10, then hold onto the end while you relax and release.  Repeat this 12-15 times at least, increasing the number of repetitions as you feel able.  I would encourage you to do this daily, for no less than two weeks in a row, before you make any judgement of this product.  It’s a process, these things don’t happen overnight ya know.  Be mindful to do these exercises over carpet or a folded up towel/blanket.  This is just *my* personal preferred method, but you can also use the energie while laying on your back.  Simply insert it as described above and then imagine drawing it inside of you while you work your muscles.

Once you find the larger end is not much of a challenge, start using the smaller end in the same way.  Remember that once you achieve the desired result, you must continue to exercise those muscles or they will lose tone again.  10-12 reps every other day will be enough to keep those muscles tight and fit.

The energie is easy to clean with a little anti-bacterial soap and warm water.  I wouldn’t advise you to boil it, since the outside material is a sort of hard plastic and I have no idea what effect extreme temperatures might have on it.  Besides, it doesn’t have any seams or places for bacteria to become trapped, so a thorough washing will do the trick.

Since this toy is plastic, it’s hypo-allergenic, doesn’t have any scent, and as long as you keep it clean, should not cause you any irritation.

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First of all, I LOVE that it’s rechargeable.  Not having to fiddle with batteries is a relief, and unless you are planning to store it for long periods, the instructions encourage you to leave it plugged in so that it’s always ready for use.  Abandoning the batteries also allows for the diminutive size and particular shape of this product.

Unlike MOST dual-motor vibrators, you can run the We-Vibe™ for longer than 20-30 minutes without rest.  You won’t risk burning the motor(s) out if you use if for prolonged stretches (so many rabbits have come to bad ends in this way).  The motors have been tested extensively, and are desingned to run right until the battery begins to die, which will give you about 1.5-2.5 hours of bliss, depending on the speed you use.

It should be noted that the We-Vibe™ is nearly waterproof.  There is a tiny hole in the silicone where the charger is plugged in, so I wouldn’t recommend using it in a bathtub, but have at ‘er in the shower!

That said, cleaning this thing is super easy.  Just use warm water and a gentle antibacterial soap.  Please do not boil or freeze your We-Vibe™.  Running it through a dishwasher or washing machine is also not advised (glass toys and non-electric silicone toys are dishwasher safe, but please never put any toys through your washing machine).

I gave this toy a shot solo first, to see how powerful it was and to familiarize myself with the controls.  It looses points for only having two speed settings, but what it lacks in variety, it makes up for in comfort and shape.  The power switch is underneath the silicone and is changed by pressing on one of the dimples located on the clitoral stimulation end.  There are low vibration and high vibration settings, and the off position.

The We-Vibe™ has a comfortable fit and is flexible enough to conform to the specific shape of your body.  It rests on the clitoris just right, and provides surprisingly strong internal stimulation.

When used with a partner, this vibrator actually delivers!  Jack didn’t find it uncomfortable to share the space in my pussy with this particular toy.  The G-spot vibrator also provided some stimulation for him, and having him pressed against me, and hence against the vibrator increased the pleasure.

We tested this in several missionary-style positions, as well as from behind, and it worked wonderfully every time.  You may find it more satisfying to press the external portion against your clit during positions where your partner is behind you, or when you are on top.

I certainly found it adequate to provide an orgasm, and it has taken up permanent residence beside our bed.

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On to more lascivious things!

A good friend of mine over at Extreme Restraints was generous enough to send me a stainless steel kegel bar, which is designed to strengthen your vaginal muscles.  Why would you want to do that?  Well, it improves your muscle control and can make your vagina feel tighter.  When you ‘clamp down’ during sex, the sensation will be more intense.  Also, if you have any issue with bladder incontinence (meaning you sometimes pee a little when you laugh, sneeze, or cough) it will certainly help.  Don’t be embarrassed, it happens to many women, particularly if you’ve given birth.

This particular product is a weighted bar with three differently sized balls, one on each end and one in the middle of the shaft.  The idea is that you begin with the largest ball, and eventually work up to the largest.  There are several ways to use the kegel bar.  I began by standing with my feet a little wider than shoulder width apart (please don’t stand over hardwood or tile or any other sort of hard surface, in case the bar falls out) and then inserted the largest ball into my pussy, with the remainder of the bar outside of it.  Alternatively you could insert the entire bar, with the largest ball last.  Then you clench the muscles you use to hold or stop the flow of urine, let go of the bar, and hold for 5-10 seconds.  Hold onto the bar and relax your muscles for a few moment, and then repeat.  Much like lifting weights, repetitions are the idea.  Just putting the bar in and holding it for half an hour will not accomplish as much as alternating relaxing and clenching.  Do at least 12 repetitions, or more if you feel so enclined.

When you feel like it’s too easy using the largest ball, try holding in the medium one.  You can begin with the larger and medium ball inside of your vagina, and the smallest one on the outside, and then flip it over eventually.  The idea is to work up to having just the smallest ball inside of your pussy, and the rest on the outside.

If you use your bar at least once a day, you should begin to feel a difference after two weeks.  When I used mine consistently, Jack noticed that my muscles were stronger/tighter after about three weeks, and I wasn’t using mine every day.

I like that this bar is easily sanitized.  A little warm water and antibacterial soap before and after each use and you’re set.  You can also boil it in a pot of water (please NEVER leave toys unattended when you’re sanitizing them in this way).

Another attractive feature is that this toy is fantastic for anal play.  You can heat it up in warm water before use, or if you’re feeling cruel, throw it in the fridge for an hour before you impale your victim.  I’d only recommend this particular toy for more experienced anal enthusiasts.  Also, please never insert the entire bar into the anus.  Be sure to leave at least one of the balls on the outside of the body.

Both Jack and I can enjoy this toy, and I have to give it props for actually doing what it’s supposed to do.

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When they arrived I was surprised at their diminutive size.  I suppose I was expecting something a little larger.  I wasn’t certain that I’d even be able to move around without one of them slipping out.  I mean, I’m not ‘loose’ by any stretch, but these balls are hardly larger than a regular sized marble and I was skeptical that my vagina was that tight.

No matter, I put one, and then the other into my pussy and walked around.  If you put them in high enough, you probably won’t be able to feel them.  They are designed to strengthen your kegel muscles, not really for sexual pleasure.  The only sex-related side effect that I have experienced is that my pussy feels wetter than normal the entire time I am wearing them, which also sort of keeps me semi-horny the whole time.  Not a bad result if you ask me

Keeping them up inside seems to require a constant esmi-cleanched state. Knowing that you have them in also serves as a reminder to do your kegel exercises. After 2 hours of wearing them, I can certainly tell that my muscles have been working, LOL.

Eventually you become accustomed to wearing them, and because they are glass and therefore non-irritating, you can wear them for up to 12 hours at a time, although I don’t recommend doing so.  Three hours is plenty of time to wear them in a day, and you can do this consistently every day if you wish and it shouldn’t cause any problems.  Keeping anything in your vagina for long periods of time can irritate some people, so listen to your body.  Glass will also NOT give you Toxic Shock Syndrome, although please take care to wash your hands and the ben wa bells thoroughly with gentle anti-bacterial soap before you insert them.  This will also help prevent other irritation or yeast infections.

Speaking of cleaning, that’s one of the best characteristics of glass toys.  You can sterilize them quickly and easily using the above mentioned anti-bacterial soap, or boiling.  Please never leave a toy unattended in hot water, even glass.  Bring the pot to a rolling boil, allow the balls (or other glass toys) to boil for about 5 minutes, then remove from heat, scoop them out carefully with tongs or a slotted spoon and leave to dry on a paper towel or clean cloth.

These balls come with a lovely case, although it will not keep them totally clean between uses.  Always wash your toys before and after every use.

Please note that ben wa balls are NOT suitable for anal use.  Please do not ever put anything in your ass unless it has a string for retrieval, or a wide base to prevent it from getting lost.  Certainly you could argue that these balls could be pushed back out from whence they came, but it’s not a theory I would advise anyone to test.  Do you really want to be visiting the good Dr to have him retrieve flowery balls from your back end?

Another somewhat precarious situation is trying to go to the bathroom with these in.  My best advice is to take them out for sure if you need to have a bowel movement.  Having them drop into the toilet would be very bad for the enamel on the bowl itself, it could possibly (although unlikely) crack or chip the balls themselves, not to mention having to SCOOP THEM OUT so as not to damage your plumbing when you had to flush.  You can master the art of peeing with them inside you, although it will take a little practice.  You have to unclench the muscles required to allow urine to pass out of your bladder, at the same time not bearing down which could push them out.  So I would suggest either removing them before you empty your bladder, OR (and this is going to seem kind of gross) peeing into a container or through a strainer until you are confident you can manage it.

If you are a person who is fond of ice play (particularly ice inserted into the vagina, which is fun but not the best idea) these are ideal for such uses.  Leave them in the fridge (not the freezer, they can frost bite your insides) for a few hours or overnight and then try using them during masturbation or sexual play for extra fun!  Please do NOT leave them in during intercourse.

Inserting them and then gently inserting a vibrator so that it buzzes against them can also result in some very pleasurable sensations.  Don’t worry about them getting ‘lost’ up inside you.  Your cervix would certainly let you know, LOUD AND CLEAR, if you tried pushing them up too far.

I am so glad I decided to give these balls a chance.  They are much less intimidating than the Smart Balls if you have a narrow vagina, although large enough to be effective for the intended purpose.  If you’ve never given ben wa balls much thought, I encourage you to give these a try.

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Provided to me by Sensual Direct, these are actually some of the better ‘mass produced’ cuffs I’ve come across.  Sturdy, durable, and adjustable, they each have one D-ring, opposite the buckle, for attaching to things.  You know, like collars, or a post…

The particular cuffs are also somewhat padded inside, making them very comfortable for extended wear.  While they don’t appear to be lockable, almost any set of buckling cuffs can be made to lock.  Simply purchase small padlocks (I suggest purchasing a set of 4 or more which are all keyed the same, this makes it far easier to keep track of keys) that will fit through the buckle holes on these cuffs.  Once you have your victim securely buckled into them, simply slip the lock through the first hole that protrudes out of the ‘back end’ of the buckle.  The lock should make it impossible to pull the strap back through the buckle.  While this isn’t important to most people, I figured it was worth mentioning.

The only negative remark I can make when it comes to these cuffs is that the metal backs of the rivets used will be against your skin while you wear these.  For most people that is not a problem, but I know a few people who have sensitivities to metals such a nickel, and this could potentially irritate them.  Fortunately that is easily remedied with a couple of strips of faux fur or some other fabric which you can use to line the cuffs, or just over the rivets themselves (think along the lines of covering them with small circles of something).

I like that these cuffs aren’t overtly intimidating for beginners, and yet sturdy enough for more experienced players.  I keep them in my toy box as a pair of ‘extras’ for play parties or times when I don’t want to go to the hassle of wearing the set I had custom made some years ago (mine cannont be closed except with a padlock, which can be tedious and inconvenient at times, particularly for removal).  They also come with a nice double-ended snap, of which you can never have too many.

To keep these clean between play, I suggest applying a very small amount of gentle soap, such as Dove, to a damp (but well wrung-out) soft cloth, and then wiping the insides of the cuffs well, particularly around the rivets, where sweat and skin oils can collect.  Wipe again with a clean, damp cloth to remove any soap residue, and then dry thoroughly with another clean, soft cloth.

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This particular design is curved slightly, ideal for prostate stimulation or for stimulating the G-Spot. It’s slender, and the wide base makes it perfectly compatible with most ring-style harnesses. It also provides something to hold on to for manual use, and prevents it from going too far in during anal play.

Jack and I tested out this toy with one of our strap on harnesses and we enjoyed it very much! The silky smooth feel of this toy makes anal very comfortable, and I liked that I could select the perfect size for what we wanted.

Tantus toys are also very easy to clean. A little antibacterial soap and warm water will do it, or you can boil this toy for a couple of minutes (do NOT leave it unattended during that time, it’s easy to forget and ruin your play things).

Another important reminder, never use silicone based lubricant on your silicone toys. Water based lubes are the only type that I recommend for these toys. Please also be sure to keep your toys away from anything sharp which could pierce or otherwise damage the surface of the toy. Nia’s cat chewed on a lovely Tantus butt plug she owned, completely ruining it. Once the surface has been compromised, you can no longer effectively sterilize it.

Used alone or with a harness, this particular Tantus toy is certain to offer you years of anal or vaginal pleasure (provided you care for it well).

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What makes him different from other toys of this nature? Well Felix is made out of high-grade silicone, unlike most anal beads, which are made of plastic, or a rubber derivative. This means Felix is easily sterilized, which is oh so important when it comes to things that go in your butt. You can even boil him, but some antibacterial soap and warm water should be enough to keep him clean and ready for action.

Felix also has a very ingenious ‘handle’ unlike most anal beads, which makes me less nervous about the possibility of loosing him up inside myself. His eyes also provide handy loopholes for your fingers, for those climactic moments when you want to quickly (or slowly) yank out the whole string.

Speaking of string, promise me that you will never, ever, EVER purchase an anal toy that has uncoated string between the beads/balls. Some stings are coated in silicone (like on the smart balls) which protects the fibres from bacteria and fecal matter, which are difficult to remove from such a porous material. I don’t know about you, but the idea of icky little microbes having a hay day in/on any of my toys makes me want to writhe with disgust. Just, don’t do it. If you have such a toy I beg you to throw it away.

The beads of Felix are fairly small, making it ideal for beginners to anal play, or those like me who don’t need much to enjoy the sensation. Please remember not to use silicone lubricant on Felix, since it will ruin him. Water based lubes are fine.

I really enjoyed this little toy. He doesn’t look like much but man does he deliver. He’s small enough to hang out comfortably in my rear end while having vaginal intercourse, and his smiling face never fails to make me feel all tingly inside. He’s very flexible and even a little bit stretchy, which makes him all the more appealing.

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