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		<description><![CDATA[After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Fur by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/1111090170/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1155/1111090170_25bdca39f1_o.jpg" alt="I Hope That's Faux Fur" width="418" height="475" align="left" /></a>After the <a title="Spooning Leads To Forking" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/01/spooning-leads-to-forking/" target="_self">interesting adventure that was Friday night</a>, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy's that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn't slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the <a title="Careful, You May End Up In My Novel" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/26/careful-you-may-end-up-in-my-novel/" target="_self">scene from last weekend</a>. I'd also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he'd find tons of useful information in <a title="SM 101" href="http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t" target="_self">SM 101</a> By Jay Wiseman, and <a title="Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" href="http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1212411296&amp;sr=8-1" target="_self">Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns</a> By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

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We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

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The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I'll be attending my first play party later this month ;) Looking forward to that.

Bellies full, we sauntered back to Deja's place. Varick decided that all my cheekiness had certainly earned me a good whipping, so he sent me off to the dungeon to get ready. I stripped down, put on my cuffs, and waited for him by the St. Andrew's Cross. He opted to blindfold me again, and then snapped my cuffs to the cross and ran his hands up my body. He started on the outsides of my thighs, slowly proceeded up over my hips, my sides, around to my breasts, and then up to my collar bones. He was pressed against my back and his chin was resting on my shoulder. I was already trembling with anticipation, and when he asked if I was ready to begin, I nodded enthusiastically.

He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. "Harder" and "Green" were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja's single-tail, which hadn't been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the 'breeze' it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn't fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her <a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self">violet wand</a>, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off <a title="Bucket List" href="http://shastagibson.com/my-bucket-list/" target="_self">the bucket list</a>:
<p style="text-align: center;">413. <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">Have a </span><a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self"><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"><span style="color: #a90118;">Violet Wand</span></span></a><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"> used on me</span></p>
I could tell that something was off with Varick. He seemed different while he cleaned up, and I was unsure what was wrong. Deja had some things to do in her office so he and I went downstairs. I sat on the couch, stretched out on it, and had him come and sit down, between my legs, which I wrapped around him, with his cheek on my chest. I asked him quietly what was wrong and he said he just felt weird, and kind of down. I thought it might be Top Drop* so I just stroked his hair and kissed his forehead.

I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn't push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he'd let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say "Yeah, I do that to people all the time" but it wasn't really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn't feel like going out, but didn't want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he's usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

"Maybe he's falling for you and he's all conflicted about it" she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he'd said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he'd been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja's house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn't really expected that. He said he hadn't been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it's not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

"What happened to you?" I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn't allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he's been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy's without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn't in any shape to go and if he wasn't coming with us, we didn't want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked <a title="I Am Legend" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480249/" target="_self">I Am Legend</a>, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything 'scary' LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman :P

We settled in to watch. It wasn't as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don't think I'll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in <a title="Bettie Page" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0404802/" target="_self">The Notorious Bettie Page</a>, which I've seen before. I liked watching it again, because it's an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn't seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn't think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she's pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he's kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to 'go slow' with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn't want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I'm going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I'll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he's afraid of what's happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn't want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn't press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he'd want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the <a title="Tantra Chair" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=111" target="_self">Tantra chair</a>, and the <a title="Sex Swing" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=479" target="_self">sex swing</a>. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he'll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what's caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I'm actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: <em>Colloquial</em> A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Teh Innertubes Are Foar Pr0n?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/28/teh-innertubes-are-foar-pr0n/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, but anyway, he put it up on the Ryerson journalism website and I was quite pleased overall.  I noticed he did not include a direct link to this blog, which was a little disappointing, but no matter.
<blockquote>Shasta Gibson, who does nude webcam shows for JaneLovesDick.com, enjoys watching gay and lesbian porn and porn directed by women. Mainstream heterosexual videos just don’t do it for her.

“I prefer that the movie feel sensual and erotic, rather than fake and staged,” says Gibson, who also writes about sex, porn, toys and erotica on her blog, The Stiletto Diaries.

Gibson is also into watching amateur porn, like the stuff she’s in.

“I love to look at real people, having real sex, and enjoying themselves for the sake of pleasure rather than the almighty dollar,” Gibson says.</blockquote>
You can read the entire article <a title="Harlequin Romances And Hardcore Porn" href="http://www.journalism.ryerson.ca/entertainment_culture/sexopolis/Russ/my_porn_story.html" target="_self">here</a>.  My contribution begins on Page 4.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>When Is A Horse Not A Horse?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/21/when-is-a-horse-not-a-horse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?" Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?"

Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to in Alberta for as long as I can remember. We went out for breakfast as a family, lounged about in the afternoon, and then went out for supper as well. It completely threw off my regular schedule however, and so today only feels like Tuesday, which means I feel behind in my week already. Not that I am complaining about the extra day with Jack :)

Nia and I have been hitting the gym four times a week now, which seems to eat up at least a couple of hours on those days. It feels so good to be working out again. I needed to get out of the house this evening, so I treated myself to a new yoga mat and some sexy workout gear. One can never have too many good sports bras or lycra booty shorts.

This weekend I have a couple of dates lined up. Sunday I am having coffee with a friend who I've mentioned here before, but who has not been assigned a name as of yet. I did photos for her one Saturday afternoon not long ago, and we've hit it off quite excellently. I shall call her Miri, which means 'mine' and you can read into that however you will *sly wink*.

Afterwards, I am getting together with Nelek, for coffee and more lascivious things. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I likely won't be able to spend any time with him again until well into March. Thus, I am going to make the most of Sunday, as they say.

Today was spent indoors, tidying the house while I listened to episodes of <a href="http://polyweekly.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> on my iPod Touch (a generous Christmas gift from that fabulous husband of mine). Nothing like being elbow-deep in dishwater while Minx purrs on about responsible non-monogamy. She may yet inspire me to try doing a podcast of my own.

Before I leave off for the evening and crawl into bed with Jack, I have a favour to ask! I need some dare suggestions for an adult party. I know I've asked for this before, but this time I need them to be short and easily applied to a group of people who don't know each other well. We're going to be writing them on slips of paper and giving one to each guest at random. We've got things like "Show some skin" and "Introduce yourself to an attractive stranger" but I need quite a few more. So, think about going to a sexy adult party where you might not know anyone all that well. What sorts of dares would you like to see people do? What would you be willing to do? Leave me some comments please :D]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Go! Go Now!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/18/go-go-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this <a href="http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/polyamory-is-not-about-the-sex-except-when-it-is/">incredible article on polyamory</a> over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>He&#8217;d Fall In Love With A Can Of Soup If It Sucked His Dick</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/01/09/hed-fall-in-love-with-a-can-of-soup-if-it-sucked-his-dick/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I loved spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine. I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things. I hope you weren't too lonely without me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I <strong>loved</strong> spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine.  I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things.  I hope you weren't too lonely without me :)<br /><br />My New Years Eve was quite fabulous, and while most people do not get a lot of enjoyment out of January, Jack and I have an anniversary coming up which gives me something to look forward to.  Nia is able to come over to watch the kids for a few hours so that Jack and I can go out for sushi or something.  I haven't had sushi in a long time, so I am really looking forward to that.<br /><br />There is also a contest in the works here at SD.  I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, and I had intended to kick it off on January 1st, but was too tired and unmotivated to post anything that day.  At any rate, I'll be sharing the details on that later this week, or on the weekend.  There will be some awesome prizes involved!<br /><br />Jack has me hooked on this site he discovered called <a href="http://www.janelovesdick.com/">JaneLovesDick.com</a> which is a free site for adult web cam play.  Basically you sign up so that you can access the chatrooms where you can view the web shows of multiple people at a time.  Pretty hot stuff if you're a voyouer or an exhibitionist.  The people who participate on that site are normal, every day people like you and I.  Not super models by any stretch, nor is there any insulting or name calling, no matter what you look like.  Generally I just lurk, but who knows, one of these evenings Jack and I might put on a show there.  If you are into 'real people' porn, be sure to check it out.<br /><br />I know this isn't exactly a thrilling update, especially since I've been gone so long.  I hope you'll forgive me, I promise more excitement (or at least more substance) in the coming weeks.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Rock The Blogosphere</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/07/15/rock-the-blogosphere/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen Piper has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen <a href="http://pipersplace.diaryland.com/">Piper</a> has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/813425013/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1227/813425013_5a27842389_o.jpg" width="180" height="63" alt="Rockin Girl Blogger Award" /></a></center><br /><br />It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the sexy minxes they are!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Padme</a> - Padme and I go quite a ways back, and she's one of my very dearest friends and her blog is one of the coolest I know. She's been my biggest fan and one of my most regular commenters and she just rocks my world ;) Not to mention that the photos she and her husband post on their blog are enough to turn my knees to jello!<br /><br /><a href="http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com/">Shibari</a> - Ah how she spoils us with her gorgeous and sensual photos and the thoughtful posts that she writes on her 'confessional'. She is a new read for me, but one I have greatly enjoyed thus far!<br /><br /><a href="http://the-sensuous-libertine.blogspot.com/">Cherrie</a> - How boring the blogosphere would be without this articulate little sexpot. She's one of the main reasons I so look forward to HNT ever week.<br /><br /><a href="http://maybejustonce.blogspot.com/">JeN</a> - Even though she only updates once a decade, JeN will remain one of my favorite bloggers off all time. I believe this is the third incarnation of my blog, and she has been with me through all of them. My first good friend from blogland, and certainly one of the awesomest bloggers ever because like very few others, she is not anonymous!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mnsss.blogspot.com/">Anna</a> - I enjoy Anna's writing a great deal. There has always been a certain gentleness about it, a smooth sense of sensuality that is neither tawdry nor forced.<br /><br />There you go my girls! I adore each of you for your uniqueness and special appeal :) Unlike other 'blog fads' you do not need to feel obligated to keep this one going if you don't want to. However, should you have the desire, feel free to pass out a few to the rockin girl bloggers you love! Try to give them to people who haven't yet received one :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You Can Love More Than One</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.Take A Peek!Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.I do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.seemagazine.com/Issues/2007/0208/cover.htm">Take A Peek!</a><br /><br />Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.<br /><br />It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.<br /><br />I do have to give them props for using a MMF family, and not the 'typical' FMF. Having a bi-sexual male as the hinge in a V is a pretty cool thing.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>On Breaking Up</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/21/on-breaking-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 16:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.Now It's Time To Say GoodbyeNow dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.<br /><br />Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/Editorial/NOW-IT-S-TIME-TO-SAY-GOODBYE_23">Now It's Time To Say Goodbye</a><br /><br />Now dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely one party is just going along with the other in order not to make waves? Thoughts on such things are welcomes, as always :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blog Star!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/07/blog-star/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though. The show is totally kid-safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though.

The show is totally kid-safe (meaning there is not talk about sex nor any coarse language, unlike the rest of the blog, HA HA). Basically just a lot of basic information regrading polyamory.

Download it for free here: <a title="Radio Interview" href="http://www.mediafire.com/?zi4yeugt2yu" target="_blank">Poly Radio Program</a> staring SG!

Enjoy :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.LUST LIFE Polyamory By Stephanie Sellars]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm">LUST LIFE </a><br />Polyamory <br /><br />By Stephanie Sellars]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Column Updates</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column. Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far. Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:Fighting FairAdvanced Scheduling 101Links to be added to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column.  Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far.  Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_060106.html#top">Fighting Fair</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_061406.html#top">Advanced Scheduling 101</a><br /><br />Links to be added to my sidebar as soon as I get around to it, LOL]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions #4</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/05/01/angelic-notions-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2006 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:Social InsecurityIt's all about control and manipulation in relationships.Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_050106.html">Social Insecurity</a><br /><br />It's all about control and manipulation in relationships.<br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>All New Angelic Notions</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2006 16:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check it out. This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:Instinctual GreedHope you enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Check it out.  This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_041506.html#top">Instinctual Greed</a><br /><br />Hope you enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions, 2nd Edition</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Apr 2006 15:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My column for Polyamorous Percolations is up this morning. You can check it out by clicking here.Let me know what you think :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My column for <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> is up this morning.  You can check it out by clicking <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_040106.html#top">here</a>.<br /><br />Let me know what you think :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Freaking Famous!!!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 15:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, not exactly, LOL.So now for my big secret! A week or so ago, Chias of Polyamorous Percolations approached me about writing a regular column for the website. Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.I was flattered by his offer, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img align="left" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112895334_adfa4de71e_o.jpg" width="350" height="233" border="0" alt="Celebration" />OK, not exactly, LOL.<br /><br />So now for my big secret!  A week or so ago, <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/family.html#top">Chias</a> of <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> approached me about writing a regular column for the website.  Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.<br /><br />I was flattered by his offer, to say the least.  So of course I accepted, and the first edition of my column went 'live' on the website this morning!!!<br /><br />The title of my column is <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_031506.html#top">Angelic Notions</a> (since my handle on the website is Nobody's Angel).  Click on the name to read my very first contribution.<br /><br />I will be writing a column every two weeks from now on, and I will be adding an area to my sidebar with links to my columns.<br /><br />Anyway, I'm just excited as hell, can you tell???  Now, get over there and read my column and then come back here and tell me what you think!<br /><br />HUGS AND KISSES ALL!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>If You Click It, I Will Lick You</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage. Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.polyandproud.com/learn/narratives1.php">This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage</a>.  Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Resource And Dating Links</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/07/resource-and-dating-links/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2006 19:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon. In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.Adult Friend Finder - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon.  In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultfriendfinder.com">Adult Friend Finder</a> - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have been too lazy to put up a link.  Basically a big personals site for singles and couples looking for sex with other singles and couples.  I met K through the site, so I have to give it at least a mention, LOL.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/index.html">Polyamorous Percolations</a> - A really great resource about polyamory.  Loads of articles, reader question/comments, columns, etc.  So much that I haven't really had time to browse through everything, but I highly suggest paying a visit.<br /><a href="http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/"><br />Polyamory Livejournal Community</a> - Basically a big forum where people can ask questions and get answers from other members.  Lots of good discussions going on about common issues faced by people living in that type of lifestyle.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.lifestyleplayground.com">Lifestyle Playground</a> - We haven't had much time to properly check out this site.  It was recommended to Jack by a friend.  Very similar to Adult Friend Finder, but there are a lot more couples (at least in our area) than singles.<br /><br /><a href="http://polyweekly.livejournal.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> (Podcast) - A really interesting podcast hosted by Minx, discussing all kinds of things related to Polyamory and kink in general.  There is even a lot of hot erotica, so tune in as soon as possible.  Archived episodes also easily available there.<br /><br /><a href="http://newyorkmetro.com/lifestyle/sex/annual/2005/15063/index.html" target="_blank">The New Monogamy - Marriage With Benefits</a> - An excellent article from New York Metro Magazine<br /><p><br /><strong>The Ethical Slut</strong><br /><center><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1890159018/qid=1132882687/701-9074332-4813941"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1890159018.01._OU15_PE24_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a></center><br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html" target="_blank">Polyamory?</a> - A great wealth of information on the poly lifestyle, especially for beginners<br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.okcupid.com" target="_blank">OKCupid</a> - Very Poly-Friendly Personals Site<br /><p><br /><a title="Jane's Guide" href="http://www.janesguide.com"><img height="75" alt="Jane's Guide" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112030545_ecc1902677_o.gif" width="88" border="0" /></a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Click Me! Click Me!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2005/12/09/click-me-click-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2005 23:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it. It will be added to my sidebar as well.Polyamory?Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it.  It will be added to my sidebar as well.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html">Polyamory?</a><br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Three Isn&#8217;t A Crowd, It&#8217;s Just One More To Love&#8230;</title>
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		<title>Stiletto Diaries™ &#187; Resources And Links</title>
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		<title>Pristiq For Sale</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2010/11/01/the-top-sex-bloggers-of-2010/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2010/11/01/the-top-sex-bloggers-of-2010/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Nov 2010 19:28:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Pristiq For Sale, I know, I know, I am behind the times.  At any rate, Pristiq price, coupon, Pristiq steet value, I am so thrilled to be #38 on this years list of Top Sex Bloggers.  I am reposting the list for your enjoyment (and I heartily endorse #2, Pristiq blogs, Purchase Pristiq, 8, 12, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <b>Pristiq For Sale</b>, I know, I know, I am behind the times.  At any rate, <b>Pristiq price, coupon</b>, <b>Pristiq steet value</b>, I am so thrilled to be #38 on this years list of Top Sex Bloggers.  I am reposting the list for your enjoyment (and I heartily endorse #2, <b>Pristiq blogs</b>, <b>Purchase Pristiq</b>, 8, 12, <b>buy no prescription Pristiq online</b>, <b>Buy Pristiq online cod</b>, 20, 49, <b>Pristiq overnight</b>, <b>Pristiq from canadian pharmacy</b>, 71, 77, <b>Pristiq from canada</b>, <b>Where can i cheapest Pristiq online</b>, 78, and 91), <b>effects of Pristiq</b>.  <b>Pristiq recreational</b>, <ol><br />
	<li>(<a href="http://www.betweenmysheets.com/index.php/ok-lets-talk-about-the-2010-list">Please see this post</a>)</li><br />
	<li>TBK from <a href="http://thebeautifulkind.com/" target="_blank">The Beautiful Kind</a></li><br />
	<li>Iona and James from <a href="http://sapioslut.com/" target="_blank">SapioSlut</a></li><br />
	<li>Quizzical Pussy from <a href="http://quizzicalpussy.com/" target="_blank">Quizzical Pussy</a></li><br />
	<li>Sadie from <a href="http://www.sadiesopenmarriage.com/" target="_blank">Sexie Sadie’s Stories of Seduction</a></li><br />
	<li>Vixen from <a href="http://blue-eyedvixen.com/" target="_blank">Secrets of a Blue-Eyed Vixen</a></li><br />
	<li>Adrian Colesberry from <a href="http://blog.adriancolesberry.com/" target="_blank">Adrian’s Blog</a></li><br />
	<li>EA from <a href="http://easilyaroused.co.uk">Easily Aroused</a></li><br />
	<li>Guy New York from <a href="http://quickienewyork.com" target="_blank">Quickies in New York</a></li><br />
	<li>Joan from <a href="http://betterthanieverexpected.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Better Than I Ever Expected: Sex and Aging</a></li><br />
	<li>25 Things from <a href="http://25thingsaboutmysexuality.blogspot.com" target="_blank">25 Things About My Sexuality</a></li><br />
	<li>AAG from AAG Blog</li><br />
	<li>Bad, Bad Girl from <a href="http://bbgblog.com/" target="_blank">BBG Blog</a></li><br />
	<li>Holden from <a href="http://packingvocals.blogspot.com" target="_blank">Packing Vocals</a></li><br />
	<li>The blogging team at <a href="http://sexisfun.net/blogs/home.html">Sex is Fun</a></li><br />
	<li>Elle from <a href="http://www.kinkunleashed.com/" target="_blank">Kink Unleashed</a></li><br />
	<li>Rachel from <a href="http://rabbitwrite.com/" target="_blank">Rabbit Write</a></li><br />
	<li>Clarisse Thorn from <a href="http://clarissethorn.wordpress.com/">Pro-Sex Outreach, <b>where can i buy cheapest Pristiq online</b>, <b>Is Pristiq safe</b>, Open-Minded Feminism</a></li><br />
	<li>littlegirlyone from <a href="http://littlegirlyone.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">littlegirlyland</a></li><br />
	<li>Remittance Girl from <a href="http://remittancegirl.com/" target="_blank">Remittance Girl</a></li><br />
	<li>Mistress Arabella from <a href="http://bombshells-and-rockstars.com/" target="_blank">Bombshells &amp; Rockstars</a></li><br />
	<li>Axe from <a href="http://unspeakableaxe.com/" target="_blank">Unspeakable Axe</a></li><br />
	<li>Coke Talk from <a href="http://www.dearcoketalk.com/" target="_blank">Dear Coke Talk</a></li><br />
	<li>Jack from <a href="http://writingdirty.com/" target="_blank">Writing Dirty</a></li><br />
	<li>Kayar Silkenvoice from <a href="http://www.silkenonsex.com/" target="_blank">Silken on Sex</a></li><br />
	<li>The blogging team at <a href="http://www.gentlenibbles.com/" target="_blank">Gentle Nibbles</a></li><br />
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		<title>You&#8217;re My Favorite, Don&#8217;t Tell The Others</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Fur by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/1111090170/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1155/1111090170_25bdca39f1_o.jpg" alt="I Hope That's Faux Fur" width="418" height="475" align="left" /></a>After the <a title="Spooning Leads To Forking" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/01/spooning-leads-to-forking/" target="_self">interesting adventure that was Friday night</a>, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy's that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn't slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the <a title="Careful, You May End Up In My Novel" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/26/careful-you-may-end-up-in-my-novel/" target="_self">scene from last weekend</a>. I'd also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he'd find tons of useful information in <a title="SM 101" href="http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t" target="_self">SM 101</a> By Jay Wiseman, and <a title="Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" href="http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1212411296&amp;sr=8-1" target="_self">Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns</a> By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

He flipped through SM 101 and we read passages together, discussing some of the topics covered and commenting on a few things we'd like to try. He was especially glad to see a pre-scene negotiation section, as well as extensive checklists of BDSM related activities.

We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

At one point the sidewalk was too narrow for us to all walk side by side, so Deja and I fell into step behind Varick, and after a few yards of following him she and I exchanged looks and she remarked that we must look like a pimp with his bitches, and I started laughing so hard because I was having the exact same though. We're kind of ridiculous actually.

The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I'll be attending my first play party later this month ;) Looking forward to that.

Bellies full, we sauntered back to Deja's place. Varick decided that all my cheekiness had certainly earned me a good whipping, so he sent me off to the dungeon to get ready. I stripped down, put on my cuffs, and waited for him by the St. Andrew's Cross. He opted to blindfold me again, and then snapped my cuffs to the cross and ran his hands up my body. He started on the outsides of my thighs, slowly proceeded up over my hips, my sides, around to my breasts, and then up to my collar bones. He was pressed against my back and his chin was resting on my shoulder. I was already trembling with anticipation, and when he asked if I was ready to begin, I nodded enthusiastically.

He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. "Harder" and "Green" were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja's single-tail, which hadn't been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the 'breeze' it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn't fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her <a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self">violet wand</a>, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off <a title="Bucket List" href="http://shastagibson.com/my-bucket-list/" target="_self">the bucket list</a>:
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I could tell that something was off with Varick. He seemed different while he cleaned up, and I was unsure what was wrong. Deja had some things to do in her office so he and I went downstairs. I sat on the couch, stretched out on it, and had him come and sit down, between my legs, which I wrapped around him, with his cheek on my chest. I asked him quietly what was wrong and he said he just felt weird, and kind of down. I thought it might be Top Drop* so I just stroked his hair and kissed his forehead.

I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn't push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he'd let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say "Yeah, I do that to people all the time" but it wasn't really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn't feel like going out, but didn't want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he's usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

"Maybe he's falling for you and he's all conflicted about it" she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he'd said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he'd been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja's house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn't really expected that. He said he hadn't been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it's not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

"What happened to you?" I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn't allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he's been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy's without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn't in any shape to go and if he wasn't coming with us, we didn't want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked <a title="I Am Legend" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480249/" target="_self">I Am Legend</a>, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything 'scary' LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman :P

We settled in to watch. It wasn't as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don't think I'll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in <a title="Bettie Page" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0404802/" target="_self">The Notorious Bettie Page</a>, which I've seen before. I liked watching it again, because it's an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn't seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn't think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she's pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he's kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to 'go slow' with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn't want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I'm going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I'll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he's afraid of what's happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn't want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn't press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he'd want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the <a title="Tantra Chair" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=111" target="_self">Tantra chair</a>, and the <a title="Sex Swing" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=479" target="_self">sex swing</a>. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he'll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what's caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I'm actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: <em>Colloquial</em> A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Teh Innertubes Are Foar Pr0n?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/28/teh-innertubes-are-foar-pr0n/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, but anyway, he put it up on the Ryerson journalism website and I was quite pleased overall.  I noticed he did not include a direct link to this blog, which was a little disappointing, but no matter.
<blockquote>Shasta Gibson, who does nude webcam shows for JaneLovesDick.com, enjoys watching gay and lesbian porn and porn directed by women. Mainstream heterosexual videos just don’t do it for her.

“I prefer that the movie feel sensual and erotic, rather than fake and staged,” says Gibson, who also writes about sex, porn, toys and erotica on her blog, The Stiletto Diaries.

Gibson is also into watching amateur porn, like the stuff she’s in.

“I love to look at real people, having real sex, and enjoying themselves for the sake of pleasure rather than the almighty dollar,” Gibson says.</blockquote>
You can read the entire article <a title="Harlequin Romances And Hardcore Porn" href="http://www.journalism.ryerson.ca/entertainment_culture/sexopolis/Russ/my_porn_story.html" target="_self">here</a>.  My contribution begins on Page 4.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>When Is A Horse Not A Horse?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/21/when-is-a-horse-not-a-horse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?" Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?"

Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to in Alberta for as long as I can remember. We went out for breakfast as a family, lounged about in the afternoon, and then went out for supper as well. It completely threw off my regular schedule however, and so today only feels like Tuesday, which means I feel behind in my week already. Not that I am complaining about the extra day with Jack :)

Nia and I have been hitting the gym four times a week now, which seems to eat up at least a couple of hours on those days. It feels so good to be working out again. I needed to get out of the house this evening, so I treated myself to a new yoga mat and some sexy workout gear. One can never have too many good sports bras or lycra booty shorts.

This weekend I have a couple of dates lined up. Sunday I am having coffee with a friend who I've mentioned here before, but who has not been assigned a name as of yet. I did photos for her one Saturday afternoon not long ago, and we've hit it off quite excellently. I shall call her Miri, which means 'mine' and you can read into that however you will *sly wink*.

Afterwards, I am getting together with Nelek, for coffee and more lascivious things. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I likely won't be able to spend any time with him again until well into March. Thus, I am going to make the most of Sunday, as they say.

Today was spent indoors, tidying the house while I listened to episodes of <a href="http://polyweekly.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> on my iPod Touch (a generous Christmas gift from that fabulous husband of mine). Nothing like being elbow-deep in dishwater while Minx purrs on about responsible non-monogamy. She may yet inspire me to try doing a podcast of my own.

Before I leave off for the evening and crawl into bed with Jack, I have a favour to ask! I need some dare suggestions for an adult party. I know I've asked for this before, but this time I need them to be short and easily applied to a group of people who don't know each other well. We're going to be writing them on slips of paper and giving one to each guest at random. We've got things like "Show some skin" and "Introduce yourself to an attractive stranger" but I need quite a few more. So, think about going to a sexy adult party where you might not know anyone all that well. What sorts of dares would you like to see people do? What would you be willing to do? Leave me some comments please :D]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Go! Go Now!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/18/go-go-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this <a href="http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/polyamory-is-not-about-the-sex-except-when-it-is/">incredible article on polyamory</a> over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>He&#8217;d Fall In Love With A Can Of Soup If It Sucked His Dick</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/01/09/hed-fall-in-love-with-a-can-of-soup-if-it-sucked-his-dick/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I loved spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine. I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things. I hope you weren't too lonely without me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I <strong>loved</strong> spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine.  I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things.  I hope you weren't too lonely without me :)<br /><br />My New Years Eve was quite fabulous, and while most people do not get a lot of enjoyment out of January, Jack and I have an anniversary coming up which gives me something to look forward to.  Nia is able to come over to watch the kids for a few hours so that Jack and I can go out for sushi or something.  I haven't had sushi in a long time, so I am really looking forward to that.<br /><br />There is also a contest in the works here at SD.  I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, and I had intended to kick it off on January 1st, but was too tired and unmotivated to post anything that day.  At any rate, I'll be sharing the details on that later this week, or on the weekend.  There will be some awesome prizes involved!<br /><br />Jack has me hooked on this site he discovered called <a href="http://www.janelovesdick.com/">JaneLovesDick.com</a> which is a free site for adult web cam play.  Basically you sign up so that you can access the chatrooms where you can view the web shows of multiple people at a time.  Pretty hot stuff if you're a voyouer or an exhibitionist.  The people who participate on that site are normal, every day people like you and I.  Not super models by any stretch, nor is there any insulting or name calling, no matter what you look like.  Generally I just lurk, but who knows, one of these evenings Jack and I might put on a show there.  If you are into 'real people' porn, be sure to check it out.<br /><br />I know this isn't exactly a thrilling update, especially since I've been gone so long.  I hope you'll forgive me, I promise more excitement (or at least more substance) in the coming weeks.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Rock The Blogosphere</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/07/15/rock-the-blogosphere/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen Piper has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen <a href="http://pipersplace.diaryland.com/">Piper</a> has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/813425013/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1227/813425013_5a27842389_o.jpg" width="180" height="63" alt="Rockin Girl Blogger Award" /></a></center><br /><br />It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the sexy minxes they are!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Padme</a> - Padme and I go quite a ways back, and she's one of my very dearest friends and her blog is one of the coolest I know. She's been my biggest fan and one of my most regular commenters and she just rocks my world ;) Not to mention that the photos she and her husband post on their blog are enough to turn my knees to jello!<br /><br /><a href="http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com/">Shibari</a> - Ah how she spoils us with her gorgeous and sensual photos and the thoughtful posts that she writes on her 'confessional'. She is a new read for me, but one I have greatly enjoyed thus far!<br /><br /><a href="http://the-sensuous-libertine.blogspot.com/">Cherrie</a> - How boring the blogosphere would be without this articulate little sexpot. She's one of the main reasons I so look forward to HNT ever week.<br /><br /><a href="http://maybejustonce.blogspot.com/">JeN</a> - Even though she only updates once a decade, JeN will remain one of my favorite bloggers off all time. I believe this is the third incarnation of my blog, and she has been with me through all of them. My first good friend from blogland, and certainly one of the awesomest bloggers ever because like very few others, she is not anonymous!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mnsss.blogspot.com/">Anna</a> - I enjoy Anna's writing a great deal. There has always been a certain gentleness about it, a smooth sense of sensuality that is neither tawdry nor forced.<br /><br />There you go my girls! I adore each of you for your uniqueness and special appeal :) Unlike other 'blog fads' you do not need to feel obligated to keep this one going if you don't want to. However, should you have the desire, feel free to pass out a few to the rockin girl bloggers you love! Try to give them to people who haven't yet received one :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You Can Love More Than One</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.Take A Peek!Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.I do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.seemagazine.com/Issues/2007/0208/cover.htm">Take A Peek!</a><br /><br />Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.<br /><br />It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.<br /><br />I do have to give them props for using a MMF family, and not the 'typical' FMF. Having a bi-sexual male as the hinge in a V is a pretty cool thing.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>On Breaking Up</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/21/on-breaking-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 16:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.Now It's Time To Say GoodbyeNow dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.<br /><br />Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/Editorial/NOW-IT-S-TIME-TO-SAY-GOODBYE_23">Now It's Time To Say Goodbye</a><br /><br />Now dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely one party is just going along with the other in order not to make waves? Thoughts on such things are welcomes, as always :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blog Star!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/07/blog-star/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though. The show is totally kid-safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though.

The show is totally kid-safe (meaning there is not talk about sex nor any coarse language, unlike the rest of the blog, HA HA). Basically just a lot of basic information regrading polyamory.

Download it for free here: <a title="Radio Interview" href="http://www.mediafire.com/?zi4yeugt2yu" target="_blank">Poly Radio Program</a> staring SG!

Enjoy :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.LUST LIFE Polyamory By Stephanie Sellars]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm">LUST LIFE </a><br />Polyamory <br /><br />By Stephanie Sellars]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Column Updates</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column. Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far. Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:Fighting FairAdvanced Scheduling 101Links to be added to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column.  Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far.  Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_060106.html#top">Fighting Fair</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_061406.html#top">Advanced Scheduling 101</a><br /><br />Links to be added to my sidebar as soon as I get around to it, LOL]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions #4</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/05/01/angelic-notions-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2006 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:Social InsecurityIt's all about control and manipulation in relationships.Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_050106.html">Social Insecurity</a><br /><br />It's all about control and manipulation in relationships.<br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>All New Angelic Notions</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2006 16:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check it out. This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:Instinctual GreedHope you enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Check it out.  This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_041506.html#top">Instinctual Greed</a><br /><br />Hope you enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions, 2nd Edition</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Apr 2006 15:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My column for Polyamorous Percolations is up this morning. You can check it out by clicking here.Let me know what you think :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My column for <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> is up this morning.  You can check it out by clicking <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_040106.html#top">here</a>.<br /><br />Let me know what you think :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Freaking Famous!!!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 15:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, not exactly, LOL.So now for my big secret! A week or so ago, Chias of Polyamorous Percolations approached me about writing a regular column for the website. Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.I was flattered by his offer, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img align="left" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112895334_adfa4de71e_o.jpg" width="350" height="233" border="0" alt="Celebration" />OK, not exactly, LOL.<br /><br />So now for my big secret!  A week or so ago, <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/family.html#top">Chias</a> of <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> approached me about writing a regular column for the website.  Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.<br /><br />I was flattered by his offer, to say the least.  So of course I accepted, and the first edition of my column went 'live' on the website this morning!!!<br /><br />The title of my column is <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_031506.html#top">Angelic Notions</a> (since my handle on the website is Nobody's Angel).  Click on the name to read my very first contribution.<br /><br />I will be writing a column every two weeks from now on, and I will be adding an area to my sidebar with links to my columns.<br /><br />Anyway, I'm just excited as hell, can you tell???  Now, get over there and read my column and then come back here and tell me what you think!<br /><br />HUGS AND KISSES ALL!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>If You Click It, I Will Lick You</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage. Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.polyandproud.com/learn/narratives1.php">This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage</a>.  Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Resource And Dating Links</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/07/resource-and-dating-links/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2006 19:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon. In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.Adult Friend Finder - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon.  In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultfriendfinder.com">Adult Friend Finder</a> - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have been too lazy to put up a link.  Basically a big personals site for singles and couples looking for sex with other singles and couples.  I met K through the site, so I have to give it at least a mention, LOL.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/index.html">Polyamorous Percolations</a> - A really great resource about polyamory.  Loads of articles, reader question/comments, columns, etc.  So much that I haven't really had time to browse through everything, but I highly suggest paying a visit.<br /><a href="http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/"><br />Polyamory Livejournal Community</a> - Basically a big forum where people can ask questions and get answers from other members.  Lots of good discussions going on about common issues faced by people living in that type of lifestyle.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.lifestyleplayground.com">Lifestyle Playground</a> - We haven't had much time to properly check out this site.  It was recommended to Jack by a friend.  Very similar to Adult Friend Finder, but there are a lot more couples (at least in our area) than singles.<br /><br /><a href="http://polyweekly.livejournal.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> (Podcast) - A really interesting podcast hosted by Minx, discussing all kinds of things related to Polyamory and kink in general.  There is even a lot of hot erotica, so tune in as soon as possible.  Archived episodes also easily available there.<br /><br /><a href="http://newyorkmetro.com/lifestyle/sex/annual/2005/15063/index.html" target="_blank">The New Monogamy - Marriage With Benefits</a> - An excellent article from New York Metro Magazine<br /><p><br /><strong>The Ethical Slut</strong><br /><center><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1890159018/qid=1132882687/701-9074332-4813941"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1890159018.01._OU15_PE24_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a></center><br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html" target="_blank">Polyamory?</a> - A great wealth of information on the poly lifestyle, especially for beginners<br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.okcupid.com" target="_blank">OKCupid</a> - Very Poly-Friendly Personals Site<br /><p><br /><a title="Jane's Guide" href="http://www.janesguide.com"><img height="75" alt="Jane's Guide" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112030545_ecc1902677_o.gif" width="88" border="0" /></a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Click Me! Click Me!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2005/12/09/click-me-click-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2005 23:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it. It will be added to my sidebar as well.Polyamory?Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it.  It will be added to my sidebar as well.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html">Polyamory?</a><br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Three Isn&#8217;t A Crowd, It&#8217;s Just One More To Love&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2010/11/01/the-top-sex-bloggers-of-2010/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Nov 2010 19:28:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Pristiq For Sale, I know, I know, I am behind the times.  At any rate, Pristiq price, coupon, Pristiq steet value, I am so thrilled to be #38 on this years list of Top Sex Bloggers.  I am reposting the list for your enjoyment (and I heartily endorse #2, Pristiq blogs, Purchase Pristiq, 8, 12, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <b>Pristiq For Sale</b>, I know, I know, I am behind the times.  At any rate, <b>Pristiq price, coupon</b>, <b>Pristiq steet value</b>, I am so thrilled to be #38 on this years list of Top Sex Bloggers.  I am reposting the list for your enjoyment (and I heartily endorse #2, <b>Pristiq blogs</b>, <b>Purchase Pristiq</b>, 8, 12, <b>buy no prescription Pristiq online</b>, <b>Buy Pristiq online cod</b>, 20, 49, <b>Pristiq overnight</b>, <b>Pristiq from canadian pharmacy</b>, 71, 77, <b>Pristiq from canada</b>, <b>Where can i cheapest Pristiq online</b>, 78, and 91), <b>effects of Pristiq</b>.  <b>Pristiq recreational</b>, <ol><br />
	<li>(<a href="http://www.betweenmysheets.com/index.php/ok-lets-talk-about-the-2010-list">Please see this post</a>)</li><br />
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	<li>Iona and James from <a href="http://sapioslut.com/" target="_blank">SapioSlut</a></li><br />
	<li>Quizzical Pussy from <a href="http://quizzicalpussy.com/" target="_blank">Quizzical Pussy</a></li><br />
	<li>Sadie from <a href="http://www.sadiesopenmarriage.com/" target="_blank">Sexie Sadie’s Stories of Seduction</a></li><br />
	<li>Vixen from <a href="http://blue-eyedvixen.com/" target="_blank">Secrets of a Blue-Eyed Vixen</a></li><br />
	<li>Adrian Colesberry from <a href="http://blog.adriancolesberry.com/" target="_blank">Adrian’s Blog</a></li><br />
	<li>EA from <a href="http://easilyaroused.co.uk">Easily Aroused</a></li><br />
	<li>Guy New York from <a href="http://quickienewyork.com" target="_blank">Quickies in New York</a></li><br />
	<li>Joan from <a href="http://betterthanieverexpected.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Better Than I Ever Expected: Sex and Aging</a></li><br />
	<li>25 Things from <a href="http://25thingsaboutmysexuality.blogspot.com" target="_blank">25 Things About My Sexuality</a></li><br />
	<li>AAG from AAG Blog</li><br />
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	<li>Holden from <a href="http://packingvocals.blogspot.com" target="_blank">Packing Vocals</a></li><br />
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	<li>Elle from <a href="http://www.kinkunleashed.com/" target="_blank">Kink Unleashed</a></li><br />
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	<li>Clarisse Thorn from <a href="http://clarissethorn.wordpress.com/">Pro-Sex Outreach, <b>where can i buy cheapest Pristiq online</b>, <b>Is Pristiq safe</b>, Open-Minded Feminism</a></li><br />
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		<description><![CDATA[After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Fur by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/1111090170/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1155/1111090170_25bdca39f1_o.jpg" alt="I Hope That's Faux Fur" width="418" height="475" align="left" /></a>After the <a title="Spooning Leads To Forking" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/01/spooning-leads-to-forking/" target="_self">interesting adventure that was Friday night</a>, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy's that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn't slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the <a title="Careful, You May End Up In My Novel" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/26/careful-you-may-end-up-in-my-novel/" target="_self">scene from last weekend</a>. I'd also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he'd find tons of useful information in <a title="SM 101" href="http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t" target="_self">SM 101</a> By Jay Wiseman, and <a title="Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" href="http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1212411296&amp;sr=8-1" target="_self">Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns</a> By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

He flipped through SM 101 and we read passages together, discussing some of the topics covered and commenting on a few things we'd like to try. He was especially glad to see a pre-scene negotiation section, as well as extensive checklists of BDSM related activities.

We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

At one point the sidewalk was too narrow for us to all walk side by side, so Deja and I fell into step behind Varick, and after a few yards of following him she and I exchanged looks and she remarked that we must look like a pimp with his bitches, and I started laughing so hard because I was having the exact same though. We're kind of ridiculous actually.

The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I'll be attending my first play party later this month ;) Looking forward to that.

Bellies full, we sauntered back to Deja's place. Varick decided that all my cheekiness had certainly earned me a good whipping, so he sent me off to the dungeon to get ready. I stripped down, put on my cuffs, and waited for him by the St. Andrew's Cross. He opted to blindfold me again, and then snapped my cuffs to the cross and ran his hands up my body. He started on the outsides of my thighs, slowly proceeded up over my hips, my sides, around to my breasts, and then up to my collar bones. He was pressed against my back and his chin was resting on my shoulder. I was already trembling with anticipation, and when he asked if I was ready to begin, I nodded enthusiastically.

He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. "Harder" and "Green" were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja's single-tail, which hadn't been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the 'breeze' it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn't fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her <a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self">violet wand</a>, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off <a title="Bucket List" href="http://shastagibson.com/my-bucket-list/" target="_self">the bucket list</a>:
<p style="text-align: center;">413. <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">Have a </span><a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self"><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"><span style="color: #a90118;">Violet Wand</span></span></a><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"> used on me</span></p>
I could tell that something was off with Varick. He seemed different while he cleaned up, and I was unsure what was wrong. Deja had some things to do in her office so he and I went downstairs. I sat on the couch, stretched out on it, and had him come and sit down, between my legs, which I wrapped around him, with his cheek on my chest. I asked him quietly what was wrong and he said he just felt weird, and kind of down. I thought it might be Top Drop* so I just stroked his hair and kissed his forehead.

I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn't push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he'd let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say "Yeah, I do that to people all the time" but it wasn't really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn't feel like going out, but didn't want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he's usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

"Maybe he's falling for you and he's all conflicted about it" she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he'd said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he'd been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja's house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn't really expected that. He said he hadn't been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it's not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

"What happened to you?" I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn't allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he's been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy's without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn't in any shape to go and if he wasn't coming with us, we didn't want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked <a title="I Am Legend" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480249/" target="_self">I Am Legend</a>, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything 'scary' LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman :P

We settled in to watch. It wasn't as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don't think I'll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in <a title="Bettie Page" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0404802/" target="_self">The Notorious Bettie Page</a>, which I've seen before. I liked watching it again, because it's an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn't seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn't think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she's pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he's kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to 'go slow' with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn't want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I'm going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I'll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he's afraid of what's happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn't want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn't press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he'd want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the <a title="Tantra Chair" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=111" target="_self">Tantra chair</a>, and the <a title="Sex Swing" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=479" target="_self">sex swing</a>. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he'll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what's caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I'm actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: <em>Colloquial</em> A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Teh Innertubes Are Foar Pr0n?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/28/teh-innertubes-are-foar-pr0n/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, but anyway, he put it up on the Ryerson journalism website and I was quite pleased overall.  I noticed he did not include a direct link to this blog, which was a little disappointing, but no matter.
<blockquote>Shasta Gibson, who does nude webcam shows for JaneLovesDick.com, enjoys watching gay and lesbian porn and porn directed by women. Mainstream heterosexual videos just don’t do it for her.

“I prefer that the movie feel sensual and erotic, rather than fake and staged,” says Gibson, who also writes about sex, porn, toys and erotica on her blog, The Stiletto Diaries.

Gibson is also into watching amateur porn, like the stuff she’s in.

“I love to look at real people, having real sex, and enjoying themselves for the sake of pleasure rather than the almighty dollar,” Gibson says.</blockquote>
You can read the entire article <a title="Harlequin Romances And Hardcore Porn" href="http://www.journalism.ryerson.ca/entertainment_culture/sexopolis/Russ/my_porn_story.html" target="_self">here</a>.  My contribution begins on Page 4.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>When Is A Horse Not A Horse?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/21/when-is-a-horse-not-a-horse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?" Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?"

Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to in Alberta for as long as I can remember. We went out for breakfast as a family, lounged about in the afternoon, and then went out for supper as well. It completely threw off my regular schedule however, and so today only feels like Tuesday, which means I feel behind in my week already. Not that I am complaining about the extra day with Jack :)

Nia and I have been hitting the gym four times a week now, which seems to eat up at least a couple of hours on those days. It feels so good to be working out again. I needed to get out of the house this evening, so I treated myself to a new yoga mat and some sexy workout gear. One can never have too many good sports bras or lycra booty shorts.

This weekend I have a couple of dates lined up. Sunday I am having coffee with a friend who I've mentioned here before, but who has not been assigned a name as of yet. I did photos for her one Saturday afternoon not long ago, and we've hit it off quite excellently. I shall call her Miri, which means 'mine' and you can read into that however you will *sly wink*.

Afterwards, I am getting together with Nelek, for coffee and more lascivious things. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I likely won't be able to spend any time with him again until well into March. Thus, I am going to make the most of Sunday, as they say.

Today was spent indoors, tidying the house while I listened to episodes of <a href="http://polyweekly.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> on my iPod Touch (a generous Christmas gift from that fabulous husband of mine). Nothing like being elbow-deep in dishwater while Minx purrs on about responsible non-monogamy. She may yet inspire me to try doing a podcast of my own.

Before I leave off for the evening and crawl into bed with Jack, I have a favour to ask! I need some dare suggestions for an adult party. I know I've asked for this before, but this time I need them to be short and easily applied to a group of people who don't know each other well. We're going to be writing them on slips of paper and giving one to each guest at random. We've got things like "Show some skin" and "Introduce yourself to an attractive stranger" but I need quite a few more. So, think about going to a sexy adult party where you might not know anyone all that well. What sorts of dares would you like to see people do? What would you be willing to do? Leave me some comments please :D]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Go! Go Now!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/18/go-go-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this <a href="http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/polyamory-is-not-about-the-sex-except-when-it-is/">incredible article on polyamory</a> over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>He&#8217;d Fall In Love With A Can Of Soup If It Sucked His Dick</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/01/09/hed-fall-in-love-with-a-can-of-soup-if-it-sucked-his-dick/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I loved spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine. I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things. I hope you weren't too lonely without me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I <strong>loved</strong> spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine.  I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things.  I hope you weren't too lonely without me :)<br /><br />My New Years Eve was quite fabulous, and while most people do not get a lot of enjoyment out of January, Jack and I have an anniversary coming up which gives me something to look forward to.  Nia is able to come over to watch the kids for a few hours so that Jack and I can go out for sushi or something.  I haven't had sushi in a long time, so I am really looking forward to that.<br /><br />There is also a contest in the works here at SD.  I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, and I had intended to kick it off on January 1st, but was too tired and unmotivated to post anything that day.  At any rate, I'll be sharing the details on that later this week, or on the weekend.  There will be some awesome prizes involved!<br /><br />Jack has me hooked on this site he discovered called <a href="http://www.janelovesdick.com/">JaneLovesDick.com</a> which is a free site for adult web cam play.  Basically you sign up so that you can access the chatrooms where you can view the web shows of multiple people at a time.  Pretty hot stuff if you're a voyouer or an exhibitionist.  The people who participate on that site are normal, every day people like you and I.  Not super models by any stretch, nor is there any insulting or name calling, no matter what you look like.  Generally I just lurk, but who knows, one of these evenings Jack and I might put on a show there.  If you are into 'real people' porn, be sure to check it out.<br /><br />I know this isn't exactly a thrilling update, especially since I've been gone so long.  I hope you'll forgive me, I promise more excitement (or at least more substance) in the coming weeks.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Rock The Blogosphere</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/07/15/rock-the-blogosphere/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen Piper has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen <a href="http://pipersplace.diaryland.com/">Piper</a> has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/813425013/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1227/813425013_5a27842389_o.jpg" width="180" height="63" alt="Rockin Girl Blogger Award" /></a></center><br /><br />It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the sexy minxes they are!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Padme</a> - Padme and I go quite a ways back, and she's one of my very dearest friends and her blog is one of the coolest I know. She's been my biggest fan and one of my most regular commenters and she just rocks my world ;) Not to mention that the photos she and her husband post on their blog are enough to turn my knees to jello!<br /><br /><a href="http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com/">Shibari</a> - Ah how she spoils us with her gorgeous and sensual photos and the thoughtful posts that she writes on her 'confessional'. She is a new read for me, but one I have greatly enjoyed thus far!<br /><br /><a href="http://the-sensuous-libertine.blogspot.com/">Cherrie</a> - How boring the blogosphere would be without this articulate little sexpot. She's one of the main reasons I so look forward to HNT ever week.<br /><br /><a href="http://maybejustonce.blogspot.com/">JeN</a> - Even though she only updates once a decade, JeN will remain one of my favorite bloggers off all time. I believe this is the third incarnation of my blog, and she has been with me through all of them. My first good friend from blogland, and certainly one of the awesomest bloggers ever because like very few others, she is not anonymous!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mnsss.blogspot.com/">Anna</a> - I enjoy Anna's writing a great deal. There has always been a certain gentleness about it, a smooth sense of sensuality that is neither tawdry nor forced.<br /><br />There you go my girls! I adore each of you for your uniqueness and special appeal :) Unlike other 'blog fads' you do not need to feel obligated to keep this one going if you don't want to. However, should you have the desire, feel free to pass out a few to the rockin girl bloggers you love! Try to give them to people who haven't yet received one :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You Can Love More Than One</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.Take A Peek!Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.I do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.seemagazine.com/Issues/2007/0208/cover.htm">Take A Peek!</a><br /><br />Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.<br /><br />It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.<br /><br />I do have to give them props for using a MMF family, and not the 'typical' FMF. Having a bi-sexual male as the hinge in a V is a pretty cool thing.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>On Breaking Up</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/21/on-breaking-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 16:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.Now It's Time To Say GoodbyeNow dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.<br /><br />Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/Editorial/NOW-IT-S-TIME-TO-SAY-GOODBYE_23">Now It's Time To Say Goodbye</a><br /><br />Now dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely one party is just going along with the other in order not to make waves? Thoughts on such things are welcomes, as always :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blog Star!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/07/blog-star/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though. The show is totally kid-safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though.

The show is totally kid-safe (meaning there is not talk about sex nor any coarse language, unlike the rest of the blog, HA HA). Basically just a lot of basic information regrading polyamory.

Download it for free here: <a title="Radio Interview" href="http://www.mediafire.com/?zi4yeugt2yu" target="_blank">Poly Radio Program</a> staring SG!

Enjoy :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.LUST LIFE Polyamory By Stephanie Sellars]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm">LUST LIFE </a><br />Polyamory <br /><br />By Stephanie Sellars]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Column Updates</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column. Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far. Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:Fighting FairAdvanced Scheduling 101Links to be added to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column.  Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far.  Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_060106.html#top">Fighting Fair</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_061406.html#top">Advanced Scheduling 101</a><br /><br />Links to be added to my sidebar as soon as I get around to it, LOL]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions #4</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/05/01/angelic-notions-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2006 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:Social InsecurityIt's all about control and manipulation in relationships.Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_050106.html">Social Insecurity</a><br /><br />It's all about control and manipulation in relationships.<br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>All New Angelic Notions</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2006 16:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check it out. This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:Instinctual GreedHope you enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Check it out.  This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_041506.html#top">Instinctual Greed</a><br /><br />Hope you enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions, 2nd Edition</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Apr 2006 15:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My column for Polyamorous Percolations is up this morning. You can check it out by clicking here.Let me know what you think :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My column for <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> is up this morning.  You can check it out by clicking <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_040106.html#top">here</a>.<br /><br />Let me know what you think :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Freaking Famous!!!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 15:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, not exactly, LOL.So now for my big secret! A week or so ago, Chias of Polyamorous Percolations approached me about writing a regular column for the website. Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.I was flattered by his offer, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img align="left" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112895334_adfa4de71e_o.jpg" width="350" height="233" border="0" alt="Celebration" />OK, not exactly, LOL.<br /><br />So now for my big secret!  A week or so ago, <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/family.html#top">Chias</a> of <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> approached me about writing a regular column for the website.  Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.<br /><br />I was flattered by his offer, to say the least.  So of course I accepted, and the first edition of my column went 'live' on the website this morning!!!<br /><br />The title of my column is <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_031506.html#top">Angelic Notions</a> (since my handle on the website is Nobody's Angel).  Click on the name to read my very first contribution.<br /><br />I will be writing a column every two weeks from now on, and I will be adding an area to my sidebar with links to my columns.<br /><br />Anyway, I'm just excited as hell, can you tell???  Now, get over there and read my column and then come back here and tell me what you think!<br /><br />HUGS AND KISSES ALL!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>If You Click It, I Will Lick You</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage. Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.polyandproud.com/learn/narratives1.php">This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage</a>.  Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Resource And Dating Links</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/07/resource-and-dating-links/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2006 19:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon. In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.Adult Friend Finder - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon.  In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultfriendfinder.com">Adult Friend Finder</a> - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have been too lazy to put up a link.  Basically a big personals site for singles and couples looking for sex with other singles and couples.  I met K through the site, so I have to give it at least a mention, LOL.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/index.html">Polyamorous Percolations</a> - A really great resource about polyamory.  Loads of articles, reader question/comments, columns, etc.  So much that I haven't really had time to browse through everything, but I highly suggest paying a visit.<br /><a href="http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/"><br />Polyamory Livejournal Community</a> - Basically a big forum where people can ask questions and get answers from other members.  Lots of good discussions going on about common issues faced by people living in that type of lifestyle.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.lifestyleplayground.com">Lifestyle Playground</a> - We haven't had much time to properly check out this site.  It was recommended to Jack by a friend.  Very similar to Adult Friend Finder, but there are a lot more couples (at least in our area) than singles.<br /><br /><a href="http://polyweekly.livejournal.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> (Podcast) - A really interesting podcast hosted by Minx, discussing all kinds of things related to Polyamory and kink in general.  There is even a lot of hot erotica, so tune in as soon as possible.  Archived episodes also easily available there.<br /><br /><a href="http://newyorkmetro.com/lifestyle/sex/annual/2005/15063/index.html" target="_blank">The New Monogamy - Marriage With Benefits</a> - An excellent article from New York Metro Magazine<br /><p><br /><strong>The Ethical Slut</strong><br /><center><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1890159018/qid=1132882687/701-9074332-4813941"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1890159018.01._OU15_PE24_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a></center><br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html" target="_blank">Polyamory?</a> - A great wealth of information on the poly lifestyle, especially for beginners<br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.okcupid.com" target="_blank">OKCupid</a> - Very Poly-Friendly Personals Site<br /><p><br /><a title="Jane's Guide" href="http://www.janesguide.com"><img height="75" alt="Jane's Guide" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112030545_ecc1902677_o.gif" width="88" border="0" /></a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Click Me! Click Me!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2005/12/09/click-me-click-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2005 23:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it. It will be added to my sidebar as well.Polyamory?Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it.  It will be added to my sidebar as well.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html">Polyamory?</a><br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Three Isn&#8217;t A Crowd, It&#8217;s Just One More To Love&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/02/youre-my-favorite-dont-tell-the-others/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 16:31:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Fur by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/1111090170/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1155/1111090170_25bdca39f1_o.jpg" alt="I Hope That's Faux Fur" width="418" height="475" align="left" /></a>After the <a title="Spooning Leads To Forking" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/01/spooning-leads-to-forking/" target="_self">interesting adventure that was Friday night</a>, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy's that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn't slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the <a title="Careful, You May End Up In My Novel" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/26/careful-you-may-end-up-in-my-novel/" target="_self">scene from last weekend</a>. I'd also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he'd find tons of useful information in <a title="SM 101" href="http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t" target="_self">SM 101</a> By Jay Wiseman, and <a title="Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" href="http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1212411296&amp;sr=8-1" target="_self">Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns</a> By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

He flipped through SM 101 and we read passages together, discussing some of the topics covered and commenting on a few things we'd like to try. He was especially glad to see a pre-scene negotiation section, as well as extensive checklists of BDSM related activities.

We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

At one point the sidewalk was too narrow for us to all walk side by side, so Deja and I fell into step behind Varick, and after a few yards of following him she and I exchanged looks and she remarked that we must look like a pimp with his bitches, and I started laughing so hard because I was having the exact same though. We're kind of ridiculous actually.

The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I'll be attending my first play party later this month ;) Looking forward to that.

Bellies full, we sauntered back to Deja's place. Varick decided that all my cheekiness had certainly earned me a good whipping, so he sent me off to the dungeon to get ready. I stripped down, put on my cuffs, and waited for him by the St. Andrew's Cross. He opted to blindfold me again, and then snapped my cuffs to the cross and ran his hands up my body. He started on the outsides of my thighs, slowly proceeded up over my hips, my sides, around to my breasts, and then up to my collar bones. He was pressed against my back and his chin was resting on my shoulder. I was already trembling with anticipation, and when he asked if I was ready to begin, I nodded enthusiastically.

He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. "Harder" and "Green" were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja's single-tail, which hadn't been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the 'breeze' it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn't fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her <a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self">violet wand</a>, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off <a title="Bucket List" href="http://shastagibson.com/my-bucket-list/" target="_self">the bucket list</a>:
<p style="text-align: center;">413. <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">Have a </span><a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self"><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"><span style="color: #a90118;">Violet Wand</span></span></a><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"> used on me</span></p>
I could tell that something was off with Varick. He seemed different while he cleaned up, and I was unsure what was wrong. Deja had some things to do in her office so he and I went downstairs. I sat on the couch, stretched out on it, and had him come and sit down, between my legs, which I wrapped around him, with his cheek on my chest. I asked him quietly what was wrong and he said he just felt weird, and kind of down. I thought it might be Top Drop* so I just stroked his hair and kissed his forehead.

I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn't push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he'd let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say "Yeah, I do that to people all the time" but it wasn't really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn't feel like going out, but didn't want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he's usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

"Maybe he's falling for you and he's all conflicted about it" she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he'd said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he'd been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja's house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn't really expected that. He said he hadn't been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it's not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

"What happened to you?" I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn't allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he's been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy's without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn't in any shape to go and if he wasn't coming with us, we didn't want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked <a title="I Am Legend" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480249/" target="_self">I Am Legend</a>, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything 'scary' LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman :P

We settled in to watch. It wasn't as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don't think I'll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in <a title="Bettie Page" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0404802/" target="_self">The Notorious Bettie Page</a>, which I've seen before. I liked watching it again, because it's an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn't seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn't think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she's pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he's kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to 'go slow' with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn't want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I'm going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I'll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he's afraid of what's happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn't want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn't press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he'd want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the <a title="Tantra Chair" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=111" target="_self">Tantra chair</a>, and the <a title="Sex Swing" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=479" target="_self">sex swing</a>. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he'll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what's caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I'm actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: <em>Colloquial</em> A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You&#8217;re My Favorite, Don&#8217;t Tell The Others</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 16:31:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Fur by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/1111090170/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1155/1111090170_25bdca39f1_o.jpg" alt="I Hope That's Faux Fur" width="418" height="475" align="left" /></a>After the <a title="Spooning Leads To Forking" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/01/spooning-leads-to-forking/" target="_self">interesting adventure that was Friday night</a>, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy's that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn't slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the <a title="Careful, You May End Up In My Novel" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/26/careful-you-may-end-up-in-my-novel/" target="_self">scene from last weekend</a>. I'd also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he'd find tons of useful information in <a title="SM 101" href="http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t" target="_self">SM 101</a> By Jay Wiseman, and <a title="Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" href="http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1212411296&amp;sr=8-1" target="_self">Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns</a> By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

He flipped through SM 101 and we read passages together, discussing some of the topics covered and commenting on a few things we'd like to try. He was especially glad to see a pre-scene negotiation section, as well as extensive checklists of BDSM related activities.

We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

At one point the sidewalk was too narrow for us to all walk side by side, so Deja and I fell into step behind Varick, and after a few yards of following him she and I exchanged looks and she remarked that we must look like a pimp with his bitches, and I started laughing so hard because I was having the exact same though. We're kind of ridiculous actually.

The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I'll be attending my first play party later this month ;) Looking forward to that.

Bellies full, we sauntered back to Deja's place. Varick decided that all my cheekiness had certainly earned me a good whipping, so he sent me off to the dungeon to get ready. I stripped down, put on my cuffs, and waited for him by the St. Andrew's Cross. He opted to blindfold me again, and then snapped my cuffs to the cross and ran his hands up my body. He started on the outsides of my thighs, slowly proceeded up over my hips, my sides, around to my breasts, and then up to my collar bones. He was pressed against my back and his chin was resting on my shoulder. I was already trembling with anticipation, and when he asked if I was ready to begin, I nodded enthusiastically.

He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. "Harder" and "Green" were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja's single-tail, which hadn't been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the 'breeze' it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn't fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her <a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self">violet wand</a>, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off <a title="Bucket List" href="http://shastagibson.com/my-bucket-list/" target="_self">the bucket list</a>:
<p style="text-align: center;">413. <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">Have a </span><a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self"><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"><span style="color: #a90118;">Violet Wand</span></span></a><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"> used on me</span></p>
I could tell that something was off with Varick. He seemed different while he cleaned up, and I was unsure what was wrong. Deja had some things to do in her office so he and I went downstairs. I sat on the couch, stretched out on it, and had him come and sit down, between my legs, which I wrapped around him, with his cheek on my chest. I asked him quietly what was wrong and he said he just felt weird, and kind of down. I thought it might be Top Drop* so I just stroked his hair and kissed his forehead.

I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn't push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he'd let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say "Yeah, I do that to people all the time" but it wasn't really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn't feel like going out, but didn't want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he's usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

"Maybe he's falling for you and he's all conflicted about it" she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he'd said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he'd been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja's house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn't really expected that. He said he hadn't been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it's not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

"What happened to you?" I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn't allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he's been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy's without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn't in any shape to go and if he wasn't coming with us, we didn't want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked <a title="I Am Legend" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480249/" target="_self">I Am Legend</a>, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything 'scary' LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman :P

We settled in to watch. It wasn't as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don't think I'll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in <a title="Bettie Page" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0404802/" target="_self">The Notorious Bettie Page</a>, which I've seen before. I liked watching it again, because it's an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn't seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn't think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she's pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he's kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to 'go slow' with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn't want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I'm going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I'll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he's afraid of what's happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn't want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn't press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he'd want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the <a title="Tantra Chair" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=111" target="_self">Tantra chair</a>, and the <a title="Sex Swing" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=479" target="_self">sex swing</a>. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he'll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what's caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I'm actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: <em>Colloquial</em> A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Teh Innertubes Are Foar Pr0n?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, but anyway, he put it up on the Ryerson journalism website and I was quite pleased overall.  I noticed he did not include a direct link to this blog, which was a little disappointing, but no matter.
<blockquote>Shasta Gibson, who does nude webcam shows for JaneLovesDick.com, enjoys watching gay and lesbian porn and porn directed by women. Mainstream heterosexual videos just don’t do it for her.

“I prefer that the movie feel sensual and erotic, rather than fake and staged,” says Gibson, who also writes about sex, porn, toys and erotica on her blog, The Stiletto Diaries.

Gibson is also into watching amateur porn, like the stuff she’s in.

“I love to look at real people, having real sex, and enjoying themselves for the sake of pleasure rather than the almighty dollar,” Gibson says.</blockquote>
You can read the entire article <a title="Harlequin Romances And Hardcore Porn" href="http://www.journalism.ryerson.ca/entertainment_culture/sexopolis/Russ/my_porn_story.html" target="_self">here</a>.  My contribution begins on Page 4.]]></content:encoded>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?" Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?"

Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to in Alberta for as long as I can remember. We went out for breakfast as a family, lounged about in the afternoon, and then went out for supper as well. It completely threw off my regular schedule however, and so today only feels like Tuesday, which means I feel behind in my week already. Not that I am complaining about the extra day with Jack :)

Nia and I have been hitting the gym four times a week now, which seems to eat up at least a couple of hours on those days. It feels so good to be working out again. I needed to get out of the house this evening, so I treated myself to a new yoga mat and some sexy workout gear. One can never have too many good sports bras or lycra booty shorts.

This weekend I have a couple of dates lined up. Sunday I am having coffee with a friend who I've mentioned here before, but who has not been assigned a name as of yet. I did photos for her one Saturday afternoon not long ago, and we've hit it off quite excellently. I shall call her Miri, which means 'mine' and you can read into that however you will *sly wink*.

Afterwards, I am getting together with Nelek, for coffee and more lascivious things. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I likely won't be able to spend any time with him again until well into March. Thus, I am going to make the most of Sunday, as they say.

Today was spent indoors, tidying the house while I listened to episodes of <a href="http://polyweekly.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> on my iPod Touch (a generous Christmas gift from that fabulous husband of mine). Nothing like being elbow-deep in dishwater while Minx purrs on about responsible non-monogamy. She may yet inspire me to try doing a podcast of my own.

Before I leave off for the evening and crawl into bed with Jack, I have a favour to ask! I need some dare suggestions for an adult party. I know I've asked for this before, but this time I need them to be short and easily applied to a group of people who don't know each other well. We're going to be writing them on slips of paper and giving one to each guest at random. We've got things like "Show some skin" and "Introduce yourself to an attractive stranger" but I need quite a few more. So, think about going to a sexy adult party where you might not know anyone all that well. What sorts of dares would you like to see people do? What would you be willing to do? Leave me some comments please :D]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Go! Go Now!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/18/go-go-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this <a href="http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/polyamory-is-not-about-the-sex-except-when-it-is/">incredible article on polyamory</a> over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>He&#8217;d Fall In Love With A Can Of Soup If It Sucked His Dick</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/01/09/hed-fall-in-love-with-a-can-of-soup-if-it-sucked-his-dick/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I loved spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine. I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things. I hope you weren't too lonely without me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I <strong>loved</strong> spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine.  I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things.  I hope you weren't too lonely without me :)<br /><br />My New Years Eve was quite fabulous, and while most people do not get a lot of enjoyment out of January, Jack and I have an anniversary coming up which gives me something to look forward to.  Nia is able to come over to watch the kids for a few hours so that Jack and I can go out for sushi or something.  I haven't had sushi in a long time, so I am really looking forward to that.<br /><br />There is also a contest in the works here at SD.  I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, and I had intended to kick it off on January 1st, but was too tired and unmotivated to post anything that day.  At any rate, I'll be sharing the details on that later this week, or on the weekend.  There will be some awesome prizes involved!<br /><br />Jack has me hooked on this site he discovered called <a href="http://www.janelovesdick.com/">JaneLovesDick.com</a> which is a free site for adult web cam play.  Basically you sign up so that you can access the chatrooms where you can view the web shows of multiple people at a time.  Pretty hot stuff if you're a voyouer or an exhibitionist.  The people who participate on that site are normal, every day people like you and I.  Not super models by any stretch, nor is there any insulting or name calling, no matter what you look like.  Generally I just lurk, but who knows, one of these evenings Jack and I might put on a show there.  If you are into 'real people' porn, be sure to check it out.<br /><br />I know this isn't exactly a thrilling update, especially since I've been gone so long.  I hope you'll forgive me, I promise more excitement (or at least more substance) in the coming weeks.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Rock The Blogosphere</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/07/15/rock-the-blogosphere/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen Piper has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen <a href="http://pipersplace.diaryland.com/">Piper</a> has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/813425013/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1227/813425013_5a27842389_o.jpg" width="180" height="63" alt="Rockin Girl Blogger Award" /></a></center><br /><br />It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the sexy minxes they are!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Padme</a> - Padme and I go quite a ways back, and she's one of my very dearest friends and her blog is one of the coolest I know. She's been my biggest fan and one of my most regular commenters and she just rocks my world ;) Not to mention that the photos she and her husband post on their blog are enough to turn my knees to jello!<br /><br /><a href="http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com/">Shibari</a> - Ah how she spoils us with her gorgeous and sensual photos and the thoughtful posts that she writes on her 'confessional'. She is a new read for me, but one I have greatly enjoyed thus far!<br /><br /><a href="http://the-sensuous-libertine.blogspot.com/">Cherrie</a> - How boring the blogosphere would be without this articulate little sexpot. She's one of the main reasons I so look forward to HNT ever week.<br /><br /><a href="http://maybejustonce.blogspot.com/">JeN</a> - Even though she only updates once a decade, JeN will remain one of my favorite bloggers off all time. I believe this is the third incarnation of my blog, and she has been with me through all of them. My first good friend from blogland, and certainly one of the awesomest bloggers ever because like very few others, she is not anonymous!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mnsss.blogspot.com/">Anna</a> - I enjoy Anna's writing a great deal. There has always been a certain gentleness about it, a smooth sense of sensuality that is neither tawdry nor forced.<br /><br />There you go my girls! I adore each of you for your uniqueness and special appeal :) Unlike other 'blog fads' you do not need to feel obligated to keep this one going if you don't want to. However, should you have the desire, feel free to pass out a few to the rockin girl bloggers you love! Try to give them to people who haven't yet received one :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You Can Love More Than One</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.Take A Peek!Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.I do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.seemagazine.com/Issues/2007/0208/cover.htm">Take A Peek!</a><br /><br />Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.<br /><br />It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.<br /><br />I do have to give them props for using a MMF family, and not the 'typical' FMF. Having a bi-sexual male as the hinge in a V is a pretty cool thing.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>On Breaking Up</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/21/on-breaking-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 16:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.Now It's Time To Say GoodbyeNow dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.<br /><br />Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/Editorial/NOW-IT-S-TIME-TO-SAY-GOODBYE_23">Now It's Time To Say Goodbye</a><br /><br />Now dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely one party is just going along with the other in order not to make waves? Thoughts on such things are welcomes, as always :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blog Star!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/07/blog-star/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though. The show is totally kid-safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though.

The show is totally kid-safe (meaning there is not talk about sex nor any coarse language, unlike the rest of the blog, HA HA). Basically just a lot of basic information regrading polyamory.

Download it for free here: <a title="Radio Interview" href="http://www.mediafire.com/?zi4yeugt2yu" target="_blank">Poly Radio Program</a> staring SG!

Enjoy :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.LUST LIFE Polyamory By Stephanie Sellars]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm">LUST LIFE </a><br />Polyamory <br /><br />By Stephanie Sellars]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Column Updates</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column. Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far. Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:Fighting FairAdvanced Scheduling 101Links to be added to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column.  Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far.  Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_060106.html#top">Fighting Fair</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_061406.html#top">Advanced Scheduling 101</a><br /><br />Links to be added to my sidebar as soon as I get around to it, LOL]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions #4</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/05/01/angelic-notions-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2006 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:Social InsecurityIt's all about control and manipulation in relationships.Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_050106.html">Social Insecurity</a><br /><br />It's all about control and manipulation in relationships.<br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>All New Angelic Notions</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2006 16:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check it out. This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:Instinctual GreedHope you enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Check it out.  This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_041506.html#top">Instinctual Greed</a><br /><br />Hope you enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions, 2nd Edition</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Apr 2006 15:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My column for Polyamorous Percolations is up this morning. You can check it out by clicking here.Let me know what you think :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My column for <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> is up this morning.  You can check it out by clicking <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_040106.html#top">here</a>.<br /><br />Let me know what you think :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Freaking Famous!!!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 15:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, not exactly, LOL.So now for my big secret! A week or so ago, Chias of Polyamorous Percolations approached me about writing a regular column for the website. Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.I was flattered by his offer, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img align="left" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112895334_adfa4de71e_o.jpg" width="350" height="233" border="0" alt="Celebration" />OK, not exactly, LOL.<br /><br />So now for my big secret!  A week or so ago, <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/family.html#top">Chias</a> of <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> approached me about writing a regular column for the website.  Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.<br /><br />I was flattered by his offer, to say the least.  So of course I accepted, and the first edition of my column went 'live' on the website this morning!!!<br /><br />The title of my column is <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_031506.html#top">Angelic Notions</a> (since my handle on the website is Nobody's Angel).  Click on the name to read my very first contribution.<br /><br />I will be writing a column every two weeks from now on, and I will be adding an area to my sidebar with links to my columns.<br /><br />Anyway, I'm just excited as hell, can you tell???  Now, get over there and read my column and then come back here and tell me what you think!<br /><br />HUGS AND KISSES ALL!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>If You Click It, I Will Lick You</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage. Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.polyandproud.com/learn/narratives1.php">This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage</a>.  Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Resource And Dating Links</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2006 19:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon. In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.Adult Friend Finder - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon.  In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultfriendfinder.com">Adult Friend Finder</a> - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have been too lazy to put up a link.  Basically a big personals site for singles and couples looking for sex with other singles and couples.  I met K through the site, so I have to give it at least a mention, LOL.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/index.html">Polyamorous Percolations</a> - A really great resource about polyamory.  Loads of articles, reader question/comments, columns, etc.  So much that I haven't really had time to browse through everything, but I highly suggest paying a visit.<br /><a href="http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/"><br />Polyamory Livejournal Community</a> - Basically a big forum where people can ask questions and get answers from other members.  Lots of good discussions going on about common issues faced by people living in that type of lifestyle.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.lifestyleplayground.com">Lifestyle Playground</a> - We haven't had much time to properly check out this site.  It was recommended to Jack by a friend.  Very similar to Adult Friend Finder, but there are a lot more couples (at least in our area) than singles.<br /><br /><a href="http://polyweekly.livejournal.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> (Podcast) - A really interesting podcast hosted by Minx, discussing all kinds of things related to Polyamory and kink in general.  There is even a lot of hot erotica, so tune in as soon as possible.  Archived episodes also easily available there.<br /><br /><a href="http://newyorkmetro.com/lifestyle/sex/annual/2005/15063/index.html" target="_blank">The New Monogamy - Marriage With Benefits</a> - An excellent article from New York Metro Magazine<br /><p><br /><strong>The Ethical Slut</strong><br /><center><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1890159018/qid=1132882687/701-9074332-4813941"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1890159018.01._OU15_PE24_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a></center><br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html" target="_blank">Polyamory?</a> - A great wealth of information on the poly lifestyle, especially for beginners<br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.okcupid.com" target="_blank">OKCupid</a> - Very Poly-Friendly Personals Site<br /><p><br /><a title="Jane's Guide" href="http://www.janesguide.com"><img height="75" alt="Jane's Guide" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112030545_ecc1902677_o.gif" width="88" border="0" /></a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2005 23:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it. It will be added to my sidebar as well.Polyamory?Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it.  It will be added to my sidebar as well.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html">Polyamory?</a><br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Three Isn&#8217;t A Crowd, It&#8217;s Just One More To Love&#8230;</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, but anyway, he put it up on the Ryerson journalism website and I was quite pleased overall.  I noticed he did not include a direct link to this blog, which was a little disappointing, but no matter.
<blockquote>Shasta Gibson, who does nude webcam shows for JaneLovesDick.com, enjoys watching gay and lesbian porn and porn directed by women. Mainstream heterosexual videos just don’t do it for her.

“I prefer that the movie feel sensual and erotic, rather than fake and staged,” says Gibson, who also writes about sex, porn, toys and erotica on her blog, The Stiletto Diaries.

Gibson is also into watching amateur porn, like the stuff she’s in.

“I love to look at real people, having real sex, and enjoying themselves for the sake of pleasure rather than the almighty dollar,” Gibson says.</blockquote>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Nov 2010 19:28:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>You&#8217;re My Favorite, Don&#8217;t Tell The Others</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 16:31:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Fur by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/1111090170/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1155/1111090170_25bdca39f1_o.jpg" alt="I Hope That's Faux Fur" width="418" height="475" align="left" /></a>After the <a title="Spooning Leads To Forking" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/01/spooning-leads-to-forking/" target="_self">interesting adventure that was Friday night</a>, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy's that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn't slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the <a title="Careful, You May End Up In My Novel" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/26/careful-you-may-end-up-in-my-novel/" target="_self">scene from last weekend</a>. I'd also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he'd find tons of useful information in <a title="SM 101" href="http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t" target="_self">SM 101</a> By Jay Wiseman, and <a title="Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" href="http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1212411296&amp;sr=8-1" target="_self">Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns</a> By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

He flipped through SM 101 and we read passages together, discussing some of the topics covered and commenting on a few things we'd like to try. He was especially glad to see a pre-scene negotiation section, as well as extensive checklists of BDSM related activities.

We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

At one point the sidewalk was too narrow for us to all walk side by side, so Deja and I fell into step behind Varick, and after a few yards of following him she and I exchanged looks and she remarked that we must look like a pimp with his bitches, and I started laughing so hard because I was having the exact same though. We're kind of ridiculous actually.

The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I'll be attending my first play party later this month ;) Looking forward to that.

Bellies full, we sauntered back to Deja's place. Varick decided that all my cheekiness had certainly earned me a good whipping, so he sent me off to the dungeon to get ready. I stripped down, put on my cuffs, and waited for him by the St. Andrew's Cross. He opted to blindfold me again, and then snapped my cuffs to the cross and ran his hands up my body. He started on the outsides of my thighs, slowly proceeded up over my hips, my sides, around to my breasts, and then up to my collar bones. He was pressed against my back and his chin was resting on my shoulder. I was already trembling with anticipation, and when he asked if I was ready to begin, I nodded enthusiastically.

He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. "Harder" and "Green" were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja's single-tail, which hadn't been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the 'breeze' it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn't fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her <a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self">violet wand</a>, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off <a title="Bucket List" href="http://shastagibson.com/my-bucket-list/" target="_self">the bucket list</a>:
<p style="text-align: center;">413. <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">Have a </span><a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self"><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"><span style="color: #a90118;">Violet Wand</span></span></a><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"> used on me</span></p>
I could tell that something was off with Varick. He seemed different while he cleaned up, and I was unsure what was wrong. Deja had some things to do in her office so he and I went downstairs. I sat on the couch, stretched out on it, and had him come and sit down, between my legs, which I wrapped around him, with his cheek on my chest. I asked him quietly what was wrong and he said he just felt weird, and kind of down. I thought it might be Top Drop* so I just stroked his hair and kissed his forehead.

I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn't push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he'd let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say "Yeah, I do that to people all the time" but it wasn't really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn't feel like going out, but didn't want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he's usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

"Maybe he's falling for you and he's all conflicted about it" she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he'd said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he'd been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja's house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn't really expected that. He said he hadn't been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it's not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

"What happened to you?" I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn't allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he's been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy's without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn't in any shape to go and if he wasn't coming with us, we didn't want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked <a title="I Am Legend" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480249/" target="_self">I Am Legend</a>, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything 'scary' LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman :P

We settled in to watch. It wasn't as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don't think I'll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in <a title="Bettie Page" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0404802/" target="_self">The Notorious Bettie Page</a>, which I've seen before. I liked watching it again, because it's an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn't seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn't think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she's pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he's kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to 'go slow' with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn't want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I'm going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I'll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he's afraid of what's happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn't want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn't press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he'd want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the <a title="Tantra Chair" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=111" target="_self">Tantra chair</a>, and the <a title="Sex Swing" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=479" target="_self">sex swing</a>. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he'll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what's caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I'm actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: <em>Colloquial</em> A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Teh Innertubes Are Foar Pr0n?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/28/teh-innertubes-are-foar-pr0n/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, but anyway, he put it up on the Ryerson journalism website and I was quite pleased overall.  I noticed he did not include a direct link to this blog, which was a little disappointing, but no matter.
<blockquote>Shasta Gibson, who does nude webcam shows for JaneLovesDick.com, enjoys watching gay and lesbian porn and porn directed by women. Mainstream heterosexual videos just don’t do it for her.

“I prefer that the movie feel sensual and erotic, rather than fake and staged,” says Gibson, who also writes about sex, porn, toys and erotica on her blog, The Stiletto Diaries.

Gibson is also into watching amateur porn, like the stuff she’s in.

“I love to look at real people, having real sex, and enjoying themselves for the sake of pleasure rather than the almighty dollar,” Gibson says.</blockquote>
You can read the entire article <a title="Harlequin Romances And Hardcore Porn" href="http://www.journalism.ryerson.ca/entertainment_culture/sexopolis/Russ/my_porn_story.html" target="_self">here</a>.  My contribution begins on Page 4.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>When Is A Horse Not A Horse?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?" Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?"

Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to in Alberta for as long as I can remember. We went out for breakfast as a family, lounged about in the afternoon, and then went out for supper as well. It completely threw off my regular schedule however, and so today only feels like Tuesday, which means I feel behind in my week already. Not that I am complaining about the extra day with Jack :)

Nia and I have been hitting the gym four times a week now, which seems to eat up at least a couple of hours on those days. It feels so good to be working out again. I needed to get out of the house this evening, so I treated myself to a new yoga mat and some sexy workout gear. One can never have too many good sports bras or lycra booty shorts.

This weekend I have a couple of dates lined up. Sunday I am having coffee with a friend who I've mentioned here before, but who has not been assigned a name as of yet. I did photos for her one Saturday afternoon not long ago, and we've hit it off quite excellently. I shall call her Miri, which means 'mine' and you can read into that however you will *sly wink*.

Afterwards, I am getting together with Nelek, for coffee and more lascivious things. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I likely won't be able to spend any time with him again until well into March. Thus, I am going to make the most of Sunday, as they say.

Today was spent indoors, tidying the house while I listened to episodes of <a href="http://polyweekly.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> on my iPod Touch (a generous Christmas gift from that fabulous husband of mine). Nothing like being elbow-deep in dishwater while Minx purrs on about responsible non-monogamy. She may yet inspire me to try doing a podcast of my own.

Before I leave off for the evening and crawl into bed with Jack, I have a favour to ask! I need some dare suggestions for an adult party. I know I've asked for this before, but this time I need them to be short and easily applied to a group of people who don't know each other well. We're going to be writing them on slips of paper and giving one to each guest at random. We've got things like "Show some skin" and "Introduce yourself to an attractive stranger" but I need quite a few more. So, think about going to a sexy adult party where you might not know anyone all that well. What sorts of dares would you like to see people do? What would you be willing to do? Leave me some comments please :D]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Go! Go Now!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/18/go-go-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this <a href="http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/polyamory-is-not-about-the-sex-except-when-it-is/">incredible article on polyamory</a> over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>He&#8217;d Fall In Love With A Can Of Soup If It Sucked His Dick</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/01/09/hed-fall-in-love-with-a-can-of-soup-if-it-sucked-his-dick/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I loved spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine. I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things. I hope you weren't too lonely without me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I <strong>loved</strong> spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine.  I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things.  I hope you weren't too lonely without me :)<br /><br />My New Years Eve was quite fabulous, and while most people do not get a lot of enjoyment out of January, Jack and I have an anniversary coming up which gives me something to look forward to.  Nia is able to come over to watch the kids for a few hours so that Jack and I can go out for sushi or something.  I haven't had sushi in a long time, so I am really looking forward to that.<br /><br />There is also a contest in the works here at SD.  I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, and I had intended to kick it off on January 1st, but was too tired and unmotivated to post anything that day.  At any rate, I'll be sharing the details on that later this week, or on the weekend.  There will be some awesome prizes involved!<br /><br />Jack has me hooked on this site he discovered called <a href="http://www.janelovesdick.com/">JaneLovesDick.com</a> which is a free site for adult web cam play.  Basically you sign up so that you can access the chatrooms where you can view the web shows of multiple people at a time.  Pretty hot stuff if you're a voyouer or an exhibitionist.  The people who participate on that site are normal, every day people like you and I.  Not super models by any stretch, nor is there any insulting or name calling, no matter what you look like.  Generally I just lurk, but who knows, one of these evenings Jack and I might put on a show there.  If you are into 'real people' porn, be sure to check it out.<br /><br />I know this isn't exactly a thrilling update, especially since I've been gone so long.  I hope you'll forgive me, I promise more excitement (or at least more substance) in the coming weeks.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Rock The Blogosphere</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/07/15/rock-the-blogosphere/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen Piper has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen <a href="http://pipersplace.diaryland.com/">Piper</a> has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/813425013/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1227/813425013_5a27842389_o.jpg" width="180" height="63" alt="Rockin Girl Blogger Award" /></a></center><br /><br />It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the sexy minxes they are!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Padme</a> - Padme and I go quite a ways back, and she's one of my very dearest friends and her blog is one of the coolest I know. She's been my biggest fan and one of my most regular commenters and she just rocks my world ;) Not to mention that the photos she and her husband post on their blog are enough to turn my knees to jello!<br /><br /><a href="http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com/">Shibari</a> - Ah how she spoils us with her gorgeous and sensual photos and the thoughtful posts that she writes on her 'confessional'. She is a new read for me, but one I have greatly enjoyed thus far!<br /><br /><a href="http://the-sensuous-libertine.blogspot.com/">Cherrie</a> - How boring the blogosphere would be without this articulate little sexpot. She's one of the main reasons I so look forward to HNT ever week.<br /><br /><a href="http://maybejustonce.blogspot.com/">JeN</a> - Even though she only updates once a decade, JeN will remain one of my favorite bloggers off all time. I believe this is the third incarnation of my blog, and she has been with me through all of them. My first good friend from blogland, and certainly one of the awesomest bloggers ever because like very few others, she is not anonymous!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mnsss.blogspot.com/">Anna</a> - I enjoy Anna's writing a great deal. There has always been a certain gentleness about it, a smooth sense of sensuality that is neither tawdry nor forced.<br /><br />There you go my girls! I adore each of you for your uniqueness and special appeal :) Unlike other 'blog fads' you do not need to feel obligated to keep this one going if you don't want to. However, should you have the desire, feel free to pass out a few to the rockin girl bloggers you love! Try to give them to people who haven't yet received one :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You Can Love More Than One</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.Take A Peek!Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.I do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.seemagazine.com/Issues/2007/0208/cover.htm">Take A Peek!</a><br /><br />Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.<br /><br />It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.<br /><br />I do have to give them props for using a MMF family, and not the 'typical' FMF. Having a bi-sexual male as the hinge in a V is a pretty cool thing.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>On Breaking Up</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/21/on-breaking-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 16:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.Now It's Time To Say GoodbyeNow dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.<br /><br />Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/Editorial/NOW-IT-S-TIME-TO-SAY-GOODBYE_23">Now It's Time To Say Goodbye</a><br /><br />Now dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely one party is just going along with the other in order not to make waves? Thoughts on such things are welcomes, as always :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blog Star!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/07/blog-star/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though. The show is totally kid-safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though.

The show is totally kid-safe (meaning there is not talk about sex nor any coarse language, unlike the rest of the blog, HA HA). Basically just a lot of basic information regrading polyamory.

Download it for free here: <a title="Radio Interview" href="http://www.mediafire.com/?zi4yeugt2yu" target="_blank">Poly Radio Program</a> staring SG!

Enjoy :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.LUST LIFE Polyamory By Stephanie Sellars]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm">LUST LIFE </a><br />Polyamory <br /><br />By Stephanie Sellars]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Column Updates</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column. Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far. Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:Fighting FairAdvanced Scheduling 101Links to be added to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column.  Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far.  Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_060106.html#top">Fighting Fair</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_061406.html#top">Advanced Scheduling 101</a><br /><br />Links to be added to my sidebar as soon as I get around to it, LOL]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions #4</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/05/01/angelic-notions-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2006 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:Social InsecurityIt's all about control and manipulation in relationships.Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_050106.html">Social Insecurity</a><br /><br />It's all about control and manipulation in relationships.<br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>All New Angelic Notions</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2006 16:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check it out. This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:Instinctual GreedHope you enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Check it out.  This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_041506.html#top">Instinctual Greed</a><br /><br />Hope you enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions, 2nd Edition</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Apr 2006 15:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My column for Polyamorous Percolations is up this morning. You can check it out by clicking here.Let me know what you think :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My column for <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> is up this morning.  You can check it out by clicking <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_040106.html#top">here</a>.<br /><br />Let me know what you think :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Freaking Famous!!!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 15:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, not exactly, LOL.So now for my big secret! A week or so ago, Chias of Polyamorous Percolations approached me about writing a regular column for the website. Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.I was flattered by his offer, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img align="left" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112895334_adfa4de71e_o.jpg" width="350" height="233" border="0" alt="Celebration" />OK, not exactly, LOL.<br /><br />So now for my big secret!  A week or so ago, <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/family.html#top">Chias</a> of <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> approached me about writing a regular column for the website.  Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.<br /><br />I was flattered by his offer, to say the least.  So of course I accepted, and the first edition of my column went 'live' on the website this morning!!!<br /><br />The title of my column is <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_031506.html#top">Angelic Notions</a> (since my handle on the website is Nobody's Angel).  Click on the name to read my very first contribution.<br /><br />I will be writing a column every two weeks from now on, and I will be adding an area to my sidebar with links to my columns.<br /><br />Anyway, I'm just excited as hell, can you tell???  Now, get over there and read my column and then come back here and tell me what you think!<br /><br />HUGS AND KISSES ALL!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>If You Click It, I Will Lick You</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage. Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.polyandproud.com/learn/narratives1.php">This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage</a>.  Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Resource And Dating Links</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/07/resource-and-dating-links/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2006 19:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon. In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.Adult Friend Finder - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon.  In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultfriendfinder.com">Adult Friend Finder</a> - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have been too lazy to put up a link.  Basically a big personals site for singles and couples looking for sex with other singles and couples.  I met K through the site, so I have to give it at least a mention, LOL.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/index.html">Polyamorous Percolations</a> - A really great resource about polyamory.  Loads of articles, reader question/comments, columns, etc.  So much that I haven't really had time to browse through everything, but I highly suggest paying a visit.<br /><a href="http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/"><br />Polyamory Livejournal Community</a> - Basically a big forum where people can ask questions and get answers from other members.  Lots of good discussions going on about common issues faced by people living in that type of lifestyle.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.lifestyleplayground.com">Lifestyle Playground</a> - We haven't had much time to properly check out this site.  It was recommended to Jack by a friend.  Very similar to Adult Friend Finder, but there are a lot more couples (at least in our area) than singles.<br /><br /><a href="http://polyweekly.livejournal.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> (Podcast) - A really interesting podcast hosted by Minx, discussing all kinds of things related to Polyamory and kink in general.  There is even a lot of hot erotica, so tune in as soon as possible.  Archived episodes also easily available there.<br /><br /><a href="http://newyorkmetro.com/lifestyle/sex/annual/2005/15063/index.html" target="_blank">The New Monogamy - Marriage With Benefits</a> - An excellent article from New York Metro Magazine<br /><p><br /><strong>The Ethical Slut</strong><br /><center><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1890159018/qid=1132882687/701-9074332-4813941"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1890159018.01._OU15_PE24_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a></center><br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html" target="_blank">Polyamory?</a> - A great wealth of information on the poly lifestyle, especially for beginners<br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.okcupid.com" target="_blank">OKCupid</a> - Very Poly-Friendly Personals Site<br /><p><br /><a title="Jane's Guide" href="http://www.janesguide.com"><img height="75" alt="Jane's Guide" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112030545_ecc1902677_o.gif" width="88" border="0" /></a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Click Me! Click Me!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2005/12/09/click-me-click-me/</link>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?" Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?"

Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to in Alberta for as long as I can remember. We went out for breakfast as a family, lounged about in the afternoon, and then went out for supper as well. It completely threw off my regular schedule however, and so today only feels like Tuesday, which means I feel behind in my week already. Not that I am complaining about the extra day with Jack :)

Nia and I have been hitting the gym four times a week now, which seems to eat up at least a couple of hours on those days. It feels so good to be working out again. I needed to get out of the house this evening, so I treated myself to a new yoga mat and some sexy workout gear. One can never have too many good sports bras or lycra booty shorts.

This weekend I have a couple of dates lined up. Sunday I am having coffee with a friend who I've mentioned here before, but who has not been assigned a name as of yet. I did photos for her one Saturday afternoon not long ago, and we've hit it off quite excellently. I shall call her Miri, which means 'mine' and you can read into that however you will *sly wink*.

Afterwards, I am getting together with Nelek, for coffee and more lascivious things. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I likely won't be able to spend any time with him again until well into March. Thus, I am going to make the most of Sunday, as they say.

Today was spent indoors, tidying the house while I listened to episodes of <a href="http://polyweekly.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> on my iPod Touch (a generous Christmas gift from that fabulous husband of mine). Nothing like being elbow-deep in dishwater while Minx purrs on about responsible non-monogamy. She may yet inspire me to try doing a podcast of my own.

Before I leave off for the evening and crawl into bed with Jack, I have a favour to ask! I need some dare suggestions for an adult party. I know I've asked for this before, but this time I need them to be short and easily applied to a group of people who don't know each other well. We're going to be writing them on slips of paper and giving one to each guest at random. We've got things like "Show some skin" and "Introduce yourself to an attractive stranger" but I need quite a few more. So, think about going to a sexy adult party where you might not know anyone all that well. What sorts of dares would you like to see people do? What would you be willing to do? Leave me some comments please :D]]></content:encoded>
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		<description><![CDATA[After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Fur by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/1111090170/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1155/1111090170_25bdca39f1_o.jpg" alt="I Hope That's Faux Fur" width="418" height="475" align="left" /></a>After the <a title="Spooning Leads To Forking" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/01/spooning-leads-to-forking/" target="_self">interesting adventure that was Friday night</a>, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy's that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn't slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the <a title="Careful, You May End Up In My Novel" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/26/careful-you-may-end-up-in-my-novel/" target="_self">scene from last weekend</a>. I'd also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he'd find tons of useful information in <a title="SM 101" href="http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t" target="_self">SM 101</a> By Jay Wiseman, and <a title="Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" href="http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1212411296&amp;sr=8-1" target="_self">Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns</a> By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

He flipped through SM 101 and we read passages together, discussing some of the topics covered and commenting on a few things we'd like to try. He was especially glad to see a pre-scene negotiation section, as well as extensive checklists of BDSM related activities.

We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

At one point the sidewalk was too narrow for us to all walk side by side, so Deja and I fell into step behind Varick, and after a few yards of following him she and I exchanged looks and she remarked that we must look like a pimp with his bitches, and I started laughing so hard because I was having the exact same though. We're kind of ridiculous actually.

The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I'll be attending my first play party later this month ;) Looking forward to that.

Bellies full, we sauntered back to Deja's place. Varick decided that all my cheekiness had certainly earned me a good whipping, so he sent me off to the dungeon to get ready. I stripped down, put on my cuffs, and waited for him by the St. Andrew's Cross. He opted to blindfold me again, and then snapped my cuffs to the cross and ran his hands up my body. He started on the outsides of my thighs, slowly proceeded up over my hips, my sides, around to my breasts, and then up to my collar bones. He was pressed against my back and his chin was resting on my shoulder. I was already trembling with anticipation, and when he asked if I was ready to begin, I nodded enthusiastically.

He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. "Harder" and "Green" were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja's single-tail, which hadn't been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the 'breeze' it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn't fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her <a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self">violet wand</a>, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off <a title="Bucket List" href="http://shastagibson.com/my-bucket-list/" target="_self">the bucket list</a>:
<p style="text-align: center;">413. <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">Have a </span><a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self"><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"><span style="color: #a90118;">Violet Wand</span></span></a><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"> used on me</span></p>
I could tell that something was off with Varick. He seemed different while he cleaned up, and I was unsure what was wrong. Deja had some things to do in her office so he and I went downstairs. I sat on the couch, stretched out on it, and had him come and sit down, between my legs, which I wrapped around him, with his cheek on my chest. I asked him quietly what was wrong and he said he just felt weird, and kind of down. I thought it might be Top Drop* so I just stroked his hair and kissed his forehead.

I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn't push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he'd let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say "Yeah, I do that to people all the time" but it wasn't really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn't feel like going out, but didn't want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he's usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

"Maybe he's falling for you and he's all conflicted about it" she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he'd said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he'd been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja's house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn't really expected that. He said he hadn't been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it's not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

"What happened to you?" I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn't allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he's been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy's without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn't in any shape to go and if he wasn't coming with us, we didn't want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked <a title="I Am Legend" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480249/" target="_self">I Am Legend</a>, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything 'scary' LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman :P

We settled in to watch. It wasn't as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don't think I'll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in <a title="Bettie Page" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0404802/" target="_self">The Notorious Bettie Page</a>, which I've seen before. I liked watching it again, because it's an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn't seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn't think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she's pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he's kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to 'go slow' with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn't want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I'm going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I'll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he's afraid of what's happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn't want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn't press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he'd want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the <a title="Tantra Chair" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=111" target="_self">Tantra chair</a>, and the <a title="Sex Swing" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=479" target="_self">sex swing</a>. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he'll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what's caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I'm actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: <em>Colloquial</em> A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Teh Innertubes Are Foar Pr0n?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/28/teh-innertubes-are-foar-pr0n/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, but anyway, he put it up on the Ryerson journalism website and I was quite pleased overall.  I noticed he did not include a direct link to this blog, which was a little disappointing, but no matter.
<blockquote>Shasta Gibson, who does nude webcam shows for JaneLovesDick.com, enjoys watching gay and lesbian porn and porn directed by women. Mainstream heterosexual videos just don’t do it for her.

“I prefer that the movie feel sensual and erotic, rather than fake and staged,” says Gibson, who also writes about sex, porn, toys and erotica on her blog, The Stiletto Diaries.

Gibson is also into watching amateur porn, like the stuff she’s in.

“I love to look at real people, having real sex, and enjoying themselves for the sake of pleasure rather than the almighty dollar,” Gibson says.</blockquote>
You can read the entire article <a title="Harlequin Romances And Hardcore Porn" href="http://www.journalism.ryerson.ca/entertainment_culture/sexopolis/Russ/my_porn_story.html" target="_self">here</a>.  My contribution begins on Page 4.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>When Is A Horse Not A Horse?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/21/when-is-a-horse-not-a-horse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?" Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?"

Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to in Alberta for as long as I can remember. We went out for breakfast as a family, lounged about in the afternoon, and then went out for supper as well. It completely threw off my regular schedule however, and so today only feels like Tuesday, which means I feel behind in my week already. Not that I am complaining about the extra day with Jack :)

Nia and I have been hitting the gym four times a week now, which seems to eat up at least a couple of hours on those days. It feels so good to be working out again. I needed to get out of the house this evening, so I treated myself to a new yoga mat and some sexy workout gear. One can never have too many good sports bras or lycra booty shorts.

This weekend I have a couple of dates lined up. Sunday I am having coffee with a friend who I've mentioned here before, but who has not been assigned a name as of yet. I did photos for her one Saturday afternoon not long ago, and we've hit it off quite excellently. I shall call her Miri, which means 'mine' and you can read into that however you will *sly wink*.

Afterwards, I am getting together with Nelek, for coffee and more lascivious things. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I likely won't be able to spend any time with him again until well into March. Thus, I am going to make the most of Sunday, as they say.

Today was spent indoors, tidying the house while I listened to episodes of <a href="http://polyweekly.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> on my iPod Touch (a generous Christmas gift from that fabulous husband of mine). Nothing like being elbow-deep in dishwater while Minx purrs on about responsible non-monogamy. She may yet inspire me to try doing a podcast of my own.

Before I leave off for the evening and crawl into bed with Jack, I have a favour to ask! I need some dare suggestions for an adult party. I know I've asked for this before, but this time I need them to be short and easily applied to a group of people who don't know each other well. We're going to be writing them on slips of paper and giving one to each guest at random. We've got things like "Show some skin" and "Introduce yourself to an attractive stranger" but I need quite a few more. So, think about going to a sexy adult party where you might not know anyone all that well. What sorts of dares would you like to see people do? What would you be willing to do? Leave me some comments please :D]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Go! Go Now!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/18/go-go-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this <a href="http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/polyamory-is-not-about-the-sex-except-when-it-is/">incredible article on polyamory</a> over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>He&#8217;d Fall In Love With A Can Of Soup If It Sucked His Dick</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/01/09/hed-fall-in-love-with-a-can-of-soup-if-it-sucked-his-dick/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I loved spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine. I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things. I hope you weren't too lonely without me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I <strong>loved</strong> spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine.  I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things.  I hope you weren't too lonely without me :)<br /><br />My New Years Eve was quite fabulous, and while most people do not get a lot of enjoyment out of January, Jack and I have an anniversary coming up which gives me something to look forward to.  Nia is able to come over to watch the kids for a few hours so that Jack and I can go out for sushi or something.  I haven't had sushi in a long time, so I am really looking forward to that.<br /><br />There is also a contest in the works here at SD.  I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, and I had intended to kick it off on January 1st, but was too tired and unmotivated to post anything that day.  At any rate, I'll be sharing the details on that later this week, or on the weekend.  There will be some awesome prizes involved!<br /><br />Jack has me hooked on this site he discovered called <a href="http://www.janelovesdick.com/">JaneLovesDick.com</a> which is a free site for adult web cam play.  Basically you sign up so that you can access the chatrooms where you can view the web shows of multiple people at a time.  Pretty hot stuff if you're a voyouer or an exhibitionist.  The people who participate on that site are normal, every day people like you and I.  Not super models by any stretch, nor is there any insulting or name calling, no matter what you look like.  Generally I just lurk, but who knows, one of these evenings Jack and I might put on a show there.  If you are into 'real people' porn, be sure to check it out.<br /><br />I know this isn't exactly a thrilling update, especially since I've been gone so long.  I hope you'll forgive me, I promise more excitement (or at least more substance) in the coming weeks.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Rock The Blogosphere</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/07/15/rock-the-blogosphere/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen Piper has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen <a href="http://pipersplace.diaryland.com/">Piper</a> has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/813425013/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1227/813425013_5a27842389_o.jpg" width="180" height="63" alt="Rockin Girl Blogger Award" /></a></center><br /><br />It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the sexy minxes they are!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Padme</a> - Padme and I go quite a ways back, and she's one of my very dearest friends and her blog is one of the coolest I know. She's been my biggest fan and one of my most regular commenters and she just rocks my world ;) Not to mention that the photos she and her husband post on their blog are enough to turn my knees to jello!<br /><br /><a href="http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com/">Shibari</a> - Ah how she spoils us with her gorgeous and sensual photos and the thoughtful posts that she writes on her 'confessional'. She is a new read for me, but one I have greatly enjoyed thus far!<br /><br /><a href="http://the-sensuous-libertine.blogspot.com/">Cherrie</a> - How boring the blogosphere would be without this articulate little sexpot. She's one of the main reasons I so look forward to HNT ever week.<br /><br /><a href="http://maybejustonce.blogspot.com/">JeN</a> - Even though she only updates once a decade, JeN will remain one of my favorite bloggers off all time. I believe this is the third incarnation of my blog, and she has been with me through all of them. My first good friend from blogland, and certainly one of the awesomest bloggers ever because like very few others, she is not anonymous!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mnsss.blogspot.com/">Anna</a> - I enjoy Anna's writing a great deal. There has always been a certain gentleness about it, a smooth sense of sensuality that is neither tawdry nor forced.<br /><br />There you go my girls! I adore each of you for your uniqueness and special appeal :) Unlike other 'blog fads' you do not need to feel obligated to keep this one going if you don't want to. However, should you have the desire, feel free to pass out a few to the rockin girl bloggers you love! Try to give them to people who haven't yet received one :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You Can Love More Than One</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.Take A Peek!Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.I do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.seemagazine.com/Issues/2007/0208/cover.htm">Take A Peek!</a><br /><br />Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.<br /><br />It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.<br /><br />I do have to give them props for using a MMF family, and not the 'typical' FMF. Having a bi-sexual male as the hinge in a V is a pretty cool thing.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>On Breaking Up</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/21/on-breaking-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 16:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.Now It's Time To Say GoodbyeNow dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.<br /><br />Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/Editorial/NOW-IT-S-TIME-TO-SAY-GOODBYE_23">Now It's Time To Say Goodbye</a><br /><br />Now dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely one party is just going along with the other in order not to make waves? Thoughts on such things are welcomes, as always :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blog Star!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/07/blog-star/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though. The show is totally kid-safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though.

The show is totally kid-safe (meaning there is not talk about sex nor any coarse language, unlike the rest of the blog, HA HA). Basically just a lot of basic information regrading polyamory.

Download it for free here: <a title="Radio Interview" href="http://www.mediafire.com/?zi4yeugt2yu" target="_blank">Poly Radio Program</a> staring SG!

Enjoy :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.LUST LIFE Polyamory By Stephanie Sellars]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm">LUST LIFE </a><br />Polyamory <br /><br />By Stephanie Sellars]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Column Updates</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column. Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far. Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:Fighting FairAdvanced Scheduling 101Links to be added to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column.  Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far.  Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_060106.html#top">Fighting Fair</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_061406.html#top">Advanced Scheduling 101</a><br /><br />Links to be added to my sidebar as soon as I get around to it, LOL]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions #4</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/05/01/angelic-notions-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2006 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:Social InsecurityIt's all about control and manipulation in relationships.Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_050106.html">Social Insecurity</a><br /><br />It's all about control and manipulation in relationships.<br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>All New Angelic Notions</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2006 16:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check it out. This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:Instinctual GreedHope you enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Check it out.  This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_041506.html#top">Instinctual Greed</a><br /><br />Hope you enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions, 2nd Edition</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Apr 2006 15:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My column for Polyamorous Percolations is up this morning. You can check it out by clicking here.Let me know what you think :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My column for <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> is up this morning.  You can check it out by clicking <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_040106.html#top">here</a>.<br /><br />Let me know what you think :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Freaking Famous!!!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 15:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, not exactly, LOL.So now for my big secret! A week or so ago, Chias of Polyamorous Percolations approached me about writing a regular column for the website. Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.I was flattered by his offer, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img align="left" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112895334_adfa4de71e_o.jpg" width="350" height="233" border="0" alt="Celebration" />OK, not exactly, LOL.<br /><br />So now for my big secret!  A week or so ago, <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/family.html#top">Chias</a> of <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> approached me about writing a regular column for the website.  Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.<br /><br />I was flattered by his offer, to say the least.  So of course I accepted, and the first edition of my column went 'live' on the website this morning!!!<br /><br />The title of my column is <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_031506.html#top">Angelic Notions</a> (since my handle on the website is Nobody's Angel).  Click on the name to read my very first contribution.<br /><br />I will be writing a column every two weeks from now on, and I will be adding an area to my sidebar with links to my columns.<br /><br />Anyway, I'm just excited as hell, can you tell???  Now, get over there and read my column and then come back here and tell me what you think!<br /><br />HUGS AND KISSES ALL!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>If You Click It, I Will Lick You</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage. Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.polyandproud.com/learn/narratives1.php">This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage</a>.  Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Resource And Dating Links</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/07/resource-and-dating-links/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2006 19:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon. In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.Adult Friend Finder - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon.  In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultfriendfinder.com">Adult Friend Finder</a> - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have been too lazy to put up a link.  Basically a big personals site for singles and couples looking for sex with other singles and couples.  I met K through the site, so I have to give it at least a mention, LOL.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/index.html">Polyamorous Percolations</a> - A really great resource about polyamory.  Loads of articles, reader question/comments, columns, etc.  So much that I haven't really had time to browse through everything, but I highly suggest paying a visit.<br /><a href="http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/"><br />Polyamory Livejournal Community</a> - Basically a big forum where people can ask questions and get answers from other members.  Lots of good discussions going on about common issues faced by people living in that type of lifestyle.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.lifestyleplayground.com">Lifestyle Playground</a> - We haven't had much time to properly check out this site.  It was recommended to Jack by a friend.  Very similar to Adult Friend Finder, but there are a lot more couples (at least in our area) than singles.<br /><br /><a href="http://polyweekly.livejournal.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> (Podcast) - A really interesting podcast hosted by Minx, discussing all kinds of things related to Polyamory and kink in general.  There is even a lot of hot erotica, so tune in as soon as possible.  Archived episodes also easily available there.<br /><br /><a href="http://newyorkmetro.com/lifestyle/sex/annual/2005/15063/index.html" target="_blank">The New Monogamy - Marriage With Benefits</a> - An excellent article from New York Metro Magazine<br /><p><br /><strong>The Ethical Slut</strong><br /><center><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1890159018/qid=1132882687/701-9074332-4813941"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1890159018.01._OU15_PE24_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a></center><br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html" target="_blank">Polyamory?</a> - A great wealth of information on the poly lifestyle, especially for beginners<br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.okcupid.com" target="_blank">OKCupid</a> - Very Poly-Friendly Personals Site<br /><p><br /><a title="Jane's Guide" href="http://www.janesguide.com"><img height="75" alt="Jane's Guide" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112030545_ecc1902677_o.gif" width="88" border="0" /></a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Click Me! Click Me!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2005/12/09/click-me-click-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2005 23:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it. It will be added to my sidebar as well.Polyamory?Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it.  It will be added to my sidebar as well.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html">Polyamory?</a><br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Three Isn&#8217;t A Crowd, It&#8217;s Just One More To Love&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/18/go-go-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this <a href="http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/polyamory-is-not-about-the-sex-except-when-it-is/">incredible article on polyamory</a> over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></content:encoded>
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		<description><![CDATA[After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Fur by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/1111090170/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1155/1111090170_25bdca39f1_o.jpg" alt="I Hope That's Faux Fur" width="418" height="475" align="left" /></a>After the <a title="Spooning Leads To Forking" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/01/spooning-leads-to-forking/" target="_self">interesting adventure that was Friday night</a>, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy's that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn't slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the <a title="Careful, You May End Up In My Novel" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/26/careful-you-may-end-up-in-my-novel/" target="_self">scene from last weekend</a>. I'd also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he'd find tons of useful information in <a title="SM 101" href="http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t" target="_self">SM 101</a> By Jay Wiseman, and <a title="Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" href="http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1212411296&amp;sr=8-1" target="_self">Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns</a> By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

He flipped through SM 101 and we read passages together, discussing some of the topics covered and commenting on a few things we'd like to try. He was especially glad to see a pre-scene negotiation section, as well as extensive checklists of BDSM related activities.

We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

At one point the sidewalk was too narrow for us to all walk side by side, so Deja and I fell into step behind Varick, and after a few yards of following him she and I exchanged looks and she remarked that we must look like a pimp with his bitches, and I started laughing so hard because I was having the exact same though. We're kind of ridiculous actually.

The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I'll be attending my first play party later this month ;) Looking forward to that.

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He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. "Harder" and "Green" were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja's single-tail, which hadn't been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the 'breeze' it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn't fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her <a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self">violet wand</a>, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off <a title="Bucket List" href="http://shastagibson.com/my-bucket-list/" target="_self">the bucket list</a>:
<p style="text-align: center;">413. <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">Have a </span><a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self"><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"><span style="color: #a90118;">Violet Wand</span></span></a><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"> used on me</span></p>
I could tell that something was off with Varick. He seemed different while he cleaned up, and I was unsure what was wrong. Deja had some things to do in her office so he and I went downstairs. I sat on the couch, stretched out on it, and had him come and sit down, between my legs, which I wrapped around him, with his cheek on my chest. I asked him quietly what was wrong and he said he just felt weird, and kind of down. I thought it might be Top Drop* so I just stroked his hair and kissed his forehead.

I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn't push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he'd let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say "Yeah, I do that to people all the time" but it wasn't really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn't feel like going out, but didn't want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he's usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

"Maybe he's falling for you and he's all conflicted about it" she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he'd said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he'd been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja's house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn't really expected that. He said he hadn't been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it's not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

"What happened to you?" I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn't allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he's been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy's without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn't in any shape to go and if he wasn't coming with us, we didn't want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked <a title="I Am Legend" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480249/" target="_self">I Am Legend</a>, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything 'scary' LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman :P

We settled in to watch. It wasn't as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don't think I'll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in <a title="Bettie Page" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0404802/" target="_self">The Notorious Bettie Page</a>, which I've seen before. I liked watching it again, because it's an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn't seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn't think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she's pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he's kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to 'go slow' with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn't want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I'm going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I'll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he's afraid of what's happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn't want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn't press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he'd want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the <a title="Tantra Chair" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=111" target="_self">Tantra chair</a>, and the <a title="Sex Swing" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=479" target="_self">sex swing</a>. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he'll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what's caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I'm actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: <em>Colloquial</em> A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Teh Innertubes Are Foar Pr0n?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/28/teh-innertubes-are-foar-pr0n/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, but anyway, he put it up on the Ryerson journalism website and I was quite pleased overall.  I noticed he did not include a direct link to this blog, which was a little disappointing, but no matter.
<blockquote>Shasta Gibson, who does nude webcam shows for JaneLovesDick.com, enjoys watching gay and lesbian porn and porn directed by women. Mainstream heterosexual videos just don’t do it for her.

“I prefer that the movie feel sensual and erotic, rather than fake and staged,” says Gibson, who also writes about sex, porn, toys and erotica on her blog, The Stiletto Diaries.

Gibson is also into watching amateur porn, like the stuff she’s in.

“I love to look at real people, having real sex, and enjoying themselves for the sake of pleasure rather than the almighty dollar,” Gibson says.</blockquote>
You can read the entire article <a title="Harlequin Romances And Hardcore Porn" href="http://www.journalism.ryerson.ca/entertainment_culture/sexopolis/Russ/my_porn_story.html" target="_self">here</a>.  My contribution begins on Page 4.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>When Is A Horse Not A Horse?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/21/when-is-a-horse-not-a-horse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?" Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?"

Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to in Alberta for as long as I can remember. We went out for breakfast as a family, lounged about in the afternoon, and then went out for supper as well. It completely threw off my regular schedule however, and so today only feels like Tuesday, which means I feel behind in my week already. Not that I am complaining about the extra day with Jack :)

Nia and I have been hitting the gym four times a week now, which seems to eat up at least a couple of hours on those days. It feels so good to be working out again. I needed to get out of the house this evening, so I treated myself to a new yoga mat and some sexy workout gear. One can never have too many good sports bras or lycra booty shorts.

This weekend I have a couple of dates lined up. Sunday I am having coffee with a friend who I've mentioned here before, but who has not been assigned a name as of yet. I did photos for her one Saturday afternoon not long ago, and we've hit it off quite excellently. I shall call her Miri, which means 'mine' and you can read into that however you will *sly wink*.

Afterwards, I am getting together with Nelek, for coffee and more lascivious things. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I likely won't be able to spend any time with him again until well into March. Thus, I am going to make the most of Sunday, as they say.

Today was spent indoors, tidying the house while I listened to episodes of <a href="http://polyweekly.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> on my iPod Touch (a generous Christmas gift from that fabulous husband of mine). Nothing like being elbow-deep in dishwater while Minx purrs on about responsible non-monogamy. She may yet inspire me to try doing a podcast of my own.

Before I leave off for the evening and crawl into bed with Jack, I have a favour to ask! I need some dare suggestions for an adult party. I know I've asked for this before, but this time I need them to be short and easily applied to a group of people who don't know each other well. We're going to be writing them on slips of paper and giving one to each guest at random. We've got things like "Show some skin" and "Introduce yourself to an attractive stranger" but I need quite a few more. So, think about going to a sexy adult party where you might not know anyone all that well. What sorts of dares would you like to see people do? What would you be willing to do? Leave me some comments please :D]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Go! Go Now!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/18/go-go-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this <a href="http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/polyamory-is-not-about-the-sex-except-when-it-is/">incredible article on polyamory</a> over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>He&#8217;d Fall In Love With A Can Of Soup If It Sucked His Dick</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/01/09/hed-fall-in-love-with-a-can-of-soup-if-it-sucked-his-dick/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I loved spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine. I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things. I hope you weren't too lonely without me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I <strong>loved</strong> spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine.  I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things.  I hope you weren't too lonely without me :)<br /><br />My New Years Eve was quite fabulous, and while most people do not get a lot of enjoyment out of January, Jack and I have an anniversary coming up which gives me something to look forward to.  Nia is able to come over to watch the kids for a few hours so that Jack and I can go out for sushi or something.  I haven't had sushi in a long time, so I am really looking forward to that.<br /><br />There is also a contest in the works here at SD.  I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, and I had intended to kick it off on January 1st, but was too tired and unmotivated to post anything that day.  At any rate, I'll be sharing the details on that later this week, or on the weekend.  There will be some awesome prizes involved!<br /><br />Jack has me hooked on this site he discovered called <a href="http://www.janelovesdick.com/">JaneLovesDick.com</a> which is a free site for adult web cam play.  Basically you sign up so that you can access the chatrooms where you can view the web shows of multiple people at a time.  Pretty hot stuff if you're a voyouer or an exhibitionist.  The people who participate on that site are normal, every day people like you and I.  Not super models by any stretch, nor is there any insulting or name calling, no matter what you look like.  Generally I just lurk, but who knows, one of these evenings Jack and I might put on a show there.  If you are into 'real people' porn, be sure to check it out.<br /><br />I know this isn't exactly a thrilling update, especially since I've been gone so long.  I hope you'll forgive me, I promise more excitement (or at least more substance) in the coming weeks.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Rock The Blogosphere</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/07/15/rock-the-blogosphere/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen Piper has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen <a href="http://pipersplace.diaryland.com/">Piper</a> has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/813425013/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1227/813425013_5a27842389_o.jpg" width="180" height="63" alt="Rockin Girl Blogger Award" /></a></center><br /><br />It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the sexy minxes they are!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Padme</a> - Padme and I go quite a ways back, and she's one of my very dearest friends and her blog is one of the coolest I know. She's been my biggest fan and one of my most regular commenters and she just rocks my world ;) Not to mention that the photos she and her husband post on their blog are enough to turn my knees to jello!<br /><br /><a href="http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com/">Shibari</a> - Ah how she spoils us with her gorgeous and sensual photos and the thoughtful posts that she writes on her 'confessional'. She is a new read for me, but one I have greatly enjoyed thus far!<br /><br /><a href="http://the-sensuous-libertine.blogspot.com/">Cherrie</a> - How boring the blogosphere would be without this articulate little sexpot. She's one of the main reasons I so look forward to HNT ever week.<br /><br /><a href="http://maybejustonce.blogspot.com/">JeN</a> - Even though she only updates once a decade, JeN will remain one of my favorite bloggers off all time. I believe this is the third incarnation of my blog, and she has been with me through all of them. My first good friend from blogland, and certainly one of the awesomest bloggers ever because like very few others, she is not anonymous!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mnsss.blogspot.com/">Anna</a> - I enjoy Anna's writing a great deal. There has always been a certain gentleness about it, a smooth sense of sensuality that is neither tawdry nor forced.<br /><br />There you go my girls! I adore each of you for your uniqueness and special appeal :) Unlike other 'blog fads' you do not need to feel obligated to keep this one going if you don't want to. However, should you have the desire, feel free to pass out a few to the rockin girl bloggers you love! Try to give them to people who haven't yet received one :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You Can Love More Than One</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.Take A Peek!Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.I do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.seemagazine.com/Issues/2007/0208/cover.htm">Take A Peek!</a><br /><br />Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.<br /><br />It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.<br /><br />I do have to give them props for using a MMF family, and not the 'typical' FMF. Having a bi-sexual male as the hinge in a V is a pretty cool thing.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>On Breaking Up</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/21/on-breaking-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 16:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.Now It's Time To Say GoodbyeNow dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.<br /><br />Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/Editorial/NOW-IT-S-TIME-TO-SAY-GOODBYE_23">Now It's Time To Say Goodbye</a><br /><br />Now dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely one party is just going along with the other in order not to make waves? Thoughts on such things are welcomes, as always :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blog Star!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/07/blog-star/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though. The show is totally kid-safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though.

The show is totally kid-safe (meaning there is not talk about sex nor any coarse language, unlike the rest of the blog, HA HA). Basically just a lot of basic information regrading polyamory.

Download it for free here: <a title="Radio Interview" href="http://www.mediafire.com/?zi4yeugt2yu" target="_blank">Poly Radio Program</a> staring SG!

Enjoy :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.LUST LIFE Polyamory By Stephanie Sellars]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm">LUST LIFE </a><br />Polyamory <br /><br />By Stephanie Sellars]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Column Updates</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column. Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far. Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:Fighting FairAdvanced Scheduling 101Links to be added to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column.  Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far.  Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_060106.html#top">Fighting Fair</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_061406.html#top">Advanced Scheduling 101</a><br /><br />Links to be added to my sidebar as soon as I get around to it, LOL]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions #4</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/05/01/angelic-notions-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2006 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:Social InsecurityIt's all about control and manipulation in relationships.Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_050106.html">Social Insecurity</a><br /><br />It's all about control and manipulation in relationships.<br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>All New Angelic Notions</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2006 16:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check it out. This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:Instinctual GreedHope you enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Check it out.  This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_041506.html#top">Instinctual Greed</a><br /><br />Hope you enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions, 2nd Edition</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Apr 2006 15:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My column for Polyamorous Percolations is up this morning. You can check it out by clicking here.Let me know what you think :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My column for <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> is up this morning.  You can check it out by clicking <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_040106.html#top">here</a>.<br /><br />Let me know what you think :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Freaking Famous!!!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 15:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, not exactly, LOL.So now for my big secret! A week or so ago, Chias of Polyamorous Percolations approached me about writing a regular column for the website. Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.I was flattered by his offer, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img align="left" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112895334_adfa4de71e_o.jpg" width="350" height="233" border="0" alt="Celebration" />OK, not exactly, LOL.<br /><br />So now for my big secret!  A week or so ago, <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/family.html#top">Chias</a> of <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> approached me about writing a regular column for the website.  Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.<br /><br />I was flattered by his offer, to say the least.  So of course I accepted, and the first edition of my column went 'live' on the website this morning!!!<br /><br />The title of my column is <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_031506.html#top">Angelic Notions</a> (since my handle on the website is Nobody's Angel).  Click on the name to read my very first contribution.<br /><br />I will be writing a column every two weeks from now on, and I will be adding an area to my sidebar with links to my columns.<br /><br />Anyway, I'm just excited as hell, can you tell???  Now, get over there and read my column and then come back here and tell me what you think!<br /><br />HUGS AND KISSES ALL!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>If You Click It, I Will Lick You</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage. Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.polyandproud.com/learn/narratives1.php">This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage</a>.  Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Resource And Dating Links</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/07/resource-and-dating-links/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2006 19:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon. In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.Adult Friend Finder - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon.  In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultfriendfinder.com">Adult Friend Finder</a> - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have been too lazy to put up a link.  Basically a big personals site for singles and couples looking for sex with other singles and couples.  I met K through the site, so I have to give it at least a mention, LOL.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/index.html">Polyamorous Percolations</a> - A really great resource about polyamory.  Loads of articles, reader question/comments, columns, etc.  So much that I haven't really had time to browse through everything, but I highly suggest paying a visit.<br /><a href="http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/"><br />Polyamory Livejournal Community</a> - Basically a big forum where people can ask questions and get answers from other members.  Lots of good discussions going on about common issues faced by people living in that type of lifestyle.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.lifestyleplayground.com">Lifestyle Playground</a> - We haven't had much time to properly check out this site.  It was recommended to Jack by a friend.  Very similar to Adult Friend Finder, but there are a lot more couples (at least in our area) than singles.<br /><br /><a href="http://polyweekly.livejournal.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> (Podcast) - A really interesting podcast hosted by Minx, discussing all kinds of things related to Polyamory and kink in general.  There is even a lot of hot erotica, so tune in as soon as possible.  Archived episodes also easily available there.<br /><br /><a href="http://newyorkmetro.com/lifestyle/sex/annual/2005/15063/index.html" target="_blank">The New Monogamy - Marriage With Benefits</a> - An excellent article from New York Metro Magazine<br /><p><br /><strong>The Ethical Slut</strong><br /><center><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1890159018/qid=1132882687/701-9074332-4813941"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1890159018.01._OU15_PE24_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a></center><br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html" target="_blank">Polyamory?</a> - A great wealth of information on the poly lifestyle, especially for beginners<br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.okcupid.com" target="_blank">OKCupid</a> - Very Poly-Friendly Personals Site<br /><p><br /><a title="Jane's Guide" href="http://www.janesguide.com"><img height="75" alt="Jane's Guide" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112030545_ecc1902677_o.gif" width="88" border="0" /></a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Click Me! Click Me!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2005/12/09/click-me-click-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2005 23:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it. It will be added to my sidebar as well.Polyamory?Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it.  It will be added to my sidebar as well.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html">Polyamory?</a><br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Three Isn&#8217;t A Crowd, It&#8217;s Just One More To Love&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/01/09/hed-fall-in-love-with-a-can-of-soup-if-it-sucked-his-dick/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I loved spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine. I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things. I hope you weren't too lonely without me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I <strong>loved</strong> spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine.  I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things.  I hope you weren't too lonely without me :)<br /><br />My New Years Eve was quite fabulous, and while most people do not get a lot of enjoyment out of January, Jack and I have an anniversary coming up which gives me something to look forward to.  Nia is able to come over to watch the kids for a few hours so that Jack and I can go out for sushi or something.  I haven't had sushi in a long time, so I am really looking forward to that.<br /><br />There is also a contest in the works here at SD.  I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, and I had intended to kick it off on January 1st, but was too tired and unmotivated to post anything that day.  At any rate, I'll be sharing the details on that later this week, or on the weekend.  There will be some awesome prizes involved!<br /><br />Jack has me hooked on this site he discovered called <a href="http://www.janelovesdick.com/">JaneLovesDick.com</a> which is a free site for adult web cam play.  Basically you sign up so that you can access the chatrooms where you can view the web shows of multiple people at a time.  Pretty hot stuff if you're a voyouer or an exhibitionist.  The people who participate on that site are normal, every day people like you and I.  Not super models by any stretch, nor is there any insulting or name calling, no matter what you look like.  Generally I just lurk, but who knows, one of these evenings Jack and I might put on a show there.  If you are into 'real people' porn, be sure to check it out.<br /><br />I know this isn't exactly a thrilling update, especially since I've been gone so long.  I hope you'll forgive me, I promise more excitement (or at least more substance) in the coming weeks.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Stiletto Diaries™ &#187; Resources And Links</title>
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		<title>Pristiq For Sale</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2010/11/01/the-top-sex-bloggers-of-2010/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2010/11/01/the-top-sex-bloggers-of-2010/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Nov 2010 19:28:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Pristiq For Sale, I know, I know, I am behind the times.  At any rate, Pristiq price, coupon, Pristiq steet value, I am so thrilled to be #38 on this years list of Top Sex Bloggers.  I am reposting the list for your enjoyment (and I heartily endorse #2, Pristiq blogs, Purchase Pristiq, 8, 12, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <b>Pristiq For Sale</b>, I know, I know, I am behind the times.  At any rate, <b>Pristiq price, coupon</b>, <b>Pristiq steet value</b>, I am so thrilled to be #38 on this years list of Top Sex Bloggers.  I am reposting the list for your enjoyment (and I heartily endorse #2, <b>Pristiq blogs</b>, <b>Purchase Pristiq</b>, 8, 12, <b>buy no prescription Pristiq online</b>, <b>Buy Pristiq online cod</b>, 20, 49, <b>Pristiq overnight</b>, <b>Pristiq from canadian pharmacy</b>, 71, 77, <b>Pristiq from canada</b>, <b>Where can i cheapest Pristiq online</b>, 78, and 91), <b>effects of Pristiq</b>.  <b>Pristiq recreational</b>, <ol><br />
	<li>(<a href="http://www.betweenmysheets.com/index.php/ok-lets-talk-about-the-2010-list">Please see this post</a>)</li><br />
	<li>TBK from <a href="http://thebeautifulkind.com/" target="_blank">The Beautiful Kind</a></li><br />
	<li>Iona and James from <a href="http://sapioslut.com/" target="_blank">SapioSlut</a></li><br />
	<li>Quizzical Pussy from <a href="http://quizzicalpussy.com/" target="_blank">Quizzical Pussy</a></li><br />
	<li>Sadie from <a href="http://www.sadiesopenmarriage.com/" target="_blank">Sexie Sadie’s Stories of Seduction</a></li><br />
	<li>Vixen from <a href="http://blue-eyedvixen.com/" target="_blank">Secrets of a Blue-Eyed Vixen</a></li><br />
	<li>Adrian Colesberry from <a href="http://blog.adriancolesberry.com/" target="_blank">Adrian’s Blog</a></li><br />
	<li>EA from <a href="http://easilyaroused.co.uk">Easily Aroused</a></li><br />
	<li>Guy New York from <a href="http://quickienewyork.com" target="_blank">Quickies in New York</a></li><br />
	<li>Joan from <a href="http://betterthanieverexpected.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Better Than I Ever Expected: Sex and Aging</a></li><br />
	<li>25 Things from <a href="http://25thingsaboutmysexuality.blogspot.com" target="_blank">25 Things About My Sexuality</a></li><br />
	<li>AAG from AAG Blog</li><br />
	<li>Bad, Bad Girl from <a href="http://bbgblog.com/" target="_blank">BBG Blog</a></li><br />
	<li>Holden from <a href="http://packingvocals.blogspot.com" target="_blank">Packing Vocals</a></li><br />
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		<title>You&#8217;re My Favorite, Don&#8217;t Tell The Others</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Fur by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/1111090170/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1155/1111090170_25bdca39f1_o.jpg" alt="I Hope That's Faux Fur" width="418" height="475" align="left" /></a>After the <a title="Spooning Leads To Forking" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/01/spooning-leads-to-forking/" target="_self">interesting adventure that was Friday night</a>, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy's that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn't slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the <a title="Careful, You May End Up In My Novel" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/26/careful-you-may-end-up-in-my-novel/" target="_self">scene from last weekend</a>. I'd also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he'd find tons of useful information in <a title="SM 101" href="http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t" target="_self">SM 101</a> By Jay Wiseman, and <a title="Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" href="http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1212411296&amp;sr=8-1" target="_self">Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns</a> By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

He flipped through SM 101 and we read passages together, discussing some of the topics covered and commenting on a few things we'd like to try. He was especially glad to see a pre-scene negotiation section, as well as extensive checklists of BDSM related activities.

We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

At one point the sidewalk was too narrow for us to all walk side by side, so Deja and I fell into step behind Varick, and after a few yards of following him she and I exchanged looks and she remarked that we must look like a pimp with his bitches, and I started laughing so hard because I was having the exact same though. We're kind of ridiculous actually.

The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I'll be attending my first play party later this month ;) Looking forward to that.

Bellies full, we sauntered back to Deja's place. Varick decided that all my cheekiness had certainly earned me a good whipping, so he sent me off to the dungeon to get ready. I stripped down, put on my cuffs, and waited for him by the St. Andrew's Cross. He opted to blindfold me again, and then snapped my cuffs to the cross and ran his hands up my body. He started on the outsides of my thighs, slowly proceeded up over my hips, my sides, around to my breasts, and then up to my collar bones. He was pressed against my back and his chin was resting on my shoulder. I was already trembling with anticipation, and when he asked if I was ready to begin, I nodded enthusiastically.

He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. "Harder" and "Green" were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja's single-tail, which hadn't been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the 'breeze' it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn't fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her <a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self">violet wand</a>, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off <a title="Bucket List" href="http://shastagibson.com/my-bucket-list/" target="_self">the bucket list</a>:
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I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn't push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he'd let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say "Yeah, I do that to people all the time" but it wasn't really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn't feel like going out, but didn't want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he's usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

"Maybe he's falling for you and he's all conflicted about it" she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he'd said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he'd been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja's house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn't really expected that. He said he hadn't been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it's not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

"What happened to you?" I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn't allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he's been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy's without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn't in any shape to go and if he wasn't coming with us, we didn't want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked <a title="I Am Legend" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480249/" target="_self">I Am Legend</a>, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything 'scary' LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman :P

We settled in to watch. It wasn't as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don't think I'll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in <a title="Bettie Page" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0404802/" target="_self">The Notorious Bettie Page</a>, which I've seen before. I liked watching it again, because it's an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn't seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn't think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she's pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he's kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to 'go slow' with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn't want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I'm going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I'll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he's afraid of what's happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn't want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn't press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he'd want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the <a title="Tantra Chair" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=111" target="_self">Tantra chair</a>, and the <a title="Sex Swing" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=479" target="_self">sex swing</a>. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he'll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what's caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I'm actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: <em>Colloquial</em> A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Teh Innertubes Are Foar Pr0n?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/28/teh-innertubes-are-foar-pr0n/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, but anyway, he put it up on the Ryerson journalism website and I was quite pleased overall.  I noticed he did not include a direct link to this blog, which was a little disappointing, but no matter.
<blockquote>Shasta Gibson, who does nude webcam shows for JaneLovesDick.com, enjoys watching gay and lesbian porn and porn directed by women. Mainstream heterosexual videos just don’t do it for her.

“I prefer that the movie feel sensual and erotic, rather than fake and staged,” says Gibson, who also writes about sex, porn, toys and erotica on her blog, The Stiletto Diaries.

Gibson is also into watching amateur porn, like the stuff she’s in.

“I love to look at real people, having real sex, and enjoying themselves for the sake of pleasure rather than the almighty dollar,” Gibson says.</blockquote>
You can read the entire article <a title="Harlequin Romances And Hardcore Porn" href="http://www.journalism.ryerson.ca/entertainment_culture/sexopolis/Russ/my_porn_story.html" target="_self">here</a>.  My contribution begins on Page 4.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>When Is A Horse Not A Horse?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/21/when-is-a-horse-not-a-horse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?" Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?"

Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to in Alberta for as long as I can remember. We went out for breakfast as a family, lounged about in the afternoon, and then went out for supper as well. It completely threw off my regular schedule however, and so today only feels like Tuesday, which means I feel behind in my week already. Not that I am complaining about the extra day with Jack :)

Nia and I have been hitting the gym four times a week now, which seems to eat up at least a couple of hours on those days. It feels so good to be working out again. I needed to get out of the house this evening, so I treated myself to a new yoga mat and some sexy workout gear. One can never have too many good sports bras or lycra booty shorts.

This weekend I have a couple of dates lined up. Sunday I am having coffee with a friend who I've mentioned here before, but who has not been assigned a name as of yet. I did photos for her one Saturday afternoon not long ago, and we've hit it off quite excellently. I shall call her Miri, which means 'mine' and you can read into that however you will *sly wink*.

Afterwards, I am getting together with Nelek, for coffee and more lascivious things. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I likely won't be able to spend any time with him again until well into March. Thus, I am going to make the most of Sunday, as they say.

Today was spent indoors, tidying the house while I listened to episodes of <a href="http://polyweekly.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> on my iPod Touch (a generous Christmas gift from that fabulous husband of mine). Nothing like being elbow-deep in dishwater while Minx purrs on about responsible non-monogamy. She may yet inspire me to try doing a podcast of my own.

Before I leave off for the evening and crawl into bed with Jack, I have a favour to ask! I need some dare suggestions for an adult party. I know I've asked for this before, but this time I need them to be short and easily applied to a group of people who don't know each other well. We're going to be writing them on slips of paper and giving one to each guest at random. We've got things like "Show some skin" and "Introduce yourself to an attractive stranger" but I need quite a few more. So, think about going to a sexy adult party where you might not know anyone all that well. What sorts of dares would you like to see people do? What would you be willing to do? Leave me some comments please :D]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Go! Go Now!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/18/go-go-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this <a href="http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/polyamory-is-not-about-the-sex-except-when-it-is/">incredible article on polyamory</a> over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>He&#8217;d Fall In Love With A Can Of Soup If It Sucked His Dick</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/01/09/hed-fall-in-love-with-a-can-of-soup-if-it-sucked-his-dick/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I loved spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine. I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things. I hope you weren't too lonely without me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I <strong>loved</strong> spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine.  I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things.  I hope you weren't too lonely without me :)<br /><br />My New Years Eve was quite fabulous, and while most people do not get a lot of enjoyment out of January, Jack and I have an anniversary coming up which gives me something to look forward to.  Nia is able to come over to watch the kids for a few hours so that Jack and I can go out for sushi or something.  I haven't had sushi in a long time, so I am really looking forward to that.<br /><br />There is also a contest in the works here at SD.  I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, and I had intended to kick it off on January 1st, but was too tired and unmotivated to post anything that day.  At any rate, I'll be sharing the details on that later this week, or on the weekend.  There will be some awesome prizes involved!<br /><br />Jack has me hooked on this site he discovered called <a href="http://www.janelovesdick.com/">JaneLovesDick.com</a> which is a free site for adult web cam play.  Basically you sign up so that you can access the chatrooms where you can view the web shows of multiple people at a time.  Pretty hot stuff if you're a voyouer or an exhibitionist.  The people who participate on that site are normal, every day people like you and I.  Not super models by any stretch, nor is there any insulting or name calling, no matter what you look like.  Generally I just lurk, but who knows, one of these evenings Jack and I might put on a show there.  If you are into 'real people' porn, be sure to check it out.<br /><br />I know this isn't exactly a thrilling update, especially since I've been gone so long.  I hope you'll forgive me, I promise more excitement (or at least more substance) in the coming weeks.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Rock The Blogosphere</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/07/15/rock-the-blogosphere/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen Piper has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen <a href="http://pipersplace.diaryland.com/">Piper</a> has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/813425013/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1227/813425013_5a27842389_o.jpg" width="180" height="63" alt="Rockin Girl Blogger Award" /></a></center><br /><br />It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the sexy minxes they are!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Padme</a> - Padme and I go quite a ways back, and she's one of my very dearest friends and her blog is one of the coolest I know. She's been my biggest fan and one of my most regular commenters and she just rocks my world ;) Not to mention that the photos she and her husband post on their blog are enough to turn my knees to jello!<br /><br /><a href="http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com/">Shibari</a> - Ah how she spoils us with her gorgeous and sensual photos and the thoughtful posts that she writes on her 'confessional'. She is a new read for me, but one I have greatly enjoyed thus far!<br /><br /><a href="http://the-sensuous-libertine.blogspot.com/">Cherrie</a> - How boring the blogosphere would be without this articulate little sexpot. She's one of the main reasons I so look forward to HNT ever week.<br /><br /><a href="http://maybejustonce.blogspot.com/">JeN</a> - Even though she only updates once a decade, JeN will remain one of my favorite bloggers off all time. I believe this is the third incarnation of my blog, and she has been with me through all of them. My first good friend from blogland, and certainly one of the awesomest bloggers ever because like very few others, she is not anonymous!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mnsss.blogspot.com/">Anna</a> - I enjoy Anna's writing a great deal. There has always been a certain gentleness about it, a smooth sense of sensuality that is neither tawdry nor forced.<br /><br />There you go my girls! I adore each of you for your uniqueness and special appeal :) Unlike other 'blog fads' you do not need to feel obligated to keep this one going if you don't want to. However, should you have the desire, feel free to pass out a few to the rockin girl bloggers you love! Try to give them to people who haven't yet received one :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You Can Love More Than One</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.Take A Peek!Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.I do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.seemagazine.com/Issues/2007/0208/cover.htm">Take A Peek!</a><br /><br />Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.<br /><br />It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.<br /><br />I do have to give them props for using a MMF family, and not the 'typical' FMF. Having a bi-sexual male as the hinge in a V is a pretty cool thing.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>On Breaking Up</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/21/on-breaking-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 16:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.Now It's Time To Say GoodbyeNow dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.<br /><br />Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/Editorial/NOW-IT-S-TIME-TO-SAY-GOODBYE_23">Now It's Time To Say Goodbye</a><br /><br />Now dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely one party is just going along with the other in order not to make waves? Thoughts on such things are welcomes, as always :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blog Star!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/07/blog-star/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though. The show is totally kid-safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though.

The show is totally kid-safe (meaning there is not talk about sex nor any coarse language, unlike the rest of the blog, HA HA). Basically just a lot of basic information regrading polyamory.

Download it for free here: <a title="Radio Interview" href="http://www.mediafire.com/?zi4yeugt2yu" target="_blank">Poly Radio Program</a> staring SG!

Enjoy :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.LUST LIFE Polyamory By Stephanie Sellars]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm">LUST LIFE </a><br />Polyamory <br /><br />By Stephanie Sellars]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Column Updates</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column. Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far. Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:Fighting FairAdvanced Scheduling 101Links to be added to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column.  Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far.  Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_060106.html#top">Fighting Fair</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_061406.html#top">Advanced Scheduling 101</a><br /><br />Links to be added to my sidebar as soon as I get around to it, LOL]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions #4</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/05/01/angelic-notions-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2006 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:Social InsecurityIt's all about control and manipulation in relationships.Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_050106.html">Social Insecurity</a><br /><br />It's all about control and manipulation in relationships.<br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>All New Angelic Notions</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2006 16:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check it out. This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:Instinctual GreedHope you enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Check it out.  This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_041506.html#top">Instinctual Greed</a><br /><br />Hope you enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions, 2nd Edition</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Apr 2006 15:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My column for Polyamorous Percolations is up this morning. You can check it out by clicking here.Let me know what you think :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My column for <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> is up this morning.  You can check it out by clicking <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_040106.html#top">here</a>.<br /><br />Let me know what you think :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Freaking Famous!!!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 15:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, not exactly, LOL.So now for my big secret! A week or so ago, Chias of Polyamorous Percolations approached me about writing a regular column for the website. Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.I was flattered by his offer, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img align="left" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112895334_adfa4de71e_o.jpg" width="350" height="233" border="0" alt="Celebration" />OK, not exactly, LOL.<br /><br />So now for my big secret!  A week or so ago, <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/family.html#top">Chias</a> of <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> approached me about writing a regular column for the website.  Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.<br /><br />I was flattered by his offer, to say the least.  So of course I accepted, and the first edition of my column went 'live' on the website this morning!!!<br /><br />The title of my column is <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_031506.html#top">Angelic Notions</a> (since my handle on the website is Nobody's Angel).  Click on the name to read my very first contribution.<br /><br />I will be writing a column every two weeks from now on, and I will be adding an area to my sidebar with links to my columns.<br /><br />Anyway, I'm just excited as hell, can you tell???  Now, get over there and read my column and then come back here and tell me what you think!<br /><br />HUGS AND KISSES ALL!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>If You Click It, I Will Lick You</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage. Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.polyandproud.com/learn/narratives1.php">This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage</a>.  Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Resource And Dating Links</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/07/resource-and-dating-links/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2006 19:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon. In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.Adult Friend Finder - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon.  In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultfriendfinder.com">Adult Friend Finder</a> - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have been too lazy to put up a link.  Basically a big personals site for singles and couples looking for sex with other singles and couples.  I met K through the site, so I have to give it at least a mention, LOL.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/index.html">Polyamorous Percolations</a> - A really great resource about polyamory.  Loads of articles, reader question/comments, columns, etc.  So much that I haven't really had time to browse through everything, but I highly suggest paying a visit.<br /><a href="http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/"><br />Polyamory Livejournal Community</a> - Basically a big forum where people can ask questions and get answers from other members.  Lots of good discussions going on about common issues faced by people living in that type of lifestyle.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.lifestyleplayground.com">Lifestyle Playground</a> - We haven't had much time to properly check out this site.  It was recommended to Jack by a friend.  Very similar to Adult Friend Finder, but there are a lot more couples (at least in our area) than singles.<br /><br /><a href="http://polyweekly.livejournal.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> (Podcast) - A really interesting podcast hosted by Minx, discussing all kinds of things related to Polyamory and kink in general.  There is even a lot of hot erotica, so tune in as soon as possible.  Archived episodes also easily available there.<br /><br /><a href="http://newyorkmetro.com/lifestyle/sex/annual/2005/15063/index.html" target="_blank">The New Monogamy - Marriage With Benefits</a> - An excellent article from New York Metro Magazine<br /><p><br /><strong>The Ethical Slut</strong><br /><center><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1890159018/qid=1132882687/701-9074332-4813941"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1890159018.01._OU15_PE24_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a></center><br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html" target="_blank">Polyamory?</a> - A great wealth of information on the poly lifestyle, especially for beginners<br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.okcupid.com" target="_blank">OKCupid</a> - Very Poly-Friendly Personals Site<br /><p><br /><a title="Jane's Guide" href="http://www.janesguide.com"><img height="75" alt="Jane's Guide" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112030545_ecc1902677_o.gif" width="88" border="0" /></a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Click Me! Click Me!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2005/12/09/click-me-click-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2005 23:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it. It will be added to my sidebar as well.Polyamory?Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it.  It will be added to my sidebar as well.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html">Polyamory?</a><br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Three Isn&#8217;t A Crowd, It&#8217;s Just One More To Love&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/07/15/rock-the-blogosphere/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen Piper has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen <a href="http://pipersplace.diaryland.com/">Piper</a> has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/813425013/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1227/813425013_5a27842389_o.jpg" width="180" height="63" alt="Rockin Girl Blogger Award" /></a></center><br /><br />It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the sexy minxes they are!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Padme</a> - Padme and I go quite a ways back, and she's one of my very dearest friends and her blog is one of the coolest I know. She's been my biggest fan and one of my most regular commenters and she just rocks my world ;) Not to mention that the photos she and her husband post on their blog are enough to turn my knees to jello!<br /><br /><a href="http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com/">Shibari</a> - Ah how she spoils us with her gorgeous and sensual photos and the thoughtful posts that she writes on her 'confessional'. She is a new read for me, but one I have greatly enjoyed thus far!<br /><br /><a href="http://the-sensuous-libertine.blogspot.com/">Cherrie</a> - How boring the blogosphere would be without this articulate little sexpot. She's one of the main reasons I so look forward to HNT ever week.<br /><br /><a href="http://maybejustonce.blogspot.com/">JeN</a> - Even though she only updates once a decade, JeN will remain one of my favorite bloggers off all time. I believe this is the third incarnation of my blog, and she has been with me through all of them. My first good friend from blogland, and certainly one of the awesomest bloggers ever because like very few others, she is not anonymous!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mnsss.blogspot.com/">Anna</a> - I enjoy Anna's writing a great deal. There has always been a certain gentleness about it, a smooth sense of sensuality that is neither tawdry nor forced.<br /><br />There you go my girls! I adore each of you for your uniqueness and special appeal :) Unlike other 'blog fads' you do not need to feel obligated to keep this one going if you don't want to. However, should you have the desire, feel free to pass out a few to the rockin girl bloggers you love! Try to give them to people who haven't yet received one :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Stiletto Diaries™ &#187; Resources And Links</title>
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		<title>Pristiq For Sale</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2010/11/01/the-top-sex-bloggers-of-2010/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Nov 2010 19:28:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Pristiq For Sale, I know, I know, I am behind the times.  At any rate, Pristiq price, coupon, Pristiq steet value, I am so thrilled to be #38 on this years list of Top Sex Bloggers.  I am reposting the list for your enjoyment (and I heartily endorse #2, Pristiq blogs, Purchase Pristiq, 8, 12, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <b>Pristiq For Sale</b>, I know, I know, I am behind the times.  At any rate, <b>Pristiq price, coupon</b>, <b>Pristiq steet value</b>, I am so thrilled to be #38 on this years list of Top Sex Bloggers.  I am reposting the list for your enjoyment (and I heartily endorse #2, <b>Pristiq blogs</b>, <b>Purchase Pristiq</b>, 8, 12, <b>buy no prescription Pristiq online</b>, <b>Buy Pristiq online cod</b>, 20, 49, <b>Pristiq overnight</b>, <b>Pristiq from canadian pharmacy</b>, 71, 77, <b>Pristiq from canada</b>, <b>Where can i cheapest Pristiq online</b>, 78, and 91), <b>effects of Pristiq</b>.  <b>Pristiq recreational</b>, <ol><br />
	<li>(<a href="http://www.betweenmysheets.com/index.php/ok-lets-talk-about-the-2010-list">Please see this post</a>)</li><br />
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	<li>Iona and James from <a href="http://sapioslut.com/" target="_blank">SapioSlut</a></li><br />
	<li>Quizzical Pussy from <a href="http://quizzicalpussy.com/" target="_blank">Quizzical Pussy</a></li><br />
	<li>Sadie from <a href="http://www.sadiesopenmarriage.com/" target="_blank">Sexie Sadie’s Stories of Seduction</a></li><br />
	<li>Vixen from <a href="http://blue-eyedvixen.com/" target="_blank">Secrets of a Blue-Eyed Vixen</a></li><br />
	<li>Adrian Colesberry from <a href="http://blog.adriancolesberry.com/" target="_blank">Adrian’s Blog</a></li><br />
	<li>EA from <a href="http://easilyaroused.co.uk">Easily Aroused</a></li><br />
	<li>Guy New York from <a href="http://quickienewyork.com" target="_blank">Quickies in New York</a></li><br />
	<li>Joan from <a href="http://betterthanieverexpected.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Better Than I Ever Expected: Sex and Aging</a></li><br />
	<li>25 Things from <a href="http://25thingsaboutmysexuality.blogspot.com" target="_blank">25 Things About My Sexuality</a></li><br />
	<li>AAG from AAG Blog</li><br />
	<li>Bad, Bad Girl from <a href="http://bbgblog.com/" target="_blank">BBG Blog</a></li><br />
	<li>Holden from <a href="http://packingvocals.blogspot.com" target="_blank">Packing Vocals</a></li><br />
	<li>The blogging team at <a href="http://sexisfun.net/blogs/home.html">Sex is Fun</a></li><br />
	<li>Elle from <a href="http://www.kinkunleashed.com/" target="_blank">Kink Unleashed</a></li><br />
	<li>Rachel from <a href="http://rabbitwrite.com/" target="_blank">Rabbit Write</a></li><br />
	<li>Clarisse Thorn from <a href="http://clarissethorn.wordpress.com/">Pro-Sex Outreach, <b>where can i buy cheapest Pristiq online</b>, <b>Is Pristiq safe</b>, Open-Minded Feminism</a></li><br />
	<li>littlegirlyone from <a href="http://littlegirlyone.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">littlegirlyland</a></li><br />
	<li>Remittance Girl from <a href="http://remittancegirl.com/" target="_blank">Remittance Girl</a></li><br />
	<li>Mistress Arabella from <a href="http://bombshells-and-rockstars.com/" target="_blank">Bombshells &amp; Rockstars</a></li><br />
	<li>Axe from <a href="http://unspeakableaxe.com/" target="_blank">Unspeakable Axe</a></li><br />
	<li>Coke Talk from <a href="http://www.dearcoketalk.com/" target="_blank">Dear Coke Talk</a></li><br />
	<li>Jack from <a href="http://writingdirty.com/" target="_blank">Writing Dirty</a></li><br />
	<li>Kayar Silkenvoice from <a href="http://www.silkenonsex.com/" target="_blank">Silken on Sex</a></li><br />
	<li>The blogging team at <a href="http://www.gentlenibbles.com/" target="_blank">Gentle Nibbles</a></li><br />
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	<li>Dick and Jane from <a href="http://www.dick-n-jane.com/" target="_blank">Dick-n-Jane</a></li><br />
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	<li>Athol Kay from <a href="http://www.marriedmansexlife.com" target="_blank">Married Man Sex Life</a></li><br />
	<li>Padme and Anakin from <a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Journey to the Darkside</a></li><br />
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	<li>The blogging team at <a href="http://popmycherryreview.com" target="_blank">Pop My Cherry Review</a></li><br />
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		<description><![CDATA[After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Fur by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/1111090170/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1155/1111090170_25bdca39f1_o.jpg" alt="I Hope That's Faux Fur" width="418" height="475" align="left" /></a>After the <a title="Spooning Leads To Forking" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/01/spooning-leads-to-forking/" target="_self">interesting adventure that was Friday night</a>, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy's that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn't slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the <a title="Careful, You May End Up In My Novel" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/26/careful-you-may-end-up-in-my-novel/" target="_self">scene from last weekend</a>. I'd also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he'd find tons of useful information in <a title="SM 101" href="http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t" target="_self">SM 101</a> By Jay Wiseman, and <a title="Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" href="http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1212411296&amp;sr=8-1" target="_self">Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns</a> By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

He flipped through SM 101 and we read passages together, discussing some of the topics covered and commenting on a few things we'd like to try. He was especially glad to see a pre-scene negotiation section, as well as extensive checklists of BDSM related activities.

We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

At one point the sidewalk was too narrow for us to all walk side by side, so Deja and I fell into step behind Varick, and after a few yards of following him she and I exchanged looks and she remarked that we must look like a pimp with his bitches, and I started laughing so hard because I was having the exact same though. We're kind of ridiculous actually.

The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I'll be attending my first play party later this month ;) Looking forward to that.

Bellies full, we sauntered back to Deja's place. Varick decided that all my cheekiness had certainly earned me a good whipping, so he sent me off to the dungeon to get ready. I stripped down, put on my cuffs, and waited for him by the St. Andrew's Cross. He opted to blindfold me again, and then snapped my cuffs to the cross and ran his hands up my body. He started on the outsides of my thighs, slowly proceeded up over my hips, my sides, around to my breasts, and then up to my collar bones. He was pressed against my back and his chin was resting on my shoulder. I was already trembling with anticipation, and when he asked if I was ready to begin, I nodded enthusiastically.

He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. "Harder" and "Green" were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja's single-tail, which hadn't been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the 'breeze' it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn't fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her <a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self">violet wand</a>, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off <a title="Bucket List" href="http://shastagibson.com/my-bucket-list/" target="_self">the bucket list</a>:
<p style="text-align: center;">413. <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">Have a </span><a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self"><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"><span style="color: #a90118;">Violet Wand</span></span></a><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"> used on me</span></p>
I could tell that something was off with Varick. He seemed different while he cleaned up, and I was unsure what was wrong. Deja had some things to do in her office so he and I went downstairs. I sat on the couch, stretched out on it, and had him come and sit down, between my legs, which I wrapped around him, with his cheek on my chest. I asked him quietly what was wrong and he said he just felt weird, and kind of down. I thought it might be Top Drop* so I just stroked his hair and kissed his forehead.

I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn't push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he'd let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say "Yeah, I do that to people all the time" but it wasn't really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn't feel like going out, but didn't want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he's usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

"Maybe he's falling for you and he's all conflicted about it" she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he'd said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he'd been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja's house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn't really expected that. He said he hadn't been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it's not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

"What happened to you?" I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn't allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he's been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy's without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn't in any shape to go and if he wasn't coming with us, we didn't want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked <a title="I Am Legend" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480249/" target="_self">I Am Legend</a>, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything 'scary' LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman :P

We settled in to watch. It wasn't as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don't think I'll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in <a title="Bettie Page" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0404802/" target="_self">The Notorious Bettie Page</a>, which I've seen before. I liked watching it again, because it's an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn't seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn't think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she's pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he's kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to 'go slow' with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn't want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I'm going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I'll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he's afraid of what's happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn't want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn't press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he'd want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the <a title="Tantra Chair" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=111" target="_self">Tantra chair</a>, and the <a title="Sex Swing" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=479" target="_self">sex swing</a>. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he'll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what's caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I'm actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: <em>Colloquial</em> A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Teh Innertubes Are Foar Pr0n?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/28/teh-innertubes-are-foar-pr0n/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, but anyway, he put it up on the Ryerson journalism website and I was quite pleased overall.  I noticed he did not include a direct link to this blog, which was a little disappointing, but no matter.
<blockquote>Shasta Gibson, who does nude webcam shows for JaneLovesDick.com, enjoys watching gay and lesbian porn and porn directed by women. Mainstream heterosexual videos just don’t do it for her.

“I prefer that the movie feel sensual and erotic, rather than fake and staged,” says Gibson, who also writes about sex, porn, toys and erotica on her blog, The Stiletto Diaries.

Gibson is also into watching amateur porn, like the stuff she’s in.

“I love to look at real people, having real sex, and enjoying themselves for the sake of pleasure rather than the almighty dollar,” Gibson says.</blockquote>
You can read the entire article <a title="Harlequin Romances And Hardcore Porn" href="http://www.journalism.ryerson.ca/entertainment_culture/sexopolis/Russ/my_porn_story.html" target="_self">here</a>.  My contribution begins on Page 4.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>When Is A Horse Not A Horse?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/21/when-is-a-horse-not-a-horse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?" Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?"

Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to in Alberta for as long as I can remember. We went out for breakfast as a family, lounged about in the afternoon, and then went out for supper as well. It completely threw off my regular schedule however, and so today only feels like Tuesday, which means I feel behind in my week already. Not that I am complaining about the extra day with Jack :)

Nia and I have been hitting the gym four times a week now, which seems to eat up at least a couple of hours on those days. It feels so good to be working out again. I needed to get out of the house this evening, so I treated myself to a new yoga mat and some sexy workout gear. One can never have too many good sports bras or lycra booty shorts.

This weekend I have a couple of dates lined up. Sunday I am having coffee with a friend who I've mentioned here before, but who has not been assigned a name as of yet. I did photos for her one Saturday afternoon not long ago, and we've hit it off quite excellently. I shall call her Miri, which means 'mine' and you can read into that however you will *sly wink*.

Afterwards, I am getting together with Nelek, for coffee and more lascivious things. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I likely won't be able to spend any time with him again until well into March. Thus, I am going to make the most of Sunday, as they say.

Today was spent indoors, tidying the house while I listened to episodes of <a href="http://polyweekly.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> on my iPod Touch (a generous Christmas gift from that fabulous husband of mine). Nothing like being elbow-deep in dishwater while Minx purrs on about responsible non-monogamy. She may yet inspire me to try doing a podcast of my own.

Before I leave off for the evening and crawl into bed with Jack, I have a favour to ask! I need some dare suggestions for an adult party. I know I've asked for this before, but this time I need them to be short and easily applied to a group of people who don't know each other well. We're going to be writing them on slips of paper and giving one to each guest at random. We've got things like "Show some skin" and "Introduce yourself to an attractive stranger" but I need quite a few more. So, think about going to a sexy adult party where you might not know anyone all that well. What sorts of dares would you like to see people do? What would you be willing to do? Leave me some comments please :D]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Go! Go Now!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/18/go-go-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Ethics And Morality]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this <a href="http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/polyamory-is-not-about-the-sex-except-when-it-is/">incredible article on polyamory</a> over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>He&#8217;d Fall In Love With A Can Of Soup If It Sucked His Dick</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/01/09/hed-fall-in-love-with-a-can-of-soup-if-it-sucked-his-dick/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I loved spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine. I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things. I hope you weren't too lonely without me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I <strong>loved</strong> spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine.  I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things.  I hope you weren't too lonely without me :)<br /><br />My New Years Eve was quite fabulous, and while most people do not get a lot of enjoyment out of January, Jack and I have an anniversary coming up which gives me something to look forward to.  Nia is able to come over to watch the kids for a few hours so that Jack and I can go out for sushi or something.  I haven't had sushi in a long time, so I am really looking forward to that.<br /><br />There is also a contest in the works here at SD.  I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, and I had intended to kick it off on January 1st, but was too tired and unmotivated to post anything that day.  At any rate, I'll be sharing the details on that later this week, or on the weekend.  There will be some awesome prizes involved!<br /><br />Jack has me hooked on this site he discovered called <a href="http://www.janelovesdick.com/">JaneLovesDick.com</a> which is a free site for adult web cam play.  Basically you sign up so that you can access the chatrooms where you can view the web shows of multiple people at a time.  Pretty hot stuff if you're a voyouer or an exhibitionist.  The people who participate on that site are normal, every day people like you and I.  Not super models by any stretch, nor is there any insulting or name calling, no matter what you look like.  Generally I just lurk, but who knows, one of these evenings Jack and I might put on a show there.  If you are into 'real people' porn, be sure to check it out.<br /><br />I know this isn't exactly a thrilling update, especially since I've been gone so long.  I hope you'll forgive me, I promise more excitement (or at least more substance) in the coming weeks.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Rock The Blogosphere</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/07/15/rock-the-blogosphere/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen Piper has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen <a href="http://pipersplace.diaryland.com/">Piper</a> has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/813425013/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1227/813425013_5a27842389_o.jpg" width="180" height="63" alt="Rockin Girl Blogger Award" /></a></center><br /><br />It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the sexy minxes they are!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Padme</a> - Padme and I go quite a ways back, and she's one of my very dearest friends and her blog is one of the coolest I know. She's been my biggest fan and one of my most regular commenters and she just rocks my world ;) Not to mention that the photos she and her husband post on their blog are enough to turn my knees to jello!<br /><br /><a href="http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com/">Shibari</a> - Ah how she spoils us with her gorgeous and sensual photos and the thoughtful posts that she writes on her 'confessional'. She is a new read for me, but one I have greatly enjoyed thus far!<br /><br /><a href="http://the-sensuous-libertine.blogspot.com/">Cherrie</a> - How boring the blogosphere would be without this articulate little sexpot. She's one of the main reasons I so look forward to HNT ever week.<br /><br /><a href="http://maybejustonce.blogspot.com/">JeN</a> - Even though she only updates once a decade, JeN will remain one of my favorite bloggers off all time. I believe this is the third incarnation of my blog, and she has been with me through all of them. My first good friend from blogland, and certainly one of the awesomest bloggers ever because like very few others, she is not anonymous!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mnsss.blogspot.com/">Anna</a> - I enjoy Anna's writing a great deal. There has always been a certain gentleness about it, a smooth sense of sensuality that is neither tawdry nor forced.<br /><br />There you go my girls! I adore each of you for your uniqueness and special appeal :) Unlike other 'blog fads' you do not need to feel obligated to keep this one going if you don't want to. However, should you have the desire, feel free to pass out a few to the rockin girl bloggers you love! Try to give them to people who haven't yet received one :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You Can Love More Than One</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.Take A Peek!Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.I do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.seemagazine.com/Issues/2007/0208/cover.htm">Take A Peek!</a><br /><br />Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.<br /><br />It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.<br /><br />I do have to give them props for using a MMF family, and not the 'typical' FMF. Having a bi-sexual male as the hinge in a V is a pretty cool thing.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>On Breaking Up</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/21/on-breaking-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 16:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.Now It's Time To Say GoodbyeNow dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.<br /><br />Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/Editorial/NOW-IT-S-TIME-TO-SAY-GOODBYE_23">Now It's Time To Say Goodbye</a><br /><br />Now dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely one party is just going along with the other in order not to make waves? Thoughts on such things are welcomes, as always :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blog Star!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/07/blog-star/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though. The show is totally kid-safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though.

The show is totally kid-safe (meaning there is not talk about sex nor any coarse language, unlike the rest of the blog, HA HA). Basically just a lot of basic information regrading polyamory.

Download it for free here: <a title="Radio Interview" href="http://www.mediafire.com/?zi4yeugt2yu" target="_blank">Poly Radio Program</a> staring SG!

Enjoy :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.LUST LIFE Polyamory By Stephanie Sellars]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm">LUST LIFE </a><br />Polyamory <br /><br />By Stephanie Sellars]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Column Updates</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column. Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far. Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:Fighting FairAdvanced Scheduling 101Links to be added to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column.  Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far.  Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_060106.html#top">Fighting Fair</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_061406.html#top">Advanced Scheduling 101</a><br /><br />Links to be added to my sidebar as soon as I get around to it, LOL]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions #4</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/05/01/angelic-notions-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2006 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:Social InsecurityIt's all about control and manipulation in relationships.Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_050106.html">Social Insecurity</a><br /><br />It's all about control and manipulation in relationships.<br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>All New Angelic Notions</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2006 16:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check it out. This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:Instinctual GreedHope you enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Check it out.  This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_041506.html#top">Instinctual Greed</a><br /><br />Hope you enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions, 2nd Edition</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Apr 2006 15:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My column for Polyamorous Percolations is up this morning. You can check it out by clicking here.Let me know what you think :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My column for <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> is up this morning.  You can check it out by clicking <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_040106.html#top">here</a>.<br /><br />Let me know what you think :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Freaking Famous!!!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 15:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, not exactly, LOL.So now for my big secret! A week or so ago, Chias of Polyamorous Percolations approached me about writing a regular column for the website. Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.I was flattered by his offer, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img align="left" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112895334_adfa4de71e_o.jpg" width="350" height="233" border="0" alt="Celebration" />OK, not exactly, LOL.<br /><br />So now for my big secret!  A week or so ago, <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/family.html#top">Chias</a> of <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> approached me about writing a regular column for the website.  Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.<br /><br />I was flattered by his offer, to say the least.  So of course I accepted, and the first edition of my column went 'live' on the website this morning!!!<br /><br />The title of my column is <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_031506.html#top">Angelic Notions</a> (since my handle on the website is Nobody's Angel).  Click on the name to read my very first contribution.<br /><br />I will be writing a column every two weeks from now on, and I will be adding an area to my sidebar with links to my columns.<br /><br />Anyway, I'm just excited as hell, can you tell???  Now, get over there and read my column and then come back here and tell me what you think!<br /><br />HUGS AND KISSES ALL!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>If You Click It, I Will Lick You</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage. Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.polyandproud.com/learn/narratives1.php">This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage</a>.  Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Resource And Dating Links</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/07/resource-and-dating-links/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2006 19:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon. In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.Adult Friend Finder - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon.  In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultfriendfinder.com">Adult Friend Finder</a> - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have been too lazy to put up a link.  Basically a big personals site for singles and couples looking for sex with other singles and couples.  I met K through the site, so I have to give it at least a mention, LOL.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/index.html">Polyamorous Percolations</a> - A really great resource about polyamory.  Loads of articles, reader question/comments, columns, etc.  So much that I haven't really had time to browse through everything, but I highly suggest paying a visit.<br /><a href="http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/"><br />Polyamory Livejournal Community</a> - Basically a big forum where people can ask questions and get answers from other members.  Lots of good discussions going on about common issues faced by people living in that type of lifestyle.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.lifestyleplayground.com">Lifestyle Playground</a> - We haven't had much time to properly check out this site.  It was recommended to Jack by a friend.  Very similar to Adult Friend Finder, but there are a lot more couples (at least in our area) than singles.<br /><br /><a href="http://polyweekly.livejournal.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> (Podcast) - A really interesting podcast hosted by Minx, discussing all kinds of things related to Polyamory and kink in general.  There is even a lot of hot erotica, so tune in as soon as possible.  Archived episodes also easily available there.<br /><br /><a href="http://newyorkmetro.com/lifestyle/sex/annual/2005/15063/index.html" target="_blank">The New Monogamy - Marriage With Benefits</a> - An excellent article from New York Metro Magazine<br /><p><br /><strong>The Ethical Slut</strong><br /><center><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1890159018/qid=1132882687/701-9074332-4813941"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1890159018.01._OU15_PE24_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a></center><br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html" target="_blank">Polyamory?</a> - A great wealth of information on the poly lifestyle, especially for beginners<br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.okcupid.com" target="_blank">OKCupid</a> - Very Poly-Friendly Personals Site<br /><p><br /><a title="Jane's Guide" href="http://www.janesguide.com"><img height="75" alt="Jane's Guide" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112030545_ecc1902677_o.gif" width="88" border="0" /></a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Click Me! Click Me!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2005/12/09/click-me-click-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2005 23:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it. It will be added to my sidebar as well.Polyamory?Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it.  It will be added to my sidebar as well.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html">Polyamory?</a><br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Three Isn&#8217;t A Crowd, It&#8217;s Just One More To Love&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.Take A Peek!Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.I do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.seemagazine.com/Issues/2007/0208/cover.htm">Take A Peek!</a><br /><br />Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.<br /><br />It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.<br /><br />I do have to give them props for using a MMF family, and not the 'typical' FMF. Having a bi-sexual male as the hinge in a V is a pretty cool thing.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Pristiq For Sale</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2010/11/01/the-top-sex-bloggers-of-2010/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Nov 2010 19:28:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Pristiq For Sale, I know, I know, I am behind the times.  At any rate, Pristiq price, coupon, Pristiq steet value, I am so thrilled to be #38 on this years list of Top Sex Bloggers.  I am reposting the list for your enjoyment (and I heartily endorse #2, Pristiq blogs, Purchase Pristiq, 8, 12, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>You&#8217;re My Favorite, Don&#8217;t Tell The Others</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 16:31:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Fur by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/1111090170/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1155/1111090170_25bdca39f1_o.jpg" alt="I Hope That's Faux Fur" width="418" height="475" align="left" /></a>After the <a title="Spooning Leads To Forking" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/01/spooning-leads-to-forking/" target="_self">interesting adventure that was Friday night</a>, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy's that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn't slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the <a title="Careful, You May End Up In My Novel" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/26/careful-you-may-end-up-in-my-novel/" target="_self">scene from last weekend</a>. I'd also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he'd find tons of useful information in <a title="SM 101" href="http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t" target="_self">SM 101</a> By Jay Wiseman, and <a title="Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" href="http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1212411296&amp;sr=8-1" target="_self">Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns</a> By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

He flipped through SM 101 and we read passages together, discussing some of the topics covered and commenting on a few things we'd like to try. He was especially glad to see a pre-scene negotiation section, as well as extensive checklists of BDSM related activities.

We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

At one point the sidewalk was too narrow for us to all walk side by side, so Deja and I fell into step behind Varick, and after a few yards of following him she and I exchanged looks and she remarked that we must look like a pimp with his bitches, and I started laughing so hard because I was having the exact same though. We're kind of ridiculous actually.

The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I'll be attending my first play party later this month ;) Looking forward to that.

Bellies full, we sauntered back to Deja's place. Varick decided that all my cheekiness had certainly earned me a good whipping, so he sent me off to the dungeon to get ready. I stripped down, put on my cuffs, and waited for him by the St. Andrew's Cross. He opted to blindfold me again, and then snapped my cuffs to the cross and ran his hands up my body. He started on the outsides of my thighs, slowly proceeded up over my hips, my sides, around to my breasts, and then up to my collar bones. He was pressed against my back and his chin was resting on my shoulder. I was already trembling with anticipation, and when he asked if I was ready to begin, I nodded enthusiastically.

He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. "Harder" and "Green" were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja's single-tail, which hadn't been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the 'breeze' it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn't fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her <a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self">violet wand</a>, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off <a title="Bucket List" href="http://shastagibson.com/my-bucket-list/" target="_self">the bucket list</a>:
<p style="text-align: center;">413. <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">Have a </span><a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self"><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"><span style="color: #a90118;">Violet Wand</span></span></a><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"> used on me</span></p>
I could tell that something was off with Varick. He seemed different while he cleaned up, and I was unsure what was wrong. Deja had some things to do in her office so he and I went downstairs. I sat on the couch, stretched out on it, and had him come and sit down, between my legs, which I wrapped around him, with his cheek on my chest. I asked him quietly what was wrong and he said he just felt weird, and kind of down. I thought it might be Top Drop* so I just stroked his hair and kissed his forehead.

I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn't push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he'd let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say "Yeah, I do that to people all the time" but it wasn't really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn't feel like going out, but didn't want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he's usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

"Maybe he's falling for you and he's all conflicted about it" she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he'd said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he'd been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja's house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn't really expected that. He said he hadn't been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it's not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

"What happened to you?" I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn't allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he's been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy's without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn't in any shape to go and if he wasn't coming with us, we didn't want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked <a title="I Am Legend" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480249/" target="_self">I Am Legend</a>, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything 'scary' LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman :P

We settled in to watch. It wasn't as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don't think I'll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in <a title="Bettie Page" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0404802/" target="_self">The Notorious Bettie Page</a>, which I've seen before. I liked watching it again, because it's an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn't seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn't think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she's pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he's kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to 'go slow' with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn't want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I'm going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I'll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he's afraid of what's happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn't want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn't press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he'd want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the <a title="Tantra Chair" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=111" target="_self">Tantra chair</a>, and the <a title="Sex Swing" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=479" target="_self">sex swing</a>. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he'll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what's caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I'm actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: <em>Colloquial</em> A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Teh Innertubes Are Foar Pr0n?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, but anyway, he put it up on the Ryerson journalism website and I was quite pleased overall.  I noticed he did not include a direct link to this blog, which was a little disappointing, but no matter.
<blockquote>Shasta Gibson, who does nude webcam shows for JaneLovesDick.com, enjoys watching gay and lesbian porn and porn directed by women. Mainstream heterosexual videos just don’t do it for her.

“I prefer that the movie feel sensual and erotic, rather than fake and staged,” says Gibson, who also writes about sex, porn, toys and erotica on her blog, The Stiletto Diaries.

Gibson is also into watching amateur porn, like the stuff she’s in.

“I love to look at real people, having real sex, and enjoying themselves for the sake of pleasure rather than the almighty dollar,” Gibson says.</blockquote>
You can read the entire article <a title="Harlequin Romances And Hardcore Porn" href="http://www.journalism.ryerson.ca/entertainment_culture/sexopolis/Russ/my_porn_story.html" target="_self">here</a>.  My contribution begins on Page 4.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>When Is A Horse Not A Horse?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?" Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?"

Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to in Alberta for as long as I can remember. We went out for breakfast as a family, lounged about in the afternoon, and then went out for supper as well. It completely threw off my regular schedule however, and so today only feels like Tuesday, which means I feel behind in my week already. Not that I am complaining about the extra day with Jack :)

Nia and I have been hitting the gym four times a week now, which seems to eat up at least a couple of hours on those days. It feels so good to be working out again. I needed to get out of the house this evening, so I treated myself to a new yoga mat and some sexy workout gear. One can never have too many good sports bras or lycra booty shorts.

This weekend I have a couple of dates lined up. Sunday I am having coffee with a friend who I've mentioned here before, but who has not been assigned a name as of yet. I did photos for her one Saturday afternoon not long ago, and we've hit it off quite excellently. I shall call her Miri, which means 'mine' and you can read into that however you will *sly wink*.

Afterwards, I am getting together with Nelek, for coffee and more lascivious things. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I likely won't be able to spend any time with him again until well into March. Thus, I am going to make the most of Sunday, as they say.

Today was spent indoors, tidying the house while I listened to episodes of <a href="http://polyweekly.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> on my iPod Touch (a generous Christmas gift from that fabulous husband of mine). Nothing like being elbow-deep in dishwater while Minx purrs on about responsible non-monogamy. She may yet inspire me to try doing a podcast of my own.

Before I leave off for the evening and crawl into bed with Jack, I have a favour to ask! I need some dare suggestions for an adult party. I know I've asked for this before, but this time I need them to be short and easily applied to a group of people who don't know each other well. We're going to be writing them on slips of paper and giving one to each guest at random. We've got things like "Show some skin" and "Introduce yourself to an attractive stranger" but I need quite a few more. So, think about going to a sexy adult party where you might not know anyone all that well. What sorts of dares would you like to see people do? What would you be willing to do? Leave me some comments please :D]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Go! Go Now!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/18/go-go-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this <a href="http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/polyamory-is-not-about-the-sex-except-when-it-is/">incredible article on polyamory</a> over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>He&#8217;d Fall In Love With A Can Of Soup If It Sucked His Dick</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/01/09/hed-fall-in-love-with-a-can-of-soup-if-it-sucked-his-dick/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I loved spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine. I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things. I hope you weren't too lonely without me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I <strong>loved</strong> spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine.  I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things.  I hope you weren't too lonely without me :)<br /><br />My New Years Eve was quite fabulous, and while most people do not get a lot of enjoyment out of January, Jack and I have an anniversary coming up which gives me something to look forward to.  Nia is able to come over to watch the kids for a few hours so that Jack and I can go out for sushi or something.  I haven't had sushi in a long time, so I am really looking forward to that.<br /><br />There is also a contest in the works here at SD.  I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, and I had intended to kick it off on January 1st, but was too tired and unmotivated to post anything that day.  At any rate, I'll be sharing the details on that later this week, or on the weekend.  There will be some awesome prizes involved!<br /><br />Jack has me hooked on this site he discovered called <a href="http://www.janelovesdick.com/">JaneLovesDick.com</a> which is a free site for adult web cam play.  Basically you sign up so that you can access the chatrooms where you can view the web shows of multiple people at a time.  Pretty hot stuff if you're a voyouer or an exhibitionist.  The people who participate on that site are normal, every day people like you and I.  Not super models by any stretch, nor is there any insulting or name calling, no matter what you look like.  Generally I just lurk, but who knows, one of these evenings Jack and I might put on a show there.  If you are into 'real people' porn, be sure to check it out.<br /><br />I know this isn't exactly a thrilling update, especially since I've been gone so long.  I hope you'll forgive me, I promise more excitement (or at least more substance) in the coming weeks.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Rock The Blogosphere</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/07/15/rock-the-blogosphere/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen Piper has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen <a href="http://pipersplace.diaryland.com/">Piper</a> has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/813425013/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1227/813425013_5a27842389_o.jpg" width="180" height="63" alt="Rockin Girl Blogger Award" /></a></center><br /><br />It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the sexy minxes they are!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Padme</a> - Padme and I go quite a ways back, and she's one of my very dearest friends and her blog is one of the coolest I know. She's been my biggest fan and one of my most regular commenters and she just rocks my world ;) Not to mention that the photos she and her husband post on their blog are enough to turn my knees to jello!<br /><br /><a href="http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com/">Shibari</a> - Ah how she spoils us with her gorgeous and sensual photos and the thoughtful posts that she writes on her 'confessional'. She is a new read for me, but one I have greatly enjoyed thus far!<br /><br /><a href="http://the-sensuous-libertine.blogspot.com/">Cherrie</a> - How boring the blogosphere would be without this articulate little sexpot. She's one of the main reasons I so look forward to HNT ever week.<br /><br /><a href="http://maybejustonce.blogspot.com/">JeN</a> - Even though she only updates once a decade, JeN will remain one of my favorite bloggers off all time. I believe this is the third incarnation of my blog, and she has been with me through all of them. My first good friend from blogland, and certainly one of the awesomest bloggers ever because like very few others, she is not anonymous!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mnsss.blogspot.com/">Anna</a> - I enjoy Anna's writing a great deal. There has always been a certain gentleness about it, a smooth sense of sensuality that is neither tawdry nor forced.<br /><br />There you go my girls! I adore each of you for your uniqueness and special appeal :) Unlike other 'blog fads' you do not need to feel obligated to keep this one going if you don't want to. However, should you have the desire, feel free to pass out a few to the rockin girl bloggers you love! Try to give them to people who haven't yet received one :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You Can Love More Than One</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.Take A Peek!Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.I do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.seemagazine.com/Issues/2007/0208/cover.htm">Take A Peek!</a><br /><br />Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.<br /><br />It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.<br /><br />I do have to give them props for using a MMF family, and not the 'typical' FMF. Having a bi-sexual male as the hinge in a V is a pretty cool thing.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>On Breaking Up</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/21/on-breaking-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 16:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.Now It's Time To Say GoodbyeNow dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.<br /><br />Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/Editorial/NOW-IT-S-TIME-TO-SAY-GOODBYE_23">Now It's Time To Say Goodbye</a><br /><br />Now dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely one party is just going along with the other in order not to make waves? Thoughts on such things are welcomes, as always :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blog Star!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/07/blog-star/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though. The show is totally kid-safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though.

The show is totally kid-safe (meaning there is not talk about sex nor any coarse language, unlike the rest of the blog, HA HA). Basically just a lot of basic information regrading polyamory.

Download it for free here: <a title="Radio Interview" href="http://www.mediafire.com/?zi4yeugt2yu" target="_blank">Poly Radio Program</a> staring SG!

Enjoy :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.LUST LIFE Polyamory By Stephanie Sellars]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm">LUST LIFE </a><br />Polyamory <br /><br />By Stephanie Sellars]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Column Updates</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column. Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far. Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:Fighting FairAdvanced Scheduling 101Links to be added to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column.  Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far.  Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_060106.html#top">Fighting Fair</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_061406.html#top">Advanced Scheduling 101</a><br /><br />Links to be added to my sidebar as soon as I get around to it, LOL]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions #4</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/05/01/angelic-notions-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2006 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:Social InsecurityIt's all about control and manipulation in relationships.Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_050106.html">Social Insecurity</a><br /><br />It's all about control and manipulation in relationships.<br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>All New Angelic Notions</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2006 16:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check it out. This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:Instinctual GreedHope you enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Check it out.  This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_041506.html#top">Instinctual Greed</a><br /><br />Hope you enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions, 2nd Edition</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Apr 2006 15:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My column for Polyamorous Percolations is up this morning. You can check it out by clicking here.Let me know what you think :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My column for <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> is up this morning.  You can check it out by clicking <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_040106.html#top">here</a>.<br /><br />Let me know what you think :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Freaking Famous!!!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 15:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, not exactly, LOL.So now for my big secret! A week or so ago, Chias of Polyamorous Percolations approached me about writing a regular column for the website. Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.I was flattered by his offer, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img align="left" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112895334_adfa4de71e_o.jpg" width="350" height="233" border="0" alt="Celebration" />OK, not exactly, LOL.<br /><br />So now for my big secret!  A week or so ago, <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/family.html#top">Chias</a> of <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> approached me about writing a regular column for the website.  Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.<br /><br />I was flattered by his offer, to say the least.  So of course I accepted, and the first edition of my column went 'live' on the website this morning!!!<br /><br />The title of my column is <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_031506.html#top">Angelic Notions</a> (since my handle on the website is Nobody's Angel).  Click on the name to read my very first contribution.<br /><br />I will be writing a column every two weeks from now on, and I will be adding an area to my sidebar with links to my columns.<br /><br />Anyway, I'm just excited as hell, can you tell???  Now, get over there and read my column and then come back here and tell me what you think!<br /><br />HUGS AND KISSES ALL!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>If You Click It, I Will Lick You</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage. Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.polyandproud.com/learn/narratives1.php">This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage</a>.  Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Resource And Dating Links</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/07/resource-and-dating-links/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2006 19:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon. In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.Adult Friend Finder - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon.  In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultfriendfinder.com">Adult Friend Finder</a> - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have been too lazy to put up a link.  Basically a big personals site for singles and couples looking for sex with other singles and couples.  I met K through the site, so I have to give it at least a mention, LOL.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/index.html">Polyamorous Percolations</a> - A really great resource about polyamory.  Loads of articles, reader question/comments, columns, etc.  So much that I haven't really had time to browse through everything, but I highly suggest paying a visit.<br /><a href="http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/"><br />Polyamory Livejournal Community</a> - Basically a big forum where people can ask questions and get answers from other members.  Lots of good discussions going on about common issues faced by people living in that type of lifestyle.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.lifestyleplayground.com">Lifestyle Playground</a> - We haven't had much time to properly check out this site.  It was recommended to Jack by a friend.  Very similar to Adult Friend Finder, but there are a lot more couples (at least in our area) than singles.<br /><br /><a href="http://polyweekly.livejournal.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> (Podcast) - A really interesting podcast hosted by Minx, discussing all kinds of things related to Polyamory and kink in general.  There is even a lot of hot erotica, so tune in as soon as possible.  Archived episodes also easily available there.<br /><br /><a href="http://newyorkmetro.com/lifestyle/sex/annual/2005/15063/index.html" target="_blank">The New Monogamy - Marriage With Benefits</a> - An excellent article from New York Metro Magazine<br /><p><br /><strong>The Ethical Slut</strong><br /><center><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1890159018/qid=1132882687/701-9074332-4813941"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1890159018.01._OU15_PE24_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a></center><br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html" target="_blank">Polyamory?</a> - A great wealth of information on the poly lifestyle, especially for beginners<br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.okcupid.com" target="_blank">OKCupid</a> - Very Poly-Friendly Personals Site<br /><p><br /><a title="Jane's Guide" href="http://www.janesguide.com"><img height="75" alt="Jane's Guide" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112030545_ecc1902677_o.gif" width="88" border="0" /></a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Three Isn&#8217;t A Crowd, It&#8217;s Just One More To Love&#8230;</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.Now It's Time To Say GoodbyeNow dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.<br /><br />Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/Editorial/NOW-IT-S-TIME-TO-SAY-GOODBYE_23">Now It's Time To Say Goodbye</a><br /><br />Now dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely one party is just going along with the other in order not to make waves? Thoughts on such things are welcomes, as always :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<description><![CDATA[After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Fur by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/1111090170/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1155/1111090170_25bdca39f1_o.jpg" alt="I Hope That's Faux Fur" width="418" height="475" align="left" /></a>After the <a title="Spooning Leads To Forking" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/01/spooning-leads-to-forking/" target="_self">interesting adventure that was Friday night</a>, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy's that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn't slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the <a title="Careful, You May End Up In My Novel" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/26/careful-you-may-end-up-in-my-novel/" target="_self">scene from last weekend</a>. I'd also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he'd find tons of useful information in <a title="SM 101" href="http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t" target="_self">SM 101</a> By Jay Wiseman, and <a title="Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" href="http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1212411296&amp;sr=8-1" target="_self">Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns</a> By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

He flipped through SM 101 and we read passages together, discussing some of the topics covered and commenting on a few things we'd like to try. He was especially glad to see a pre-scene negotiation section, as well as extensive checklists of BDSM related activities.

We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

At one point the sidewalk was too narrow for us to all walk side by side, so Deja and I fell into step behind Varick, and after a few yards of following him she and I exchanged looks and she remarked that we must look like a pimp with his bitches, and I started laughing so hard because I was having the exact same though. We're kind of ridiculous actually.

The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I'll be attending my first play party later this month ;) Looking forward to that.

Bellies full, we sauntered back to Deja's place. Varick decided that all my cheekiness had certainly earned me a good whipping, so he sent me off to the dungeon to get ready. I stripped down, put on my cuffs, and waited for him by the St. Andrew's Cross. He opted to blindfold me again, and then snapped my cuffs to the cross and ran his hands up my body. He started on the outsides of my thighs, slowly proceeded up over my hips, my sides, around to my breasts, and then up to my collar bones. He was pressed against my back and his chin was resting on my shoulder. I was already trembling with anticipation, and when he asked if I was ready to begin, I nodded enthusiastically.

He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. "Harder" and "Green" were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja's single-tail, which hadn't been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the 'breeze' it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn't fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her <a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self">violet wand</a>, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off <a title="Bucket List" href="http://shastagibson.com/my-bucket-list/" target="_self">the bucket list</a>:
<p style="text-align: center;">413. <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">Have a </span><a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self"><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"><span style="color: #a90118;">Violet Wand</span></span></a><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"> used on me</span></p>
I could tell that something was off with Varick. He seemed different while he cleaned up, and I was unsure what was wrong. Deja had some things to do in her office so he and I went downstairs. I sat on the couch, stretched out on it, and had him come and sit down, between my legs, which I wrapped around him, with his cheek on my chest. I asked him quietly what was wrong and he said he just felt weird, and kind of down. I thought it might be Top Drop* so I just stroked his hair and kissed his forehead.

I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn't push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he'd let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say "Yeah, I do that to people all the time" but it wasn't really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn't feel like going out, but didn't want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he's usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

"Maybe he's falling for you and he's all conflicted about it" she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he'd said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he'd been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja's house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn't really expected that. He said he hadn't been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it's not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

"What happened to you?" I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn't allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he's been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy's without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn't in any shape to go and if he wasn't coming with us, we didn't want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked <a title="I Am Legend" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480249/" target="_self">I Am Legend</a>, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything 'scary' LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman :P

We settled in to watch. It wasn't as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don't think I'll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in <a title="Bettie Page" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0404802/" target="_self">The Notorious Bettie Page</a>, which I've seen before. I liked watching it again, because it's an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn't seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn't think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she's pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he's kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to 'go slow' with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn't want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I'm going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I'll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he's afraid of what's happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn't want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn't press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he'd want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the <a title="Tantra Chair" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=111" target="_self">Tantra chair</a>, and the <a title="Sex Swing" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=479" target="_self">sex swing</a>. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he'll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what's caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I'm actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: <em>Colloquial</em> A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Teh Innertubes Are Foar Pr0n?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/28/teh-innertubes-are-foar-pr0n/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, but anyway, he put it up on the Ryerson journalism website and I was quite pleased overall.  I noticed he did not include a direct link to this blog, which was a little disappointing, but no matter.
<blockquote>Shasta Gibson, who does nude webcam shows for JaneLovesDick.com, enjoys watching gay and lesbian porn and porn directed by women. Mainstream heterosexual videos just don’t do it for her.

“I prefer that the movie feel sensual and erotic, rather than fake and staged,” says Gibson, who also writes about sex, porn, toys and erotica on her blog, The Stiletto Diaries.

Gibson is also into watching amateur porn, like the stuff she’s in.

“I love to look at real people, having real sex, and enjoying themselves for the sake of pleasure rather than the almighty dollar,” Gibson says.</blockquote>
You can read the entire article <a title="Harlequin Romances And Hardcore Porn" href="http://www.journalism.ryerson.ca/entertainment_culture/sexopolis/Russ/my_porn_story.html" target="_self">here</a>.  My contribution begins on Page 4.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>When Is A Horse Not A Horse?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/21/when-is-a-horse-not-a-horse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?" Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?"

Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to in Alberta for as long as I can remember. We went out for breakfast as a family, lounged about in the afternoon, and then went out for supper as well. It completely threw off my regular schedule however, and so today only feels like Tuesday, which means I feel behind in my week already. Not that I am complaining about the extra day with Jack :)

Nia and I have been hitting the gym four times a week now, which seems to eat up at least a couple of hours on those days. It feels so good to be working out again. I needed to get out of the house this evening, so I treated myself to a new yoga mat and some sexy workout gear. One can never have too many good sports bras or lycra booty shorts.

This weekend I have a couple of dates lined up. Sunday I am having coffee with a friend who I've mentioned here before, but who has not been assigned a name as of yet. I did photos for her one Saturday afternoon not long ago, and we've hit it off quite excellently. I shall call her Miri, which means 'mine' and you can read into that however you will *sly wink*.

Afterwards, I am getting together with Nelek, for coffee and more lascivious things. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I likely won't be able to spend any time with him again until well into March. Thus, I am going to make the most of Sunday, as they say.

Today was spent indoors, tidying the house while I listened to episodes of <a href="http://polyweekly.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> on my iPod Touch (a generous Christmas gift from that fabulous husband of mine). Nothing like being elbow-deep in dishwater while Minx purrs on about responsible non-monogamy. She may yet inspire me to try doing a podcast of my own.

Before I leave off for the evening and crawl into bed with Jack, I have a favour to ask! I need some dare suggestions for an adult party. I know I've asked for this before, but this time I need them to be short and easily applied to a group of people who don't know each other well. We're going to be writing them on slips of paper and giving one to each guest at random. We've got things like "Show some skin" and "Introduce yourself to an attractive stranger" but I need quite a few more. So, think about going to a sexy adult party where you might not know anyone all that well. What sorts of dares would you like to see people do? What would you be willing to do? Leave me some comments please :D]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Go! Go Now!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/18/go-go-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this <a href="http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/polyamory-is-not-about-the-sex-except-when-it-is/">incredible article on polyamory</a> over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>He&#8217;d Fall In Love With A Can Of Soup If It Sucked His Dick</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/01/09/hed-fall-in-love-with-a-can-of-soup-if-it-sucked-his-dick/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I loved spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine. I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things. I hope you weren't too lonely without me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I <strong>loved</strong> spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine.  I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things.  I hope you weren't too lonely without me :)<br /><br />My New Years Eve was quite fabulous, and while most people do not get a lot of enjoyment out of January, Jack and I have an anniversary coming up which gives me something to look forward to.  Nia is able to come over to watch the kids for a few hours so that Jack and I can go out for sushi or something.  I haven't had sushi in a long time, so I am really looking forward to that.<br /><br />There is also a contest in the works here at SD.  I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, and I had intended to kick it off on January 1st, but was too tired and unmotivated to post anything that day.  At any rate, I'll be sharing the details on that later this week, or on the weekend.  There will be some awesome prizes involved!<br /><br />Jack has me hooked on this site he discovered called <a href="http://www.janelovesdick.com/">JaneLovesDick.com</a> which is a free site for adult web cam play.  Basically you sign up so that you can access the chatrooms where you can view the web shows of multiple people at a time.  Pretty hot stuff if you're a voyouer or an exhibitionist.  The people who participate on that site are normal, every day people like you and I.  Not super models by any stretch, nor is there any insulting or name calling, no matter what you look like.  Generally I just lurk, but who knows, one of these evenings Jack and I might put on a show there.  If you are into 'real people' porn, be sure to check it out.<br /><br />I know this isn't exactly a thrilling update, especially since I've been gone so long.  I hope you'll forgive me, I promise more excitement (or at least more substance) in the coming weeks.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Rock The Blogosphere</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/07/15/rock-the-blogosphere/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen Piper has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen <a href="http://pipersplace.diaryland.com/">Piper</a> has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/813425013/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1227/813425013_5a27842389_o.jpg" width="180" height="63" alt="Rockin Girl Blogger Award" /></a></center><br /><br />It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the sexy minxes they are!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Padme</a> - Padme and I go quite a ways back, and she's one of my very dearest friends and her blog is one of the coolest I know. She's been my biggest fan and one of my most regular commenters and she just rocks my world ;) Not to mention that the photos she and her husband post on their blog are enough to turn my knees to jello!<br /><br /><a href="http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com/">Shibari</a> - Ah how she spoils us with her gorgeous and sensual photos and the thoughtful posts that she writes on her 'confessional'. She is a new read for me, but one I have greatly enjoyed thus far!<br /><br /><a href="http://the-sensuous-libertine.blogspot.com/">Cherrie</a> - How boring the blogosphere would be without this articulate little sexpot. She's one of the main reasons I so look forward to HNT ever week.<br /><br /><a href="http://maybejustonce.blogspot.com/">JeN</a> - Even though she only updates once a decade, JeN will remain one of my favorite bloggers off all time. I believe this is the third incarnation of my blog, and she has been with me through all of them. My first good friend from blogland, and certainly one of the awesomest bloggers ever because like very few others, she is not anonymous!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mnsss.blogspot.com/">Anna</a> - I enjoy Anna's writing a great deal. There has always been a certain gentleness about it, a smooth sense of sensuality that is neither tawdry nor forced.<br /><br />There you go my girls! I adore each of you for your uniqueness and special appeal :) Unlike other 'blog fads' you do not need to feel obligated to keep this one going if you don't want to. However, should you have the desire, feel free to pass out a few to the rockin girl bloggers you love! Try to give them to people who haven't yet received one :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You Can Love More Than One</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.Take A Peek!Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.I do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.seemagazine.com/Issues/2007/0208/cover.htm">Take A Peek!</a><br /><br />Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.<br /><br />It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.<br /><br />I do have to give them props for using a MMF family, and not the 'typical' FMF. Having a bi-sexual male as the hinge in a V is a pretty cool thing.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>On Breaking Up</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/21/on-breaking-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 16:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.Now It's Time To Say GoodbyeNow dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.<br /><br />Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/Editorial/NOW-IT-S-TIME-TO-SAY-GOODBYE_23">Now It's Time To Say Goodbye</a><br /><br />Now dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely one party is just going along with the other in order not to make waves? Thoughts on such things are welcomes, as always :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blog Star!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/07/blog-star/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though. The show is totally kid-safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though.

The show is totally kid-safe (meaning there is not talk about sex nor any coarse language, unlike the rest of the blog, HA HA). Basically just a lot of basic information regrading polyamory.

Download it for free here: <a title="Radio Interview" href="http://www.mediafire.com/?zi4yeugt2yu" target="_blank">Poly Radio Program</a> staring SG!

Enjoy :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.LUST LIFE Polyamory By Stephanie Sellars]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm">LUST LIFE </a><br />Polyamory <br /><br />By Stephanie Sellars]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Column Updates</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column. Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far. Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:Fighting FairAdvanced Scheduling 101Links to be added to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column.  Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far.  Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_060106.html#top">Fighting Fair</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_061406.html#top">Advanced Scheduling 101</a><br /><br />Links to be added to my sidebar as soon as I get around to it, LOL]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions #4</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/05/01/angelic-notions-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2006 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:Social InsecurityIt's all about control and manipulation in relationships.Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_050106.html">Social Insecurity</a><br /><br />It's all about control and manipulation in relationships.<br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>All New Angelic Notions</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2006 16:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check it out. This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:Instinctual GreedHope you enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Check it out.  This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_041506.html#top">Instinctual Greed</a><br /><br />Hope you enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions, 2nd Edition</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Apr 2006 15:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My column for Polyamorous Percolations is up this morning. You can check it out by clicking here.Let me know what you think :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My column for <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> is up this morning.  You can check it out by clicking <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_040106.html#top">here</a>.<br /><br />Let me know what you think :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Freaking Famous!!!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 15:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, not exactly, LOL.So now for my big secret! A week or so ago, Chias of Polyamorous Percolations approached me about writing a regular column for the website. Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.I was flattered by his offer, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img align="left" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112895334_adfa4de71e_o.jpg" width="350" height="233" border="0" alt="Celebration" />OK, not exactly, LOL.<br /><br />So now for my big secret!  A week or so ago, <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/family.html#top">Chias</a> of <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> approached me about writing a regular column for the website.  Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.<br /><br />I was flattered by his offer, to say the least.  So of course I accepted, and the first edition of my column went 'live' on the website this morning!!!<br /><br />The title of my column is <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_031506.html#top">Angelic Notions</a> (since my handle on the website is Nobody's Angel).  Click on the name to read my very first contribution.<br /><br />I will be writing a column every two weeks from now on, and I will be adding an area to my sidebar with links to my columns.<br /><br />Anyway, I'm just excited as hell, can you tell???  Now, get over there and read my column and then come back here and tell me what you think!<br /><br />HUGS AND KISSES ALL!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>If You Click It, I Will Lick You</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage. Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.polyandproud.com/learn/narratives1.php">This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage</a>.  Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Resource And Dating Links</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/07/resource-and-dating-links/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2006 19:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon. In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.Adult Friend Finder - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon.  In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultfriendfinder.com">Adult Friend Finder</a> - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have been too lazy to put up a link.  Basically a big personals site for singles and couples looking for sex with other singles and couples.  I met K through the site, so I have to give it at least a mention, LOL.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/index.html">Polyamorous Percolations</a> - A really great resource about polyamory.  Loads of articles, reader question/comments, columns, etc.  So much that I haven't really had time to browse through everything, but I highly suggest paying a visit.<br /><a href="http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/"><br />Polyamory Livejournal Community</a> - Basically a big forum where people can ask questions and get answers from other members.  Lots of good discussions going on about common issues faced by people living in that type of lifestyle.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.lifestyleplayground.com">Lifestyle Playground</a> - We haven't had much time to properly check out this site.  It was recommended to Jack by a friend.  Very similar to Adult Friend Finder, but there are a lot more couples (at least in our area) than singles.<br /><br /><a href="http://polyweekly.livejournal.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> (Podcast) - A really interesting podcast hosted by Minx, discussing all kinds of things related to Polyamory and kink in general.  There is even a lot of hot erotica, so tune in as soon as possible.  Archived episodes also easily available there.<br /><br /><a href="http://newyorkmetro.com/lifestyle/sex/annual/2005/15063/index.html" target="_blank">The New Monogamy - Marriage With Benefits</a> - An excellent article from New York Metro Magazine<br /><p><br /><strong>The Ethical Slut</strong><br /><center><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1890159018/qid=1132882687/701-9074332-4813941"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1890159018.01._OU15_PE24_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a></center><br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html" target="_blank">Polyamory?</a> - A great wealth of information on the poly lifestyle, especially for beginners<br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.okcupid.com" target="_blank">OKCupid</a> - Very Poly-Friendly Personals Site<br /><p><br /><a title="Jane's Guide" href="http://www.janesguide.com"><img height="75" alt="Jane's Guide" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112030545_ecc1902677_o.gif" width="88" border="0" /></a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Click Me! Click Me!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2005/12/09/click-me-click-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2005 23:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it. It will be added to my sidebar as well.Polyamory?Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it.  It will be added to my sidebar as well.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html">Polyamory?</a><br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Three Isn&#8217;t A Crowd, It&#8217;s Just One More To Love&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/07/blog-star/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though. The show is totally kid-safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though.

The show is totally kid-safe (meaning there is not talk about sex nor any coarse language, unlike the rest of the blog, HA HA). Basically just a lot of basic information regrading polyamory.

Download it for free here: <a title="Radio Interview" href="http://www.mediafire.com/?zi4yeugt2yu" target="_blank">Poly Radio Program</a> staring SG!

Enjoy :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Stiletto Diaries™ &#187; Resources And Links</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Fur by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/1111090170/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1155/1111090170_25bdca39f1_o.jpg" alt="I Hope That's Faux Fur" width="418" height="475" align="left" /></a>After the <a title="Spooning Leads To Forking" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/01/spooning-leads-to-forking/" target="_self">interesting adventure that was Friday night</a>, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy's that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn't slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the <a title="Careful, You May End Up In My Novel" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/26/careful-you-may-end-up-in-my-novel/" target="_self">scene from last weekend</a>. I'd also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he'd find tons of useful information in <a title="SM 101" href="http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t" target="_self">SM 101</a> By Jay Wiseman, and <a title="Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" href="http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1212411296&amp;sr=8-1" target="_self">Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns</a> By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

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We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

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The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I'll be attending my first play party later this month ;) Looking forward to that.

Bellies full, we sauntered back to Deja's place. Varick decided that all my cheekiness had certainly earned me a good whipping, so he sent me off to the dungeon to get ready. I stripped down, put on my cuffs, and waited for him by the St. Andrew's Cross. He opted to blindfold me again, and then snapped my cuffs to the cross and ran his hands up my body. He started on the outsides of my thighs, slowly proceeded up over my hips, my sides, around to my breasts, and then up to my collar bones. He was pressed against my back and his chin was resting on my shoulder. I was already trembling with anticipation, and when he asked if I was ready to begin, I nodded enthusiastically.

He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. "Harder" and "Green" were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja's single-tail, which hadn't been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the 'breeze' it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn't fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her <a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self">violet wand</a>, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off <a title="Bucket List" href="http://shastagibson.com/my-bucket-list/" target="_self">the bucket list</a>:
<p style="text-align: center;">413. <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">Have a </span><a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self"><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"><span style="color: #a90118;">Violet Wand</span></span></a><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"> used on me</span></p>
I could tell that something was off with Varick. He seemed different while he cleaned up, and I was unsure what was wrong. Deja had some things to do in her office so he and I went downstairs. I sat on the couch, stretched out on it, and had him come and sit down, between my legs, which I wrapped around him, with his cheek on my chest. I asked him quietly what was wrong and he said he just felt weird, and kind of down. I thought it might be Top Drop* so I just stroked his hair and kissed his forehead.

I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn't push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he'd let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say "Yeah, I do that to people all the time" but it wasn't really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn't feel like going out, but didn't want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he's usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

"Maybe he's falling for you and he's all conflicted about it" she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he'd said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he'd been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja's house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn't really expected that. He said he hadn't been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it's not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

"What happened to you?" I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn't allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he's been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy's without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn't in any shape to go and if he wasn't coming with us, we didn't want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked <a title="I Am Legend" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480249/" target="_self">I Am Legend</a>, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything 'scary' LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman :P

We settled in to watch. It wasn't as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don't think I'll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in <a title="Bettie Page" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0404802/" target="_self">The Notorious Bettie Page</a>, which I've seen before. I liked watching it again, because it's an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn't seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn't think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she's pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he's kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to 'go slow' with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn't want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I'm going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I'll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he's afraid of what's happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn't want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn't press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he'd want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the <a title="Tantra Chair" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=111" target="_self">Tantra chair</a>, and the <a title="Sex Swing" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=479" target="_self">sex swing</a>. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he'll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what's caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I'm actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: <em>Colloquial</em> A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Teh Innertubes Are Foar Pr0n?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/28/teh-innertubes-are-foar-pr0n/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, but anyway, he put it up on the Ryerson journalism website and I was quite pleased overall.  I noticed he did not include a direct link to this blog, which was a little disappointing, but no matter.
<blockquote>Shasta Gibson, who does nude webcam shows for JaneLovesDick.com, enjoys watching gay and lesbian porn and porn directed by women. Mainstream heterosexual videos just don’t do it for her.

“I prefer that the movie feel sensual and erotic, rather than fake and staged,” says Gibson, who also writes about sex, porn, toys and erotica on her blog, The Stiletto Diaries.

Gibson is also into watching amateur porn, like the stuff she’s in.

“I love to look at real people, having real sex, and enjoying themselves for the sake of pleasure rather than the almighty dollar,” Gibson says.</blockquote>
You can read the entire article <a title="Harlequin Romances And Hardcore Porn" href="http://www.journalism.ryerson.ca/entertainment_culture/sexopolis/Russ/my_porn_story.html" target="_self">here</a>.  My contribution begins on Page 4.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>When Is A Horse Not A Horse?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/21/when-is-a-horse-not-a-horse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?" Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?"

Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to in Alberta for as long as I can remember. We went out for breakfast as a family, lounged about in the afternoon, and then went out for supper as well. It completely threw off my regular schedule however, and so today only feels like Tuesday, which means I feel behind in my week already. Not that I am complaining about the extra day with Jack :)

Nia and I have been hitting the gym four times a week now, which seems to eat up at least a couple of hours on those days. It feels so good to be working out again. I needed to get out of the house this evening, so I treated myself to a new yoga mat and some sexy workout gear. One can never have too many good sports bras or lycra booty shorts.

This weekend I have a couple of dates lined up. Sunday I am having coffee with a friend who I've mentioned here before, but who has not been assigned a name as of yet. I did photos for her one Saturday afternoon not long ago, and we've hit it off quite excellently. I shall call her Miri, which means 'mine' and you can read into that however you will *sly wink*.

Afterwards, I am getting together with Nelek, for coffee and more lascivious things. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I likely won't be able to spend any time with him again until well into March. Thus, I am going to make the most of Sunday, as they say.

Today was spent indoors, tidying the house while I listened to episodes of <a href="http://polyweekly.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> on my iPod Touch (a generous Christmas gift from that fabulous husband of mine). Nothing like being elbow-deep in dishwater while Minx purrs on about responsible non-monogamy. She may yet inspire me to try doing a podcast of my own.

Before I leave off for the evening and crawl into bed with Jack, I have a favour to ask! I need some dare suggestions for an adult party. I know I've asked for this before, but this time I need them to be short and easily applied to a group of people who don't know each other well. We're going to be writing them on slips of paper and giving one to each guest at random. We've got things like "Show some skin" and "Introduce yourself to an attractive stranger" but I need quite a few more. So, think about going to a sexy adult party where you might not know anyone all that well. What sorts of dares would you like to see people do? What would you be willing to do? Leave me some comments please :D]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Go! Go Now!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/18/go-go-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this <a href="http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/polyamory-is-not-about-the-sex-except-when-it-is/">incredible article on polyamory</a> over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>He&#8217;d Fall In Love With A Can Of Soup If It Sucked His Dick</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/01/09/hed-fall-in-love-with-a-can-of-soup-if-it-sucked-his-dick/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I loved spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine. I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things. I hope you weren't too lonely without me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I <strong>loved</strong> spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine.  I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things.  I hope you weren't too lonely without me :)<br /><br />My New Years Eve was quite fabulous, and while most people do not get a lot of enjoyment out of January, Jack and I have an anniversary coming up which gives me something to look forward to.  Nia is able to come over to watch the kids for a few hours so that Jack and I can go out for sushi or something.  I haven't had sushi in a long time, so I am really looking forward to that.<br /><br />There is also a contest in the works here at SD.  I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, and I had intended to kick it off on January 1st, but was too tired and unmotivated to post anything that day.  At any rate, I'll be sharing the details on that later this week, or on the weekend.  There will be some awesome prizes involved!<br /><br />Jack has me hooked on this site he discovered called <a href="http://www.janelovesdick.com/">JaneLovesDick.com</a> which is a free site for adult web cam play.  Basically you sign up so that you can access the chatrooms where you can view the web shows of multiple people at a time.  Pretty hot stuff if you're a voyouer or an exhibitionist.  The people who participate on that site are normal, every day people like you and I.  Not super models by any stretch, nor is there any insulting or name calling, no matter what you look like.  Generally I just lurk, but who knows, one of these evenings Jack and I might put on a show there.  If you are into 'real people' porn, be sure to check it out.<br /><br />I know this isn't exactly a thrilling update, especially since I've been gone so long.  I hope you'll forgive me, I promise more excitement (or at least more substance) in the coming weeks.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Rock The Blogosphere</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/07/15/rock-the-blogosphere/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen Piper has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen <a href="http://pipersplace.diaryland.com/">Piper</a> has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/813425013/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1227/813425013_5a27842389_o.jpg" width="180" height="63" alt="Rockin Girl Blogger Award" /></a></center><br /><br />It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the sexy minxes they are!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Padme</a> - Padme and I go quite a ways back, and she's one of my very dearest friends and her blog is one of the coolest I know. She's been my biggest fan and one of my most regular commenters and she just rocks my world ;) Not to mention that the photos she and her husband post on their blog are enough to turn my knees to jello!<br /><br /><a href="http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com/">Shibari</a> - Ah how she spoils us with her gorgeous and sensual photos and the thoughtful posts that she writes on her 'confessional'. She is a new read for me, but one I have greatly enjoyed thus far!<br /><br /><a href="http://the-sensuous-libertine.blogspot.com/">Cherrie</a> - How boring the blogosphere would be without this articulate little sexpot. She's one of the main reasons I so look forward to HNT ever week.<br /><br /><a href="http://maybejustonce.blogspot.com/">JeN</a> - Even though she only updates once a decade, JeN will remain one of my favorite bloggers off all time. I believe this is the third incarnation of my blog, and she has been with me through all of them. My first good friend from blogland, and certainly one of the awesomest bloggers ever because like very few others, she is not anonymous!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mnsss.blogspot.com/">Anna</a> - I enjoy Anna's writing a great deal. There has always been a certain gentleness about it, a smooth sense of sensuality that is neither tawdry nor forced.<br /><br />There you go my girls! I adore each of you for your uniqueness and special appeal :) Unlike other 'blog fads' you do not need to feel obligated to keep this one going if you don't want to. However, should you have the desire, feel free to pass out a few to the rockin girl bloggers you love! Try to give them to people who haven't yet received one :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You Can Love More Than One</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.Take A Peek!Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.I do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.seemagazine.com/Issues/2007/0208/cover.htm">Take A Peek!</a><br /><br />Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.<br /><br />It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.<br /><br />I do have to give them props for using a MMF family, and not the 'typical' FMF. Having a bi-sexual male as the hinge in a V is a pretty cool thing.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>On Breaking Up</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/21/on-breaking-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 16:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.Now It's Time To Say GoodbyeNow dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.<br /><br />Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/Editorial/NOW-IT-S-TIME-TO-SAY-GOODBYE_23">Now It's Time To Say Goodbye</a><br /><br />Now dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely one party is just going along with the other in order not to make waves? Thoughts on such things are welcomes, as always :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blog Star!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/07/blog-star/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though. The show is totally kid-safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though.

The show is totally kid-safe (meaning there is not talk about sex nor any coarse language, unlike the rest of the blog, HA HA). Basically just a lot of basic information regrading polyamory.

Download it for free here: <a title="Radio Interview" href="http://www.mediafire.com/?zi4yeugt2yu" target="_blank">Poly Radio Program</a> staring SG!

Enjoy :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.LUST LIFE Polyamory By Stephanie Sellars]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm">LUST LIFE </a><br />Polyamory <br /><br />By Stephanie Sellars]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Column Updates</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column. Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far. Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:Fighting FairAdvanced Scheduling 101Links to be added to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column.  Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far.  Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_060106.html#top">Fighting Fair</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_061406.html#top">Advanced Scheduling 101</a><br /><br />Links to be added to my sidebar as soon as I get around to it, LOL]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions #4</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/05/01/angelic-notions-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2006 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:Social InsecurityIt's all about control and manipulation in relationships.Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_050106.html">Social Insecurity</a><br /><br />It's all about control and manipulation in relationships.<br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>All New Angelic Notions</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2006 16:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check it out. This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:Instinctual GreedHope you enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Check it out.  This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_041506.html#top">Instinctual Greed</a><br /><br />Hope you enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions, 2nd Edition</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Apr 2006 15:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My column for Polyamorous Percolations is up this morning. You can check it out by clicking here.Let me know what you think :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My column for <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> is up this morning.  You can check it out by clicking <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_040106.html#top">here</a>.<br /><br />Let me know what you think :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Freaking Famous!!!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 15:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, not exactly, LOL.So now for my big secret! A week or so ago, Chias of Polyamorous Percolations approached me about writing a regular column for the website. Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.I was flattered by his offer, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img align="left" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112895334_adfa4de71e_o.jpg" width="350" height="233" border="0" alt="Celebration" />OK, not exactly, LOL.<br /><br />So now for my big secret!  A week or so ago, <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/family.html#top">Chias</a> of <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> approached me about writing a regular column for the website.  Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.<br /><br />I was flattered by his offer, to say the least.  So of course I accepted, and the first edition of my column went 'live' on the website this morning!!!<br /><br />The title of my column is <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_031506.html#top">Angelic Notions</a> (since my handle on the website is Nobody's Angel).  Click on the name to read my very first contribution.<br /><br />I will be writing a column every two weeks from now on, and I will be adding an area to my sidebar with links to my columns.<br /><br />Anyway, I'm just excited as hell, can you tell???  Now, get over there and read my column and then come back here and tell me what you think!<br /><br />HUGS AND KISSES ALL!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>If You Click It, I Will Lick You</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage. Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.polyandproud.com/learn/narratives1.php">This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage</a>.  Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Resource And Dating Links</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/07/resource-and-dating-links/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2006 19:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon. In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.Adult Friend Finder - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon.  In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultfriendfinder.com">Adult Friend Finder</a> - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have been too lazy to put up a link.  Basically a big personals site for singles and couples looking for sex with other singles and couples.  I met K through the site, so I have to give it at least a mention, LOL.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/index.html">Polyamorous Percolations</a> - A really great resource about polyamory.  Loads of articles, reader question/comments, columns, etc.  So much that I haven't really had time to browse through everything, but I highly suggest paying a visit.<br /><a href="http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/"><br />Polyamory Livejournal Community</a> - Basically a big forum where people can ask questions and get answers from other members.  Lots of good discussions going on about common issues faced by people living in that type of lifestyle.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.lifestyleplayground.com">Lifestyle Playground</a> - We haven't had much time to properly check out this site.  It was recommended to Jack by a friend.  Very similar to Adult Friend Finder, but there are a lot more couples (at least in our area) than singles.<br /><br /><a href="http://polyweekly.livejournal.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> (Podcast) - A really interesting podcast hosted by Minx, discussing all kinds of things related to Polyamory and kink in general.  There is even a lot of hot erotica, so tune in as soon as possible.  Archived episodes also easily available there.<br /><br /><a href="http://newyorkmetro.com/lifestyle/sex/annual/2005/15063/index.html" target="_blank">The New Monogamy - Marriage With Benefits</a> - An excellent article from New York Metro Magazine<br /><p><br /><strong>The Ethical Slut</strong><br /><center><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1890159018/qid=1132882687/701-9074332-4813941"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1890159018.01._OU15_PE24_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a></center><br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html" target="_blank">Polyamory?</a> - A great wealth of information on the poly lifestyle, especially for beginners<br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.okcupid.com" target="_blank">OKCupid</a> - Very Poly-Friendly Personals Site<br /><p><br /><a title="Jane's Guide" href="http://www.janesguide.com"><img height="75" alt="Jane's Guide" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112030545_ecc1902677_o.gif" width="88" border="0" /></a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Click Me! Click Me!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2005/12/09/click-me-click-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2005 23:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it. It will be added to my sidebar as well.Polyamory?Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it.  It will be added to my sidebar as well.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html">Polyamory?</a><br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Three Isn&#8217;t A Crowd, It&#8217;s Just One More To Love&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.LUST LIFE Polyamory By Stephanie Sellars]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm">LUST LIFE </a><br />Polyamory <br /><br />By Stephanie Sellars]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Stiletto Diaries™ &#187; Resources And Links</title>
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		<title>Pristiq For Sale</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2010/11/01/the-top-sex-bloggers-of-2010/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Nov 2010 19:28:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Pristiq For Sale, I know, I know, I am behind the times.  At any rate, Pristiq price, coupon, Pristiq steet value, I am so thrilled to be #38 on this years list of Top Sex Bloggers.  I am reposting the list for your enjoyment (and I heartily endorse #2, Pristiq blogs, Purchase Pristiq, 8, 12, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <b>Pristiq For Sale</b>, I know, I know, I am behind the times.  At any rate, <b>Pristiq price, coupon</b>, <b>Pristiq steet value</b>, I am so thrilled to be #38 on this years list of Top Sex Bloggers.  I am reposting the list for your enjoyment (and I heartily endorse #2, <b>Pristiq blogs</b>, <b>Purchase Pristiq</b>, 8, 12, <b>buy no prescription Pristiq online</b>, <b>Buy Pristiq online cod</b>, 20, 49, <b>Pristiq overnight</b>, <b>Pristiq from canadian pharmacy</b>, 71, 77, <b>Pristiq from canada</b>, <b>Where can i cheapest Pristiq online</b>, 78, and 91), <b>effects of Pristiq</b>.  <b>Pristiq recreational</b>, <ol><br />
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	<li>Iona and James from <a href="http://sapioslut.com/" target="_blank">SapioSlut</a></li><br />
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	<li>Sadie from <a href="http://www.sadiesopenmarriage.com/" target="_blank">Sexie Sadie’s Stories of Seduction</a></li><br />
	<li>Vixen from <a href="http://blue-eyedvixen.com/" target="_blank">Secrets of a Blue-Eyed Vixen</a></li><br />
	<li>Adrian Colesberry from <a href="http://blog.adriancolesberry.com/" target="_blank">Adrian’s Blog</a></li><br />
	<li>EA from <a href="http://easilyaroused.co.uk">Easily Aroused</a></li><br />
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	<li>Joan from <a href="http://betterthanieverexpected.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Better Than I Ever Expected: Sex and Aging</a></li><br />
	<li>25 Things from <a href="http://25thingsaboutmysexuality.blogspot.com" target="_blank">25 Things About My Sexuality</a></li><br />
	<li>AAG from AAG Blog</li><br />
	<li>Bad, Bad Girl from <a href="http://bbgblog.com/" target="_blank">BBG Blog</a></li><br />
	<li>Holden from <a href="http://packingvocals.blogspot.com" target="_blank">Packing Vocals</a></li><br />
	<li>The blogging team at <a href="http://sexisfun.net/blogs/home.html">Sex is Fun</a></li><br />
	<li>Elle from <a href="http://www.kinkunleashed.com/" target="_blank">Kink Unleashed</a></li><br />
	<li>Rachel from <a href="http://rabbitwrite.com/" target="_blank">Rabbit Write</a></li><br />
	<li>Clarisse Thorn from <a href="http://clarissethorn.wordpress.com/">Pro-Sex Outreach, <b>where can i buy cheapest Pristiq online</b>, <b>Is Pristiq safe</b>, Open-Minded Feminism</a></li><br />
	<li>littlegirlyone from <a href="http://littlegirlyone.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">littlegirlyland</a></li><br />
	<li>Remittance Girl from <a href="http://remittancegirl.com/" target="_blank">Remittance Girl</a></li><br />
	<li>Mistress Arabella from <a href="http://bombshells-and-rockstars.com/" target="_blank">Bombshells &amp; Rockstars</a></li><br />
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		<title>You&#8217;re My Favorite, Don&#8217;t Tell The Others</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Fur by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/1111090170/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1155/1111090170_25bdca39f1_o.jpg" alt="I Hope That's Faux Fur" width="418" height="475" align="left" /></a>After the <a title="Spooning Leads To Forking" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/01/spooning-leads-to-forking/" target="_self">interesting adventure that was Friday night</a>, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy's that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn't slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the <a title="Careful, You May End Up In My Novel" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/26/careful-you-may-end-up-in-my-novel/" target="_self">scene from last weekend</a>. I'd also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he'd find tons of useful information in <a title="SM 101" href="http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t" target="_self">SM 101</a> By Jay Wiseman, and <a title="Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" href="http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1212411296&amp;sr=8-1" target="_self">Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns</a> By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

He flipped through SM 101 and we read passages together, discussing some of the topics covered and commenting on a few things we'd like to try. He was especially glad to see a pre-scene negotiation section, as well as extensive checklists of BDSM related activities.

We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

At one point the sidewalk was too narrow for us to all walk side by side, so Deja and I fell into step behind Varick, and after a few yards of following him she and I exchanged looks and she remarked that we must look like a pimp with his bitches, and I started laughing so hard because I was having the exact same though. We're kind of ridiculous actually.

The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I'll be attending my first play party later this month ;) Looking forward to that.

Bellies full, we sauntered back to Deja's place. Varick decided that all my cheekiness had certainly earned me a good whipping, so he sent me off to the dungeon to get ready. I stripped down, put on my cuffs, and waited for him by the St. Andrew's Cross. He opted to blindfold me again, and then snapped my cuffs to the cross and ran his hands up my body. He started on the outsides of my thighs, slowly proceeded up over my hips, my sides, around to my breasts, and then up to my collar bones. He was pressed against my back and his chin was resting on my shoulder. I was already trembling with anticipation, and when he asked if I was ready to begin, I nodded enthusiastically.

He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. "Harder" and "Green" were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja's single-tail, which hadn't been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the 'breeze' it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn't fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her <a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self">violet wand</a>, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off <a title="Bucket List" href="http://shastagibson.com/my-bucket-list/" target="_self">the bucket list</a>:
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I could tell that something was off with Varick. He seemed different while he cleaned up, and I was unsure what was wrong. Deja had some things to do in her office so he and I went downstairs. I sat on the couch, stretched out on it, and had him come and sit down, between my legs, which I wrapped around him, with his cheek on my chest. I asked him quietly what was wrong and he said he just felt weird, and kind of down. I thought it might be Top Drop* so I just stroked his hair and kissed his forehead.

I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn't push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he'd let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say "Yeah, I do that to people all the time" but it wasn't really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn't feel like going out, but didn't want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he's usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

"Maybe he's falling for you and he's all conflicted about it" she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he'd said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he'd been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja's house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn't really expected that. He said he hadn't been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it's not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

"What happened to you?" I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn't allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he's been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy's without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn't in any shape to go and if he wasn't coming with us, we didn't want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked <a title="I Am Legend" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480249/" target="_self">I Am Legend</a>, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything 'scary' LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman :P

We settled in to watch. It wasn't as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don't think I'll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in <a title="Bettie Page" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0404802/" target="_self">The Notorious Bettie Page</a>, which I've seen before. I liked watching it again, because it's an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn't seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn't think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she's pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he's kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to 'go slow' with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn't want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I'm going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I'll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he's afraid of what's happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn't want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn't press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he'd want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the <a title="Tantra Chair" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=111" target="_self">Tantra chair</a>, and the <a title="Sex Swing" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=479" target="_self">sex swing</a>. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he'll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what's caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I'm actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: <em>Colloquial</em> A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Teh Innertubes Are Foar Pr0n?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/28/teh-innertubes-are-foar-pr0n/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, but anyway, he put it up on the Ryerson journalism website and I was quite pleased overall.  I noticed he did not include a direct link to this blog, which was a little disappointing, but no matter.
<blockquote>Shasta Gibson, who does nude webcam shows for JaneLovesDick.com, enjoys watching gay and lesbian porn and porn directed by women. Mainstream heterosexual videos just don’t do it for her.

“I prefer that the movie feel sensual and erotic, rather than fake and staged,” says Gibson, who also writes about sex, porn, toys and erotica on her blog, The Stiletto Diaries.

Gibson is also into watching amateur porn, like the stuff she’s in.

“I love to look at real people, having real sex, and enjoying themselves for the sake of pleasure rather than the almighty dollar,” Gibson says.</blockquote>
You can read the entire article <a title="Harlequin Romances And Hardcore Porn" href="http://www.journalism.ryerson.ca/entertainment_culture/sexopolis/Russ/my_porn_story.html" target="_self">here</a>.  My contribution begins on Page 4.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>When Is A Horse Not A Horse?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/21/when-is-a-horse-not-a-horse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?" Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?"

Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to in Alberta for as long as I can remember. We went out for breakfast as a family, lounged about in the afternoon, and then went out for supper as well. It completely threw off my regular schedule however, and so today only feels like Tuesday, which means I feel behind in my week already. Not that I am complaining about the extra day with Jack :)

Nia and I have been hitting the gym four times a week now, which seems to eat up at least a couple of hours on those days. It feels so good to be working out again. I needed to get out of the house this evening, so I treated myself to a new yoga mat and some sexy workout gear. One can never have too many good sports bras or lycra booty shorts.

This weekend I have a couple of dates lined up. Sunday I am having coffee with a friend who I've mentioned here before, but who has not been assigned a name as of yet. I did photos for her one Saturday afternoon not long ago, and we've hit it off quite excellently. I shall call her Miri, which means 'mine' and you can read into that however you will *sly wink*.

Afterwards, I am getting together with Nelek, for coffee and more lascivious things. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I likely won't be able to spend any time with him again until well into March. Thus, I am going to make the most of Sunday, as they say.

Today was spent indoors, tidying the house while I listened to episodes of <a href="http://polyweekly.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> on my iPod Touch (a generous Christmas gift from that fabulous husband of mine). Nothing like being elbow-deep in dishwater while Minx purrs on about responsible non-monogamy. She may yet inspire me to try doing a podcast of my own.

Before I leave off for the evening and crawl into bed with Jack, I have a favour to ask! I need some dare suggestions for an adult party. I know I've asked for this before, but this time I need them to be short and easily applied to a group of people who don't know each other well. We're going to be writing them on slips of paper and giving one to each guest at random. We've got things like "Show some skin" and "Introduce yourself to an attractive stranger" but I need quite a few more. So, think about going to a sexy adult party where you might not know anyone all that well. What sorts of dares would you like to see people do? What would you be willing to do? Leave me some comments please :D]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Go! Go Now!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/18/go-go-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this <a href="http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/polyamory-is-not-about-the-sex-except-when-it-is/">incredible article on polyamory</a> over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>He&#8217;d Fall In Love With A Can Of Soup If It Sucked His Dick</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/01/09/hed-fall-in-love-with-a-can-of-soup-if-it-sucked-his-dick/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I loved spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine. I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things. I hope you weren't too lonely without me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I <strong>loved</strong> spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine.  I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things.  I hope you weren't too lonely without me :)<br /><br />My New Years Eve was quite fabulous, and while most people do not get a lot of enjoyment out of January, Jack and I have an anniversary coming up which gives me something to look forward to.  Nia is able to come over to watch the kids for a few hours so that Jack and I can go out for sushi or something.  I haven't had sushi in a long time, so I am really looking forward to that.<br /><br />There is also a contest in the works here at SD.  I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, and I had intended to kick it off on January 1st, but was too tired and unmotivated to post anything that day.  At any rate, I'll be sharing the details on that later this week, or on the weekend.  There will be some awesome prizes involved!<br /><br />Jack has me hooked on this site he discovered called <a href="http://www.janelovesdick.com/">JaneLovesDick.com</a> which is a free site for adult web cam play.  Basically you sign up so that you can access the chatrooms where you can view the web shows of multiple people at a time.  Pretty hot stuff if you're a voyouer or an exhibitionist.  The people who participate on that site are normal, every day people like you and I.  Not super models by any stretch, nor is there any insulting or name calling, no matter what you look like.  Generally I just lurk, but who knows, one of these evenings Jack and I might put on a show there.  If you are into 'real people' porn, be sure to check it out.<br /><br />I know this isn't exactly a thrilling update, especially since I've been gone so long.  I hope you'll forgive me, I promise more excitement (or at least more substance) in the coming weeks.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Rock The Blogosphere</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/07/15/rock-the-blogosphere/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen Piper has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen <a href="http://pipersplace.diaryland.com/">Piper</a> has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/813425013/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1227/813425013_5a27842389_o.jpg" width="180" height="63" alt="Rockin Girl Blogger Award" /></a></center><br /><br />It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the sexy minxes they are!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Padme</a> - Padme and I go quite a ways back, and she's one of my very dearest friends and her blog is one of the coolest I know. She's been my biggest fan and one of my most regular commenters and she just rocks my world ;) Not to mention that the photos she and her husband post on their blog are enough to turn my knees to jello!<br /><br /><a href="http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com/">Shibari</a> - Ah how she spoils us with her gorgeous and sensual photos and the thoughtful posts that she writes on her 'confessional'. She is a new read for me, but one I have greatly enjoyed thus far!<br /><br /><a href="http://the-sensuous-libertine.blogspot.com/">Cherrie</a> - How boring the blogosphere would be without this articulate little sexpot. She's one of the main reasons I so look forward to HNT ever week.<br /><br /><a href="http://maybejustonce.blogspot.com/">JeN</a> - Even though she only updates once a decade, JeN will remain one of my favorite bloggers off all time. I believe this is the third incarnation of my blog, and she has been with me through all of them. My first good friend from blogland, and certainly one of the awesomest bloggers ever because like very few others, she is not anonymous!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mnsss.blogspot.com/">Anna</a> - I enjoy Anna's writing a great deal. There has always been a certain gentleness about it, a smooth sense of sensuality that is neither tawdry nor forced.<br /><br />There you go my girls! I adore each of you for your uniqueness and special appeal :) Unlike other 'blog fads' you do not need to feel obligated to keep this one going if you don't want to. However, should you have the desire, feel free to pass out a few to the rockin girl bloggers you love! Try to give them to people who haven't yet received one :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You Can Love More Than One</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.Take A Peek!Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.I do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.seemagazine.com/Issues/2007/0208/cover.htm">Take A Peek!</a><br /><br />Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.<br /><br />It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.<br /><br />I do have to give them props for using a MMF family, and not the 'typical' FMF. Having a bi-sexual male as the hinge in a V is a pretty cool thing.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>On Breaking Up</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/21/on-breaking-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 16:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.Now It's Time To Say GoodbyeNow dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.<br /><br />Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/Editorial/NOW-IT-S-TIME-TO-SAY-GOODBYE_23">Now It's Time To Say Goodbye</a><br /><br />Now dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely one party is just going along with the other in order not to make waves? Thoughts on such things are welcomes, as always :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blog Star!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/07/blog-star/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though. The show is totally kid-safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though.

The show is totally kid-safe (meaning there is not talk about sex nor any coarse language, unlike the rest of the blog, HA HA). Basically just a lot of basic information regrading polyamory.

Download it for free here: <a title="Radio Interview" href="http://www.mediafire.com/?zi4yeugt2yu" target="_blank">Poly Radio Program</a> staring SG!

Enjoy :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.LUST LIFE Polyamory By Stephanie Sellars]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm">LUST LIFE </a><br />Polyamory <br /><br />By Stephanie Sellars]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Column Updates</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column. Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far. Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:Fighting FairAdvanced Scheduling 101Links to be added to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column.  Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far.  Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_060106.html#top">Fighting Fair</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_061406.html#top">Advanced Scheduling 101</a><br /><br />Links to be added to my sidebar as soon as I get around to it, LOL]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions #4</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/05/01/angelic-notions-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2006 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:Social InsecurityIt's all about control and manipulation in relationships.Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_050106.html">Social Insecurity</a><br /><br />It's all about control and manipulation in relationships.<br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>All New Angelic Notions</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2006 16:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check it out. This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:Instinctual GreedHope you enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Check it out.  This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_041506.html#top">Instinctual Greed</a><br /><br />Hope you enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions, 2nd Edition</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Apr 2006 15:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My column for Polyamorous Percolations is up this morning. You can check it out by clicking here.Let me know what you think :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My column for <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> is up this morning.  You can check it out by clicking <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_040106.html#top">here</a>.<br /><br />Let me know what you think :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Freaking Famous!!!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 15:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, not exactly, LOL.So now for my big secret! A week or so ago, Chias of Polyamorous Percolations approached me about writing a regular column for the website. Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.I was flattered by his offer, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img align="left" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112895334_adfa4de71e_o.jpg" width="350" height="233" border="0" alt="Celebration" />OK, not exactly, LOL.<br /><br />So now for my big secret!  A week or so ago, <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/family.html#top">Chias</a> of <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> approached me about writing a regular column for the website.  Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.<br /><br />I was flattered by his offer, to say the least.  So of course I accepted, and the first edition of my column went 'live' on the website this morning!!!<br /><br />The title of my column is <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_031506.html#top">Angelic Notions</a> (since my handle on the website is Nobody's Angel).  Click on the name to read my very first contribution.<br /><br />I will be writing a column every two weeks from now on, and I will be adding an area to my sidebar with links to my columns.<br /><br />Anyway, I'm just excited as hell, can you tell???  Now, get over there and read my column and then come back here and tell me what you think!<br /><br />HUGS AND KISSES ALL!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>If You Click It, I Will Lick You</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage. Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.polyandproud.com/learn/narratives1.php">This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage</a>.  Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Resource And Dating Links</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/07/resource-and-dating-links/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2006 19:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon. In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.Adult Friend Finder - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon.  In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultfriendfinder.com">Adult Friend Finder</a> - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have been too lazy to put up a link.  Basically a big personals site for singles and couples looking for sex with other singles and couples.  I met K through the site, so I have to give it at least a mention, LOL.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/index.html">Polyamorous Percolations</a> - A really great resource about polyamory.  Loads of articles, reader question/comments, columns, etc.  So much that I haven't really had time to browse through everything, but I highly suggest paying a visit.<br /><a href="http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/"><br />Polyamory Livejournal Community</a> - Basically a big forum where people can ask questions and get answers from other members.  Lots of good discussions going on about common issues faced by people living in that type of lifestyle.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.lifestyleplayground.com">Lifestyle Playground</a> - We haven't had much time to properly check out this site.  It was recommended to Jack by a friend.  Very similar to Adult Friend Finder, but there are a lot more couples (at least in our area) than singles.<br /><br /><a href="http://polyweekly.livejournal.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> (Podcast) - A really interesting podcast hosted by Minx, discussing all kinds of things related to Polyamory and kink in general.  There is even a lot of hot erotica, so tune in as soon as possible.  Archived episodes also easily available there.<br /><br /><a href="http://newyorkmetro.com/lifestyle/sex/annual/2005/15063/index.html" target="_blank">The New Monogamy - Marriage With Benefits</a> - An excellent article from New York Metro Magazine<br /><p><br /><strong>The Ethical Slut</strong><br /><center><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1890159018/qid=1132882687/701-9074332-4813941"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1890159018.01._OU15_PE24_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a></center><br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html" target="_blank">Polyamory?</a> - A great wealth of information on the poly lifestyle, especially for beginners<br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.okcupid.com" target="_blank">OKCupid</a> - Very Poly-Friendly Personals Site<br /><p><br /><a title="Jane's Guide" href="http://www.janesguide.com"><img height="75" alt="Jane's Guide" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112030545_ecc1902677_o.gif" width="88" border="0" /></a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Click Me! Click Me!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2005/12/09/click-me-click-me/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2005/12/09/click-me-click-me/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2005 23:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it. It will be added to my sidebar as well.Polyamory?Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it.  It will be added to my sidebar as well.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html">Polyamory?</a><br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Three Isn&#8217;t A Crowd, It&#8217;s Just One More To Love&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column. Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far. Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:Fighting FairAdvanced Scheduling 101Links to be added to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column.  Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far.  Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_060106.html#top">Fighting Fair</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_061406.html#top">Advanced Scheduling 101</a><br /><br />Links to be added to my sidebar as soon as I get around to it, LOL]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Stiletto Diaries™ &#187; Resources And Links</title>
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		<title>Pristiq For Sale</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2010/11/01/the-top-sex-bloggers-of-2010/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Nov 2010 19:28:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Pristiq For Sale, I know, I know, I am behind the times.  At any rate, Pristiq price, coupon, Pristiq steet value, I am so thrilled to be #38 on this years list of Top Sex Bloggers.  I am reposting the list for your enjoyment (and I heartily endorse #2, Pristiq blogs, Purchase Pristiq, 8, 12, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <b>Pristiq For Sale</b>, I know, I know, I am behind the times.  At any rate, <b>Pristiq price, coupon</b>, <b>Pristiq steet value</b>, I am so thrilled to be #38 on this years list of Top Sex Bloggers.  I am reposting the list for your enjoyment (and I heartily endorse #2, <b>Pristiq blogs</b>, <b>Purchase Pristiq</b>, 8, 12, <b>buy no prescription Pristiq online</b>, <b>Buy Pristiq online cod</b>, 20, 49, <b>Pristiq overnight</b>, <b>Pristiq from canadian pharmacy</b>, 71, 77, <b>Pristiq from canada</b>, <b>Where can i cheapest Pristiq online</b>, 78, and 91), <b>effects of Pristiq</b>.  <b>Pristiq recreational</b>, <ol><br />
	<li>(<a href="http://www.betweenmysheets.com/index.php/ok-lets-talk-about-the-2010-list">Please see this post</a>)</li><br />
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	<li>Iona and James from <a href="http://sapioslut.com/" target="_blank">SapioSlut</a></li><br />
	<li>Quizzical Pussy from <a href="http://quizzicalpussy.com/" target="_blank">Quizzical Pussy</a></li><br />
	<li>Sadie from <a href="http://www.sadiesopenmarriage.com/" target="_blank">Sexie Sadie’s Stories of Seduction</a></li><br />
	<li>Vixen from <a href="http://blue-eyedvixen.com/" target="_blank">Secrets of a Blue-Eyed Vixen</a></li><br />
	<li>Adrian Colesberry from <a href="http://blog.adriancolesberry.com/" target="_blank">Adrian’s Blog</a></li><br />
	<li>EA from <a href="http://easilyaroused.co.uk">Easily Aroused</a></li><br />
	<li>Guy New York from <a href="http://quickienewyork.com" target="_blank">Quickies in New York</a></li><br />
	<li>Joan from <a href="http://betterthanieverexpected.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Better Than I Ever Expected: Sex and Aging</a></li><br />
	<li>25 Things from <a href="http://25thingsaboutmysexuality.blogspot.com" target="_blank">25 Things About My Sexuality</a></li><br />
	<li>AAG from AAG Blog</li><br />
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	<li>Rachel from <a href="http://rabbitwrite.com/" target="_blank">Rabbit Write</a></li><br />
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		<title>You&#8217;re My Favorite, Don&#8217;t Tell The Others</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 16:31:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Fur by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/1111090170/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1155/1111090170_25bdca39f1_o.jpg" alt="I Hope That's Faux Fur" width="418" height="475" align="left" /></a>After the <a title="Spooning Leads To Forking" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/01/spooning-leads-to-forking/" target="_self">interesting adventure that was Friday night</a>, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy's that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn't slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the <a title="Careful, You May End Up In My Novel" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/26/careful-you-may-end-up-in-my-novel/" target="_self">scene from last weekend</a>. I'd also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he'd find tons of useful information in <a title="SM 101" href="http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t" target="_self">SM 101</a> By Jay Wiseman, and <a title="Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" href="http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1212411296&amp;sr=8-1" target="_self">Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns</a> By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

He flipped through SM 101 and we read passages together, discussing some of the topics covered and commenting on a few things we'd like to try. He was especially glad to see a pre-scene negotiation section, as well as extensive checklists of BDSM related activities.

We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

At one point the sidewalk was too narrow for us to all walk side by side, so Deja and I fell into step behind Varick, and after a few yards of following him she and I exchanged looks and she remarked that we must look like a pimp with his bitches, and I started laughing so hard because I was having the exact same though. We're kind of ridiculous actually.

The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I'll be attending my first play party later this month ;) Looking forward to that.

Bellies full, we sauntered back to Deja's place. Varick decided that all my cheekiness had certainly earned me a good whipping, so he sent me off to the dungeon to get ready. I stripped down, put on my cuffs, and waited for him by the St. Andrew's Cross. He opted to blindfold me again, and then snapped my cuffs to the cross and ran his hands up my body. He started on the outsides of my thighs, slowly proceeded up over my hips, my sides, around to my breasts, and then up to my collar bones. He was pressed against my back and his chin was resting on my shoulder. I was already trembling with anticipation, and when he asked if I was ready to begin, I nodded enthusiastically.

He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. "Harder" and "Green" were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja's single-tail, which hadn't been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the 'breeze' it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn't fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her <a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self">violet wand</a>, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off <a title="Bucket List" href="http://shastagibson.com/my-bucket-list/" target="_self">the bucket list</a>:
<p style="text-align: center;">413. <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">Have a </span><a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self"><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"><span style="color: #a90118;">Violet Wand</span></span></a><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"> used on me</span></p>
I could tell that something was off with Varick. He seemed different while he cleaned up, and I was unsure what was wrong. Deja had some things to do in her office so he and I went downstairs. I sat on the couch, stretched out on it, and had him come and sit down, between my legs, which I wrapped around him, with his cheek on my chest. I asked him quietly what was wrong and he said he just felt weird, and kind of down. I thought it might be Top Drop* so I just stroked his hair and kissed his forehead.

I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn't push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he'd let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say "Yeah, I do that to people all the time" but it wasn't really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn't feel like going out, but didn't want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he's usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

"Maybe he's falling for you and he's all conflicted about it" she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he'd said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he'd been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja's house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn't really expected that. He said he hadn't been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it's not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

"What happened to you?" I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn't allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he's been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy's without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn't in any shape to go and if he wasn't coming with us, we didn't want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked <a title="I Am Legend" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480249/" target="_self">I Am Legend</a>, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything 'scary' LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman :P

We settled in to watch. It wasn't as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don't think I'll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in <a title="Bettie Page" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0404802/" target="_self">The Notorious Bettie Page</a>, which I've seen before. I liked watching it again, because it's an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn't seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn't think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she's pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he's kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to 'go slow' with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn't want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I'm going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I'll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he's afraid of what's happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn't want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn't press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he'd want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the <a title="Tantra Chair" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=111" target="_self">Tantra chair</a>, and the <a title="Sex Swing" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=479" target="_self">sex swing</a>. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he'll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what's caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I'm actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: <em>Colloquial</em> A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Teh Innertubes Are Foar Pr0n?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, but anyway, he put it up on the Ryerson journalism website and I was quite pleased overall.  I noticed he did not include a direct link to this blog, which was a little disappointing, but no matter.
<blockquote>Shasta Gibson, who does nude webcam shows for JaneLovesDick.com, enjoys watching gay and lesbian porn and porn directed by women. Mainstream heterosexual videos just don’t do it for her.

“I prefer that the movie feel sensual and erotic, rather than fake and staged,” says Gibson, who also writes about sex, porn, toys and erotica on her blog, The Stiletto Diaries.

Gibson is also into watching amateur porn, like the stuff she’s in.

“I love to look at real people, having real sex, and enjoying themselves for the sake of pleasure rather than the almighty dollar,” Gibson says.</blockquote>
You can read the entire article <a title="Harlequin Romances And Hardcore Porn" href="http://www.journalism.ryerson.ca/entertainment_culture/sexopolis/Russ/my_porn_story.html" target="_self">here</a>.  My contribution begins on Page 4.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>When Is A Horse Not A Horse?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/21/when-is-a-horse-not-a-horse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?" Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?"

Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to in Alberta for as long as I can remember. We went out for breakfast as a family, lounged about in the afternoon, and then went out for supper as well. It completely threw off my regular schedule however, and so today only feels like Tuesday, which means I feel behind in my week already. Not that I am complaining about the extra day with Jack :)

Nia and I have been hitting the gym four times a week now, which seems to eat up at least a couple of hours on those days. It feels so good to be working out again. I needed to get out of the house this evening, so I treated myself to a new yoga mat and some sexy workout gear. One can never have too many good sports bras or lycra booty shorts.

This weekend I have a couple of dates lined up. Sunday I am having coffee with a friend who I've mentioned here before, but who has not been assigned a name as of yet. I did photos for her one Saturday afternoon not long ago, and we've hit it off quite excellently. I shall call her Miri, which means 'mine' and you can read into that however you will *sly wink*.

Afterwards, I am getting together with Nelek, for coffee and more lascivious things. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I likely won't be able to spend any time with him again until well into March. Thus, I am going to make the most of Sunday, as they say.

Today was spent indoors, tidying the house while I listened to episodes of <a href="http://polyweekly.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> on my iPod Touch (a generous Christmas gift from that fabulous husband of mine). Nothing like being elbow-deep in dishwater while Minx purrs on about responsible non-monogamy. She may yet inspire me to try doing a podcast of my own.

Before I leave off for the evening and crawl into bed with Jack, I have a favour to ask! I need some dare suggestions for an adult party. I know I've asked for this before, but this time I need them to be short and easily applied to a group of people who don't know each other well. We're going to be writing them on slips of paper and giving one to each guest at random. We've got things like "Show some skin" and "Introduce yourself to an attractive stranger" but I need quite a few more. So, think about going to a sexy adult party where you might not know anyone all that well. What sorts of dares would you like to see people do? What would you be willing to do? Leave me some comments please :D]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Go! Go Now!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/18/go-go-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this <a href="http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/polyamory-is-not-about-the-sex-except-when-it-is/">incredible article on polyamory</a> over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>He&#8217;d Fall In Love With A Can Of Soup If It Sucked His Dick</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/01/09/hed-fall-in-love-with-a-can-of-soup-if-it-sucked-his-dick/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I loved spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine. I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things. I hope you weren't too lonely without me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I <strong>loved</strong> spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine.  I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things.  I hope you weren't too lonely without me :)<br /><br />My New Years Eve was quite fabulous, and while most people do not get a lot of enjoyment out of January, Jack and I have an anniversary coming up which gives me something to look forward to.  Nia is able to come over to watch the kids for a few hours so that Jack and I can go out for sushi or something.  I haven't had sushi in a long time, so I am really looking forward to that.<br /><br />There is also a contest in the works here at SD.  I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, and I had intended to kick it off on January 1st, but was too tired and unmotivated to post anything that day.  At any rate, I'll be sharing the details on that later this week, or on the weekend.  There will be some awesome prizes involved!<br /><br />Jack has me hooked on this site he discovered called <a href="http://www.janelovesdick.com/">JaneLovesDick.com</a> which is a free site for adult web cam play.  Basically you sign up so that you can access the chatrooms where you can view the web shows of multiple people at a time.  Pretty hot stuff if you're a voyouer or an exhibitionist.  The people who participate on that site are normal, every day people like you and I.  Not super models by any stretch, nor is there any insulting or name calling, no matter what you look like.  Generally I just lurk, but who knows, one of these evenings Jack and I might put on a show there.  If you are into 'real people' porn, be sure to check it out.<br /><br />I know this isn't exactly a thrilling update, especially since I've been gone so long.  I hope you'll forgive me, I promise more excitement (or at least more substance) in the coming weeks.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Rock The Blogosphere</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/07/15/rock-the-blogosphere/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen Piper has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen <a href="http://pipersplace.diaryland.com/">Piper</a> has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/813425013/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1227/813425013_5a27842389_o.jpg" width="180" height="63" alt="Rockin Girl Blogger Award" /></a></center><br /><br />It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the sexy minxes they are!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Padme</a> - Padme and I go quite a ways back, and she's one of my very dearest friends and her blog is one of the coolest I know. She's been my biggest fan and one of my most regular commenters and she just rocks my world ;) Not to mention that the photos she and her husband post on their blog are enough to turn my knees to jello!<br /><br /><a href="http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com/">Shibari</a> - Ah how she spoils us with her gorgeous and sensual photos and the thoughtful posts that she writes on her 'confessional'. She is a new read for me, but one I have greatly enjoyed thus far!<br /><br /><a href="http://the-sensuous-libertine.blogspot.com/">Cherrie</a> - How boring the blogosphere would be without this articulate little sexpot. She's one of the main reasons I so look forward to HNT ever week.<br /><br /><a href="http://maybejustonce.blogspot.com/">JeN</a> - Even though she only updates once a decade, JeN will remain one of my favorite bloggers off all time. I believe this is the third incarnation of my blog, and she has been with me through all of them. My first good friend from blogland, and certainly one of the awesomest bloggers ever because like very few others, she is not anonymous!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mnsss.blogspot.com/">Anna</a> - I enjoy Anna's writing a great deal. There has always been a certain gentleness about it, a smooth sense of sensuality that is neither tawdry nor forced.<br /><br />There you go my girls! I adore each of you for your uniqueness and special appeal :) Unlike other 'blog fads' you do not need to feel obligated to keep this one going if you don't want to. However, should you have the desire, feel free to pass out a few to the rockin girl bloggers you love! Try to give them to people who haven't yet received one :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You Can Love More Than One</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.Take A Peek!Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.I do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.seemagazine.com/Issues/2007/0208/cover.htm">Take A Peek!</a><br /><br />Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.<br /><br />It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.<br /><br />I do have to give them props for using a MMF family, and not the 'typical' FMF. Having a bi-sexual male as the hinge in a V is a pretty cool thing.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>On Breaking Up</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/21/on-breaking-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 16:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.Now It's Time To Say GoodbyeNow dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.<br /><br />Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/Editorial/NOW-IT-S-TIME-TO-SAY-GOODBYE_23">Now It's Time To Say Goodbye</a><br /><br />Now dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely one party is just going along with the other in order not to make waves? Thoughts on such things are welcomes, as always :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blog Star!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/07/blog-star/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though. The show is totally kid-safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though.

The show is totally kid-safe (meaning there is not talk about sex nor any coarse language, unlike the rest of the blog, HA HA). Basically just a lot of basic information regrading polyamory.

Download it for free here: <a title="Radio Interview" href="http://www.mediafire.com/?zi4yeugt2yu" target="_blank">Poly Radio Program</a> staring SG!

Enjoy :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.LUST LIFE Polyamory By Stephanie Sellars]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm">LUST LIFE </a><br />Polyamory <br /><br />By Stephanie Sellars]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Column Updates</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column. Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far. Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:Fighting FairAdvanced Scheduling 101Links to be added to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column.  Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far.  Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_060106.html#top">Fighting Fair</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_061406.html#top">Advanced Scheduling 101</a><br /><br />Links to be added to my sidebar as soon as I get around to it, LOL]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions #4</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/05/01/angelic-notions-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2006 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:Social InsecurityIt's all about control and manipulation in relationships.Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_050106.html">Social Insecurity</a><br /><br />It's all about control and manipulation in relationships.<br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>All New Angelic Notions</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2006 16:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check it out. This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:Instinctual GreedHope you enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Check it out.  This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_041506.html#top">Instinctual Greed</a><br /><br />Hope you enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions, 2nd Edition</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Apr 2006 15:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My column for Polyamorous Percolations is up this morning. You can check it out by clicking here.Let me know what you think :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My column for <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> is up this morning.  You can check it out by clicking <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_040106.html#top">here</a>.<br /><br />Let me know what you think :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Freaking Famous!!!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 15:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, not exactly, LOL.So now for my big secret! A week or so ago, Chias of Polyamorous Percolations approached me about writing a regular column for the website. Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.I was flattered by his offer, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img align="left" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112895334_adfa4de71e_o.jpg" width="350" height="233" border="0" alt="Celebration" />OK, not exactly, LOL.<br /><br />So now for my big secret!  A week or so ago, <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/family.html#top">Chias</a> of <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> approached me about writing a regular column for the website.  Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.<br /><br />I was flattered by his offer, to say the least.  So of course I accepted, and the first edition of my column went 'live' on the website this morning!!!<br /><br />The title of my column is <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_031506.html#top">Angelic Notions</a> (since my handle on the website is Nobody's Angel).  Click on the name to read my very first contribution.<br /><br />I will be writing a column every two weeks from now on, and I will be adding an area to my sidebar with links to my columns.<br /><br />Anyway, I'm just excited as hell, can you tell???  Now, get over there and read my column and then come back here and tell me what you think!<br /><br />HUGS AND KISSES ALL!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>If You Click It, I Will Lick You</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage. Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.polyandproud.com/learn/narratives1.php">This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage</a>.  Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Resource And Dating Links</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/07/resource-and-dating-links/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2006 19:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon. In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.Adult Friend Finder - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon.  In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultfriendfinder.com">Adult Friend Finder</a> - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have been too lazy to put up a link.  Basically a big personals site for singles and couples looking for sex with other singles and couples.  I met K through the site, so I have to give it at least a mention, LOL.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/index.html">Polyamorous Percolations</a> - A really great resource about polyamory.  Loads of articles, reader question/comments, columns, etc.  So much that I haven't really had time to browse through everything, but I highly suggest paying a visit.<br /><a href="http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/"><br />Polyamory Livejournal Community</a> - Basically a big forum where people can ask questions and get answers from other members.  Lots of good discussions going on about common issues faced by people living in that type of lifestyle.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.lifestyleplayground.com">Lifestyle Playground</a> - We haven't had much time to properly check out this site.  It was recommended to Jack by a friend.  Very similar to Adult Friend Finder, but there are a lot more couples (at least in our area) than singles.<br /><br /><a href="http://polyweekly.livejournal.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> (Podcast) - A really interesting podcast hosted by Minx, discussing all kinds of things related to Polyamory and kink in general.  There is even a lot of hot erotica, so tune in as soon as possible.  Archived episodes also easily available there.<br /><br /><a href="http://newyorkmetro.com/lifestyle/sex/annual/2005/15063/index.html" target="_blank">The New Monogamy - Marriage With Benefits</a> - An excellent article from New York Metro Magazine<br /><p><br /><strong>The Ethical Slut</strong><br /><center><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1890159018/qid=1132882687/701-9074332-4813941"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1890159018.01._OU15_PE24_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a></center><br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html" target="_blank">Polyamory?</a> - A great wealth of information on the poly lifestyle, especially for beginners<br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.okcupid.com" target="_blank">OKCupid</a> - Very Poly-Friendly Personals Site<br /><p><br /><a title="Jane's Guide" href="http://www.janesguide.com"><img height="75" alt="Jane's Guide" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112030545_ecc1902677_o.gif" width="88" border="0" /></a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2005/12/09/click-me-click-me/</link>
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		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it. It will be added to my sidebar as well.Polyamory?Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it.  It will be added to my sidebar as well.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html">Polyamory?</a><br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Three Isn&#8217;t A Crowd, It&#8217;s Just One More To Love&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/05/01/angelic-notions-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2006 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:Social InsecurityIt's all about control and manipulation in relationships.Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_050106.html">Social Insecurity</a><br /><br />It's all about control and manipulation in relationships.<br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2010/11/01/the-top-sex-bloggers-of-2010/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Nov 2010 19:28:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<title>You&#8217;re My Favorite, Don&#8217;t Tell The Others</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 16:31:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Fur by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/1111090170/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1155/1111090170_25bdca39f1_o.jpg" alt="I Hope That's Faux Fur" width="418" height="475" align="left" /></a>After the <a title="Spooning Leads To Forking" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/01/spooning-leads-to-forking/" target="_self">interesting adventure that was Friday night</a>, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy's that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn't slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the <a title="Careful, You May End Up In My Novel" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/26/careful-you-may-end-up-in-my-novel/" target="_self">scene from last weekend</a>. I'd also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he'd find tons of useful information in <a title="SM 101" href="http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t" target="_self">SM 101</a> By Jay Wiseman, and <a title="Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" href="http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1212411296&amp;sr=8-1" target="_self">Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns</a> By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

He flipped through SM 101 and we read passages together, discussing some of the topics covered and commenting on a few things we'd like to try. He was especially glad to see a pre-scene negotiation section, as well as extensive checklists of BDSM related activities.

We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

At one point the sidewalk was too narrow for us to all walk side by side, so Deja and I fell into step behind Varick, and after a few yards of following him she and I exchanged looks and she remarked that we must look like a pimp with his bitches, and I started laughing so hard because I was having the exact same though. We're kind of ridiculous actually.

The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I'll be attending my first play party later this month ;) Looking forward to that.

Bellies full, we sauntered back to Deja's place. Varick decided that all my cheekiness had certainly earned me a good whipping, so he sent me off to the dungeon to get ready. I stripped down, put on my cuffs, and waited for him by the St. Andrew's Cross. He opted to blindfold me again, and then snapped my cuffs to the cross and ran his hands up my body. He started on the outsides of my thighs, slowly proceeded up over my hips, my sides, around to my breasts, and then up to my collar bones. He was pressed against my back and his chin was resting on my shoulder. I was already trembling with anticipation, and when he asked if I was ready to begin, I nodded enthusiastically.

He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. "Harder" and "Green" were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja's single-tail, which hadn't been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the 'breeze' it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn't fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her <a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self">violet wand</a>, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off <a title="Bucket List" href="http://shastagibson.com/my-bucket-list/" target="_self">the bucket list</a>:
<p style="text-align: center;">413. <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">Have a </span><a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self"><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"><span style="color: #a90118;">Violet Wand</span></span></a><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"> used on me</span></p>
I could tell that something was off with Varick. He seemed different while he cleaned up, and I was unsure what was wrong. Deja had some things to do in her office so he and I went downstairs. I sat on the couch, stretched out on it, and had him come and sit down, between my legs, which I wrapped around him, with his cheek on my chest. I asked him quietly what was wrong and he said he just felt weird, and kind of down. I thought it might be Top Drop* so I just stroked his hair and kissed his forehead.

I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn't push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he'd let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say "Yeah, I do that to people all the time" but it wasn't really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn't feel like going out, but didn't want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he's usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

"Maybe he's falling for you and he's all conflicted about it" she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he'd said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he'd been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja's house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn't really expected that. He said he hadn't been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it's not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

"What happened to you?" I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn't allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he's been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy's without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn't in any shape to go and if he wasn't coming with us, we didn't want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked <a title="I Am Legend" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480249/" target="_self">I Am Legend</a>, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything 'scary' LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman :P

We settled in to watch. It wasn't as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don't think I'll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in <a title="Bettie Page" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0404802/" target="_self">The Notorious Bettie Page</a>, which I've seen before. I liked watching it again, because it's an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn't seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn't think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she's pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he's kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to 'go slow' with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn't want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I'm going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I'll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he's afraid of what's happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn't want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn't press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he'd want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the <a title="Tantra Chair" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=111" target="_self">Tantra chair</a>, and the <a title="Sex Swing" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=479" target="_self">sex swing</a>. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he'll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what's caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I'm actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: <em>Colloquial</em> A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Teh Innertubes Are Foar Pr0n?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, but anyway, he put it up on the Ryerson journalism website and I was quite pleased overall.  I noticed he did not include a direct link to this blog, which was a little disappointing, but no matter.
<blockquote>Shasta Gibson, who does nude webcam shows for JaneLovesDick.com, enjoys watching gay and lesbian porn and porn directed by women. Mainstream heterosexual videos just don’t do it for her.

“I prefer that the movie feel sensual and erotic, rather than fake and staged,” says Gibson, who also writes about sex, porn, toys and erotica on her blog, The Stiletto Diaries.

Gibson is also into watching amateur porn, like the stuff she’s in.

“I love to look at real people, having real sex, and enjoying themselves for the sake of pleasure rather than the almighty dollar,” Gibson says.</blockquote>
You can read the entire article <a title="Harlequin Romances And Hardcore Porn" href="http://www.journalism.ryerson.ca/entertainment_culture/sexopolis/Russ/my_porn_story.html" target="_self">here</a>.  My contribution begins on Page 4.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>When Is A Horse Not A Horse?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?" Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?"

Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to in Alberta for as long as I can remember. We went out for breakfast as a family, lounged about in the afternoon, and then went out for supper as well. It completely threw off my regular schedule however, and so today only feels like Tuesday, which means I feel behind in my week already. Not that I am complaining about the extra day with Jack :)

Nia and I have been hitting the gym four times a week now, which seems to eat up at least a couple of hours on those days. It feels so good to be working out again. I needed to get out of the house this evening, so I treated myself to a new yoga mat and some sexy workout gear. One can never have too many good sports bras or lycra booty shorts.

This weekend I have a couple of dates lined up. Sunday I am having coffee with a friend who I've mentioned here before, but who has not been assigned a name as of yet. I did photos for her one Saturday afternoon not long ago, and we've hit it off quite excellently. I shall call her Miri, which means 'mine' and you can read into that however you will *sly wink*.

Afterwards, I am getting together with Nelek, for coffee and more lascivious things. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I likely won't be able to spend any time with him again until well into March. Thus, I am going to make the most of Sunday, as they say.

Today was spent indoors, tidying the house while I listened to episodes of <a href="http://polyweekly.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> on my iPod Touch (a generous Christmas gift from that fabulous husband of mine). Nothing like being elbow-deep in dishwater while Minx purrs on about responsible non-monogamy. She may yet inspire me to try doing a podcast of my own.

Before I leave off for the evening and crawl into bed with Jack, I have a favour to ask! I need some dare suggestions for an adult party. I know I've asked for this before, but this time I need them to be short and easily applied to a group of people who don't know each other well. We're going to be writing them on slips of paper and giving one to each guest at random. We've got things like "Show some skin" and "Introduce yourself to an attractive stranger" but I need quite a few more. So, think about going to a sexy adult party where you might not know anyone all that well. What sorts of dares would you like to see people do? What would you be willing to do? Leave me some comments please :D]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Go! Go Now!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this <a href="http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/polyamory-is-not-about-the-sex-except-when-it-is/">incredible article on polyamory</a> over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>He&#8217;d Fall In Love With A Can Of Soup If It Sucked His Dick</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/01/09/hed-fall-in-love-with-a-can-of-soup-if-it-sucked-his-dick/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I loved spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine. I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things. I hope you weren't too lonely without me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I <strong>loved</strong> spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine.  I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things.  I hope you weren't too lonely without me :)<br /><br />My New Years Eve was quite fabulous, and while most people do not get a lot of enjoyment out of January, Jack and I have an anniversary coming up which gives me something to look forward to.  Nia is able to come over to watch the kids for a few hours so that Jack and I can go out for sushi or something.  I haven't had sushi in a long time, so I am really looking forward to that.<br /><br />There is also a contest in the works here at SD.  I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, and I had intended to kick it off on January 1st, but was too tired and unmotivated to post anything that day.  At any rate, I'll be sharing the details on that later this week, or on the weekend.  There will be some awesome prizes involved!<br /><br />Jack has me hooked on this site he discovered called <a href="http://www.janelovesdick.com/">JaneLovesDick.com</a> which is a free site for adult web cam play.  Basically you sign up so that you can access the chatrooms where you can view the web shows of multiple people at a time.  Pretty hot stuff if you're a voyouer or an exhibitionist.  The people who participate on that site are normal, every day people like you and I.  Not super models by any stretch, nor is there any insulting or name calling, no matter what you look like.  Generally I just lurk, but who knows, one of these evenings Jack and I might put on a show there.  If you are into 'real people' porn, be sure to check it out.<br /><br />I know this isn't exactly a thrilling update, especially since I've been gone so long.  I hope you'll forgive me, I promise more excitement (or at least more substance) in the coming weeks.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Rock The Blogosphere</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/07/15/rock-the-blogosphere/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen Piper has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen <a href="http://pipersplace.diaryland.com/">Piper</a> has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/813425013/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1227/813425013_5a27842389_o.jpg" width="180" height="63" alt="Rockin Girl Blogger Award" /></a></center><br /><br />It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the sexy minxes they are!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Padme</a> - Padme and I go quite a ways back, and she's one of my very dearest friends and her blog is one of the coolest I know. She's been my biggest fan and one of my most regular commenters and she just rocks my world ;) Not to mention that the photos she and her husband post on their blog are enough to turn my knees to jello!<br /><br /><a href="http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com/">Shibari</a> - Ah how she spoils us with her gorgeous and sensual photos and the thoughtful posts that she writes on her 'confessional'. She is a new read for me, but one I have greatly enjoyed thus far!<br /><br /><a href="http://the-sensuous-libertine.blogspot.com/">Cherrie</a> - How boring the blogosphere would be without this articulate little sexpot. She's one of the main reasons I so look forward to HNT ever week.<br /><br /><a href="http://maybejustonce.blogspot.com/">JeN</a> - Even though she only updates once a decade, JeN will remain one of my favorite bloggers off all time. I believe this is the third incarnation of my blog, and she has been with me through all of them. My first good friend from blogland, and certainly one of the awesomest bloggers ever because like very few others, she is not anonymous!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mnsss.blogspot.com/">Anna</a> - I enjoy Anna's writing a great deal. There has always been a certain gentleness about it, a smooth sense of sensuality that is neither tawdry nor forced.<br /><br />There you go my girls! I adore each of you for your uniqueness and special appeal :) Unlike other 'blog fads' you do not need to feel obligated to keep this one going if you don't want to. However, should you have the desire, feel free to pass out a few to the rockin girl bloggers you love! Try to give them to people who haven't yet received one :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You Can Love More Than One</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.Take A Peek!Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.I do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.seemagazine.com/Issues/2007/0208/cover.htm">Take A Peek!</a><br /><br />Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.<br /><br />It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.<br /><br />I do have to give them props for using a MMF family, and not the 'typical' FMF. Having a bi-sexual male as the hinge in a V is a pretty cool thing.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>On Breaking Up</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/21/on-breaking-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 16:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.Now It's Time To Say GoodbyeNow dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.<br /><br />Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/Editorial/NOW-IT-S-TIME-TO-SAY-GOODBYE_23">Now It's Time To Say Goodbye</a><br /><br />Now dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely one party is just going along with the other in order not to make waves? Thoughts on such things are welcomes, as always :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blog Star!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/07/blog-star/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though. The show is totally kid-safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though.

The show is totally kid-safe (meaning there is not talk about sex nor any coarse language, unlike the rest of the blog, HA HA). Basically just a lot of basic information regrading polyamory.

Download it for free here: <a title="Radio Interview" href="http://www.mediafire.com/?zi4yeugt2yu" target="_blank">Poly Radio Program</a> staring SG!

Enjoy :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.LUST LIFE Polyamory By Stephanie Sellars]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm">LUST LIFE </a><br />Polyamory <br /><br />By Stephanie Sellars]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Column Updates</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column. Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far. Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:Fighting FairAdvanced Scheduling 101Links to be added to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column.  Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far.  Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_060106.html#top">Fighting Fair</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_061406.html#top">Advanced Scheduling 101</a><br /><br />Links to be added to my sidebar as soon as I get around to it, LOL]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions #4</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/05/01/angelic-notions-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2006 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:Social InsecurityIt's all about control and manipulation in relationships.Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_050106.html">Social Insecurity</a><br /><br />It's all about control and manipulation in relationships.<br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>All New Angelic Notions</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2006 16:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check it out. This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:Instinctual GreedHope you enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Check it out.  This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_041506.html#top">Instinctual Greed</a><br /><br />Hope you enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions, 2nd Edition</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Apr 2006 15:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My column for Polyamorous Percolations is up this morning. You can check it out by clicking here.Let me know what you think :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My column for <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> is up this morning.  You can check it out by clicking <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_040106.html#top">here</a>.<br /><br />Let me know what you think :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Freaking Famous!!!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 15:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, not exactly, LOL.So now for my big secret! A week or so ago, Chias of Polyamorous Percolations approached me about writing a regular column for the website. Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.I was flattered by his offer, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img align="left" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112895334_adfa4de71e_o.jpg" width="350" height="233" border="0" alt="Celebration" />OK, not exactly, LOL.<br /><br />So now for my big secret!  A week or so ago, <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/family.html#top">Chias</a> of <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> approached me about writing a regular column for the website.  Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.<br /><br />I was flattered by his offer, to say the least.  So of course I accepted, and the first edition of my column went 'live' on the website this morning!!!<br /><br />The title of my column is <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_031506.html#top">Angelic Notions</a> (since my handle on the website is Nobody's Angel).  Click on the name to read my very first contribution.<br /><br />I will be writing a column every two weeks from now on, and I will be adding an area to my sidebar with links to my columns.<br /><br />Anyway, I'm just excited as hell, can you tell???  Now, get over there and read my column and then come back here and tell me what you think!<br /><br />HUGS AND KISSES ALL!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>If You Click It, I Will Lick You</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage. Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.polyandproud.com/learn/narratives1.php">This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage</a>.  Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Resource And Dating Links</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/07/resource-and-dating-links/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2006 19:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon. In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.Adult Friend Finder - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon.  In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultfriendfinder.com">Adult Friend Finder</a> - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have been too lazy to put up a link.  Basically a big personals site for singles and couples looking for sex with other singles and couples.  I met K through the site, so I have to give it at least a mention, LOL.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/index.html">Polyamorous Percolations</a> - A really great resource about polyamory.  Loads of articles, reader question/comments, columns, etc.  So much that I haven't really had time to browse through everything, but I highly suggest paying a visit.<br /><a href="http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/"><br />Polyamory Livejournal Community</a> - Basically a big forum where people can ask questions and get answers from other members.  Lots of good discussions going on about common issues faced by people living in that type of lifestyle.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.lifestyleplayground.com">Lifestyle Playground</a> - We haven't had much time to properly check out this site.  It was recommended to Jack by a friend.  Very similar to Adult Friend Finder, but there are a lot more couples (at least in our area) than singles.<br /><br /><a href="http://polyweekly.livejournal.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> (Podcast) - A really interesting podcast hosted by Minx, discussing all kinds of things related to Polyamory and kink in general.  There is even a lot of hot erotica, so tune in as soon as possible.  Archived episodes also easily available there.<br /><br /><a href="http://newyorkmetro.com/lifestyle/sex/annual/2005/15063/index.html" target="_blank">The New Monogamy - Marriage With Benefits</a> - An excellent article from New York Metro Magazine<br /><p><br /><strong>The Ethical Slut</strong><br /><center><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1890159018/qid=1132882687/701-9074332-4813941"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1890159018.01._OU15_PE24_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a></center><br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html" target="_blank">Polyamory?</a> - A great wealth of information on the poly lifestyle, especially for beginners<br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.okcupid.com" target="_blank">OKCupid</a> - Very Poly-Friendly Personals Site<br /><p><br /><a title="Jane's Guide" href="http://www.janesguide.com"><img height="75" alt="Jane's Guide" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112030545_ecc1902677_o.gif" width="88" border="0" /></a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Click Me! Click Me!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it. It will be added to my sidebar as well.Polyamory?Enjoy!]]></description>
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		<title>Three Isn&#8217;t A Crowd, It&#8217;s Just One More To Love&#8230;</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check it out. This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:Instinctual GreedHope you enjoy!]]></description>
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		<description><![CDATA[After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Fur by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/1111090170/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1155/1111090170_25bdca39f1_o.jpg" alt="I Hope That's Faux Fur" width="418" height="475" align="left" /></a>After the <a title="Spooning Leads To Forking" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/01/spooning-leads-to-forking/" target="_self">interesting adventure that was Friday night</a>, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy's that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn't slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the <a title="Careful, You May End Up In My Novel" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/26/careful-you-may-end-up-in-my-novel/" target="_self">scene from last weekend</a>. I'd also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he'd find tons of useful information in <a title="SM 101" href="http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t" target="_self">SM 101</a> By Jay Wiseman, and <a title="Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" href="http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1212411296&amp;sr=8-1" target="_self">Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns</a> By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

He flipped through SM 101 and we read passages together, discussing some of the topics covered and commenting on a few things we'd like to try. He was especially glad to see a pre-scene negotiation section, as well as extensive checklists of BDSM related activities.

We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

At one point the sidewalk was too narrow for us to all walk side by side, so Deja and I fell into step behind Varick, and after a few yards of following him she and I exchanged looks and she remarked that we must look like a pimp with his bitches, and I started laughing so hard because I was having the exact same though. We're kind of ridiculous actually.

The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I'll be attending my first play party later this month ;) Looking forward to that.

Bellies full, we sauntered back to Deja's place. Varick decided that all my cheekiness had certainly earned me a good whipping, so he sent me off to the dungeon to get ready. I stripped down, put on my cuffs, and waited for him by the St. Andrew's Cross. He opted to blindfold me again, and then snapped my cuffs to the cross and ran his hands up my body. He started on the outsides of my thighs, slowly proceeded up over my hips, my sides, around to my breasts, and then up to my collar bones. He was pressed against my back and his chin was resting on my shoulder. I was already trembling with anticipation, and when he asked if I was ready to begin, I nodded enthusiastically.

He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. "Harder" and "Green" were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja's single-tail, which hadn't been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the 'breeze' it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn't fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her <a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self">violet wand</a>, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off <a title="Bucket List" href="http://shastagibson.com/my-bucket-list/" target="_self">the bucket list</a>:
<p style="text-align: center;">413. <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">Have a </span><a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self"><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"><span style="color: #a90118;">Violet Wand</span></span></a><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"> used on me</span></p>
I could tell that something was off with Varick. He seemed different while he cleaned up, and I was unsure what was wrong. Deja had some things to do in her office so he and I went downstairs. I sat on the couch, stretched out on it, and had him come and sit down, between my legs, which I wrapped around him, with his cheek on my chest. I asked him quietly what was wrong and he said he just felt weird, and kind of down. I thought it might be Top Drop* so I just stroked his hair and kissed his forehead.

I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn't push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he'd let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say "Yeah, I do that to people all the time" but it wasn't really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn't feel like going out, but didn't want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he's usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

"Maybe he's falling for you and he's all conflicted about it" she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he'd said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he'd been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja's house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn't really expected that. He said he hadn't been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it's not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

"What happened to you?" I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn't allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he's been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy's without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn't in any shape to go and if he wasn't coming with us, we didn't want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked <a title="I Am Legend" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480249/" target="_self">I Am Legend</a>, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything 'scary' LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman :P

We settled in to watch. It wasn't as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don't think I'll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in <a title="Bettie Page" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0404802/" target="_self">The Notorious Bettie Page</a>, which I've seen before. I liked watching it again, because it's an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn't seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn't think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she's pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he's kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to 'go slow' with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn't want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I'm going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I'll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he's afraid of what's happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn't want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn't press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he'd want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the <a title="Tantra Chair" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=111" target="_self">Tantra chair</a>, and the <a title="Sex Swing" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=479" target="_self">sex swing</a>. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he'll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what's caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I'm actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: <em>Colloquial</em> A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Teh Innertubes Are Foar Pr0n?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/28/teh-innertubes-are-foar-pr0n/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, but anyway, he put it up on the Ryerson journalism website and I was quite pleased overall.  I noticed he did not include a direct link to this blog, which was a little disappointing, but no matter.
<blockquote>Shasta Gibson, who does nude webcam shows for JaneLovesDick.com, enjoys watching gay and lesbian porn and porn directed by women. Mainstream heterosexual videos just don’t do it for her.

“I prefer that the movie feel sensual and erotic, rather than fake and staged,” says Gibson, who also writes about sex, porn, toys and erotica on her blog, The Stiletto Diaries.

Gibson is also into watching amateur porn, like the stuff she’s in.

“I love to look at real people, having real sex, and enjoying themselves for the sake of pleasure rather than the almighty dollar,” Gibson says.</blockquote>
You can read the entire article <a title="Harlequin Romances And Hardcore Porn" href="http://www.journalism.ryerson.ca/entertainment_culture/sexopolis/Russ/my_porn_story.html" target="_self">here</a>.  My contribution begins on Page 4.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>When Is A Horse Not A Horse?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/21/when-is-a-horse-not-a-horse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?" Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?"

Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to in Alberta for as long as I can remember. We went out for breakfast as a family, lounged about in the afternoon, and then went out for supper as well. It completely threw off my regular schedule however, and so today only feels like Tuesday, which means I feel behind in my week already. Not that I am complaining about the extra day with Jack :)

Nia and I have been hitting the gym four times a week now, which seems to eat up at least a couple of hours on those days. It feels so good to be working out again. I needed to get out of the house this evening, so I treated myself to a new yoga mat and some sexy workout gear. One can never have too many good sports bras or lycra booty shorts.

This weekend I have a couple of dates lined up. Sunday I am having coffee with a friend who I've mentioned here before, but who has not been assigned a name as of yet. I did photos for her one Saturday afternoon not long ago, and we've hit it off quite excellently. I shall call her Miri, which means 'mine' and you can read into that however you will *sly wink*.

Afterwards, I am getting together with Nelek, for coffee and more lascivious things. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I likely won't be able to spend any time with him again until well into March. Thus, I am going to make the most of Sunday, as they say.

Today was spent indoors, tidying the house while I listened to episodes of <a href="http://polyweekly.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> on my iPod Touch (a generous Christmas gift from that fabulous husband of mine). Nothing like being elbow-deep in dishwater while Minx purrs on about responsible non-monogamy. She may yet inspire me to try doing a podcast of my own.

Before I leave off for the evening and crawl into bed with Jack, I have a favour to ask! I need some dare suggestions for an adult party. I know I've asked for this before, but this time I need them to be short and easily applied to a group of people who don't know each other well. We're going to be writing them on slips of paper and giving one to each guest at random. We've got things like "Show some skin" and "Introduce yourself to an attractive stranger" but I need quite a few more. So, think about going to a sexy adult party where you might not know anyone all that well. What sorts of dares would you like to see people do? What would you be willing to do? Leave me some comments please :D]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Go! Go Now!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/18/go-go-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this <a href="http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/polyamory-is-not-about-the-sex-except-when-it-is/">incredible article on polyamory</a> over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>He&#8217;d Fall In Love With A Can Of Soup If It Sucked His Dick</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/01/09/hed-fall-in-love-with-a-can-of-soup-if-it-sucked-his-dick/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I loved spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine. I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things. I hope you weren't too lonely without me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I <strong>loved</strong> spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine.  I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things.  I hope you weren't too lonely without me :)<br /><br />My New Years Eve was quite fabulous, and while most people do not get a lot of enjoyment out of January, Jack and I have an anniversary coming up which gives me something to look forward to.  Nia is able to come over to watch the kids for a few hours so that Jack and I can go out for sushi or something.  I haven't had sushi in a long time, so I am really looking forward to that.<br /><br />There is also a contest in the works here at SD.  I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, and I had intended to kick it off on January 1st, but was too tired and unmotivated to post anything that day.  At any rate, I'll be sharing the details on that later this week, or on the weekend.  There will be some awesome prizes involved!<br /><br />Jack has me hooked on this site he discovered called <a href="http://www.janelovesdick.com/">JaneLovesDick.com</a> which is a free site for adult web cam play.  Basically you sign up so that you can access the chatrooms where you can view the web shows of multiple people at a time.  Pretty hot stuff if you're a voyouer or an exhibitionist.  The people who participate on that site are normal, every day people like you and I.  Not super models by any stretch, nor is there any insulting or name calling, no matter what you look like.  Generally I just lurk, but who knows, one of these evenings Jack and I might put on a show there.  If you are into 'real people' porn, be sure to check it out.<br /><br />I know this isn't exactly a thrilling update, especially since I've been gone so long.  I hope you'll forgive me, I promise more excitement (or at least more substance) in the coming weeks.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Rock The Blogosphere</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/07/15/rock-the-blogosphere/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen Piper has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen <a href="http://pipersplace.diaryland.com/">Piper</a> has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/813425013/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1227/813425013_5a27842389_o.jpg" width="180" height="63" alt="Rockin Girl Blogger Award" /></a></center><br /><br />It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the sexy minxes they are!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Padme</a> - Padme and I go quite a ways back, and she's one of my very dearest friends and her blog is one of the coolest I know. She's been my biggest fan and one of my most regular commenters and she just rocks my world ;) Not to mention that the photos she and her husband post on their blog are enough to turn my knees to jello!<br /><br /><a href="http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com/">Shibari</a> - Ah how she spoils us with her gorgeous and sensual photos and the thoughtful posts that she writes on her 'confessional'. She is a new read for me, but one I have greatly enjoyed thus far!<br /><br /><a href="http://the-sensuous-libertine.blogspot.com/">Cherrie</a> - How boring the blogosphere would be without this articulate little sexpot. She's one of the main reasons I so look forward to HNT ever week.<br /><br /><a href="http://maybejustonce.blogspot.com/">JeN</a> - Even though she only updates once a decade, JeN will remain one of my favorite bloggers off all time. I believe this is the third incarnation of my blog, and she has been with me through all of them. My first good friend from blogland, and certainly one of the awesomest bloggers ever because like very few others, she is not anonymous!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mnsss.blogspot.com/">Anna</a> - I enjoy Anna's writing a great deal. There has always been a certain gentleness about it, a smooth sense of sensuality that is neither tawdry nor forced.<br /><br />There you go my girls! I adore each of you for your uniqueness and special appeal :) Unlike other 'blog fads' you do not need to feel obligated to keep this one going if you don't want to. However, should you have the desire, feel free to pass out a few to the rockin girl bloggers you love! Try to give them to people who haven't yet received one :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You Can Love More Than One</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.Take A Peek!Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.I do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.seemagazine.com/Issues/2007/0208/cover.htm">Take A Peek!</a><br /><br />Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.<br /><br />It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.<br /><br />I do have to give them props for using a MMF family, and not the 'typical' FMF. Having a bi-sexual male as the hinge in a V is a pretty cool thing.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>On Breaking Up</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/21/on-breaking-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 16:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.Now It's Time To Say GoodbyeNow dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.<br /><br />Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/Editorial/NOW-IT-S-TIME-TO-SAY-GOODBYE_23">Now It's Time To Say Goodbye</a><br /><br />Now dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely one party is just going along with the other in order not to make waves? Thoughts on such things are welcomes, as always :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blog Star!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/07/blog-star/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though. The show is totally kid-safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though.

The show is totally kid-safe (meaning there is not talk about sex nor any coarse language, unlike the rest of the blog, HA HA). Basically just a lot of basic information regrading polyamory.

Download it for free here: <a title="Radio Interview" href="http://www.mediafire.com/?zi4yeugt2yu" target="_blank">Poly Radio Program</a> staring SG!

Enjoy :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.LUST LIFE Polyamory By Stephanie Sellars]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm">LUST LIFE </a><br />Polyamory <br /><br />By Stephanie Sellars]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Column Updates</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column. Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far. Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:Fighting FairAdvanced Scheduling 101Links to be added to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column.  Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far.  Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_060106.html#top">Fighting Fair</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_061406.html#top">Advanced Scheduling 101</a><br /><br />Links to be added to my sidebar as soon as I get around to it, LOL]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions #4</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/05/01/angelic-notions-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2006 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:Social InsecurityIt's all about control and manipulation in relationships.Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_050106.html">Social Insecurity</a><br /><br />It's all about control and manipulation in relationships.<br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>All New Angelic Notions</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2006 16:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check it out. This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:Instinctual GreedHope you enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Check it out.  This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_041506.html#top">Instinctual Greed</a><br /><br />Hope you enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions, 2nd Edition</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Apr 2006 15:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My column for Polyamorous Percolations is up this morning. You can check it out by clicking here.Let me know what you think :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My column for <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> is up this morning.  You can check it out by clicking <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_040106.html#top">here</a>.<br /><br />Let me know what you think :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Freaking Famous!!!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 15:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, not exactly, LOL.So now for my big secret! A week or so ago, Chias of Polyamorous Percolations approached me about writing a regular column for the website. Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.I was flattered by his offer, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img align="left" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112895334_adfa4de71e_o.jpg" width="350" height="233" border="0" alt="Celebration" />OK, not exactly, LOL.<br /><br />So now for my big secret!  A week or so ago, <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/family.html#top">Chias</a> of <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> approached me about writing a regular column for the website.  Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.<br /><br />I was flattered by his offer, to say the least.  So of course I accepted, and the first edition of my column went 'live' on the website this morning!!!<br /><br />The title of my column is <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_031506.html#top">Angelic Notions</a> (since my handle on the website is Nobody's Angel).  Click on the name to read my very first contribution.<br /><br />I will be writing a column every two weeks from now on, and I will be adding an area to my sidebar with links to my columns.<br /><br />Anyway, I'm just excited as hell, can you tell???  Now, get over there and read my column and then come back here and tell me what you think!<br /><br />HUGS AND KISSES ALL!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>If You Click It, I Will Lick You</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage. Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.polyandproud.com/learn/narratives1.php">This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage</a>.  Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Resource And Dating Links</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/07/resource-and-dating-links/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2006 19:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon. In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.Adult Friend Finder - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon.  In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultfriendfinder.com">Adult Friend Finder</a> - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have been too lazy to put up a link.  Basically a big personals site for singles and couples looking for sex with other singles and couples.  I met K through the site, so I have to give it at least a mention, LOL.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/index.html">Polyamorous Percolations</a> - A really great resource about polyamory.  Loads of articles, reader question/comments, columns, etc.  So much that I haven't really had time to browse through everything, but I highly suggest paying a visit.<br /><a href="http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/"><br />Polyamory Livejournal Community</a> - Basically a big forum where people can ask questions and get answers from other members.  Lots of good discussions going on about common issues faced by people living in that type of lifestyle.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.lifestyleplayground.com">Lifestyle Playground</a> - We haven't had much time to properly check out this site.  It was recommended to Jack by a friend.  Very similar to Adult Friend Finder, but there are a lot more couples (at least in our area) than singles.<br /><br /><a href="http://polyweekly.livejournal.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> (Podcast) - A really interesting podcast hosted by Minx, discussing all kinds of things related to Polyamory and kink in general.  There is even a lot of hot erotica, so tune in as soon as possible.  Archived episodes also easily available there.<br /><br /><a href="http://newyorkmetro.com/lifestyle/sex/annual/2005/15063/index.html" target="_blank">The New Monogamy - Marriage With Benefits</a> - An excellent article from New York Metro Magazine<br /><p><br /><strong>The Ethical Slut</strong><br /><center><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1890159018/qid=1132882687/701-9074332-4813941"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1890159018.01._OU15_PE24_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a></center><br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html" target="_blank">Polyamory?</a> - A great wealth of information on the poly lifestyle, especially for beginners<br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.okcupid.com" target="_blank">OKCupid</a> - Very Poly-Friendly Personals Site<br /><p><br /><a title="Jane's Guide" href="http://www.janesguide.com"><img height="75" alt="Jane's Guide" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112030545_ecc1902677_o.gif" width="88" border="0" /></a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Click Me! Click Me!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2005/12/09/click-me-click-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2005 23:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it. It will be added to my sidebar as well.Polyamory?Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it.  It will be added to my sidebar as well.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html">Polyamory?</a><br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Three Isn&#8217;t A Crowd, It&#8217;s Just One More To Love&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Apr 2006 15:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My column for Polyamorous Percolations is up this morning. You can check it out by clicking here.Let me know what you think :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My column for <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> is up this morning.  You can check it out by clicking <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_040106.html#top">here</a>.<br /><br />Let me know what you think :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Stiletto Diaries™ &#187; Resources And Links</title>
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		<title>Pristiq For Sale</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Fur by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/1111090170/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1155/1111090170_25bdca39f1_o.jpg" alt="I Hope That's Faux Fur" width="418" height="475" align="left" /></a>After the <a title="Spooning Leads To Forking" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/01/spooning-leads-to-forking/" target="_self">interesting adventure that was Friday night</a>, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy's that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn't slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the <a title="Careful, You May End Up In My Novel" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/26/careful-you-may-end-up-in-my-novel/" target="_self">scene from last weekend</a>. I'd also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he'd find tons of useful information in <a title="SM 101" href="http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t" target="_self">SM 101</a> By Jay Wiseman, and <a title="Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" href="http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1212411296&amp;sr=8-1" target="_self">Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns</a> By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

He flipped through SM 101 and we read passages together, discussing some of the topics covered and commenting on a few things we'd like to try. He was especially glad to see a pre-scene negotiation section, as well as extensive checklists of BDSM related activities.

We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

At one point the sidewalk was too narrow for us to all walk side by side, so Deja and I fell into step behind Varick, and after a few yards of following him she and I exchanged looks and she remarked that we must look like a pimp with his bitches, and I started laughing so hard because I was having the exact same though. We're kind of ridiculous actually.

The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I'll be attending my first play party later this month ;) Looking forward to that.

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He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. "Harder" and "Green" were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja's single-tail, which hadn't been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the 'breeze' it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn't fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her <a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self">violet wand</a>, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off <a title="Bucket List" href="http://shastagibson.com/my-bucket-list/" target="_self">the bucket list</a>:
<p style="text-align: center;">413. <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">Have a </span><a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self"><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"><span style="color: #a90118;">Violet Wand</span></span></a><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"> used on me</span></p>
I could tell that something was off with Varick. He seemed different while he cleaned up, and I was unsure what was wrong. Deja had some things to do in her office so he and I went downstairs. I sat on the couch, stretched out on it, and had him come and sit down, between my legs, which I wrapped around him, with his cheek on my chest. I asked him quietly what was wrong and he said he just felt weird, and kind of down. I thought it might be Top Drop* so I just stroked his hair and kissed his forehead.

I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn't push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he'd let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say "Yeah, I do that to people all the time" but it wasn't really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn't feel like going out, but didn't want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he's usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

"Maybe he's falling for you and he's all conflicted about it" she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he'd said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he'd been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja's house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn't really expected that. He said he hadn't been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it's not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

"What happened to you?" I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn't allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he's been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy's without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn't in any shape to go and if he wasn't coming with us, we didn't want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked <a title="I Am Legend" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480249/" target="_self">I Am Legend</a>, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything 'scary' LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman :P

We settled in to watch. It wasn't as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don't think I'll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in <a title="Bettie Page" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0404802/" target="_self">The Notorious Bettie Page</a>, which I've seen before. I liked watching it again, because it's an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn't seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn't think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she's pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he's kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to 'go slow' with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn't want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I'm going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I'll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he's afraid of what's happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn't want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn't press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he'd want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the <a title="Tantra Chair" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=111" target="_self">Tantra chair</a>, and the <a title="Sex Swing" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=479" target="_self">sex swing</a>. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he'll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what's caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I'm actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: <em>Colloquial</em> A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Teh Innertubes Are Foar Pr0n?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/28/teh-innertubes-are-foar-pr0n/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, but anyway, he put it up on the Ryerson journalism website and I was quite pleased overall.  I noticed he did not include a direct link to this blog, which was a little disappointing, but no matter.
<blockquote>Shasta Gibson, who does nude webcam shows for JaneLovesDick.com, enjoys watching gay and lesbian porn and porn directed by women. Mainstream heterosexual videos just don’t do it for her.

“I prefer that the movie feel sensual and erotic, rather than fake and staged,” says Gibson, who also writes about sex, porn, toys and erotica on her blog, The Stiletto Diaries.

Gibson is also into watching amateur porn, like the stuff she’s in.

“I love to look at real people, having real sex, and enjoying themselves for the sake of pleasure rather than the almighty dollar,” Gibson says.</blockquote>
You can read the entire article <a title="Harlequin Romances And Hardcore Porn" href="http://www.journalism.ryerson.ca/entertainment_culture/sexopolis/Russ/my_porn_story.html" target="_self">here</a>.  My contribution begins on Page 4.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>When Is A Horse Not A Horse?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/21/when-is-a-horse-not-a-horse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?" Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?"

Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to in Alberta for as long as I can remember. We went out for breakfast as a family, lounged about in the afternoon, and then went out for supper as well. It completely threw off my regular schedule however, and so today only feels like Tuesday, which means I feel behind in my week already. Not that I am complaining about the extra day with Jack :)

Nia and I have been hitting the gym four times a week now, which seems to eat up at least a couple of hours on those days. It feels so good to be working out again. I needed to get out of the house this evening, so I treated myself to a new yoga mat and some sexy workout gear. One can never have too many good sports bras or lycra booty shorts.

This weekend I have a couple of dates lined up. Sunday I am having coffee with a friend who I've mentioned here before, but who has not been assigned a name as of yet. I did photos for her one Saturday afternoon not long ago, and we've hit it off quite excellently. I shall call her Miri, which means 'mine' and you can read into that however you will *sly wink*.

Afterwards, I am getting together with Nelek, for coffee and more lascivious things. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I likely won't be able to spend any time with him again until well into March. Thus, I am going to make the most of Sunday, as they say.

Today was spent indoors, tidying the house while I listened to episodes of <a href="http://polyweekly.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> on my iPod Touch (a generous Christmas gift from that fabulous husband of mine). Nothing like being elbow-deep in dishwater while Minx purrs on about responsible non-monogamy. She may yet inspire me to try doing a podcast of my own.

Before I leave off for the evening and crawl into bed with Jack, I have a favour to ask! I need some dare suggestions for an adult party. I know I've asked for this before, but this time I need them to be short and easily applied to a group of people who don't know each other well. We're going to be writing them on slips of paper and giving one to each guest at random. We've got things like "Show some skin" and "Introduce yourself to an attractive stranger" but I need quite a few more. So, think about going to a sexy adult party where you might not know anyone all that well. What sorts of dares would you like to see people do? What would you be willing to do? Leave me some comments please :D]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Go! Go Now!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/18/go-go-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this <a href="http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/polyamory-is-not-about-the-sex-except-when-it-is/">incredible article on polyamory</a> over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>He&#8217;d Fall In Love With A Can Of Soup If It Sucked His Dick</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/01/09/hed-fall-in-love-with-a-can-of-soup-if-it-sucked-his-dick/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I loved spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine. I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things. I hope you weren't too lonely without me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I <strong>loved</strong> spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine.  I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things.  I hope you weren't too lonely without me :)<br /><br />My New Years Eve was quite fabulous, and while most people do not get a lot of enjoyment out of January, Jack and I have an anniversary coming up which gives me something to look forward to.  Nia is able to come over to watch the kids for a few hours so that Jack and I can go out for sushi or something.  I haven't had sushi in a long time, so I am really looking forward to that.<br /><br />There is also a contest in the works here at SD.  I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, and I had intended to kick it off on January 1st, but was too tired and unmotivated to post anything that day.  At any rate, I'll be sharing the details on that later this week, or on the weekend.  There will be some awesome prizes involved!<br /><br />Jack has me hooked on this site he discovered called <a href="http://www.janelovesdick.com/">JaneLovesDick.com</a> which is a free site for adult web cam play.  Basically you sign up so that you can access the chatrooms where you can view the web shows of multiple people at a time.  Pretty hot stuff if you're a voyouer or an exhibitionist.  The people who participate on that site are normal, every day people like you and I.  Not super models by any stretch, nor is there any insulting or name calling, no matter what you look like.  Generally I just lurk, but who knows, one of these evenings Jack and I might put on a show there.  If you are into 'real people' porn, be sure to check it out.<br /><br />I know this isn't exactly a thrilling update, especially since I've been gone so long.  I hope you'll forgive me, I promise more excitement (or at least more substance) in the coming weeks.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Rock The Blogosphere</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/07/15/rock-the-blogosphere/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen Piper has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen <a href="http://pipersplace.diaryland.com/">Piper</a> has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/813425013/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1227/813425013_5a27842389_o.jpg" width="180" height="63" alt="Rockin Girl Blogger Award" /></a></center><br /><br />It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the sexy minxes they are!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Padme</a> - Padme and I go quite a ways back, and she's one of my very dearest friends and her blog is one of the coolest I know. She's been my biggest fan and one of my most regular commenters and she just rocks my world ;) Not to mention that the photos she and her husband post on their blog are enough to turn my knees to jello!<br /><br /><a href="http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com/">Shibari</a> - Ah how she spoils us with her gorgeous and sensual photos and the thoughtful posts that she writes on her 'confessional'. She is a new read for me, but one I have greatly enjoyed thus far!<br /><br /><a href="http://the-sensuous-libertine.blogspot.com/">Cherrie</a> - How boring the blogosphere would be without this articulate little sexpot. She's one of the main reasons I so look forward to HNT ever week.<br /><br /><a href="http://maybejustonce.blogspot.com/">JeN</a> - Even though she only updates once a decade, JeN will remain one of my favorite bloggers off all time. I believe this is the third incarnation of my blog, and she has been with me through all of them. My first good friend from blogland, and certainly one of the awesomest bloggers ever because like very few others, she is not anonymous!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mnsss.blogspot.com/">Anna</a> - I enjoy Anna's writing a great deal. There has always been a certain gentleness about it, a smooth sense of sensuality that is neither tawdry nor forced.<br /><br />There you go my girls! I adore each of you for your uniqueness and special appeal :) Unlike other 'blog fads' you do not need to feel obligated to keep this one going if you don't want to. However, should you have the desire, feel free to pass out a few to the rockin girl bloggers you love! Try to give them to people who haven't yet received one :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You Can Love More Than One</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.Take A Peek!Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.I do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.seemagazine.com/Issues/2007/0208/cover.htm">Take A Peek!</a><br /><br />Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.<br /><br />It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.<br /><br />I do have to give them props for using a MMF family, and not the 'typical' FMF. Having a bi-sexual male as the hinge in a V is a pretty cool thing.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>On Breaking Up</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/21/on-breaking-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 16:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.Now It's Time To Say GoodbyeNow dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.<br /><br />Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/Editorial/NOW-IT-S-TIME-TO-SAY-GOODBYE_23">Now It's Time To Say Goodbye</a><br /><br />Now dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely one party is just going along with the other in order not to make waves? Thoughts on such things are welcomes, as always :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blog Star!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/07/blog-star/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though. The show is totally kid-safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though.

The show is totally kid-safe (meaning there is not talk about sex nor any coarse language, unlike the rest of the blog, HA HA). Basically just a lot of basic information regrading polyamory.

Download it for free here: <a title="Radio Interview" href="http://www.mediafire.com/?zi4yeugt2yu" target="_blank">Poly Radio Program</a> staring SG!

Enjoy :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.LUST LIFE Polyamory By Stephanie Sellars]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm">LUST LIFE </a><br />Polyamory <br /><br />By Stephanie Sellars]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Column Updates</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column. Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far. Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:Fighting FairAdvanced Scheduling 101Links to be added to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column.  Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far.  Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_060106.html#top">Fighting Fair</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_061406.html#top">Advanced Scheduling 101</a><br /><br />Links to be added to my sidebar as soon as I get around to it, LOL]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions #4</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/05/01/angelic-notions-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2006 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:Social InsecurityIt's all about control and manipulation in relationships.Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_050106.html">Social Insecurity</a><br /><br />It's all about control and manipulation in relationships.<br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>All New Angelic Notions</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2006 16:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check it out. This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:Instinctual GreedHope you enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Check it out.  This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_041506.html#top">Instinctual Greed</a><br /><br />Hope you enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions, 2nd Edition</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Apr 2006 15:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My column for Polyamorous Percolations is up this morning. You can check it out by clicking here.Let me know what you think :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My column for <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> is up this morning.  You can check it out by clicking <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_040106.html#top">here</a>.<br /><br />Let me know what you think :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Freaking Famous!!!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 15:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, not exactly, LOL.So now for my big secret! A week or so ago, Chias of Polyamorous Percolations approached me about writing a regular column for the website. Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.I was flattered by his offer, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img align="left" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112895334_adfa4de71e_o.jpg" width="350" height="233" border="0" alt="Celebration" />OK, not exactly, LOL.<br /><br />So now for my big secret!  A week or so ago, <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/family.html#top">Chias</a> of <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> approached me about writing a regular column for the website.  Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.<br /><br />I was flattered by his offer, to say the least.  So of course I accepted, and the first edition of my column went 'live' on the website this morning!!!<br /><br />The title of my column is <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_031506.html#top">Angelic Notions</a> (since my handle on the website is Nobody's Angel).  Click on the name to read my very first contribution.<br /><br />I will be writing a column every two weeks from now on, and I will be adding an area to my sidebar with links to my columns.<br /><br />Anyway, I'm just excited as hell, can you tell???  Now, get over there and read my column and then come back here and tell me what you think!<br /><br />HUGS AND KISSES ALL!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>If You Click It, I Will Lick You</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage. Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.polyandproud.com/learn/narratives1.php">This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage</a>.  Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Resource And Dating Links</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/07/resource-and-dating-links/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2006 19:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon. In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.Adult Friend Finder - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon.  In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultfriendfinder.com">Adult Friend Finder</a> - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have been too lazy to put up a link.  Basically a big personals site for singles and couples looking for sex with other singles and couples.  I met K through the site, so I have to give it at least a mention, LOL.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/index.html">Polyamorous Percolations</a> - A really great resource about polyamory.  Loads of articles, reader question/comments, columns, etc.  So much that I haven't really had time to browse through everything, but I highly suggest paying a visit.<br /><a href="http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/"><br />Polyamory Livejournal Community</a> - Basically a big forum where people can ask questions and get answers from other members.  Lots of good discussions going on about common issues faced by people living in that type of lifestyle.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.lifestyleplayground.com">Lifestyle Playground</a> - We haven't had much time to properly check out this site.  It was recommended to Jack by a friend.  Very similar to Adult Friend Finder, but there are a lot more couples (at least in our area) than singles.<br /><br /><a href="http://polyweekly.livejournal.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> (Podcast) - A really interesting podcast hosted by Minx, discussing all kinds of things related to Polyamory and kink in general.  There is even a lot of hot erotica, so tune in as soon as possible.  Archived episodes also easily available there.<br /><br /><a href="http://newyorkmetro.com/lifestyle/sex/annual/2005/15063/index.html" target="_blank">The New Monogamy - Marriage With Benefits</a> - An excellent article from New York Metro Magazine<br /><p><br /><strong>The Ethical Slut</strong><br /><center><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1890159018/qid=1132882687/701-9074332-4813941"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1890159018.01._OU15_PE24_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a></center><br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html" target="_blank">Polyamory?</a> - A great wealth of information on the poly lifestyle, especially for beginners<br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.okcupid.com" target="_blank">OKCupid</a> - Very Poly-Friendly Personals Site<br /><p><br /><a title="Jane's Guide" href="http://www.janesguide.com"><img height="75" alt="Jane's Guide" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112030545_ecc1902677_o.gif" width="88" border="0" /></a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Click Me! Click Me!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2005/12/09/click-me-click-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2005 23:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it. It will be added to my sidebar as well.Polyamory?Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it.  It will be added to my sidebar as well.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html">Polyamory?</a><br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Three Isn&#8217;t A Crowd, It&#8217;s Just One More To Love&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 15:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, not exactly, LOL.So now for my big secret! A week or so ago, Chias of Polyamorous Percolations approached me about writing a regular column for the website. Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.I was flattered by his offer, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img align="left" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112895334_adfa4de71e_o.jpg" width="350" height="233" border="0" alt="Celebration" />OK, not exactly, LOL.<br /><br />So now for my big secret!  A week or so ago, <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/family.html#top">Chias</a> of <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> approached me about writing a regular column for the website.  Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.<br /><br />I was flattered by his offer, to say the least.  So of course I accepted, and the first edition of my column went 'live' on the website this morning!!!<br /><br />The title of my column is <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_031506.html#top">Angelic Notions</a> (since my handle on the website is Nobody's Angel).  Click on the name to read my very first contribution.<br /><br />I will be writing a column every two weeks from now on, and I will be adding an area to my sidebar with links to my columns.<br /><br />Anyway, I'm just excited as hell, can you tell???  Now, get over there and read my column and then come back here and tell me what you think!<br /><br />HUGS AND KISSES ALL!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Stiletto Diaries™ &#187; Resources And Links</title>
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		<title>Pristiq For Sale</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2010/11/01/the-top-sex-bloggers-of-2010/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2010/11/01/the-top-sex-bloggers-of-2010/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Nov 2010 19:28:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Pristiq For Sale, I know, I know, I am behind the times.  At any rate, Pristiq price, coupon, Pristiq steet value, I am so thrilled to be #38 on this years list of Top Sex Bloggers.  I am reposting the list for your enjoyment (and I heartily endorse #2, Pristiq blogs, Purchase Pristiq, 8, 12, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <b>Pristiq For Sale</b>, I know, I know, I am behind the times.  At any rate, <b>Pristiq price, coupon</b>, <b>Pristiq steet value</b>, I am so thrilled to be #38 on this years list of Top Sex Bloggers.  I am reposting the list for your enjoyment (and I heartily endorse #2, <b>Pristiq blogs</b>, <b>Purchase Pristiq</b>, 8, 12, <b>buy no prescription Pristiq online</b>, <b>Buy Pristiq online cod</b>, 20, 49, <b>Pristiq overnight</b>, <b>Pristiq from canadian pharmacy</b>, 71, 77, <b>Pristiq from canada</b>, <b>Where can i cheapest Pristiq online</b>, 78, and 91), <b>effects of Pristiq</b>.  <b>Pristiq recreational</b>, <ol><br />
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	<li>Vixen from <a href="http://blue-eyedvixen.com/" target="_blank">Secrets of a Blue-Eyed Vixen</a></li><br />
	<li>Adrian Colesberry from <a href="http://blog.adriancolesberry.com/" target="_blank">Adrian’s Blog</a></li><br />
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	<li>Joan from <a href="http://betterthanieverexpected.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Better Than I Ever Expected: Sex and Aging</a></li><br />
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	<li>Holden from <a href="http://packingvocals.blogspot.com" target="_blank">Packing Vocals</a></li><br />
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	<li>Elle from <a href="http://www.kinkunleashed.com/" target="_blank">Kink Unleashed</a></li><br />
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	<li>Clarisse Thorn from <a href="http://clarissethorn.wordpress.com/">Pro-Sex Outreach, <b>where can i buy cheapest Pristiq online</b>, <b>Is Pristiq safe</b>, Open-Minded Feminism</a></li><br />
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		<title>You&#8217;re My Favorite, Don&#8217;t Tell The Others</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Fur by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/1111090170/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1155/1111090170_25bdca39f1_o.jpg" alt="I Hope That's Faux Fur" width="418" height="475" align="left" /></a>After the <a title="Spooning Leads To Forking" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/01/spooning-leads-to-forking/" target="_self">interesting adventure that was Friday night</a>, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy's that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn't slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the <a title="Careful, You May End Up In My Novel" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/26/careful-you-may-end-up-in-my-novel/" target="_self">scene from last weekend</a>. I'd also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he'd find tons of useful information in <a title="SM 101" href="http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t" target="_self">SM 101</a> By Jay Wiseman, and <a title="Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" href="http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1212411296&amp;sr=8-1" target="_self">Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns</a> By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

He flipped through SM 101 and we read passages together, discussing some of the topics covered and commenting on a few things we'd like to try. He was especially glad to see a pre-scene negotiation section, as well as extensive checklists of BDSM related activities.

We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

At one point the sidewalk was too narrow for us to all walk side by side, so Deja and I fell into step behind Varick, and after a few yards of following him she and I exchanged looks and she remarked that we must look like a pimp with his bitches, and I started laughing so hard because I was having the exact same though. We're kind of ridiculous actually.

The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I'll be attending my first play party later this month ;) Looking forward to that.

Bellies full, we sauntered back to Deja's place. Varick decided that all my cheekiness had certainly earned me a good whipping, so he sent me off to the dungeon to get ready. I stripped down, put on my cuffs, and waited for him by the St. Andrew's Cross. He opted to blindfold me again, and then snapped my cuffs to the cross and ran his hands up my body. He started on the outsides of my thighs, slowly proceeded up over my hips, my sides, around to my breasts, and then up to my collar bones. He was pressed against my back and his chin was resting on my shoulder. I was already trembling with anticipation, and when he asked if I was ready to begin, I nodded enthusiastically.

He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. "Harder" and "Green" were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja's single-tail, which hadn't been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the 'breeze' it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn't fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her <a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self">violet wand</a>, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off <a title="Bucket List" href="http://shastagibson.com/my-bucket-list/" target="_self">the bucket list</a>:
<p style="text-align: center;">413. <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">Have a </span><a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self"><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"><span style="color: #a90118;">Violet Wand</span></span></a><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"> used on me</span></p>
I could tell that something was off with Varick. He seemed different while he cleaned up, and I was unsure what was wrong. Deja had some things to do in her office so he and I went downstairs. I sat on the couch, stretched out on it, and had him come and sit down, between my legs, which I wrapped around him, with his cheek on my chest. I asked him quietly what was wrong and he said he just felt weird, and kind of down. I thought it might be Top Drop* so I just stroked his hair and kissed his forehead.

I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn't push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he'd let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say "Yeah, I do that to people all the time" but it wasn't really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn't feel like going out, but didn't want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he's usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

"Maybe he's falling for you and he's all conflicted about it" she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he'd said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he'd been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja's house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn't really expected that. He said he hadn't been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it's not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

"What happened to you?" I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn't allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he's been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy's without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn't in any shape to go and if he wasn't coming with us, we didn't want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked <a title="I Am Legend" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480249/" target="_self">I Am Legend</a>, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything 'scary' LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman :P

We settled in to watch. It wasn't as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don't think I'll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in <a title="Bettie Page" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0404802/" target="_self">The Notorious Bettie Page</a>, which I've seen before. I liked watching it again, because it's an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn't seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn't think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she's pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he's kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to 'go slow' with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn't want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I'm going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I'll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he's afraid of what's happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn't want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn't press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he'd want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the <a title="Tantra Chair" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=111" target="_self">Tantra chair</a>, and the <a title="Sex Swing" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=479" target="_self">sex swing</a>. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he'll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what's caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I'm actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: <em>Colloquial</em> A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Teh Innertubes Are Foar Pr0n?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/28/teh-innertubes-are-foar-pr0n/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, but anyway, he put it up on the Ryerson journalism website and I was quite pleased overall.  I noticed he did not include a direct link to this blog, which was a little disappointing, but no matter.
<blockquote>Shasta Gibson, who does nude webcam shows for JaneLovesDick.com, enjoys watching gay and lesbian porn and porn directed by women. Mainstream heterosexual videos just don’t do it for her.

“I prefer that the movie feel sensual and erotic, rather than fake and staged,” says Gibson, who also writes about sex, porn, toys and erotica on her blog, The Stiletto Diaries.

Gibson is also into watching amateur porn, like the stuff she’s in.

“I love to look at real people, having real sex, and enjoying themselves for the sake of pleasure rather than the almighty dollar,” Gibson says.</blockquote>
You can read the entire article <a title="Harlequin Romances And Hardcore Porn" href="http://www.journalism.ryerson.ca/entertainment_culture/sexopolis/Russ/my_porn_story.html" target="_self">here</a>.  My contribution begins on Page 4.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>When Is A Horse Not A Horse?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/21/when-is-a-horse-not-a-horse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?" Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?"

Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to in Alberta for as long as I can remember. We went out for breakfast as a family, lounged about in the afternoon, and then went out for supper as well. It completely threw off my regular schedule however, and so today only feels like Tuesday, which means I feel behind in my week already. Not that I am complaining about the extra day with Jack :)

Nia and I have been hitting the gym four times a week now, which seems to eat up at least a couple of hours on those days. It feels so good to be working out again. I needed to get out of the house this evening, so I treated myself to a new yoga mat and some sexy workout gear. One can never have too many good sports bras or lycra booty shorts.

This weekend I have a couple of dates lined up. Sunday I am having coffee with a friend who I've mentioned here before, but who has not been assigned a name as of yet. I did photos for her one Saturday afternoon not long ago, and we've hit it off quite excellently. I shall call her Miri, which means 'mine' and you can read into that however you will *sly wink*.

Afterwards, I am getting together with Nelek, for coffee and more lascivious things. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I likely won't be able to spend any time with him again until well into March. Thus, I am going to make the most of Sunday, as they say.

Today was spent indoors, tidying the house while I listened to episodes of <a href="http://polyweekly.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> on my iPod Touch (a generous Christmas gift from that fabulous husband of mine). Nothing like being elbow-deep in dishwater while Minx purrs on about responsible non-monogamy. She may yet inspire me to try doing a podcast of my own.

Before I leave off for the evening and crawl into bed with Jack, I have a favour to ask! I need some dare suggestions for an adult party. I know I've asked for this before, but this time I need them to be short and easily applied to a group of people who don't know each other well. We're going to be writing them on slips of paper and giving one to each guest at random. We've got things like "Show some skin" and "Introduce yourself to an attractive stranger" but I need quite a few more. So, think about going to a sexy adult party where you might not know anyone all that well. What sorts of dares would you like to see people do? What would you be willing to do? Leave me some comments please :D]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Go! Go Now!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/18/go-go-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this <a href="http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/polyamory-is-not-about-the-sex-except-when-it-is/">incredible article on polyamory</a> over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>He&#8217;d Fall In Love With A Can Of Soup If It Sucked His Dick</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/01/09/hed-fall-in-love-with-a-can-of-soup-if-it-sucked-his-dick/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I loved spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine. I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things. I hope you weren't too lonely without me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I <strong>loved</strong> spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine.  I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things.  I hope you weren't too lonely without me :)<br /><br />My New Years Eve was quite fabulous, and while most people do not get a lot of enjoyment out of January, Jack and I have an anniversary coming up which gives me something to look forward to.  Nia is able to come over to watch the kids for a few hours so that Jack and I can go out for sushi or something.  I haven't had sushi in a long time, so I am really looking forward to that.<br /><br />There is also a contest in the works here at SD.  I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, and I had intended to kick it off on January 1st, but was too tired and unmotivated to post anything that day.  At any rate, I'll be sharing the details on that later this week, or on the weekend.  There will be some awesome prizes involved!<br /><br />Jack has me hooked on this site he discovered called <a href="http://www.janelovesdick.com/">JaneLovesDick.com</a> which is a free site for adult web cam play.  Basically you sign up so that you can access the chatrooms where you can view the web shows of multiple people at a time.  Pretty hot stuff if you're a voyouer or an exhibitionist.  The people who participate on that site are normal, every day people like you and I.  Not super models by any stretch, nor is there any insulting or name calling, no matter what you look like.  Generally I just lurk, but who knows, one of these evenings Jack and I might put on a show there.  If you are into 'real people' porn, be sure to check it out.<br /><br />I know this isn't exactly a thrilling update, especially since I've been gone so long.  I hope you'll forgive me, I promise more excitement (or at least more substance) in the coming weeks.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Rock The Blogosphere</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/07/15/rock-the-blogosphere/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen Piper has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen <a href="http://pipersplace.diaryland.com/">Piper</a> has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/813425013/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1227/813425013_5a27842389_o.jpg" width="180" height="63" alt="Rockin Girl Blogger Award" /></a></center><br /><br />It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the sexy minxes they are!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Padme</a> - Padme and I go quite a ways back, and she's one of my very dearest friends and her blog is one of the coolest I know. She's been my biggest fan and one of my most regular commenters and she just rocks my world ;) Not to mention that the photos she and her husband post on their blog are enough to turn my knees to jello!<br /><br /><a href="http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com/">Shibari</a> - Ah how she spoils us with her gorgeous and sensual photos and the thoughtful posts that she writes on her 'confessional'. She is a new read for me, but one I have greatly enjoyed thus far!<br /><br /><a href="http://the-sensuous-libertine.blogspot.com/">Cherrie</a> - How boring the blogosphere would be without this articulate little sexpot. She's one of the main reasons I so look forward to HNT ever week.<br /><br /><a href="http://maybejustonce.blogspot.com/">JeN</a> - Even though she only updates once a decade, JeN will remain one of my favorite bloggers off all time. I believe this is the third incarnation of my blog, and she has been with me through all of them. My first good friend from blogland, and certainly one of the awesomest bloggers ever because like very few others, she is not anonymous!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mnsss.blogspot.com/">Anna</a> - I enjoy Anna's writing a great deal. There has always been a certain gentleness about it, a smooth sense of sensuality that is neither tawdry nor forced.<br /><br />There you go my girls! I adore each of you for your uniqueness and special appeal :) Unlike other 'blog fads' you do not need to feel obligated to keep this one going if you don't want to. However, should you have the desire, feel free to pass out a few to the rockin girl bloggers you love! Try to give them to people who haven't yet received one :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You Can Love More Than One</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.Take A Peek!Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.I do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.seemagazine.com/Issues/2007/0208/cover.htm">Take A Peek!</a><br /><br />Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.<br /><br />It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.<br /><br />I do have to give them props for using a MMF family, and not the 'typical' FMF. Having a bi-sexual male as the hinge in a V is a pretty cool thing.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>On Breaking Up</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/21/on-breaking-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 16:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.Now It's Time To Say GoodbyeNow dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.<br /><br />Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/Editorial/NOW-IT-S-TIME-TO-SAY-GOODBYE_23">Now It's Time To Say Goodbye</a><br /><br />Now dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely one party is just going along with the other in order not to make waves? Thoughts on such things are welcomes, as always :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blog Star!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/07/blog-star/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though. The show is totally kid-safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though.

The show is totally kid-safe (meaning there is not talk about sex nor any coarse language, unlike the rest of the blog, HA HA). Basically just a lot of basic information regrading polyamory.

Download it for free here: <a title="Radio Interview" href="http://www.mediafire.com/?zi4yeugt2yu" target="_blank">Poly Radio Program</a> staring SG!

Enjoy :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.LUST LIFE Polyamory By Stephanie Sellars]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm">LUST LIFE </a><br />Polyamory <br /><br />By Stephanie Sellars]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Column Updates</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column. Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far. Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:Fighting FairAdvanced Scheduling 101Links to be added to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column.  Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far.  Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_060106.html#top">Fighting Fair</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_061406.html#top">Advanced Scheduling 101</a><br /><br />Links to be added to my sidebar as soon as I get around to it, LOL]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions #4</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/05/01/angelic-notions-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2006 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:Social InsecurityIt's all about control and manipulation in relationships.Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_050106.html">Social Insecurity</a><br /><br />It's all about control and manipulation in relationships.<br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>All New Angelic Notions</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2006 16:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check it out. This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:Instinctual GreedHope you enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Check it out.  This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_041506.html#top">Instinctual Greed</a><br /><br />Hope you enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions, 2nd Edition</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Apr 2006 15:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My column for Polyamorous Percolations is up this morning. You can check it out by clicking here.Let me know what you think :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My column for <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> is up this morning.  You can check it out by clicking <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_040106.html#top">here</a>.<br /><br />Let me know what you think :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Freaking Famous!!!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 15:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, not exactly, LOL.So now for my big secret! A week or so ago, Chias of Polyamorous Percolations approached me about writing a regular column for the website. Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.I was flattered by his offer, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img align="left" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112895334_adfa4de71e_o.jpg" width="350" height="233" border="0" alt="Celebration" />OK, not exactly, LOL.<br /><br />So now for my big secret!  A week or so ago, <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/family.html#top">Chias</a> of <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> approached me about writing a regular column for the website.  Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.<br /><br />I was flattered by his offer, to say the least.  So of course I accepted, and the first edition of my column went 'live' on the website this morning!!!<br /><br />The title of my column is <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_031506.html#top">Angelic Notions</a> (since my handle on the website is Nobody's Angel).  Click on the name to read my very first contribution.<br /><br />I will be writing a column every two weeks from now on, and I will be adding an area to my sidebar with links to my columns.<br /><br />Anyway, I'm just excited as hell, can you tell???  Now, get over there and read my column and then come back here and tell me what you think!<br /><br />HUGS AND KISSES ALL!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>If You Click It, I Will Lick You</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage. Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.polyandproud.com/learn/narratives1.php">This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage</a>.  Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Resource And Dating Links</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/07/resource-and-dating-links/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2006 19:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon. In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.Adult Friend Finder - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon.  In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultfriendfinder.com">Adult Friend Finder</a> - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have been too lazy to put up a link.  Basically a big personals site for singles and couples looking for sex with other singles and couples.  I met K through the site, so I have to give it at least a mention, LOL.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/index.html">Polyamorous Percolations</a> - A really great resource about polyamory.  Loads of articles, reader question/comments, columns, etc.  So much that I haven't really had time to browse through everything, but I highly suggest paying a visit.<br /><a href="http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/"><br />Polyamory Livejournal Community</a> - Basically a big forum where people can ask questions and get answers from other members.  Lots of good discussions going on about common issues faced by people living in that type of lifestyle.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.lifestyleplayground.com">Lifestyle Playground</a> - We haven't had much time to properly check out this site.  It was recommended to Jack by a friend.  Very similar to Adult Friend Finder, but there are a lot more couples (at least in our area) than singles.<br /><br /><a href="http://polyweekly.livejournal.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> (Podcast) - A really interesting podcast hosted by Minx, discussing all kinds of things related to Polyamory and kink in general.  There is even a lot of hot erotica, so tune in as soon as possible.  Archived episodes also easily available there.<br /><br /><a href="http://newyorkmetro.com/lifestyle/sex/annual/2005/15063/index.html" target="_blank">The New Monogamy - Marriage With Benefits</a> - An excellent article from New York Metro Magazine<br /><p><br /><strong>The Ethical Slut</strong><br /><center><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1890159018/qid=1132882687/701-9074332-4813941"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1890159018.01._OU15_PE24_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a></center><br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html" target="_blank">Polyamory?</a> - A great wealth of information on the poly lifestyle, especially for beginners<br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.okcupid.com" target="_blank">OKCupid</a> - Very Poly-Friendly Personals Site<br /><p><br /><a title="Jane's Guide" href="http://www.janesguide.com"><img height="75" alt="Jane's Guide" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112030545_ecc1902677_o.gif" width="88" border="0" /></a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Click Me! Click Me!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2005/12/09/click-me-click-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2005 23:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it. It will be added to my sidebar as well.Polyamory?Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it.  It will be added to my sidebar as well.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html">Polyamory?</a><br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Three Isn&#8217;t A Crowd, It&#8217;s Just One More To Love&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage. Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.polyandproud.com/learn/narratives1.php">This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage</a>.  Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Stiletto Diaries™ &#187; Resources And Links</title>
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		<title>Pristiq For Sale</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2010/11/01/the-top-sex-bloggers-of-2010/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Nov 2010 19:28:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Pristiq For Sale, I know, I know, I am behind the times.  At any rate, Pristiq price, coupon, Pristiq steet value, I am so thrilled to be #38 on this years list of Top Sex Bloggers.  I am reposting the list for your enjoyment (and I heartily endorse #2, Pristiq blogs, Purchase Pristiq, 8, 12, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <b>Pristiq For Sale</b>, I know, I know, I am behind the times.  At any rate, <b>Pristiq price, coupon</b>, <b>Pristiq steet value</b>, I am so thrilled to be #38 on this years list of Top Sex Bloggers.  I am reposting the list for your enjoyment (and I heartily endorse #2, <b>Pristiq blogs</b>, <b>Purchase Pristiq</b>, 8, 12, <b>buy no prescription Pristiq online</b>, <b>Buy Pristiq online cod</b>, 20, 49, <b>Pristiq overnight</b>, <b>Pristiq from canadian pharmacy</b>, 71, 77, <b>Pristiq from canada</b>, <b>Where can i cheapest Pristiq online</b>, 78, and 91), <b>effects of Pristiq</b>.  <b>Pristiq recreational</b>, <ol><br />
	<li>(<a href="http://www.betweenmysheets.com/index.php/ok-lets-talk-about-the-2010-list">Please see this post</a>)</li><br />
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	<li>Iona and James from <a href="http://sapioslut.com/" target="_blank">SapioSlut</a></li><br />
	<li>Quizzical Pussy from <a href="http://quizzicalpussy.com/" target="_blank">Quizzical Pussy</a></li><br />
	<li>Sadie from <a href="http://www.sadiesopenmarriage.com/" target="_blank">Sexie Sadie’s Stories of Seduction</a></li><br />
	<li>Vixen from <a href="http://blue-eyedvixen.com/" target="_blank">Secrets of a Blue-Eyed Vixen</a></li><br />
	<li>Adrian Colesberry from <a href="http://blog.adriancolesberry.com/" target="_blank">Adrian’s Blog</a></li><br />
	<li>EA from <a href="http://easilyaroused.co.uk">Easily Aroused</a></li><br />
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	<li>Joan from <a href="http://betterthanieverexpected.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Better Than I Ever Expected: Sex and Aging</a></li><br />
	<li>25 Things from <a href="http://25thingsaboutmysexuality.blogspot.com" target="_blank">25 Things About My Sexuality</a></li><br />
	<li>AAG from AAG Blog</li><br />
	<li>Bad, Bad Girl from <a href="http://bbgblog.com/" target="_blank">BBG Blog</a></li><br />
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	<li>The blogging team at <a href="http://sexisfun.net/blogs/home.html">Sex is Fun</a></li><br />
	<li>Elle from <a href="http://www.kinkunleashed.com/" target="_blank">Kink Unleashed</a></li><br />
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	<li>Clarisse Thorn from <a href="http://clarissethorn.wordpress.com/">Pro-Sex Outreach, <b>where can i buy cheapest Pristiq online</b>, <b>Is Pristiq safe</b>, Open-Minded Feminism</a></li><br />
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		<title>You&#8217;re My Favorite, Don&#8217;t Tell The Others</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 16:31:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Fur by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/1111090170/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1155/1111090170_25bdca39f1_o.jpg" alt="I Hope That's Faux Fur" width="418" height="475" align="left" /></a>After the <a title="Spooning Leads To Forking" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/01/spooning-leads-to-forking/" target="_self">interesting adventure that was Friday night</a>, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy's that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn't slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the <a title="Careful, You May End Up In My Novel" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/26/careful-you-may-end-up-in-my-novel/" target="_self">scene from last weekend</a>. I'd also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he'd find tons of useful information in <a title="SM 101" href="http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t" target="_self">SM 101</a> By Jay Wiseman, and <a title="Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" href="http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1212411296&amp;sr=8-1" target="_self">Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns</a> By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

He flipped through SM 101 and we read passages together, discussing some of the topics covered and commenting on a few things we'd like to try. He was especially glad to see a pre-scene negotiation section, as well as extensive checklists of BDSM related activities.

We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

At one point the sidewalk was too narrow for us to all walk side by side, so Deja and I fell into step behind Varick, and after a few yards of following him she and I exchanged looks and she remarked that we must look like a pimp with his bitches, and I started laughing so hard because I was having the exact same though. We're kind of ridiculous actually.

The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I'll be attending my first play party later this month ;) Looking forward to that.

Bellies full, we sauntered back to Deja's place. Varick decided that all my cheekiness had certainly earned me a good whipping, so he sent me off to the dungeon to get ready. I stripped down, put on my cuffs, and waited for him by the St. Andrew's Cross. He opted to blindfold me again, and then snapped my cuffs to the cross and ran his hands up my body. He started on the outsides of my thighs, slowly proceeded up over my hips, my sides, around to my breasts, and then up to my collar bones. He was pressed against my back and his chin was resting on my shoulder. I was already trembling with anticipation, and when he asked if I was ready to begin, I nodded enthusiastically.

He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. "Harder" and "Green" were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja's single-tail, which hadn't been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the 'breeze' it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn't fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her <a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self">violet wand</a>, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off <a title="Bucket List" href="http://shastagibson.com/my-bucket-list/" target="_self">the bucket list</a>:
<p style="text-align: center;">413. <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">Have a </span><a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self"><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"><span style="color: #a90118;">Violet Wand</span></span></a><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"> used on me</span></p>
I could tell that something was off with Varick. He seemed different while he cleaned up, and I was unsure what was wrong. Deja had some things to do in her office so he and I went downstairs. I sat on the couch, stretched out on it, and had him come and sit down, between my legs, which I wrapped around him, with his cheek on my chest. I asked him quietly what was wrong and he said he just felt weird, and kind of down. I thought it might be Top Drop* so I just stroked his hair and kissed his forehead.

I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn't push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he'd let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say "Yeah, I do that to people all the time" but it wasn't really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn't feel like going out, but didn't want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he's usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

"Maybe he's falling for you and he's all conflicted about it" she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he'd said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he'd been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja's house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn't really expected that. He said he hadn't been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it's not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

"What happened to you?" I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn't allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he's been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy's without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn't in any shape to go and if he wasn't coming with us, we didn't want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked <a title="I Am Legend" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480249/" target="_self">I Am Legend</a>, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything 'scary' LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman :P

We settled in to watch. It wasn't as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don't think I'll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in <a title="Bettie Page" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0404802/" target="_self">The Notorious Bettie Page</a>, which I've seen before. I liked watching it again, because it's an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn't seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn't think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she's pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he's kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to 'go slow' with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn't want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I'm going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I'll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he's afraid of what's happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn't want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn't press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he'd want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the <a title="Tantra Chair" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=111" target="_self">Tantra chair</a>, and the <a title="Sex Swing" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=479" target="_self">sex swing</a>. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he'll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what's caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I'm actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: <em>Colloquial</em> A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Teh Innertubes Are Foar Pr0n?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, but anyway, he put it up on the Ryerson journalism website and I was quite pleased overall.  I noticed he did not include a direct link to this blog, which was a little disappointing, but no matter.
<blockquote>Shasta Gibson, who does nude webcam shows for JaneLovesDick.com, enjoys watching gay and lesbian porn and porn directed by women. Mainstream heterosexual videos just don’t do it for her.

“I prefer that the movie feel sensual and erotic, rather than fake and staged,” says Gibson, who also writes about sex, porn, toys and erotica on her blog, The Stiletto Diaries.

Gibson is also into watching amateur porn, like the stuff she’s in.

“I love to look at real people, having real sex, and enjoying themselves for the sake of pleasure rather than the almighty dollar,” Gibson says.</blockquote>
You can read the entire article <a title="Harlequin Romances And Hardcore Porn" href="http://www.journalism.ryerson.ca/entertainment_culture/sexopolis/Russ/my_porn_story.html" target="_self">here</a>.  My contribution begins on Page 4.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>When Is A Horse Not A Horse?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/21/when-is-a-horse-not-a-horse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?" Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?"

Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to in Alberta for as long as I can remember. We went out for breakfast as a family, lounged about in the afternoon, and then went out for supper as well. It completely threw off my regular schedule however, and so today only feels like Tuesday, which means I feel behind in my week already. Not that I am complaining about the extra day with Jack :)

Nia and I have been hitting the gym four times a week now, which seems to eat up at least a couple of hours on those days. It feels so good to be working out again. I needed to get out of the house this evening, so I treated myself to a new yoga mat and some sexy workout gear. One can never have too many good sports bras or lycra booty shorts.

This weekend I have a couple of dates lined up. Sunday I am having coffee with a friend who I've mentioned here before, but who has not been assigned a name as of yet. I did photos for her one Saturday afternoon not long ago, and we've hit it off quite excellently. I shall call her Miri, which means 'mine' and you can read into that however you will *sly wink*.

Afterwards, I am getting together with Nelek, for coffee and more lascivious things. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I likely won't be able to spend any time with him again until well into March. Thus, I am going to make the most of Sunday, as they say.

Today was spent indoors, tidying the house while I listened to episodes of <a href="http://polyweekly.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> on my iPod Touch (a generous Christmas gift from that fabulous husband of mine). Nothing like being elbow-deep in dishwater while Minx purrs on about responsible non-monogamy. She may yet inspire me to try doing a podcast of my own.

Before I leave off for the evening and crawl into bed with Jack, I have a favour to ask! I need some dare suggestions for an adult party. I know I've asked for this before, but this time I need them to be short and easily applied to a group of people who don't know each other well. We're going to be writing them on slips of paper and giving one to each guest at random. We've got things like "Show some skin" and "Introduce yourself to an attractive stranger" but I need quite a few more. So, think about going to a sexy adult party where you might not know anyone all that well. What sorts of dares would you like to see people do? What would you be willing to do? Leave me some comments please :D]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Go! Go Now!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/18/go-go-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this <a href="http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/polyamory-is-not-about-the-sex-except-when-it-is/">incredible article on polyamory</a> over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>He&#8217;d Fall In Love With A Can Of Soup If It Sucked His Dick</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/01/09/hed-fall-in-love-with-a-can-of-soup-if-it-sucked-his-dick/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I loved spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine. I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things. I hope you weren't too lonely without me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I <strong>loved</strong> spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine.  I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things.  I hope you weren't too lonely without me :)<br /><br />My New Years Eve was quite fabulous, and while most people do not get a lot of enjoyment out of January, Jack and I have an anniversary coming up which gives me something to look forward to.  Nia is able to come over to watch the kids for a few hours so that Jack and I can go out for sushi or something.  I haven't had sushi in a long time, so I am really looking forward to that.<br /><br />There is also a contest in the works here at SD.  I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, and I had intended to kick it off on January 1st, but was too tired and unmotivated to post anything that day.  At any rate, I'll be sharing the details on that later this week, or on the weekend.  There will be some awesome prizes involved!<br /><br />Jack has me hooked on this site he discovered called <a href="http://www.janelovesdick.com/">JaneLovesDick.com</a> which is a free site for adult web cam play.  Basically you sign up so that you can access the chatrooms where you can view the web shows of multiple people at a time.  Pretty hot stuff if you're a voyouer or an exhibitionist.  The people who participate on that site are normal, every day people like you and I.  Not super models by any stretch, nor is there any insulting or name calling, no matter what you look like.  Generally I just lurk, but who knows, one of these evenings Jack and I might put on a show there.  If you are into 'real people' porn, be sure to check it out.<br /><br />I know this isn't exactly a thrilling update, especially since I've been gone so long.  I hope you'll forgive me, I promise more excitement (or at least more substance) in the coming weeks.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Rock The Blogosphere</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/07/15/rock-the-blogosphere/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen Piper has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen <a href="http://pipersplace.diaryland.com/">Piper</a> has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/813425013/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1227/813425013_5a27842389_o.jpg" width="180" height="63" alt="Rockin Girl Blogger Award" /></a></center><br /><br />It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the sexy minxes they are!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Padme</a> - Padme and I go quite a ways back, and she's one of my very dearest friends and her blog is one of the coolest I know. She's been my biggest fan and one of my most regular commenters and she just rocks my world ;) Not to mention that the photos she and her husband post on their blog are enough to turn my knees to jello!<br /><br /><a href="http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com/">Shibari</a> - Ah how she spoils us with her gorgeous and sensual photos and the thoughtful posts that she writes on her 'confessional'. She is a new read for me, but one I have greatly enjoyed thus far!<br /><br /><a href="http://the-sensuous-libertine.blogspot.com/">Cherrie</a> - How boring the blogosphere would be without this articulate little sexpot. She's one of the main reasons I so look forward to HNT ever week.<br /><br /><a href="http://maybejustonce.blogspot.com/">JeN</a> - Even though she only updates once a decade, JeN will remain one of my favorite bloggers off all time. I believe this is the third incarnation of my blog, and she has been with me through all of them. My first good friend from blogland, and certainly one of the awesomest bloggers ever because like very few others, she is not anonymous!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mnsss.blogspot.com/">Anna</a> - I enjoy Anna's writing a great deal. There has always been a certain gentleness about it, a smooth sense of sensuality that is neither tawdry nor forced.<br /><br />There you go my girls! I adore each of you for your uniqueness and special appeal :) Unlike other 'blog fads' you do not need to feel obligated to keep this one going if you don't want to. However, should you have the desire, feel free to pass out a few to the rockin girl bloggers you love! Try to give them to people who haven't yet received one :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You Can Love More Than One</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.Take A Peek!Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.I do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.seemagazine.com/Issues/2007/0208/cover.htm">Take A Peek!</a><br /><br />Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.<br /><br />It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.<br /><br />I do have to give them props for using a MMF family, and not the 'typical' FMF. Having a bi-sexual male as the hinge in a V is a pretty cool thing.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>On Breaking Up</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/21/on-breaking-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 16:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.Now It's Time To Say GoodbyeNow dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.<br /><br />Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/Editorial/NOW-IT-S-TIME-TO-SAY-GOODBYE_23">Now It's Time To Say Goodbye</a><br /><br />Now dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely one party is just going along with the other in order not to make waves? Thoughts on such things are welcomes, as always :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blog Star!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/07/blog-star/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though. The show is totally kid-safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though.

The show is totally kid-safe (meaning there is not talk about sex nor any coarse language, unlike the rest of the blog, HA HA). Basically just a lot of basic information regrading polyamory.

Download it for free here: <a title="Radio Interview" href="http://www.mediafire.com/?zi4yeugt2yu" target="_blank">Poly Radio Program</a> staring SG!

Enjoy :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.LUST LIFE Polyamory By Stephanie Sellars]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm">LUST LIFE </a><br />Polyamory <br /><br />By Stephanie Sellars]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Column Updates</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column. Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far. Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:Fighting FairAdvanced Scheduling 101Links to be added to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column.  Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far.  Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_060106.html#top">Fighting Fair</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_061406.html#top">Advanced Scheduling 101</a><br /><br />Links to be added to my sidebar as soon as I get around to it, LOL]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions #4</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/05/01/angelic-notions-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2006 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:Social InsecurityIt's all about control and manipulation in relationships.Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_050106.html">Social Insecurity</a><br /><br />It's all about control and manipulation in relationships.<br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>All New Angelic Notions</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2006 16:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check it out. This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:Instinctual GreedHope you enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Check it out.  This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_041506.html#top">Instinctual Greed</a><br /><br />Hope you enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions, 2nd Edition</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Apr 2006 15:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My column for Polyamorous Percolations is up this morning. You can check it out by clicking here.Let me know what you think :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My column for <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> is up this morning.  You can check it out by clicking <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_040106.html#top">here</a>.<br /><br />Let me know what you think :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Freaking Famous!!!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 15:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, not exactly, LOL.So now for my big secret! A week or so ago, Chias of Polyamorous Percolations approached me about writing a regular column for the website. Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.I was flattered by his offer, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img align="left" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112895334_adfa4de71e_o.jpg" width="350" height="233" border="0" alt="Celebration" />OK, not exactly, LOL.<br /><br />So now for my big secret!  A week or so ago, <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/family.html#top">Chias</a> of <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> approached me about writing a regular column for the website.  Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.<br /><br />I was flattered by his offer, to say the least.  So of course I accepted, and the first edition of my column went 'live' on the website this morning!!!<br /><br />The title of my column is <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_031506.html#top">Angelic Notions</a> (since my handle on the website is Nobody's Angel).  Click on the name to read my very first contribution.<br /><br />I will be writing a column every two weeks from now on, and I will be adding an area to my sidebar with links to my columns.<br /><br />Anyway, I'm just excited as hell, can you tell???  Now, get over there and read my column and then come back here and tell me what you think!<br /><br />HUGS AND KISSES ALL!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>If You Click It, I Will Lick You</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage. Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.polyandproud.com/learn/narratives1.php">This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage</a>.  Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Resource And Dating Links</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/07/resource-and-dating-links/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2006 19:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon. In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.Adult Friend Finder - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon.  In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultfriendfinder.com">Adult Friend Finder</a> - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have been too lazy to put up a link.  Basically a big personals site for singles and couples looking for sex with other singles and couples.  I met K through the site, so I have to give it at least a mention, LOL.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/index.html">Polyamorous Percolations</a> - A really great resource about polyamory.  Loads of articles, reader question/comments, columns, etc.  So much that I haven't really had time to browse through everything, but I highly suggest paying a visit.<br /><a href="http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/"><br />Polyamory Livejournal Community</a> - Basically a big forum where people can ask questions and get answers from other members.  Lots of good discussions going on about common issues faced by people living in that type of lifestyle.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.lifestyleplayground.com">Lifestyle Playground</a> - We haven't had much time to properly check out this site.  It was recommended to Jack by a friend.  Very similar to Adult Friend Finder, but there are a lot more couples (at least in our area) than singles.<br /><br /><a href="http://polyweekly.livejournal.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> (Podcast) - A really interesting podcast hosted by Minx, discussing all kinds of things related to Polyamory and kink in general.  There is even a lot of hot erotica, so tune in as soon as possible.  Archived episodes also easily available there.<br /><br /><a href="http://newyorkmetro.com/lifestyle/sex/annual/2005/15063/index.html" target="_blank">The New Monogamy - Marriage With Benefits</a> - An excellent article from New York Metro Magazine<br /><p><br /><strong>The Ethical Slut</strong><br /><center><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1890159018/qid=1132882687/701-9074332-4813941"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1890159018.01._OU15_PE24_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a></center><br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html" target="_blank">Polyamory?</a> - A great wealth of information on the poly lifestyle, especially for beginners<br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.okcupid.com" target="_blank">OKCupid</a> - Very Poly-Friendly Personals Site<br /><p><br /><a title="Jane's Guide" href="http://www.janesguide.com"><img height="75" alt="Jane's Guide" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112030545_ecc1902677_o.gif" width="88" border="0" /></a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Click Me! Click Me!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2005/12/09/click-me-click-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2005 23:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it. It will be added to my sidebar as well.Polyamory?Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it.  It will be added to my sidebar as well.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html">Polyamory?</a><br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Three Isn&#8217;t A Crowd, It&#8217;s Just One More To Love&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/07/resource-and-dating-links/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/07/resource-and-dating-links/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2006 19:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon. In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.Adult Friend Finder - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon.  In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultfriendfinder.com">Adult Friend Finder</a> - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have been too lazy to put up a link.  Basically a big personals site for singles and couples looking for sex with other singles and couples.  I met K through the site, so I have to give it at least a mention, LOL.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/index.html">Polyamorous Percolations</a> - A really great resource about polyamory.  Loads of articles, reader question/comments, columns, etc.  So much that I haven't really had time to browse through everything, but I highly suggest paying a visit.<br /><a href="http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/"><br />Polyamory Livejournal Community</a> - Basically a big forum where people can ask questions and get answers from other members.  Lots of good discussions going on about common issues faced by people living in that type of lifestyle.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.lifestyleplayground.com">Lifestyle Playground</a> - We haven't had much time to properly check out this site.  It was recommended to Jack by a friend.  Very similar to Adult Friend Finder, but there are a lot more couples (at least in our area) than singles.<br /><br /><a href="http://polyweekly.livejournal.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> (Podcast) - A really interesting podcast hosted by Minx, discussing all kinds of things related to Polyamory and kink in general.  There is even a lot of hot erotica, so tune in as soon as possible.  Archived episodes also easily available there.<br /><br /><a href="http://newyorkmetro.com/lifestyle/sex/annual/2005/15063/index.html" target="_blank">The New Monogamy - Marriage With Benefits</a> - An excellent article from New York Metro Magazine<br /><p><br /><strong>The Ethical Slut</strong><br /><center><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1890159018/qid=1132882687/701-9074332-4813941"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1890159018.01._OU15_PE24_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a></center><br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html" target="_blank">Polyamory?</a> - A great wealth of information on the poly lifestyle, especially for beginners<br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.okcupid.com" target="_blank">OKCupid</a> - Very Poly-Friendly Personals Site<br /><p><br /><a title="Jane's Guide" href="http://www.janesguide.com"><img height="75" alt="Jane's Guide" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112030545_ecc1902677_o.gif" width="88" border="0" /></a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Pristiq For Sale</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2010/11/01/the-top-sex-bloggers-of-2010/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Nov 2010 19:28:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Pristiq For Sale, I know, I know, I am behind the times.  At any rate, Pristiq price, coupon, Pristiq steet value, I am so thrilled to be #38 on this years list of Top Sex Bloggers.  I am reposting the list for your enjoyment (and I heartily endorse #2, Pristiq blogs, Purchase Pristiq, 8, 12, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <b>Pristiq For Sale</b>, I know, I know, I am behind the times.  At any rate, <b>Pristiq price, coupon</b>, <b>Pristiq steet value</b>, I am so thrilled to be #38 on this years list of Top Sex Bloggers.  I am reposting the list for your enjoyment (and I heartily endorse #2, <b>Pristiq blogs</b>, <b>Purchase Pristiq</b>, 8, 12, <b>buy no prescription Pristiq online</b>, <b>Buy Pristiq online cod</b>, 20, 49, <b>Pristiq overnight</b>, <b>Pristiq from canadian pharmacy</b>, 71, 77, <b>Pristiq from canada</b>, <b>Where can i cheapest Pristiq online</b>, 78, and 91), <b>effects of Pristiq</b>.  <b>Pristiq recreational</b>, <ol><br />
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	<li>Sadie from <a href="http://www.sadiesopenmarriage.com/" target="_blank">Sexie Sadie’s Stories of Seduction</a></li><br />
	<li>Vixen from <a href="http://blue-eyedvixen.com/" target="_blank">Secrets of a Blue-Eyed Vixen</a></li><br />
	<li>Adrian Colesberry from <a href="http://blog.adriancolesberry.com/" target="_blank">Adrian’s Blog</a></li><br />
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	<li>Joan from <a href="http://betterthanieverexpected.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Better Than I Ever Expected: Sex and Aging</a></li><br />
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		<title>You&#8217;re My Favorite, Don&#8217;t Tell The Others</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 16:31:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Fur by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/1111090170/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1155/1111090170_25bdca39f1_o.jpg" alt="I Hope That's Faux Fur" width="418" height="475" align="left" /></a>After the <a title="Spooning Leads To Forking" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/01/spooning-leads-to-forking/" target="_self">interesting adventure that was Friday night</a>, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy's that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn't slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the <a title="Careful, You May End Up In My Novel" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/26/careful-you-may-end-up-in-my-novel/" target="_self">scene from last weekend</a>. I'd also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he'd find tons of useful information in <a title="SM 101" href="http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t" target="_self">SM 101</a> By Jay Wiseman, and <a title="Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" href="http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1212411296&amp;sr=8-1" target="_self">Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns</a> By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

He flipped through SM 101 and we read passages together, discussing some of the topics covered and commenting on a few things we'd like to try. He was especially glad to see a pre-scene negotiation section, as well as extensive checklists of BDSM related activities.

We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

At one point the sidewalk was too narrow for us to all walk side by side, so Deja and I fell into step behind Varick, and after a few yards of following him she and I exchanged looks and she remarked that we must look like a pimp with his bitches, and I started laughing so hard because I was having the exact same though. We're kind of ridiculous actually.

The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I'll be attending my first play party later this month ;) Looking forward to that.

Bellies full, we sauntered back to Deja's place. Varick decided that all my cheekiness had certainly earned me a good whipping, so he sent me off to the dungeon to get ready. I stripped down, put on my cuffs, and waited for him by the St. Andrew's Cross. He opted to blindfold me again, and then snapped my cuffs to the cross and ran his hands up my body. He started on the outsides of my thighs, slowly proceeded up over my hips, my sides, around to my breasts, and then up to my collar bones. He was pressed against my back and his chin was resting on my shoulder. I was already trembling with anticipation, and when he asked if I was ready to begin, I nodded enthusiastically.

He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. "Harder" and "Green" were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja's single-tail, which hadn't been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the 'breeze' it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn't fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her <a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self">violet wand</a>, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off <a title="Bucket List" href="http://shastagibson.com/my-bucket-list/" target="_self">the bucket list</a>:
<p style="text-align: center;">413. <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">Have a </span><a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self"><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"><span style="color: #a90118;">Violet Wand</span></span></a><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"> used on me</span></p>
I could tell that something was off with Varick. He seemed different while he cleaned up, and I was unsure what was wrong. Deja had some things to do in her office so he and I went downstairs. I sat on the couch, stretched out on it, and had him come and sit down, between my legs, which I wrapped around him, with his cheek on my chest. I asked him quietly what was wrong and he said he just felt weird, and kind of down. I thought it might be Top Drop* so I just stroked his hair and kissed his forehead.

I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn't push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he'd let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say "Yeah, I do that to people all the time" but it wasn't really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn't feel like going out, but didn't want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he's usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

"Maybe he's falling for you and he's all conflicted about it" she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he'd said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he'd been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja's house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn't really expected that. He said he hadn't been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it's not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

"What happened to you?" I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn't allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he's been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy's without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn't in any shape to go and if he wasn't coming with us, we didn't want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked <a title="I Am Legend" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480249/" target="_self">I Am Legend</a>, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything 'scary' LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman :P

We settled in to watch. It wasn't as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don't think I'll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in <a title="Bettie Page" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0404802/" target="_self">The Notorious Bettie Page</a>, which I've seen before. I liked watching it again, because it's an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn't seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn't think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she's pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he's kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to 'go slow' with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn't want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I'm going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I'll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he's afraid of what's happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn't want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn't press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he'd want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the <a title="Tantra Chair" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=111" target="_self">Tantra chair</a>, and the <a title="Sex Swing" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=479" target="_self">sex swing</a>. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he'll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what's caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I'm actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: <em>Colloquial</em> A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Teh Innertubes Are Foar Pr0n?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, but anyway, he put it up on the Ryerson journalism website and I was quite pleased overall.  I noticed he did not include a direct link to this blog, which was a little disappointing, but no matter.
<blockquote>Shasta Gibson, who does nude webcam shows for JaneLovesDick.com, enjoys watching gay and lesbian porn and porn directed by women. Mainstream heterosexual videos just don’t do it for her.

“I prefer that the movie feel sensual and erotic, rather than fake and staged,” says Gibson, who also writes about sex, porn, toys and erotica on her blog, The Stiletto Diaries.

Gibson is also into watching amateur porn, like the stuff she’s in.

“I love to look at real people, having real sex, and enjoying themselves for the sake of pleasure rather than the almighty dollar,” Gibson says.</blockquote>
You can read the entire article <a title="Harlequin Romances And Hardcore Porn" href="http://www.journalism.ryerson.ca/entertainment_culture/sexopolis/Russ/my_porn_story.html" target="_self">here</a>.  My contribution begins on Page 4.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>When Is A Horse Not A Horse?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?" Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?"

Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to in Alberta for as long as I can remember. We went out for breakfast as a family, lounged about in the afternoon, and then went out for supper as well. It completely threw off my regular schedule however, and so today only feels like Tuesday, which means I feel behind in my week already. Not that I am complaining about the extra day with Jack :)

Nia and I have been hitting the gym four times a week now, which seems to eat up at least a couple of hours on those days. It feels so good to be working out again. I needed to get out of the house this evening, so I treated myself to a new yoga mat and some sexy workout gear. One can never have too many good sports bras or lycra booty shorts.

This weekend I have a couple of dates lined up. Sunday I am having coffee with a friend who I've mentioned here before, but who has not been assigned a name as of yet. I did photos for her one Saturday afternoon not long ago, and we've hit it off quite excellently. I shall call her Miri, which means 'mine' and you can read into that however you will *sly wink*.

Afterwards, I am getting together with Nelek, for coffee and more lascivious things. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I likely won't be able to spend any time with him again until well into March. Thus, I am going to make the most of Sunday, as they say.

Today was spent indoors, tidying the house while I listened to episodes of <a href="http://polyweekly.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> on my iPod Touch (a generous Christmas gift from that fabulous husband of mine). Nothing like being elbow-deep in dishwater while Minx purrs on about responsible non-monogamy. She may yet inspire me to try doing a podcast of my own.

Before I leave off for the evening and crawl into bed with Jack, I have a favour to ask! I need some dare suggestions for an adult party. I know I've asked for this before, but this time I need them to be short and easily applied to a group of people who don't know each other well. We're going to be writing them on slips of paper and giving one to each guest at random. We've got things like "Show some skin" and "Introduce yourself to an attractive stranger" but I need quite a few more. So, think about going to a sexy adult party where you might not know anyone all that well. What sorts of dares would you like to see people do? What would you be willing to do? Leave me some comments please :D]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Go! Go Now!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/18/go-go-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this <a href="http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/polyamory-is-not-about-the-sex-except-when-it-is/">incredible article on polyamory</a> over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>He&#8217;d Fall In Love With A Can Of Soup If It Sucked His Dick</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/01/09/hed-fall-in-love-with-a-can-of-soup-if-it-sucked-his-dick/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I loved spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine. I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things. I hope you weren't too lonely without me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I <strong>loved</strong> spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine.  I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things.  I hope you weren't too lonely without me :)<br /><br />My New Years Eve was quite fabulous, and while most people do not get a lot of enjoyment out of January, Jack and I have an anniversary coming up which gives me something to look forward to.  Nia is able to come over to watch the kids for a few hours so that Jack and I can go out for sushi or something.  I haven't had sushi in a long time, so I am really looking forward to that.<br /><br />There is also a contest in the works here at SD.  I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, and I had intended to kick it off on January 1st, but was too tired and unmotivated to post anything that day.  At any rate, I'll be sharing the details on that later this week, or on the weekend.  There will be some awesome prizes involved!<br /><br />Jack has me hooked on this site he discovered called <a href="http://www.janelovesdick.com/">JaneLovesDick.com</a> which is a free site for adult web cam play.  Basically you sign up so that you can access the chatrooms where you can view the web shows of multiple people at a time.  Pretty hot stuff if you're a voyouer or an exhibitionist.  The people who participate on that site are normal, every day people like you and I.  Not super models by any stretch, nor is there any insulting or name calling, no matter what you look like.  Generally I just lurk, but who knows, one of these evenings Jack and I might put on a show there.  If you are into 'real people' porn, be sure to check it out.<br /><br />I know this isn't exactly a thrilling update, especially since I've been gone so long.  I hope you'll forgive me, I promise more excitement (or at least more substance) in the coming weeks.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Rock The Blogosphere</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/07/15/rock-the-blogosphere/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen Piper has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen <a href="http://pipersplace.diaryland.com/">Piper</a> has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/813425013/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1227/813425013_5a27842389_o.jpg" width="180" height="63" alt="Rockin Girl Blogger Award" /></a></center><br /><br />It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the sexy minxes they are!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Padme</a> - Padme and I go quite a ways back, and she's one of my very dearest friends and her blog is one of the coolest I know. She's been my biggest fan and one of my most regular commenters and she just rocks my world ;) Not to mention that the photos she and her husband post on their blog are enough to turn my knees to jello!<br /><br /><a href="http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com/">Shibari</a> - Ah how she spoils us with her gorgeous and sensual photos and the thoughtful posts that she writes on her 'confessional'. She is a new read for me, but one I have greatly enjoyed thus far!<br /><br /><a href="http://the-sensuous-libertine.blogspot.com/">Cherrie</a> - How boring the blogosphere would be without this articulate little sexpot. She's one of the main reasons I so look forward to HNT ever week.<br /><br /><a href="http://maybejustonce.blogspot.com/">JeN</a> - Even though she only updates once a decade, JeN will remain one of my favorite bloggers off all time. I believe this is the third incarnation of my blog, and she has been with me through all of them. My first good friend from blogland, and certainly one of the awesomest bloggers ever because like very few others, she is not anonymous!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mnsss.blogspot.com/">Anna</a> - I enjoy Anna's writing a great deal. There has always been a certain gentleness about it, a smooth sense of sensuality that is neither tawdry nor forced.<br /><br />There you go my girls! I adore each of you for your uniqueness and special appeal :) Unlike other 'blog fads' you do not need to feel obligated to keep this one going if you don't want to. However, should you have the desire, feel free to pass out a few to the rockin girl bloggers you love! Try to give them to people who haven't yet received one :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You Can Love More Than One</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.Take A Peek!Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.I do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.seemagazine.com/Issues/2007/0208/cover.htm">Take A Peek!</a><br /><br />Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.<br /><br />It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.<br /><br />I do have to give them props for using a MMF family, and not the 'typical' FMF. Having a bi-sexual male as the hinge in a V is a pretty cool thing.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>On Breaking Up</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/21/on-breaking-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 16:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.Now It's Time To Say GoodbyeNow dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.<br /><br />Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/Editorial/NOW-IT-S-TIME-TO-SAY-GOODBYE_23">Now It's Time To Say Goodbye</a><br /><br />Now dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely one party is just going along with the other in order not to make waves? Thoughts on such things are welcomes, as always :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blog Star!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/07/blog-star/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though. The show is totally kid-safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though.

The show is totally kid-safe (meaning there is not talk about sex nor any coarse language, unlike the rest of the blog, HA HA). Basically just a lot of basic information regrading polyamory.

Download it for free here: <a title="Radio Interview" href="http://www.mediafire.com/?zi4yeugt2yu" target="_blank">Poly Radio Program</a> staring SG!

Enjoy :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.LUST LIFE Polyamory By Stephanie Sellars]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm">LUST LIFE </a><br />Polyamory <br /><br />By Stephanie Sellars]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Column Updates</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column. Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far. Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:Fighting FairAdvanced Scheduling 101Links to be added to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column.  Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far.  Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_060106.html#top">Fighting Fair</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_061406.html#top">Advanced Scheduling 101</a><br /><br />Links to be added to my sidebar as soon as I get around to it, LOL]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions #4</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/05/01/angelic-notions-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2006 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:Social InsecurityIt's all about control and manipulation in relationships.Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_050106.html">Social Insecurity</a><br /><br />It's all about control and manipulation in relationships.<br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>All New Angelic Notions</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2006 16:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check it out. This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:Instinctual GreedHope you enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Check it out.  This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_041506.html#top">Instinctual Greed</a><br /><br />Hope you enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions, 2nd Edition</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Apr 2006 15:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My column for Polyamorous Percolations is up this morning. You can check it out by clicking here.Let me know what you think :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My column for <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> is up this morning.  You can check it out by clicking <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_040106.html#top">here</a>.<br /><br />Let me know what you think :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Freaking Famous!!!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 15:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, not exactly, LOL.So now for my big secret! A week or so ago, Chias of Polyamorous Percolations approached me about writing a regular column for the website. Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.I was flattered by his offer, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img align="left" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112895334_adfa4de71e_o.jpg" width="350" height="233" border="0" alt="Celebration" />OK, not exactly, LOL.<br /><br />So now for my big secret!  A week or so ago, <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/family.html#top">Chias</a> of <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> approached me about writing a regular column for the website.  Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.<br /><br />I was flattered by his offer, to say the least.  So of course I accepted, and the first edition of my column went 'live' on the website this morning!!!<br /><br />The title of my column is <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_031506.html#top">Angelic Notions</a> (since my handle on the website is Nobody's Angel).  Click on the name to read my very first contribution.<br /><br />I will be writing a column every two weeks from now on, and I will be adding an area to my sidebar with links to my columns.<br /><br />Anyway, I'm just excited as hell, can you tell???  Now, get over there and read my column and then come back here and tell me what you think!<br /><br />HUGS AND KISSES ALL!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>If You Click It, I Will Lick You</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage. Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.polyandproud.com/learn/narratives1.php">This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage</a>.  Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Resource And Dating Links</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/07/resource-and-dating-links/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2006 19:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon.  In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultfriendfinder.com">Adult Friend Finder</a> - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have been too lazy to put up a link.  Basically a big personals site for singles and couples looking for sex with other singles and couples.  I met K through the site, so I have to give it at least a mention, LOL.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/index.html">Polyamorous Percolations</a> - A really great resource about polyamory.  Loads of articles, reader question/comments, columns, etc.  So much that I haven't really had time to browse through everything, but I highly suggest paying a visit.<br /><a href="http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/"><br />Polyamory Livejournal Community</a> - Basically a big forum where people can ask questions and get answers from other members.  Lots of good discussions going on about common issues faced by people living in that type of lifestyle.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.lifestyleplayground.com">Lifestyle Playground</a> - We haven't had much time to properly check out this site.  It was recommended to Jack by a friend.  Very similar to Adult Friend Finder, but there are a lot more couples (at least in our area) than singles.<br /><br /><a href="http://polyweekly.livejournal.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> (Podcast) - A really interesting podcast hosted by Minx, discussing all kinds of things related to Polyamory and kink in general.  There is even a lot of hot erotica, so tune in as soon as possible.  Archived episodes also easily available there.<br /><br /><a href="http://newyorkmetro.com/lifestyle/sex/annual/2005/15063/index.html" target="_blank">The New Monogamy - Marriage With Benefits</a> - An excellent article from New York Metro Magazine<br /><p><br /><strong>The Ethical Slut</strong><br /><center><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1890159018/qid=1132882687/701-9074332-4813941"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1890159018.01._OU15_PE24_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a></center><br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html" target="_blank">Polyamory?</a> - A great wealth of information on the poly lifestyle, especially for beginners<br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.okcupid.com" target="_blank">OKCupid</a> - Very Poly-Friendly Personals Site<br /><p><br /><a title="Jane's Guide" href="http://www.janesguide.com"><img height="75" alt="Jane's Guide" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112030545_ecc1902677_o.gif" width="88" border="0" /></a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<description><![CDATA[After the interesting adventure that was Friday night, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick. I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Fur by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/1111090170/"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1155/1111090170_25bdca39f1_o.jpg" alt="I Hope That's Faux Fur" width="418" height="475" align="left" /></a>After the <a title="Spooning Leads To Forking" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/06/01/spooning-leads-to-forking/" target="_self">interesting adventure that was Friday night</a>, I was really looking forward to Saturday afternoon and spending some more time with Varick.

I arrived at Deja's before he did, which gave her and I some time to talk. I filled her in on the incident with the police officer and she had a good giggle with me over it all. We also talked some about Varick and about the sex party at Goodhandy's that night. She was a little nervous about going, which surprised me, but all in all she seemed open and excited about the idea.

When Varick arrived he came over and kissed me and then sat down beside me with his arm around me. He rested his head against my shoulder and I remarked that he must still be tired from the night before. Apparently he hadn't slept well, and was feeling sluggish.

Deja ordered us out to fetch coffee for her, so off we went. When we got back from Tim Hortons, he and I plunked ourselves down on the couch together and cuddled up. We watched some TV while we drank our coffees, and talked a lot about the <a title="Careful, You May End Up In My Novel" href="http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/26/careful-you-may-end-up-in-my-novel/" target="_self">scene from last weekend</a>. I'd also brought him two books on BDSM, since he likes to read, and I thought he'd find tons of useful information in <a title="SM 101" href="http://www.amazon.com/101-Realistic-Introduction-Jay-Wiseman/dp/0963976389/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t" target="_self">SM 101</a> By Jay Wiseman, and <a title="Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns" href="http://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1212411296&amp;sr=8-1" target="_self">Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns</a> By Philip Miller and Molly Devon. Deja agreed that both were very highly recommended, and encouraged him to read both thoroughly.

He flipped through SM 101 and we read passages together, discussing some of the topics covered and commenting on a few things we'd like to try. He was especially glad to see a pre-scene negotiation section, as well as extensive checklists of BDSM related activities.

We sort of lost track of time while we had our noses stuck in the books, and then Deja suggested we figure out what to do for supper. After some discussion we settled on this pub within walking distance, and since it was a beautiful day, we strolled over there together, enjoying the sunshine. I got a chance to check out the way Varick walks, which believe it or not, is a peculiar thing I always notice about a man. How they carry themselves says a lot. Varick has a very confident walk, almost a strut really, but not in an arrogant way. It kind of reminded me of this guy I was seeing around the time that I met Jack. He had this walk that just made me want to follow him anywhere.

At one point the sidewalk was too narrow for us to all walk side by side, so Deja and I fell into step behind Varick, and after a few yards of following him she and I exchanged looks and she remarked that we must look like a pimp with his bitches, and I started laughing so hard because I was having the exact same though. We're kind of ridiculous actually.

The food was pretty good at the pub, and we talked about upcoming play parties and some other kinky events on the horizon. Hopefully I'll be attending my first play party later this month ;) Looking forward to that.

Bellies full, we sauntered back to Deja's place. Varick decided that all my cheekiness had certainly earned me a good whipping, so he sent me off to the dungeon to get ready. I stripped down, put on my cuffs, and waited for him by the St. Andrew's Cross. He opted to blindfold me again, and then snapped my cuffs to the cross and ran his hands up my body. He started on the outsides of my thighs, slowly proceeded up over my hips, my sides, around to my breasts, and then up to my collar bones. He was pressed against my back and his chin was resting on my shoulder. I was already trembling with anticipation, and when he asked if I was ready to begin, I nodded enthusiastically.

He nibbled my ear and then stepped away. Warming up commenced with him giving me some spanks with his hands, and then he selected one of the soft floggers and started in on me. After he was satisfied that I was ready to move on, he began with one of the thuddier, suede implements. Even though the pain was not significant at that point, my brain started swimming, and I could feel my pussy tingling. He paused often to run his fingers over me, and pinch my nipples while simultaneously biting my shoulder. I could feel droplets of liquid begin running down the insides of my thighs, and when he touched my ass I pushed into his hand, begging him like a slut, to touch between my legs.

Alas he did not indulge me, and continued the flogging, checking in with me several times. "Harder" and "Green" were about all I could manage to croak out when he enquired as to how I was doing. I was lost in the moment, and then there were fingernails, leaving trails of fire in their wake. I started panting and quivering, the change of sensation was significant and woke me up enough from my trance that I realized it was Deja and not Varick. The fingernails finished their work on my back, and then withdrew. I stood, braced for whatever was coming. The pause seemed to drag on forever, and then there was a hiss and a crack and I felt my flesh welt and sting. I gasped and threw myself against the cross. Another pause, followed by a series of hisses and cracks and sharp pain and yelping. I knew it was Deja's single-tail, which hadn't been used on me before.

There were plenty of pauses during that stretch of the scene, and a number of times when the whip only got near enough for me to feel the 'breeze' it created, which made me twitch none the less.

My skin was glistening with sweat and I was trembling hard by the time he finished with the whip. His hands were on me again, and he grabbed a fist full of dreads and pulled my head back, kissing me hard on the mouth. My knees threatened to buckle under me. He let me go and started cooling down the scene. He made sure to stroke and nuzzle me a lot while using some of the very soft floggers on me. I reluctantly wandered back from that far off place, and when he covered me with a blanket and held me tight, I sighed contently and leaned against him.

Carefully he unsnapped the cuffs and gave me a moment to regroup. He made sure I couldn't fall down, and offered me a bottle of water right away, which I accepted gratefully.

Once I had gathered my wits again, Deja came in and we talked a bit about the scene. She asked us if we wanted to see her <a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self">violet wand</a>, since she knew I was curious about it. Varick started cleaning the equipment while she got it out and hooked it all up.

It was an interesting sensation when the wand was passed over the skin. Kind of stingy, but also tingly, sort of like getting a tattoo, but less intense. She also had this attachment where she holds onto this rod and then when she touches you, you get a shock, like static, but stronger. That one was cool. She lured me into kissing her and I got quite the zap to the lips and nose, LOL. I was glad to try it, plus I get to cross something off <a title="Bucket List" href="http://shastagibson.com/my-bucket-list/" target="_self">the bucket list</a>:
<p style="text-align: center;">413. <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">Have a </span><a title="Violet Wand" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violet_wand" target="_self"><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"><span style="color: #a90118;">Violet Wand</span></span></a><span style="text-decoration: line-through;"> used on me</span></p>
I could tell that something was off with Varick. He seemed different while he cleaned up, and I was unsure what was wrong. Deja had some things to do in her office so he and I went downstairs. I sat on the couch, stretched out on it, and had him come and sit down, between my legs, which I wrapped around him, with his cheek on my chest. I asked him quietly what was wrong and he said he just felt weird, and kind of down. I thought it might be Top Drop* so I just stroked his hair and kissed his forehead.

I felt him shudder against me and when I looked down at his face I noticed that he was crying. I hugged him tight and just allowed him to get it out. I was so honored that he was allowing me to see this part of him. I really, really struggle with being so vulnerable and emotional in front of other people, so I know how hard it can be. I treated it as if he was sharing a special gift with me, and I didn't push for an explanation. I just held him close to me, with my cheek against his hair.

When he seemed to relax he lifted his head and I gave him a little kiss. He apologised and I told him not to apologise, that it was perfectly ok. I asked him what was wrong and he said that he just felt really vulnerable, and like he'd let his guard down with me, and it scared him. I kind of wanted to say "Yeah, I do that to people all the time" but it wasn't really necessary. I have a very disarming way about me, or so I am told by friends and family.

We cuddled some more, and he said that he didn't feel like going out, but didn't want to ruin it for Deja and I. About part way through that he was overwhelmed again and I told him not to worry about it. He made some remarks about how he's usually always on the defensive with people and suddenly he just felt all exposed.

He said he wanted to step outside, get some air. I offered to go with him but he said he just needed to be by himself for a moment. He went off and I went up to tell Deja what was going on. She got all worried about him too and we debated back and forth about what might be going on.

"Maybe he's falling for you and he's all conflicted about it" she said with a grin. I was kind of thinking along the same lines, based on what he'd said about being all vulnerable with me.

She said I should go look for him after he'd been gone about 10 minutes. I decided that would probably be a good idea, just to make sure he was ok. I wandered around the paths behind Deja's house, and eventually found him, on his way back. We stopped where we met each other and I gave him a hug and a kiss and asked him if he was ok. He said he felt better and he took my hand and we walked back to the house together.

We all sat down in the living room and Deja asked him about his feelings. He said that being with me the night before and then again that day had caused him to let down his walls, and he hadn't really expected that. He said he hadn't been vulnerable like that with anyone for a long time, and that what we do in regards to the BDSM is so intense that he was just overwhelmed by it.

Deja went to make him some tea and I whispered to him that really it's not so bad being vulnerable. He choked up, and shook his head.

"What happened to you?" I asked gently, not wanting to prod too much. He said something about having been hurt badly in the past and that was all I needed to hear. He added that he hadn't allowed himself to open up to anyone for a long time, and that it was difficult for him. Clearly he has some pretty significant emotional scars, and he's been closed off and keeping to himself for a while.

He tried to insist that Deja and I go to Goodhandy's without it, but she and I had already agreed that he wasn't in any shape to go and if he wasn't coming with us, we didn't want to go either. He relented, once we made it clear that we would not be swayed. Deja suggested that we watch a couple of movies instead, and of course he picked <a title="I Am Legend" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0480249/" target="_self">I Am Legend</a>, which he knew would scare me because I am a huge wuss when it comes to anything 'scary' LOL. He offered to let me hold onto him if I was scared, LOL, what a gentleman :P

We settled in to watch. It wasn't as horrible as I thought and I only had to close my eyes a few times. He and I were cuddled up together on the couch, Deja was sitting near me on the other couch and she made a point of grabbing me and shrieking during a particularly tense part, which almost resulted in me jumping off the couch. Cruel woman.

No spoilers here, so no worries. I liked the movie overall, although I don't think I'll sleep again, ever.

Next we put in <a title="Bettie Page" href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0404802/" target="_self">The Notorious Bettie Page</a>, which I've seen before. I liked watching it again, because it's an awesome movie! Varick and Deja hadn't seen it before and they seemed to really enjoy it as well.

After that movie was over Deja put on the TV and Varick and I switched positions so that he was stretched out on his side and I was stretched out beside him, nuzzled into his chest. I dozed off a few times and he teased me about snoring. Deja invited me to stay the night but I didn't think Jack would go for it so I declined (only to find out yesterday that he would have been fine with it, damn!) and got ready to head home.

Varick and Deja saw me off at the door. Varick kissed me softly and we hugged, and I hugged and kissed Deja, and off I trotted to my van. The drive home was long, but I made it and crawled into bed with Jack somewhere around 4am.

Yesterday I talked to Deja about what had happened with Varick and she's pretty confident that he likes me a great deal and he's kind of freaked out about it. She told me at least a dozen times to 'go slow' with him and that she thinks if I go about it the right way, I can help him get past his baggage. She doesn't want to see either if us get crushed, nor does she want to end up in the middle if things go to hell. I promised her I just want to care for him and that I'm going to be gentle with his feelings and not rush anything.

I'll admit I was angsty over it all. I was worried that he would pull away or maybe not want to see me again because he's afraid of what's happening. He called me later in the day to check in and see how I was doing. He still doesnt know (or doesn't want to talk about) what was going on with him specifically, but I didn't press the matter since I know he needs time to figure himself out.

We talked about getting together and I mentioned Jack being away for work on Thursday and Friday this week, and perhaps he'd want to come over after the munchkins were in bed to keep me company. I lured him into saying yes with promises of a hot bath in the jacuzzi, and a massage afterwards. There was also mention of the <a title="Tantra Chair" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=111" target="_self">Tantra chair</a>, and the <a title="Sex Swing" href="http://shastagibson.com/?p=479" target="_self">sex swing</a>. Yum. Jack was pleased that I would have company in his absence, since he knows I get lonely when he is away.

Hopefully he'll get more comfortable talking about his feelings and I can find out exactly what's caused him so much distress. So, rather than dreading Jack being gone, I'm actually looking forward to it a little.

*TOP DROP: <em>Colloquial</em> A sudden, abrupt feeling of depression, unhappiness, or similar negative emotion in a dominant which may occasionally occur immediately after a period of BDSM activity. May include feelings of guilt, especially if the dominant believes he or she has made an error, or has traditional ideas about relationship or socially appropriate behavior.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Teh Innertubes Are Foar Pr0n?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/05/28/teh-innertubes-are-foar-pr0n/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 16:19:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Back in March I was interviewed for an article on women and pornography by a student from Ryerson University.  Unfortunately it would appear that the subject is still a little too risque for most publishers, since this article was pitched to several and none of them wanted it.  Makes me sigh a little with frustration, but anyway, he put it up on the Ryerson journalism website and I was quite pleased overall.  I noticed he did not include a direct link to this blog, which was a little disappointing, but no matter.
<blockquote>Shasta Gibson, who does nude webcam shows for JaneLovesDick.com, enjoys watching gay and lesbian porn and porn directed by women. Mainstream heterosexual videos just don’t do it for her.

“I prefer that the movie feel sensual and erotic, rather than fake and staged,” says Gibson, who also writes about sex, porn, toys and erotica on her blog, The Stiletto Diaries.

Gibson is also into watching amateur porn, like the stuff she’s in.

“I love to look at real people, having real sex, and enjoying themselves for the sake of pleasure rather than the almighty dollar,” Gibson says.</blockquote>
You can read the entire article <a title="Harlequin Romances And Hardcore Porn" href="http://www.journalism.ryerson.ca/entertainment_culture/sexopolis/Russ/my_porn_story.html" target="_self">here</a>.  My contribution begins on Page 4.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>When Is A Horse Not A Horse?</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/21/when-is-a-horse-not-a-horse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?" Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[It feels like I've had a lot going on this week, until I actually stop and think about it, and then I start wondering, "What the hell have I been so busy with?"

Monday was a holiday here in Ontario; their first ever Family Day long weekend. Family Day is luxury I'd been accustomed to in Alberta for as long as I can remember. We went out for breakfast as a family, lounged about in the afternoon, and then went out for supper as well. It completely threw off my regular schedule however, and so today only feels like Tuesday, which means I feel behind in my week already. Not that I am complaining about the extra day with Jack :)

Nia and I have been hitting the gym four times a week now, which seems to eat up at least a couple of hours on those days. It feels so good to be working out again. I needed to get out of the house this evening, so I treated myself to a new yoga mat and some sexy workout gear. One can never have too many good sports bras or lycra booty shorts.

This weekend I have a couple of dates lined up. Sunday I am having coffee with a friend who I've mentioned here before, but who has not been assigned a name as of yet. I did photos for her one Saturday afternoon not long ago, and we've hit it off quite excellently. I shall call her Miri, which means 'mine' and you can read into that however you will *sly wink*.

Afterwards, I am getting together with Nelek, for coffee and more lascivious things. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I likely won't be able to spend any time with him again until well into March. Thus, I am going to make the most of Sunday, as they say.

Today was spent indoors, tidying the house while I listened to episodes of <a href="http://polyweekly.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> on my iPod Touch (a generous Christmas gift from that fabulous husband of mine). Nothing like being elbow-deep in dishwater while Minx purrs on about responsible non-monogamy. She may yet inspire me to try doing a podcast of my own.

Before I leave off for the evening and crawl into bed with Jack, I have a favour to ask! I need some dare suggestions for an adult party. I know I've asked for this before, but this time I need them to be short and easily applied to a group of people who don't know each other well. We're going to be writing them on slips of paper and giving one to each guest at random. We've got things like "Show some skin" and "Introduce yourself to an attractive stranger" but I need quite a few more. So, think about going to a sexy adult party where you might not know anyone all that well. What sorts of dares would you like to see people do? What would you be willing to do? Leave me some comments please :D]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Go! Go Now!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/02/18/go-go-now/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2008 02:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this incredible article on polyamory over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Thanks to a good blogger buddy of mine, my attention was drawn to this <a href="http://freaksexual.wordpress.com/2008/01/31/polyamory-is-not-about-the-sex-except-when-it-is/">incredible article on polyamory</a> over a Freaksexual. I'd never been over to that particular blog before, but I'm certainly glad I found it. Check it out, it's very well written.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>He&#8217;d Fall In Love With A Can Of Soup If It Sucked His Dick</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/01/09/hed-fall-in-love-with-a-can-of-soup-if-it-sucked-his-dick/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 18:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I loved spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine. I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things. I hope you weren't too lonely without me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[As much fun as holidays are, and as much as I <strong>loved</strong> spending the past two weeks lounging about with my wonderful husband, it's good to be getting back to a more normal routine.  I missed blogging, and chatting, and all of those good computer related things.  I hope you weren't too lonely without me :)<br /><br />My New Years Eve was quite fabulous, and while most people do not get a lot of enjoyment out of January, Jack and I have an anniversary coming up which gives me something to look forward to.  Nia is able to come over to watch the kids for a few hours so that Jack and I can go out for sushi or something.  I haven't had sushi in a long time, so I am really looking forward to that.<br /><br />There is also a contest in the works here at SD.  I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, and I had intended to kick it off on January 1st, but was too tired and unmotivated to post anything that day.  At any rate, I'll be sharing the details on that later this week, or on the weekend.  There will be some awesome prizes involved!<br /><br />Jack has me hooked on this site he discovered called <a href="http://www.janelovesdick.com/">JaneLovesDick.com</a> which is a free site for adult web cam play.  Basically you sign up so that you can access the chatrooms where you can view the web shows of multiple people at a time.  Pretty hot stuff if you're a voyouer or an exhibitionist.  The people who participate on that site are normal, every day people like you and I.  Not super models by any stretch, nor is there any insulting or name calling, no matter what you look like.  Generally I just lurk, but who knows, one of these evenings Jack and I might put on a show there.  If you are into 'real people' porn, be sure to check it out.<br /><br />I know this isn't exactly a thrilling update, especially since I've been gone so long.  I hope you'll forgive me, I promise more excitement (or at least more substance) in the coming weeks.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Rock The Blogosphere</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/07/15/rock-the-blogosphere/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jul 2007 02:24:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen Piper has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[That sensual little vixen <a href="http://pipersplace.diaryland.com/">Piper</a> has generously bestowed a Rockin Girl Blogger Award upon yours truly. I'll bet you already knew that I squealed with girlish glee. How terribly flattering.<br /><br /><center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/813425013/" title="Photo Sharing"><img src="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1227/813425013_5a27842389_o.jpg" width="180" height="63" alt="Rockin Girl Blogger Award" /></a></center><br /><br />It brings me great pleasure to do unto others and hand out the 'hardware' to a number of other women I adore and appreciate for the sexy minxes they are!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com/">Padme</a> - Padme and I go quite a ways back, and she's one of my very dearest friends and her blog is one of the coolest I know. She's been my biggest fan and one of my most regular commenters and she just rocks my world ;) Not to mention that the photos she and her husband post on their blog are enough to turn my knees to jello!<br /><br /><a href="http://shibari-confessions.blogspot.com/">Shibari</a> - Ah how she spoils us with her gorgeous and sensual photos and the thoughtful posts that she writes on her 'confessional'. She is a new read for me, but one I have greatly enjoyed thus far!<br /><br /><a href="http://the-sensuous-libertine.blogspot.com/">Cherrie</a> - How boring the blogosphere would be without this articulate little sexpot. She's one of the main reasons I so look forward to HNT ever week.<br /><br /><a href="http://maybejustonce.blogspot.com/">JeN</a> - Even though she only updates once a decade, JeN will remain one of my favorite bloggers off all time. I believe this is the third incarnation of my blog, and she has been with me through all of them. My first good friend from blogland, and certainly one of the awesomest bloggers ever because like very few others, she is not anonymous!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mnsss.blogspot.com/">Anna</a> - I enjoy Anna's writing a great deal. There has always been a certain gentleness about it, a smooth sense of sensuality that is neither tawdry nor forced.<br /><br />There you go my girls! I adore each of you for your uniqueness and special appeal :) Unlike other 'blog fads' you do not need to feel obligated to keep this one going if you don't want to. However, should you have the desire, feel free to pass out a few to the rockin girl bloggers you love! Try to give them to people who haven't yet received one :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>You Can Love More Than One</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2007/02/14/you-can-love-more-than-one/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2007 15:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.Take A Peek!Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.I do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Recently there was a pretty good article published in an Edmonton magazine, about polyamory.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.seemagazine.com/Issues/2007/0208/cover.htm">Take A Peek!</a><br /><br />Considering how mostly-conservative this province is, I was pleased to see it.<br /><br />It's not very long, and my only disappointment is that they only interviewed one family. Perhaps they couldn't find anyone else who wanted to take part, who knows.<br /><br />I do have to give them props for using a MMF family, and not the 'typical' FMF. Having a bi-sexual male as the hinge in a V is a pretty cool thing.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>On Breaking Up</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/21/on-breaking-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Nov 2006 16:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.Now It's Time To Say GoodbyeNow dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Sadly breakups seem to be going around lately.<br /><br />Here's a little blurb from one of my new favorite sites, on the topic of breakups.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.edenfantasys.com/Editorial/NOW-IT-S-TIME-TO-SAY-GOODBYE_23">Now It's Time To Say Goodbye</a><br /><br />Now dear readers, what do you think makes a breakup 'good' or 'bad'? Is there ever really such a thing as mutual breakups? Or is it more likely one party is just going along with the other in order not to make waves? Thoughts on such things are welcomes, as always :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Blog Star!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/11/07/blog-star/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Nov 2006 04:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though. The show is totally kid-safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I got a copy of my recent radio debut! Now you can all listen to my brilliance, He He. Kidding, actually I am terribly nervous about sharing this. I am worried that I sounded like a twit, despite my friends assuring me otherwise. Please give me your honest remarks though.

The show is totally kid-safe (meaning there is not talk about sex nor any coarse language, unlike the rest of the blog, HA HA). Basically just a lot of basic information regrading polyamory.

Download it for free here: <a title="Radio Interview" href="http://www.mediafire.com/?zi4yeugt2yu" target="_blank">Poly Radio Program</a> staring SG!

Enjoy :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/10/18/199/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Oct 2006 21:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.LUST LIFE Polyamory By Stephanie Sellars]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A sort of interesting little blurb about polyamory. I like the parts where she says that having an affair or being gay is more socially acceptable than having more than one love.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.nypress.com/19/42/news&columns/lustlife.cfm">LUST LIFE </a><br />Polyamory <br /><br />By Stephanie Sellars]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Column Updates</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/06/15/column-updates/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2006 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column. Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far. Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:Fighting FairAdvanced Scheduling 101Links to be added to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[In all the recent ups and downs I have forgotten to post notices about my column.  Yes I am still writing it, they have not revoked my poly card just because I have been terrible at it thus far.  Here are the last two editions for your enjoyment:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_060106.html#top">Fighting Fair</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_061406.html#top">Advanced Scheduling 101</a><br /><br />Links to be added to my sidebar as soon as I get around to it, LOL]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions #4</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/05/01/angelic-notions-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2006 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:Social InsecurityIt's all about control and manipulation in relationships.Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Brand new issue of my column this morning:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_050106.html">Social Insecurity</a><br /><br />It's all about control and manipulation in relationships.<br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>All New Angelic Notions</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/17/all-new-angelic-notions/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Apr 2006 16:54:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Check it out. This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:Instinctual GreedHope you enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Check it out.  This edition is about greed and competition within relationships:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_041506.html#top">Instinctual Greed</a><br /><br />Hope you enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Angelic Notions, 2nd Edition</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/04/01/angelic-notions-2nd-edition/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Apr 2006 15:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My column for Polyamorous Percolations is up this morning. You can check it out by clicking here.Let me know what you think :)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[My column for <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> is up this morning.  You can check it out by clicking <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_040106.html#top">here</a>.<br /><br />Let me know what you think :)]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Freaking Famous!!!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/03/15/im-freaking-famous/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Mar 2006 15:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, not exactly, LOL.So now for my big secret! A week or so ago, Chias of Polyamorous Percolations approached me about writing a regular column for the website. Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.I was flattered by his offer, to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<img align="left" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112895334_adfa4de71e_o.jpg" width="350" height="233" border="0" alt="Celebration" />OK, not exactly, LOL.<br /><br />So now for my big secret!  A week or so ago, <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/family.html#top">Chias</a> of <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org">Polyamorous Percolations</a> approached me about writing a regular column for the website.  Basically the column will be about anything I want, so long as it is somehow related to keeping up multiple relationships.<br /><br />I was flattered by his offer, to say the least.  So of course I accepted, and the first edition of my column went 'live' on the website this morning!!!<br /><br />The title of my column is <a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/articles/angelic_notions_031506.html#top">Angelic Notions</a> (since my handle on the website is Nobody's Angel).  Click on the name to read my very first contribution.<br /><br />I will be writing a column every two weeks from now on, and I will be adding an area to my sidebar with links to my columns.<br /><br />Anyway, I'm just excited as hell, can you tell???  Now, get over there and read my column and then come back here and tell me what you think!<br /><br />HUGS AND KISSES ALL!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>If You Click It, I Will Lick You</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/16/if-you-click-it-i-will-lick-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2006 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage. Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.polyandproud.com/learn/narratives1.php">This is a really great little narrative about a newly opened marriage</a>.  Take a look at it, I feel like I could have written parts of it myself.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Resource And Dating Links</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2006/02/07/resource-and-dating-links/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2006 19:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon. In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.Adult Friend Finder - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I know it's been deadly boring around here, and I hope that I will have the time and inclination to post something interesting soon.  In the mean time, I have a couple more links I'll be adding to my resources section of the sidebar.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.adultfriendfinder.com">Adult Friend Finder</a> - Yes I mentioned it ages ago but have been too lazy to put up a link.  Basically a big personals site for singles and couples looking for sex with other singles and couples.  I met K through the site, so I have to give it at least a mention, LOL.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.polyamoryonline.org/index.html">Polyamorous Percolations</a> - A really great resource about polyamory.  Loads of articles, reader question/comments, columns, etc.  So much that I haven't really had time to browse through everything, but I highly suggest paying a visit.<br /><a href="http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/"><br />Polyamory Livejournal Community</a> - Basically a big forum where people can ask questions and get answers from other members.  Lots of good discussions going on about common issues faced by people living in that type of lifestyle.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.lifestyleplayground.com">Lifestyle Playground</a> - We haven't had much time to properly check out this site.  It was recommended to Jack by a friend.  Very similar to Adult Friend Finder, but there are a lot more couples (at least in our area) than singles.<br /><br /><a href="http://polyweekly.livejournal.com/">Polyamory Weekly</a> (Podcast) - A really interesting podcast hosted by Minx, discussing all kinds of things related to Polyamory and kink in general.  There is even a lot of hot erotica, so tune in as soon as possible.  Archived episodes also easily available there.<br /><br /><a href="http://newyorkmetro.com/lifestyle/sex/annual/2005/15063/index.html" target="_blank">The New Monogamy - Marriage With Benefits</a> - An excellent article from New York Metro Magazine<br /><p><br /><strong>The Ethical Slut</strong><br /><center><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1890159018/qid=1132882687/701-9074332-4813941"><img src="http://images.amazon.com/images/P/1890159018.01._OU15_PE24_SCMZZZZZZZ_.jpg" border="0" /></a></center><br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html" target="_blank">Polyamory?</a> - A great wealth of information on the poly lifestyle, especially for beginners<br /><p><br /><a href="http://www.okcupid.com" target="_blank">OKCupid</a> - Very Poly-Friendly Personals Site<br /><p><br /><a title="Jane's Guide" href="http://www.janesguide.com"><img height="75" alt="Jane's Guide" src="http://static.flickr.com/52/112030545_ecc1902677_o.gif" width="88" border="0" /></a>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Click Me! Click Me!</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2005/12/09/click-me-click-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Dec 2005 23:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it. It will be added to my sidebar as well.Polyamory?Enjoy!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Found a great website a while back and I am finally providing a link to it.  It will be added to my sidebar as well.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html">Polyamory?</a><br /><br />Enjoy!]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Three Isn&#8217;t A Crowd, It&#8217;s Just One More To Love&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2005/12/08/three-isnt-a-crowd-its-just-one-more-to-love/</link>
		<comments>http://shastagibson.com/2005/12/08/three-isnt-a-crowd-its-just-one-more-to-love/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Dec 2005 16:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A short article on polyamory from Maclean's.ca:Stuck On YouseThanks to Tom for the link ;)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[A short article on polyamory from Maclean's.ca:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.macleans.ca/topstories/life/article.jsp?content=20051205_117077_117077">Stuck On Youse</a><br /><br />Thanks to Tom for the link ;)]]></content:encoded>
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