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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 15:38:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In response to Monday's post Buy Differin Without Prescription, , Sharon asked: I’m very curious on how you are going to discuss this with your children now and on-going? That's an excellent question, and deserves a post unto itself.  As an aside, if anyone would like to ask questions about our co-habitation arrangement, effects of Differin, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <a title="Letters by Shasta Gibson, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/2090735022/"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2065/2090735022_4afb7ceb51_o.jpg" alt="Letters" width="291" height="387" align="right" /></a>In response to <a title="We're All In This Thing Together" href="http://shastagibson.com/2009/11/23/were-all-in-this-thing-together/" target="_self">Monday's post</a> <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>, , Sharon asked:<br />
<blockquote>I’m very curious on how you are going to discuss this with your children now and on-going?</blockquote><br />
That's an excellent question, and deserves a post unto itself.  As an aside, if anyone would like to ask questions about our co-habitation arrangement, <b>effects of Differin</b>, that I can't answer in a sentence or two, <b>Comprar en línea Differin, comprar Differin baratos</b>, I will likely create a post on the subject to answer your enquiry.  I know how precarious, and often rare these arrangements can be, <b>buy no prescription Differin online</b>, and I want to share as much as possible about the entire experience.  <b>Online buying Differin</b>, Our children are aware that Aiden is moving in with us.  In fact, I spoke to them each individually and <em>a</em><em>sked them permission</em> to have Aiden live with us, <b>purchase Differin</b>.  This home is just as much theirs as it is ours, and I wanted to give them an opportunity to raise objections, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  I wanted them to feel as though they have a say in what happens in our house, <b>Order Differin online c.o.d</b>, and I wanted to gauge their comfort with the idea.</p>
<p>They both eagerly agreed that he should move in.  They really adore Aiden, <b>ordering Differin online</b>, and he's so great with them.  <b>Differin interactions</b>,  I explained that Aiden had to find a job here before he could come to stay, and since then Luke, my older child, <b>online buy Differin without a prescription</b>, has asked me EVERY DAY about the job situation.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  I think the fact that he remembers, unprompted, on such a regular basis says a lot about how he feels regarding the situation.  <b>Buy Differin no prescription</b>,  He's been visibly disappointed every time I tell him "No job yet".</p>
<p>Aiden and I behave mostly platonically in the presence of the children.  I don't assume that my kids are stupid, <b>where can i buy Differin online</b>, however, <b>Buy Differin from canada</b>, and I'm sure they pick up on the fact that he's not just a casual acquaintance.  Fortunately Jack and I are generally very affectionate people, both with each other, <b>buy Differin online cod</b>, and with our friends.  This has created for them an environment where cuddling, hugging, and other forms of physical affection are normal, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  <b>After Differin</b>,  While V lived here she and I often hugged, cuddled, and told each other "I love you" because that's just how we are with each other, <b>Differin recreational</b>.  It's apparent that the children have accepted this behaviour, <b>What is Differin</b>, because Sadie hugs all of her friends and thinks nothing of giving her little gal pals a kiss on the cheek when they part ways after school.  I'm sure it weirds out some of the other moms, but I'd prefer my kids express their feelings openly, <b>Differin use</b>, rather than growing up with social anxiety and fearing human contact.  <b>Differin no rx</b>,  Nia and I are also very physically expressive with each other, and it carries over to the kids, because Sadie in particular is my little cuddle bug (not surprising, <b>order Differin from mexican pharmacy</b>, since both of her parents are).  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  It's just how we work, all of us, and so I don't expect they find it unusual when Aiden and I sit close to each other on the couch, or when I hang my head over his shoulder when he's sitting down.  <b>Buy generic Differin</b>,  These are things that all of the adults in their lives do with each other, so that saves us a lot of conversation on THAT front.</p>
<p>The major hurdle we are facing at the moment are sleeping arrangements, <b>Differin over the counter</b>.  Jack and I aren't really certain how best to address the topic, <b>Differin reviews</b>, because while we don't want to keep it a secret from the kiddos forever, we're not ready to be 100% out yet, and my kids tend to innocently blurt things out to our vanilla family and friends, <b>Differin forum</b>.  It would not be unusual for them to be in the middle of a story and mention off-hand that their Mum was sleeping in Aiden's room.  I don't think that they would question it, because I would sometimes sleep with V, or Nia would sometimes have sleep-over parties here, and V has shared a bed with Jack, so that sort of thing is also normal, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  <b>Taking Differin</b>,  It's really not about having to explain to them who is sleeping where and why, but about explaining to family if it happens to slip out.</p>
<p>As far as we've told them, <b>Differin steet value</b>, Aiden is a friend, <b>Where to buy Differin</b>, and he's going to live in our basement.  Kids are often wiser than we give them credit for, so I have no doubts that they may be onto us, <b>buy Differin without prescription</b>, but simply see no reason to regard it as out of the ordinary.  <b>Differin price</b>,  This became quite evident on Saturday when I was talking to Luke about Jack being away for the week and how Aiden would be staying with us during that time.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  Luke remarked quite casually that since Daddy was away, Aiden could be their step-dad for the week.  To him this seemed like an obvious connection, but again, <b>fast shipping Differin</b>, not the least bit unusual.  <b>Differin samples</b>,  He mentioned it again that evening while Aiden and I were putting him to bed, and although I think Aiden was perhaps caught off-guard, he took it in stride and didn't bother making an issue of it, <b>Differin blogs</b>.</p>
<p>I never want to put them in a position where they feel that our lifestyle choices are shameful or something to be kept a secret, <b>Herbal Differin</b>, so until such a time that they can understand that not everyone lives the way that we do, we feel it's best to treat things in a very casual way.  They know that they are always free to ask questions, <b>kjøpe Differin på nett, köpa Differin online</b>, and that they will get an (age-appropriate) answer.  So far neither of them have asked anything regarding my relationship with Aiden, and I don't intend to make it into a big deal when I think that really, they could care less, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  <b>Order Differin from mexican pharmacy</b>,  Their perception of the situation is that a very cool adult who cares for them and plays with them is going to be here ALL THE TIME.  This seems like a grand plan in their eyes.</p>
<p>Having V live here I believe also set a good precedent in terms of having extra adults in the house being unremarkable, <b>canada, mexico, india</b>.  They were so happy to have her here, and they've missed her terribly since she moved.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  Perhaps in a way they see Aiden as filling the obvious gap in our home.</p>
<p>Eventually, yes, we are going to have to explain to the children the nature of our relationship.  We have to be prepared to answer their questions, probably far sooner than we might like.  I hope we can hold off with a lot of complicated explanations until they are really old enough to understand not only what polyamory really is, but why people will likely have strong and often opposing reactions to our lifestyle.  I want them to be prepared for the sorts of judgmental and sometimes cruel opinions they are likely to encounter.  I want them to know that just because a lot of people, including much of our family, don't want to understand our choices, that doesn't make what we are doing wrong or dirty or something to feel ashamed of, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.</p>
<p>When will they be "old enough".  I wish I knew.  Perhaps it will wait until we're not only ready to be open with them, but with everyone else in our lives.  I doubt we will be so fortunate, and that the chickens will come home to roost before we're totally prepared, but as will all things, we'll roll with it, do the best we know how, and come out on the other side better for the experience.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>, I hope that provided some type of answer for you.  Jack and I often feel like we're wandering around in the dark when it comes to poly and our children.  We are facing all of these issues for the first time, and there really aren't a lot of resources from which to draw good advice, nor a lot of life experiences that might provide useful insights.  To say that we are under-prepared and out of our element is an understatement, but we are going to find our way, just as we have in the past.</p>
<p>I promise to post on this again, as the relationship evolves and as we handle situations regarding the kids, and our living arrangement in general, but I encourage comments and thoughtful questions on the situation.  Your questions inspire us to think, and to discuss, and sometimes look at things in ways we hadn't considered before, so all feedback is gratefully appreciated.</p>
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		<title>Dear Shasta: How Do I Get The Most Bang For My Buck?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2008 14:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hello Shasta, I found your blog through researching some toys for the bedroom. I know this is a bit strange for the blog, but I'm a male asking a serious question because I am so terribly confused. My girlfriend and I are looking to get into some anal play, and she has this fantasy where [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Letters by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/2090735022/"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2065/2090735022_4afb7ceb51_o.jpg" alt="Dear Shasta" width="291" height="387" align="right" /></a><em>Hello Shasta,</em>

I found your blog through researching some toys for the bedroom. I know this is a bit strange for the blog, but I'm a male asking a serious question because I am so terribly confused.

My girlfriend and I are looking to get into some anal play, and she has this fantasy where she wants our roles reversed. She was to do me with a strap-on, and having used prostate stimulation toys before, I am quite open to it. The problem is that we have absolutely no idea where to begin. I've looked into harnesses and strap-ons, but everything confuses me. Basically I want something that she can wear
that will be inserted to give her pleasure as well as myself pleasure. The Feeldoe fits this bill quite nicely, as it gives vaginal and clitoral stimulation (although you mentioned it was quite weak). I've not quite found any harnesses or full on belts that have a vaginal insert/clit stimulator built in, although I know that they
exist.

We are both students, so money is a little tight at the moment-- which is why we're asking for some advice before we put the money down for something. Any help would be appreciated!
<blockquote>Thank you for the excellent e-mail :D I always love hearing from my readers.

Your question is a good one! I think that I would totally recommend the feeldoe for you two. You can purchase accompanying harnesses that also come with their own vibrating bullets.

Here are a couple that are feeldoe compatible and include their own vibrating bullet (generally in a pouch of some sort):

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There are other harnesses out there that you can attach dildos to and all that, but honestly, I don't think they are as good as the feeldoe.

The only drawback is that you can't use silicone lubricant with silicone toys (like the feeldoe) so if that's a big problem, let me know and I can find you something else.

Since money is an issue (as it is for most of us) I would suggest you invest in the slim blue feeldoe and try it without a harness to begin with. Some people find it perfectly wonderful just as it is. If you feel you need a harness, then you can purchase that next, when you can afford it :)

Hopefully that information is useful to you. Let me know if you have any other questions!

XOXO
Shasta</blockquote>
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		<title>Dear Shasta: How Do I Talk To My Girlfriend About Poly?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jan 2008 16:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Shasta!! I was wondering if you could help me with something. I chose you because of knowing of your polygamous relationships, you'd be able to help. I am not a polygamous type of guy, have always been a single girl relationship seeker (although x-somes would be fun :) The reason I am emailing you [...]]]></description>
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<div><em>Hi Shasta!!</em></div>
<em>I was wondering if you could help me with something. I chose you because of knowing of your polygamous relationships, you'd be able to help.

I am not a polygamous type of guy, have always been a single girl relationship seeker (although x-somes would be fun :)

The reason I am emailing you is because I love my girlfriend, XXXXX. We've been going 26 months, and we've been through A LOT. There is this one girl though, her name is YYYY, and I swear to God, no matter what I do, I CANNOT get her out of my head. She is the most beautiful girl I have ever seen...EVER....and she's single...

I have no idea what to do, and it's been giving me heartaches, because I have no idea. This have been going on since about Jan-Feb of last year.

Thanks SG!!

</em>
<blockquote>Thanks for the e-mail :) First off, one correction: Polygamous means many spouses (usually associated with one man marrying more than one person). My relationship style is Polyamory, which means many loves. These relationships do not have to be really serious, but generally feelings on some level are involved. Just wanted to clear that up :)</blockquote>
Let me ask you if you think XXXXX would be open to the idea of sharing you? Do you think, given the right circumstances, that she could be ok with you loving someone in addition to her? Keep in mind that if she absolutely cannot consider polyamory for your relationship, you are either going to have to leave her to pursue another relationship, or completely give up on YYYY. Either way you need to make a choice, to do what makes you happy.

If you want to try polyamory with XXXXX the first thing you need to do is be completely honest with her about your thoughts and feelings regarding this other woman. Explain to her that while you love and adore her as much as ever, you are ALSO, at the same time, attracted to someone else. Be prepared, she is going to be seriously threatened and angry at first. It could potentially end your relationship.

Is that worth it to you? Is it that important to you to be able to pursue other relationships? You need to ask yourself some hard questions before you go forward with this.

Take Care!

XOXO
Shasta

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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jan 2008 22:17:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Shasta,Recently, a friend of mine's vibrator died. I'd like to get her a replacement, but I'm discriminating in my tastes. Only the best.The poor girl needs relief. I may be her only hope.I went through your reviews, and you have several that you rated highly, but...is there ones in particular, should be stuck on an [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/2090735022/" title="Letters by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr"><img align="right" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2065/2090735022_4afb7ceb51_o.jpg" width="291" height="387" alt="Dear Shasta" /></a><em>Shasta,<br /><br />Recently, a friend of mine's vibrator died. I'd like to get her a replacement, but I'm discriminating in my tastes. Only the best.<br /><br />The poor girl needs relief. I may be her only hope.<br /><br />I went through your reviews, and you have several that you rated highly, but...is there ones in particular, should be stuck on an island, that you would just *have* to have?</em><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><blockquote>Thank you for the note :)<br /><br />Hmmmm, trapped on a desert island. Well it really depends on what sort of stimulation she likes? Does she prefer clitoral? Penetration? Both? G-spot?<br /><br />The rabbit is very popular, although prone to burning out if you use it for longer than 20 minutes at a time. If you did want to go with a rabbit, I would suggest you go with the iVibe by Doc Johnson or any rabbit manufactured by them.<br /><br />Also, my love of Fun Factory toys is no secret. Considered some of the best made toys in the world, just about anything they make (besides the layaspots, which seem to often malfunction) is excellent.<br /><br />Personally, if I had to choose only three toys to keep from my collection, these would be my top choices:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=1539&dc=sg">iVibe Rabbit Vibrator</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=2617&dc=sg">Galan II G-Spot Vibrator</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=5416&dc=sg">The Cone</a><br /><br />I had almost completely forgotten about The Cone, but amongst my pals, it's a huge hit (in fact I'm not even sure who has the thing right now, since I like to share the love).<br /><br />Hopefully one of those will be the right fit for your friend.<br /><br />XOXO<br />Shasta</blockquote><br /><br />Do you have a question for <em>Dear Shasta</em>? Questions can be submitted via <a href="mailto:stilettodiaries@gmail.com">e-mail</a>, or posted in the comments section below. Submitted questions will be answered in upcoming <em>Dear Shasta</em> segments. Questions can be on any topic you wish.]]></content:encoded>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 15:38:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In response to Monday's post Buy Differin Without Prescription, , Sharon asked: I’m very curious on how you are going to discuss this with your children now and on-going? That's an excellent question, and deserves a post unto itself.  As an aside, if anyone would like to ask questions about our co-habitation arrangement, effects of Differin, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <a title="Letters by Shasta Gibson, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/2090735022/"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2065/2090735022_4afb7ceb51_o.jpg" alt="Letters" width="291" height="387" align="right" /></a>In response to <a title="We're All In This Thing Together" href="http://shastagibson.com/2009/11/23/were-all-in-this-thing-together/" target="_self">Monday's post</a> <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>, , Sharon asked:<br />
<blockquote>I’m very curious on how you are going to discuss this with your children now and on-going?</blockquote><br />
That's an excellent question, and deserves a post unto itself.  As an aside, if anyone would like to ask questions about our co-habitation arrangement, <b>effects of Differin</b>, that I can't answer in a sentence or two, <b>Comprar en línea Differin, comprar Differin baratos</b>, I will likely create a post on the subject to answer your enquiry.  I know how precarious, and often rare these arrangements can be, <b>buy no prescription Differin online</b>, and I want to share as much as possible about the entire experience.  <b>Online buying Differin</b>, Our children are aware that Aiden is moving in with us.  In fact, I spoke to them each individually and <em>a</em><em>sked them permission</em> to have Aiden live with us, <b>purchase Differin</b>.  This home is just as much theirs as it is ours, and I wanted to give them an opportunity to raise objections, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  I wanted them to feel as though they have a say in what happens in our house, <b>Order Differin online c.o.d</b>, and I wanted to gauge their comfort with the idea.</p>
<p>They both eagerly agreed that he should move in.  They really adore Aiden, <b>ordering Differin online</b>, and he's so great with them.  <b>Differin interactions</b>,  I explained that Aiden had to find a job here before he could come to stay, and since then Luke, my older child, <b>online buy Differin without a prescription</b>, has asked me EVERY DAY about the job situation.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  I think the fact that he remembers, unprompted, on such a regular basis says a lot about how he feels regarding the situation.  <b>Buy Differin no prescription</b>,  He's been visibly disappointed every time I tell him "No job yet".</p>
<p>Aiden and I behave mostly platonically in the presence of the children.  I don't assume that my kids are stupid, <b>where can i buy Differin online</b>, however, <b>Buy Differin from canada</b>, and I'm sure they pick up on the fact that he's not just a casual acquaintance.  Fortunately Jack and I are generally very affectionate people, both with each other, <b>buy Differin online cod</b>, and with our friends.  This has created for them an environment where cuddling, hugging, and other forms of physical affection are normal, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  <b>After Differin</b>,  While V lived here she and I often hugged, cuddled, and told each other "I love you" because that's just how we are with each other, <b>Differin recreational</b>.  It's apparent that the children have accepted this behaviour, <b>What is Differin</b>, because Sadie hugs all of her friends and thinks nothing of giving her little gal pals a kiss on the cheek when they part ways after school.  I'm sure it weirds out some of the other moms, but I'd prefer my kids express their feelings openly, <b>Differin use</b>, rather than growing up with social anxiety and fearing human contact.  <b>Differin no rx</b>,  Nia and I are also very physically expressive with each other, and it carries over to the kids, because Sadie in particular is my little cuddle bug (not surprising, <b>order Differin from mexican pharmacy</b>, since both of her parents are).  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  It's just how we work, all of us, and so I don't expect they find it unusual when Aiden and I sit close to each other on the couch, or when I hang my head over his shoulder when he's sitting down.  <b>Buy generic Differin</b>,  These are things that all of the adults in their lives do with each other, so that saves us a lot of conversation on THAT front.</p>
<p>The major hurdle we are facing at the moment are sleeping arrangements, <b>Differin over the counter</b>.  Jack and I aren't really certain how best to address the topic, <b>Differin reviews</b>, because while we don't want to keep it a secret from the kiddos forever, we're not ready to be 100% out yet, and my kids tend to innocently blurt things out to our vanilla family and friends, <b>Differin forum</b>.  It would not be unusual for them to be in the middle of a story and mention off-hand that their Mum was sleeping in Aiden's room.  I don't think that they would question it, because I would sometimes sleep with V, or Nia would sometimes have sleep-over parties here, and V has shared a bed with Jack, so that sort of thing is also normal, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  <b>Taking Differin</b>,  It's really not about having to explain to them who is sleeping where and why, but about explaining to family if it happens to slip out.</p>
<p>As far as we've told them, <b>Differin steet value</b>, Aiden is a friend, <b>Where to buy Differin</b>, and he's going to live in our basement.  Kids are often wiser than we give them credit for, so I have no doubts that they may be onto us, <b>buy Differin without prescription</b>, but simply see no reason to regard it as out of the ordinary.  <b>Differin price</b>,  This became quite evident on Saturday when I was talking to Luke about Jack being away for the week and how Aiden would be staying with us during that time.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  Luke remarked quite casually that since Daddy was away, Aiden could be their step-dad for the week.  To him this seemed like an obvious connection, but again, <b>fast shipping Differin</b>, not the least bit unusual.  <b>Differin samples</b>,  He mentioned it again that evening while Aiden and I were putting him to bed, and although I think Aiden was perhaps caught off-guard, he took it in stride and didn't bother making an issue of it, <b>Differin blogs</b>.</p>
<p>I never want to put them in a position where they feel that our lifestyle choices are shameful or something to be kept a secret, <b>Herbal Differin</b>, so until such a time that they can understand that not everyone lives the way that we do, we feel it's best to treat things in a very casual way.  They know that they are always free to ask questions, <b>kjøpe Differin på nett, köpa Differin online</b>, and that they will get an (age-appropriate) answer.  So far neither of them have asked anything regarding my relationship with Aiden, and I don't intend to make it into a big deal when I think that really, they could care less, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  <b>Order Differin from mexican pharmacy</b>,  Their perception of the situation is that a very cool adult who cares for them and plays with them is going to be here ALL THE TIME.  This seems like a grand plan in their eyes.</p>
<p>Having V live here I believe also set a good precedent in terms of having extra adults in the house being unremarkable, <b>canada, mexico, india</b>.  They were so happy to have her here, and they've missed her terribly since she moved.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  Perhaps in a way they see Aiden as filling the obvious gap in our home.</p>
<p>Eventually, yes, we are going to have to explain to the children the nature of our relationship.  We have to be prepared to answer their questions, probably far sooner than we might like.  I hope we can hold off with a lot of complicated explanations until they are really old enough to understand not only what polyamory really is, but why people will likely have strong and often opposing reactions to our lifestyle.  I want them to be prepared for the sorts of judgmental and sometimes cruel opinions they are likely to encounter.  I want them to know that just because a lot of people, including much of our family, don't want to understand our choices, that doesn't make what we are doing wrong or dirty or something to feel ashamed of, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.</p>
<p>When will they be "old enough".  I wish I knew.  Perhaps it will wait until we're not only ready to be open with them, but with everyone else in our lives.  I doubt we will be so fortunate, and that the chickens will come home to roost before we're totally prepared, but as will all things, we'll roll with it, do the best we know how, and come out on the other side better for the experience.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>, I hope that provided some type of answer for you.  Jack and I often feel like we're wandering around in the dark when it comes to poly and our children.  We are facing all of these issues for the first time, and there really aren't a lot of resources from which to draw good advice, nor a lot of life experiences that might provide useful insights.  To say that we are under-prepared and out of our element is an understatement, but we are going to find our way, just as we have in the past.</p>
<p>I promise to post on this again, as the relationship evolves and as we handle situations regarding the kids, and our living arrangement in general, but I encourage comments and thoughtful questions on the situation.  Your questions inspire us to think, and to discuss, and sometimes look at things in ways we hadn't considered before, so all feedback is gratefully appreciated.</p>
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		<title>Dear Shasta: How Do I Get The Most Bang For My Buck?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2008 14:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hello Shasta, I found your blog through researching some toys for the bedroom. I know this is a bit strange for the blog, but I'm a male asking a serious question because I am so terribly confused. My girlfriend and I are looking to get into some anal play, and she has this fantasy where [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Letters by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/2090735022/"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2065/2090735022_4afb7ceb51_o.jpg" alt="Dear Shasta" width="291" height="387" align="right" /></a><em>Hello Shasta,</em>

I found your blog through researching some toys for the bedroom. I know this is a bit strange for the blog, but I'm a male asking a serious question because I am so terribly confused.

My girlfriend and I are looking to get into some anal play, and she has this fantasy where she wants our roles reversed. She was to do me with a strap-on, and having used prostate stimulation toys before, I am quite open to it. The problem is that we have absolutely no idea where to begin. I've looked into harnesses and strap-ons, but everything confuses me. Basically I want something that she can wear
that will be inserted to give her pleasure as well as myself pleasure. The Feeldoe fits this bill quite nicely, as it gives vaginal and clitoral stimulation (although you mentioned it was quite weak). I've not quite found any harnesses or full on belts that have a vaginal insert/clit stimulator built in, although I know that they
exist.

We are both students, so money is a little tight at the moment-- which is why we're asking for some advice before we put the money down for something. Any help would be appreciated!
<blockquote>Thank you for the excellent e-mail :D I always love hearing from my readers.

Your question is a good one! I think that I would totally recommend the feeldoe for you two. You can purchase accompanying harnesses that also come with their own vibrating bullets.

Here are a couple that are feeldoe compatible and include their own vibrating bullet (generally in a pouch of some sort):

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There are other harnesses out there that you can attach dildos to and all that, but honestly, I don't think they are as good as the feeldoe.

The only drawback is that you can't use silicone lubricant with silicone toys (like the feeldoe) so if that's a big problem, let me know and I can find you something else.

Since money is an issue (as it is for most of us) I would suggest you invest in the slim blue feeldoe and try it without a harness to begin with. Some people find it perfectly wonderful just as it is. If you feel you need a harness, then you can purchase that next, when you can afford it :)

Hopefully that information is useful to you. Let me know if you have any other questions!

XOXO
Shasta</blockquote>
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		<title>Dear Shasta: How Do I Talk To My Girlfriend About Poly?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jan 2008 16:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Shasta!! I was wondering if you could help me with something. I chose you because of knowing of your polygamous relationships, you'd be able to help. I am not a polygamous type of guy, have always been a single girl relationship seeker (although x-somes would be fun :) The reason I am emailing you [...]]]></description>
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<div><em>Hi Shasta!!</em></div>
<em>I was wondering if you could help me with something. I chose you because of knowing of your polygamous relationships, you'd be able to help.

I am not a polygamous type of guy, have always been a single girl relationship seeker (although x-somes would be fun :)

The reason I am emailing you is because I love my girlfriend, XXXXX. We've been going 26 months, and we've been through A LOT. There is this one girl though, her name is YYYY, and I swear to God, no matter what I do, I CANNOT get her out of my head. She is the most beautiful girl I have ever seen...EVER....and she's single...

I have no idea what to do, and it's been giving me heartaches, because I have no idea. This have been going on since about Jan-Feb of last year.

Thanks SG!!

</em>
<blockquote>Thanks for the e-mail :) First off, one correction: Polygamous means many spouses (usually associated with one man marrying more than one person). My relationship style is Polyamory, which means many loves. These relationships do not have to be really serious, but generally feelings on some level are involved. Just wanted to clear that up :)</blockquote>
Let me ask you if you think XXXXX would be open to the idea of sharing you? Do you think, given the right circumstances, that she could be ok with you loving someone in addition to her? Keep in mind that if she absolutely cannot consider polyamory for your relationship, you are either going to have to leave her to pursue another relationship, or completely give up on YYYY. Either way you need to make a choice, to do what makes you happy.

If you want to try polyamory with XXXXX the first thing you need to do is be completely honest with her about your thoughts and feelings regarding this other woman. Explain to her that while you love and adore her as much as ever, you are ALSO, at the same time, attracted to someone else. Be prepared, she is going to be seriously threatened and angry at first. It could potentially end your relationship.

Is that worth it to you? Is it that important to you to be able to pursue other relationships? You need to ask yourself some hard questions before you go forward with this.

Take Care!

XOXO
Shasta

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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jan 2008 22:17:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Shasta,Recently, a friend of mine's vibrator died. I'd like to get her a replacement, but I'm discriminating in my tastes. Only the best.The poor girl needs relief. I may be her only hope.I went through your reviews, and you have several that you rated highly, but...is there ones in particular, should be stuck on an [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/2090735022/" title="Letters by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr"><img align="right" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2065/2090735022_4afb7ceb51_o.jpg" width="291" height="387" alt="Dear Shasta" /></a><em>Shasta,<br /><br />Recently, a friend of mine's vibrator died. I'd like to get her a replacement, but I'm discriminating in my tastes. Only the best.<br /><br />The poor girl needs relief. I may be her only hope.<br /><br />I went through your reviews, and you have several that you rated highly, but...is there ones in particular, should be stuck on an island, that you would just *have* to have?</em><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><blockquote>Thank you for the note :)<br /><br />Hmmmm, trapped on a desert island. Well it really depends on what sort of stimulation she likes? Does she prefer clitoral? Penetration? Both? G-spot?<br /><br />The rabbit is very popular, although prone to burning out if you use it for longer than 20 minutes at a time. If you did want to go with a rabbit, I would suggest you go with the iVibe by Doc Johnson or any rabbit manufactured by them.<br /><br />Also, my love of Fun Factory toys is no secret. Considered some of the best made toys in the world, just about anything they make (besides the layaspots, which seem to often malfunction) is excellent.<br /><br />Personally, if I had to choose only three toys to keep from my collection, these would be my top choices:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=1539&dc=sg">iVibe Rabbit Vibrator</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=2617&dc=sg">Galan II G-Spot Vibrator</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=5416&dc=sg">The Cone</a><br /><br />I had almost completely forgotten about The Cone, but amongst my pals, it's a huge hit (in fact I'm not even sure who has the thing right now, since I like to share the love).<br /><br />Hopefully one of those will be the right fit for your friend.<br /><br />XOXO<br />Shasta</blockquote><br /><br />Do you have a question for <em>Dear Shasta</em>? Questions can be submitted via <a href="mailto:stilettodiaries@gmail.com">e-mail</a>, or posted in the comments section below. Submitted questions will be answered in upcoming <em>Dear Shasta</em> segments. Questions can be on any topic you wish.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Dear Shasta: Which Strap-On Is Best?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 15:38:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In response to Monday's post Buy Differin Without Prescription, , Sharon asked: I’m very curious on how you are going to discuss this with your children now and on-going? That's an excellent question, and deserves a post unto itself.  As an aside, if anyone would like to ask questions about our co-habitation arrangement, effects of Differin, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <a title="Letters by Shasta Gibson, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/2090735022/"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2065/2090735022_4afb7ceb51_o.jpg" alt="Letters" width="291" height="387" align="right" /></a>In response to <a title="We're All In This Thing Together" href="http://shastagibson.com/2009/11/23/were-all-in-this-thing-together/" target="_self">Monday's post</a> <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>, , Sharon asked:<br />
<blockquote>I’m very curious on how you are going to discuss this with your children now and on-going?</blockquote><br />
That's an excellent question, and deserves a post unto itself.  As an aside, if anyone would like to ask questions about our co-habitation arrangement, <b>effects of Differin</b>, that I can't answer in a sentence or two, <b>Comprar en línea Differin, comprar Differin baratos</b>, I will likely create a post on the subject to answer your enquiry.  I know how precarious, and often rare these arrangements can be, <b>buy no prescription Differin online</b>, and I want to share as much as possible about the entire experience.  <b>Online buying Differin</b>, Our children are aware that Aiden is moving in with us.  In fact, I spoke to them each individually and <em>a</em><em>sked them permission</em> to have Aiden live with us, <b>purchase Differin</b>.  This home is just as much theirs as it is ours, and I wanted to give them an opportunity to raise objections, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  I wanted them to feel as though they have a say in what happens in our house, <b>Order Differin online c.o.d</b>, and I wanted to gauge their comfort with the idea.</p>
<p>They both eagerly agreed that he should move in.  They really adore Aiden, <b>ordering Differin online</b>, and he's so great with them.  <b>Differin interactions</b>,  I explained that Aiden had to find a job here before he could come to stay, and since then Luke, my older child, <b>online buy Differin without a prescription</b>, has asked me EVERY DAY about the job situation.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  I think the fact that he remembers, unprompted, on such a regular basis says a lot about how he feels regarding the situation.  <b>Buy Differin no prescription</b>,  He's been visibly disappointed every time I tell him "No job yet".</p>
<p>Aiden and I behave mostly platonically in the presence of the children.  I don't assume that my kids are stupid, <b>where can i buy Differin online</b>, however, <b>Buy Differin from canada</b>, and I'm sure they pick up on the fact that he's not just a casual acquaintance.  Fortunately Jack and I are generally very affectionate people, both with each other, <b>buy Differin online cod</b>, and with our friends.  This has created for them an environment where cuddling, hugging, and other forms of physical affection are normal, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  <b>After Differin</b>,  While V lived here she and I often hugged, cuddled, and told each other "I love you" because that's just how we are with each other, <b>Differin recreational</b>.  It's apparent that the children have accepted this behaviour, <b>What is Differin</b>, because Sadie hugs all of her friends and thinks nothing of giving her little gal pals a kiss on the cheek when they part ways after school.  I'm sure it weirds out some of the other moms, but I'd prefer my kids express their feelings openly, <b>Differin use</b>, rather than growing up with social anxiety and fearing human contact.  <b>Differin no rx</b>,  Nia and I are also very physically expressive with each other, and it carries over to the kids, because Sadie in particular is my little cuddle bug (not surprising, <b>order Differin from mexican pharmacy</b>, since both of her parents are).  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  It's just how we work, all of us, and so I don't expect they find it unusual when Aiden and I sit close to each other on the couch, or when I hang my head over his shoulder when he's sitting down.  <b>Buy generic Differin</b>,  These are things that all of the adults in their lives do with each other, so that saves us a lot of conversation on THAT front.</p>
<p>The major hurdle we are facing at the moment are sleeping arrangements, <b>Differin over the counter</b>.  Jack and I aren't really certain how best to address the topic, <b>Differin reviews</b>, because while we don't want to keep it a secret from the kiddos forever, we're not ready to be 100% out yet, and my kids tend to innocently blurt things out to our vanilla family and friends, <b>Differin forum</b>.  It would not be unusual for them to be in the middle of a story and mention off-hand that their Mum was sleeping in Aiden's room.  I don't think that they would question it, because I would sometimes sleep with V, or Nia would sometimes have sleep-over parties here, and V has shared a bed with Jack, so that sort of thing is also normal, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  <b>Taking Differin</b>,  It's really not about having to explain to them who is sleeping where and why, but about explaining to family if it happens to slip out.</p>
<p>As far as we've told them, <b>Differin steet value</b>, Aiden is a friend, <b>Where to buy Differin</b>, and he's going to live in our basement.  Kids are often wiser than we give them credit for, so I have no doubts that they may be onto us, <b>buy Differin without prescription</b>, but simply see no reason to regard it as out of the ordinary.  <b>Differin price</b>,  This became quite evident on Saturday when I was talking to Luke about Jack being away for the week and how Aiden would be staying with us during that time.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  Luke remarked quite casually that since Daddy was away, Aiden could be their step-dad for the week.  To him this seemed like an obvious connection, but again, <b>fast shipping Differin</b>, not the least bit unusual.  <b>Differin samples</b>,  He mentioned it again that evening while Aiden and I were putting him to bed, and although I think Aiden was perhaps caught off-guard, he took it in stride and didn't bother making an issue of it, <b>Differin blogs</b>.</p>
<p>I never want to put them in a position where they feel that our lifestyle choices are shameful or something to be kept a secret, <b>Herbal Differin</b>, so until such a time that they can understand that not everyone lives the way that we do, we feel it's best to treat things in a very casual way.  They know that they are always free to ask questions, <b>kjøpe Differin på nett, köpa Differin online</b>, and that they will get an (age-appropriate) answer.  So far neither of them have asked anything regarding my relationship with Aiden, and I don't intend to make it into a big deal when I think that really, they could care less, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  <b>Order Differin from mexican pharmacy</b>,  Their perception of the situation is that a very cool adult who cares for them and plays with them is going to be here ALL THE TIME.  This seems like a grand plan in their eyes.</p>
<p>Having V live here I believe also set a good precedent in terms of having extra adults in the house being unremarkable, <b>canada, mexico, india</b>.  They were so happy to have her here, and they've missed her terribly since she moved.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  Perhaps in a way they see Aiden as filling the obvious gap in our home.</p>
<p>Eventually, yes, we are going to have to explain to the children the nature of our relationship.  We have to be prepared to answer their questions, probably far sooner than we might like.  I hope we can hold off with a lot of complicated explanations until they are really old enough to understand not only what polyamory really is, but why people will likely have strong and often opposing reactions to our lifestyle.  I want them to be prepared for the sorts of judgmental and sometimes cruel opinions they are likely to encounter.  I want them to know that just because a lot of people, including much of our family, don't want to understand our choices, that doesn't make what we are doing wrong or dirty or something to feel ashamed of, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.</p>
<p>When will they be "old enough".  I wish I knew.  Perhaps it will wait until we're not only ready to be open with them, but with everyone else in our lives.  I doubt we will be so fortunate, and that the chickens will come home to roost before we're totally prepared, but as will all things, we'll roll with it, do the best we know how, and come out on the other side better for the experience.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>, I hope that provided some type of answer for you.  Jack and I often feel like we're wandering around in the dark when it comes to poly and our children.  We are facing all of these issues for the first time, and there really aren't a lot of resources from which to draw good advice, nor a lot of life experiences that might provide useful insights.  To say that we are under-prepared and out of our element is an understatement, but we are going to find our way, just as we have in the past.</p>
<p>I promise to post on this again, as the relationship evolves and as we handle situations regarding the kids, and our living arrangement in general, but I encourage comments and thoughtful questions on the situation.  Your questions inspire us to think, and to discuss, and sometimes look at things in ways we hadn't considered before, so all feedback is gratefully appreciated.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[In response to Monday's post Buy Differin Without Prescription, , Sharon asked: I’m very curious on how you are going to discuss this with your children now and on-going? That's an excellent question, and deserves a post unto itself.  As an aside, if anyone would like to ask questions about our co-habitation arrangement, effects of Differin, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <a title="Letters by Shasta Gibson, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/2090735022/"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2065/2090735022_4afb7ceb51_o.jpg" alt="Letters" width="291" height="387" align="right" /></a>In response to <a title="We're All In This Thing Together" href="http://shastagibson.com/2009/11/23/were-all-in-this-thing-together/" target="_self">Monday's post</a> <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>, , Sharon asked:<br />
<blockquote>I’m very curious on how you are going to discuss this with your children now and on-going?</blockquote><br />
That's an excellent question, and deserves a post unto itself.  As an aside, if anyone would like to ask questions about our co-habitation arrangement, <b>effects of Differin</b>, that I can't answer in a sentence or two, <b>Comprar en línea Differin, comprar Differin baratos</b>, I will likely create a post on the subject to answer your enquiry.  I know how precarious, and often rare these arrangements can be, <b>buy no prescription Differin online</b>, and I want to share as much as possible about the entire experience.  <b>Online buying Differin</b>, Our children are aware that Aiden is moving in with us.  In fact, I spoke to them each individually and <em>a</em><em>sked them permission</em> to have Aiden live with us, <b>purchase Differin</b>.  This home is just as much theirs as it is ours, and I wanted to give them an opportunity to raise objections, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  I wanted them to feel as though they have a say in what happens in our house, <b>Order Differin online c.o.d</b>, and I wanted to gauge their comfort with the idea.</p>
<p>They both eagerly agreed that he should move in.  They really adore Aiden, <b>ordering Differin online</b>, and he's so great with them.  <b>Differin interactions</b>,  I explained that Aiden had to find a job here before he could come to stay, and since then Luke, my older child, <b>online buy Differin without a prescription</b>, has asked me EVERY DAY about the job situation.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  I think the fact that he remembers, unprompted, on such a regular basis says a lot about how he feels regarding the situation.  <b>Buy Differin no prescription</b>,  He's been visibly disappointed every time I tell him "No job yet".</p>
<p>Aiden and I behave mostly platonically in the presence of the children.  I don't assume that my kids are stupid, <b>where can i buy Differin online</b>, however, <b>Buy Differin from canada</b>, and I'm sure they pick up on the fact that he's not just a casual acquaintance.  Fortunately Jack and I are generally very affectionate people, both with each other, <b>buy Differin online cod</b>, and with our friends.  This has created for them an environment where cuddling, hugging, and other forms of physical affection are normal, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  <b>After Differin</b>,  While V lived here she and I often hugged, cuddled, and told each other "I love you" because that's just how we are with each other, <b>Differin recreational</b>.  It's apparent that the children have accepted this behaviour, <b>What is Differin</b>, because Sadie hugs all of her friends and thinks nothing of giving her little gal pals a kiss on the cheek when they part ways after school.  I'm sure it weirds out some of the other moms, but I'd prefer my kids express their feelings openly, <b>Differin use</b>, rather than growing up with social anxiety and fearing human contact.  <b>Differin no rx</b>,  Nia and I are also very physically expressive with each other, and it carries over to the kids, because Sadie in particular is my little cuddle bug (not surprising, <b>order Differin from mexican pharmacy</b>, since both of her parents are).  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  It's just how we work, all of us, and so I don't expect they find it unusual when Aiden and I sit close to each other on the couch, or when I hang my head over his shoulder when he's sitting down.  <b>Buy generic Differin</b>,  These are things that all of the adults in their lives do with each other, so that saves us a lot of conversation on THAT front.</p>
<p>The major hurdle we are facing at the moment are sleeping arrangements, <b>Differin over the counter</b>.  Jack and I aren't really certain how best to address the topic, <b>Differin reviews</b>, because while we don't want to keep it a secret from the kiddos forever, we're not ready to be 100% out yet, and my kids tend to innocently blurt things out to our vanilla family and friends, <b>Differin forum</b>.  It would not be unusual for them to be in the middle of a story and mention off-hand that their Mum was sleeping in Aiden's room.  I don't think that they would question it, because I would sometimes sleep with V, or Nia would sometimes have sleep-over parties here, and V has shared a bed with Jack, so that sort of thing is also normal, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  <b>Taking Differin</b>,  It's really not about having to explain to them who is sleeping where and why, but about explaining to family if it happens to slip out.</p>
<p>As far as we've told them, <b>Differin steet value</b>, Aiden is a friend, <b>Where to buy Differin</b>, and he's going to live in our basement.  Kids are often wiser than we give them credit for, so I have no doubts that they may be onto us, <b>buy Differin without prescription</b>, but simply see no reason to regard it as out of the ordinary.  <b>Differin price</b>,  This became quite evident on Saturday when I was talking to Luke about Jack being away for the week and how Aiden would be staying with us during that time.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  Luke remarked quite casually that since Daddy was away, Aiden could be their step-dad for the week.  To him this seemed like an obvious connection, but again, <b>fast shipping Differin</b>, not the least bit unusual.  <b>Differin samples</b>,  He mentioned it again that evening while Aiden and I were putting him to bed, and although I think Aiden was perhaps caught off-guard, he took it in stride and didn't bother making an issue of it, <b>Differin blogs</b>.</p>
<p>I never want to put them in a position where they feel that our lifestyle choices are shameful or something to be kept a secret, <b>Herbal Differin</b>, so until such a time that they can understand that not everyone lives the way that we do, we feel it's best to treat things in a very casual way.  They know that they are always free to ask questions, <b>kjøpe Differin på nett, köpa Differin online</b>, and that they will get an (age-appropriate) answer.  So far neither of them have asked anything regarding my relationship with Aiden, and I don't intend to make it into a big deal when I think that really, they could care less, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  <b>Order Differin from mexican pharmacy</b>,  Their perception of the situation is that a very cool adult who cares for them and plays with them is going to be here ALL THE TIME.  This seems like a grand plan in their eyes.</p>
<p>Having V live here I believe also set a good precedent in terms of having extra adults in the house being unremarkable, <b>canada, mexico, india</b>.  They were so happy to have her here, and they've missed her terribly since she moved.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  Perhaps in a way they see Aiden as filling the obvious gap in our home.</p>
<p>Eventually, yes, we are going to have to explain to the children the nature of our relationship.  We have to be prepared to answer their questions, probably far sooner than we might like.  I hope we can hold off with a lot of complicated explanations until they are really old enough to understand not only what polyamory really is, but why people will likely have strong and often opposing reactions to our lifestyle.  I want them to be prepared for the sorts of judgmental and sometimes cruel opinions they are likely to encounter.  I want them to know that just because a lot of people, including much of our family, don't want to understand our choices, that doesn't make what we are doing wrong or dirty or something to feel ashamed of, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.</p>
<p>When will they be "old enough".  I wish I knew.  Perhaps it will wait until we're not only ready to be open with them, but with everyone else in our lives.  I doubt we will be so fortunate, and that the chickens will come home to roost before we're totally prepared, but as will all things, we'll roll with it, do the best we know how, and come out on the other side better for the experience.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>, I hope that provided some type of answer for you.  Jack and I often feel like we're wandering around in the dark when it comes to poly and our children.  We are facing all of these issues for the first time, and there really aren't a lot of resources from which to draw good advice, nor a lot of life experiences that might provide useful insights.  To say that we are under-prepared and out of our element is an understatement, but we are going to find our way, just as we have in the past.</p>
<p>I promise to post on this again, as the relationship evolves and as we handle situations regarding the kids, and our living arrangement in general, but I encourage comments and thoughtful questions on the situation.  Your questions inspire us to think, and to discuss, and sometimes look at things in ways we hadn't considered before, so all feedback is gratefully appreciated.</p>
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<a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&amp;ProdID=3038&amp;dc=sg">Corset Harness</a>

<a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&amp;ProdID=3039&amp;dc=sg">Velvet Vibrating Harness</a>

There are other harnesses out there that you can attach dildos to and all that, but honestly, I don't think they are as good as the feeldoe.

The only drawback is that you can't use silicone lubricant with silicone toys (like the feeldoe) so if that's a big problem, let me know and I can find you something else.

Since money is an issue (as it is for most of us) I would suggest you invest in the slim blue feeldoe and try it without a harness to begin with. Some people find it perfectly wonderful just as it is. If you feel you need a harness, then you can purchase that next, when you can afford it :)

Hopefully that information is useful to you. Let me know if you have any other questions!

XOXO
Shasta</blockquote>
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		<title>Dear Shasta: How Do I Talk To My Girlfriend About Poly?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Shasta!! I was wondering if you could help me with something. I chose you because of knowing of your polygamous relationships, you'd be able to help. I am not a polygamous type of guy, have always been a single girl relationship seeker (although x-somes would be fun :) The reason I am emailing you [...]]]></description>
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<div><em>Hi Shasta!!</em></div>
<em>I was wondering if you could help me with something. I chose you because of knowing of your polygamous relationships, you'd be able to help.

I am not a polygamous type of guy, have always been a single girl relationship seeker (although x-somes would be fun :)

The reason I am emailing you is because I love my girlfriend, XXXXX. We've been going 26 months, and we've been through A LOT. There is this one girl though, her name is YYYY, and I swear to God, no matter what I do, I CANNOT get her out of my head. She is the most beautiful girl I have ever seen...EVER....and she's single...

I have no idea what to do, and it's been giving me heartaches, because I have no idea. This have been going on since about Jan-Feb of last year.

Thanks SG!!

</em>
<blockquote>Thanks for the e-mail :) First off, one correction: Polygamous means many spouses (usually associated with one man marrying more than one person). My relationship style is Polyamory, which means many loves. These relationships do not have to be really serious, but generally feelings on some level are involved. Just wanted to clear that up :)</blockquote>
Let me ask you if you think XXXXX would be open to the idea of sharing you? Do you think, given the right circumstances, that she could be ok with you loving someone in addition to her? Keep in mind that if she absolutely cannot consider polyamory for your relationship, you are either going to have to leave her to pursue another relationship, or completely give up on YYYY. Either way you need to make a choice, to do what makes you happy.

If you want to try polyamory with XXXXX the first thing you need to do is be completely honest with her about your thoughts and feelings regarding this other woman. Explain to her that while you love and adore her as much as ever, you are ALSO, at the same time, attracted to someone else. Be prepared, she is going to be seriously threatened and angry at first. It could potentially end your relationship.

Is that worth it to you? Is it that important to you to be able to pursue other relationships? You need to ask yourself some hard questions before you go forward with this.

Take Care!

XOXO
Shasta

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		<description><![CDATA[Shasta,Recently, a friend of mine's vibrator died. I'd like to get her a replacement, but I'm discriminating in my tastes. Only the best.The poor girl needs relief. I may be her only hope.I went through your reviews, and you have several that you rated highly, but...is there ones in particular, should be stuck on an [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/2090735022/" title="Letters by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr"><img align="right" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2065/2090735022_4afb7ceb51_o.jpg" width="291" height="387" alt="Dear Shasta" /></a><em>Shasta,<br /><br />Recently, a friend of mine's vibrator died. I'd like to get her a replacement, but I'm discriminating in my tastes. Only the best.<br /><br />The poor girl needs relief. I may be her only hope.<br /><br />I went through your reviews, and you have several that you rated highly, but...is there ones in particular, should be stuck on an island, that you would just *have* to have?</em><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><blockquote>Thank you for the note :)<br /><br />Hmmmm, trapped on a desert island. Well it really depends on what sort of stimulation she likes? Does she prefer clitoral? Penetration? Both? G-spot?<br /><br />The rabbit is very popular, although prone to burning out if you use it for longer than 20 minutes at a time. If you did want to go with a rabbit, I would suggest you go with the iVibe by Doc Johnson or any rabbit manufactured by them.<br /><br />Also, my love of Fun Factory toys is no secret. Considered some of the best made toys in the world, just about anything they make (besides the layaspots, which seem to often malfunction) is excellent.<br /><br />Personally, if I had to choose only three toys to keep from my collection, these would be my top choices:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=1539&dc=sg">iVibe Rabbit Vibrator</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=2617&dc=sg">Galan II G-Spot Vibrator</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=5416&dc=sg">The Cone</a><br /><br />I had almost completely forgotten about The Cone, but amongst my pals, it's a huge hit (in fact I'm not even sure who has the thing right now, since I like to share the love).<br /><br />Hopefully one of those will be the right fit for your friend.<br /><br />XOXO<br />Shasta</blockquote><br /><br />Do you have a question for <em>Dear Shasta</em>? Questions can be submitted via <a href="mailto:stilettodiaries@gmail.com">e-mail</a>, or posted in the comments section below. Submitted questions will be answered in upcoming <em>Dear Shasta</em> segments. Questions can be on any topic you wish.]]></content:encoded>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hello Shasta, I found your blog through researching some toys for the bedroom. I know this is a bit strange for the blog, but I'm a male asking a serious question because I am so terribly confused. My girlfriend and I are looking to get into some anal play, and she has this fantasy where [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Letters by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/2090735022/"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2065/2090735022_4afb7ceb51_o.jpg" alt="Dear Shasta" width="291" height="387" align="right" /></a><em>Hello Shasta,</em>

I found your blog through researching some toys for the bedroom. I know this is a bit strange for the blog, but I'm a male asking a serious question because I am so terribly confused.

My girlfriend and I are looking to get into some anal play, and she has this fantasy where she wants our roles reversed. She was to do me with a strap-on, and having used prostate stimulation toys before, I am quite open to it. The problem is that we have absolutely no idea where to begin. I've looked into harnesses and strap-ons, but everything confuses me. Basically I want something that she can wear
that will be inserted to give her pleasure as well as myself pleasure. The Feeldoe fits this bill quite nicely, as it gives vaginal and clitoral stimulation (although you mentioned it was quite weak). I've not quite found any harnesses or full on belts that have a vaginal insert/clit stimulator built in, although I know that they
exist.

We are both students, so money is a little tight at the moment-- which is why we're asking for some advice before we put the money down for something. Any help would be appreciated!
<blockquote>Thank you for the excellent e-mail :D I always love hearing from my readers.

Your question is a good one! I think that I would totally recommend the feeldoe for you two. You can purchase accompanying harnesses that also come with their own vibrating bullets.

Here are a couple that are feeldoe compatible and include their own vibrating bullet (generally in a pouch of some sort):

<a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&amp;ProdID=3038&amp;dc=sg">Corset Harness</a>

<a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&amp;ProdID=3039&amp;dc=sg">Velvet Vibrating Harness</a>

There are other harnesses out there that you can attach dildos to and all that, but honestly, I don't think they are as good as the feeldoe.

The only drawback is that you can't use silicone lubricant with silicone toys (like the feeldoe) so if that's a big problem, let me know and I can find you something else.

Since money is an issue (as it is for most of us) I would suggest you invest in the slim blue feeldoe and try it without a harness to begin with. Some people find it perfectly wonderful just as it is. If you feel you need a harness, then you can purchase that next, when you can afford it :)

Hopefully that information is useful to you. Let me know if you have any other questions!

XOXO
Shasta</blockquote>
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		<description><![CDATA[In response to Monday's post Buy Differin Without Prescription, , Sharon asked: I’m very curious on how you are going to discuss this with your children now and on-going? That's an excellent question, and deserves a post unto itself.  As an aside, if anyone would like to ask questions about our co-habitation arrangement, effects of Differin, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <a title="Letters by Shasta Gibson, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/2090735022/"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2065/2090735022_4afb7ceb51_o.jpg" alt="Letters" width="291" height="387" align="right" /></a>In response to <a title="We're All In This Thing Together" href="http://shastagibson.com/2009/11/23/were-all-in-this-thing-together/" target="_self">Monday's post</a> <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>, , Sharon asked:<br />
<blockquote>I’m very curious on how you are going to discuss this with your children now and on-going?</blockquote><br />
That's an excellent question, and deserves a post unto itself.  As an aside, if anyone would like to ask questions about our co-habitation arrangement, <b>effects of Differin</b>, that I can't answer in a sentence or two, <b>Comprar en línea Differin, comprar Differin baratos</b>, I will likely create a post on the subject to answer your enquiry.  I know how precarious, and often rare these arrangements can be, <b>buy no prescription Differin online</b>, and I want to share as much as possible about the entire experience.  <b>Online buying Differin</b>, Our children are aware that Aiden is moving in with us.  In fact, I spoke to them each individually and <em>a</em><em>sked them permission</em> to have Aiden live with us, <b>purchase Differin</b>.  This home is just as much theirs as it is ours, and I wanted to give them an opportunity to raise objections, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  I wanted them to feel as though they have a say in what happens in our house, <b>Order Differin online c.o.d</b>, and I wanted to gauge their comfort with the idea.</p>
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<p>Aiden and I behave mostly platonically in the presence of the children.  I don't assume that my kids are stupid, <b>where can i buy Differin online</b>, however, <b>Buy Differin from canada</b>, and I'm sure they pick up on the fact that he's not just a casual acquaintance.  Fortunately Jack and I are generally very affectionate people, both with each other, <b>buy Differin online cod</b>, and with our friends.  This has created for them an environment where cuddling, hugging, and other forms of physical affection are normal, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  <b>After Differin</b>,  While V lived here she and I often hugged, cuddled, and told each other "I love you" because that's just how we are with each other, <b>Differin recreational</b>.  It's apparent that the children have accepted this behaviour, <b>What is Differin</b>, because Sadie hugs all of her friends and thinks nothing of giving her little gal pals a kiss on the cheek when they part ways after school.  I'm sure it weirds out some of the other moms, but I'd prefer my kids express their feelings openly, <b>Differin use</b>, rather than growing up with social anxiety and fearing human contact.  <b>Differin no rx</b>,  Nia and I are also very physically expressive with each other, and it carries over to the kids, because Sadie in particular is my little cuddle bug (not surprising, <b>order Differin from mexican pharmacy</b>, since both of her parents are).  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  It's just how we work, all of us, and so I don't expect they find it unusual when Aiden and I sit close to each other on the couch, or when I hang my head over his shoulder when he's sitting down.  <b>Buy generic Differin</b>,  These are things that all of the adults in their lives do with each other, so that saves us a lot of conversation on THAT front.</p>
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<p>I never want to put them in a position where they feel that our lifestyle choices are shameful or something to be kept a secret, <b>Herbal Differin</b>, so until such a time that they can understand that not everyone lives the way that we do, we feel it's best to treat things in a very casual way.  They know that they are always free to ask questions, <b>kjøpe Differin på nett, köpa Differin online</b>, and that they will get an (age-appropriate) answer.  So far neither of them have asked anything regarding my relationship with Aiden, and I don't intend to make it into a big deal when I think that really, they could care less, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  <b>Order Differin from mexican pharmacy</b>,  Their perception of the situation is that a very cool adult who cares for them and plays with them is going to be here ALL THE TIME.  This seems like a grand plan in their eyes.</p>
<p>Having V live here I believe also set a good precedent in terms of having extra adults in the house being unremarkable, <b>canada, mexico, india</b>.  They were so happy to have her here, and they've missed her terribly since she moved.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  Perhaps in a way they see Aiden as filling the obvious gap in our home.</p>
<p>Eventually, yes, we are going to have to explain to the children the nature of our relationship.  We have to be prepared to answer their questions, probably far sooner than we might like.  I hope we can hold off with a lot of complicated explanations until they are really old enough to understand not only what polyamory really is, but why people will likely have strong and often opposing reactions to our lifestyle.  I want them to be prepared for the sorts of judgmental and sometimes cruel opinions they are likely to encounter.  I want them to know that just because a lot of people, including much of our family, don't want to understand our choices, that doesn't make what we are doing wrong or dirty or something to feel ashamed of, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.</p>
<p>When will they be "old enough".  I wish I knew.  Perhaps it will wait until we're not only ready to be open with them, but with everyone else in our lives.  I doubt we will be so fortunate, and that the chickens will come home to roost before we're totally prepared, but as will all things, we'll roll with it, do the best we know how, and come out on the other side better for the experience.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>, I hope that provided some type of answer for you.  Jack and I often feel like we're wandering around in the dark when it comes to poly and our children.  We are facing all of these issues for the first time, and there really aren't a lot of resources from which to draw good advice, nor a lot of life experiences that might provide useful insights.  To say that we are under-prepared and out of our element is an understatement, but we are going to find our way, just as we have in the past.</p>
<p>I promise to post on this again, as the relationship evolves and as we handle situations regarding the kids, and our living arrangement in general, but I encourage comments and thoughtful questions on the situation.  Your questions inspire us to think, and to discuss, and sometimes look at things in ways we hadn't considered before, so all feedback is gratefully appreciated.</p>
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		<title>Dear Shasta: How Do I Get The Most Bang For My Buck?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2008 14:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hello Shasta, I found your blog through researching some toys for the bedroom. I know this is a bit strange for the blog, but I'm a male asking a serious question because I am so terribly confused. My girlfriend and I are looking to get into some anal play, and she has this fantasy where [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Letters by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/2090735022/"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2065/2090735022_4afb7ceb51_o.jpg" alt="Dear Shasta" width="291" height="387" align="right" /></a><em>Hello Shasta,</em>

I found your blog through researching some toys for the bedroom. I know this is a bit strange for the blog, but I'm a male asking a serious question because I am so terribly confused.

My girlfriend and I are looking to get into some anal play, and she has this fantasy where she wants our roles reversed. She was to do me with a strap-on, and having used prostate stimulation toys before, I am quite open to it. The problem is that we have absolutely no idea where to begin. I've looked into harnesses and strap-ons, but everything confuses me. Basically I want something that she can wear
that will be inserted to give her pleasure as well as myself pleasure. The Feeldoe fits this bill quite nicely, as it gives vaginal and clitoral stimulation (although you mentioned it was quite weak). I've not quite found any harnesses or full on belts that have a vaginal insert/clit stimulator built in, although I know that they
exist.

We are both students, so money is a little tight at the moment-- which is why we're asking for some advice before we put the money down for something. Any help would be appreciated!
<blockquote>Thank you for the excellent e-mail :D I always love hearing from my readers.

Your question is a good one! I think that I would totally recommend the feeldoe for you two. You can purchase accompanying harnesses that also come with their own vibrating bullets.

Here are a couple that are feeldoe compatible and include their own vibrating bullet (generally in a pouch of some sort):

<a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&amp;ProdID=3038&amp;dc=sg">Corset Harness</a>

<a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&amp;ProdID=3039&amp;dc=sg">Velvet Vibrating Harness</a>

There are other harnesses out there that you can attach dildos to and all that, but honestly, I don't think they are as good as the feeldoe.

The only drawback is that you can't use silicone lubricant with silicone toys (like the feeldoe) so if that's a big problem, let me know and I can find you something else.

Since money is an issue (as it is for most of us) I would suggest you invest in the slim blue feeldoe and try it without a harness to begin with. Some people find it perfectly wonderful just as it is. If you feel you need a harness, then you can purchase that next, when you can afford it :)

Hopefully that information is useful to you. Let me know if you have any other questions!

XOXO
Shasta</blockquote>
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		<title>Dear Shasta: How Do I Talk To My Girlfriend About Poly?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jan 2008 16:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Shasta!! I was wondering if you could help me with something. I chose you because of knowing of your polygamous relationships, you'd be able to help. I am not a polygamous type of guy, have always been a single girl relationship seeker (although x-somes would be fun :) The reason I am emailing you [...]]]></description>
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<div><em>Hi Shasta!!</em></div>
<em>I was wondering if you could help me with something. I chose you because of knowing of your polygamous relationships, you'd be able to help.

I am not a polygamous type of guy, have always been a single girl relationship seeker (although x-somes would be fun :)

The reason I am emailing you is because I love my girlfriend, XXXXX. We've been going 26 months, and we've been through A LOT. There is this one girl though, her name is YYYY, and I swear to God, no matter what I do, I CANNOT get her out of my head. She is the most beautiful girl I have ever seen...EVER....and she's single...

I have no idea what to do, and it's been giving me heartaches, because I have no idea. This have been going on since about Jan-Feb of last year.

Thanks SG!!

</em>
<blockquote>Thanks for the e-mail :) First off, one correction: Polygamous means many spouses (usually associated with one man marrying more than one person). My relationship style is Polyamory, which means many loves. These relationships do not have to be really serious, but generally feelings on some level are involved. Just wanted to clear that up :)</blockquote>
Let me ask you if you think XXXXX would be open to the idea of sharing you? Do you think, given the right circumstances, that she could be ok with you loving someone in addition to her? Keep in mind that if she absolutely cannot consider polyamory for your relationship, you are either going to have to leave her to pursue another relationship, or completely give up on YYYY. Either way you need to make a choice, to do what makes you happy.

If you want to try polyamory with XXXXX the first thing you need to do is be completely honest with her about your thoughts and feelings regarding this other woman. Explain to her that while you love and adore her as much as ever, you are ALSO, at the same time, attracted to someone else. Be prepared, she is going to be seriously threatened and angry at first. It could potentially end your relationship.

Is that worth it to you? Is it that important to you to be able to pursue other relationships? You need to ask yourself some hard questions before you go forward with this.

Take Care!

XOXO
Shasta

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		<title>Dear Shasta: If You Were Trapped On A Desert Island&#8230;?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jan 2008 22:17:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Shasta,Recently, a friend of mine's vibrator died. I'd like to get her a replacement, but I'm discriminating in my tastes. Only the best.The poor girl needs relief. I may be her only hope.I went through your reviews, and you have several that you rated highly, but...is there ones in particular, should be stuck on an [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/2090735022/" title="Letters by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr"><img align="right" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2065/2090735022_4afb7ceb51_o.jpg" width="291" height="387" alt="Dear Shasta" /></a><em>Shasta,<br /><br />Recently, a friend of mine's vibrator died. I'd like to get her a replacement, but I'm discriminating in my tastes. Only the best.<br /><br />The poor girl needs relief. I may be her only hope.<br /><br />I went through your reviews, and you have several that you rated highly, but...is there ones in particular, should be stuck on an island, that you would just *have* to have?</em><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><blockquote>Thank you for the note :)<br /><br />Hmmmm, trapped on a desert island. Well it really depends on what sort of stimulation she likes? Does she prefer clitoral? Penetration? Both? G-spot?<br /><br />The rabbit is very popular, although prone to burning out if you use it for longer than 20 minutes at a time. If you did want to go with a rabbit, I would suggest you go with the iVibe by Doc Johnson or any rabbit manufactured by them.<br /><br />Also, my love of Fun Factory toys is no secret. Considered some of the best made toys in the world, just about anything they make (besides the layaspots, which seem to often malfunction) is excellent.<br /><br />Personally, if I had to choose only three toys to keep from my collection, these would be my top choices:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=1539&dc=sg">iVibe Rabbit Vibrator</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=2617&dc=sg">Galan II G-Spot Vibrator</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=5416&dc=sg">The Cone</a><br /><br />I had almost completely forgotten about The Cone, but amongst my pals, it's a huge hit (in fact I'm not even sure who has the thing right now, since I like to share the love).<br /><br />Hopefully one of those will be the right fit for your friend.<br /><br />XOXO<br />Shasta</blockquote><br /><br />Do you have a question for <em>Dear Shasta</em>? Questions can be submitted via <a href="mailto:stilettodiaries@gmail.com">e-mail</a>, or posted in the comments section below. Submitted questions will be answered in upcoming <em>Dear Shasta</em> segments. Questions can be on any topic you wish.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Dear Shasta: Which Strap-On Is Best?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jan 2008 16:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Shasta!! I was wondering if you could help me with something. I chose you because of knowing of your polygamous relationships, you'd be able to help. I am not a polygamous type of guy, have always been a single girl relationship seeker (although x-somes would be fun :) The reason I am emailing you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Letters by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/2090735022/"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2065/2090735022_4afb7ceb51_o.jpg" alt="Dear Shasta" width="291" height="387" align="right" /></a>
<div><em>Hi Shasta!!</em></div>
<em>I was wondering if you could help me with something. I chose you because of knowing of your polygamous relationships, you'd be able to help.

I am not a polygamous type of guy, have always been a single girl relationship seeker (although x-somes would be fun :)

The reason I am emailing you is because I love my girlfriend, XXXXX. We've been going 26 months, and we've been through A LOT. There is this one girl though, her name is YYYY, and I swear to God, no matter what I do, I CANNOT get her out of my head. She is the most beautiful girl I have ever seen...EVER....and she's single...

I have no idea what to do, and it's been giving me heartaches, because I have no idea. This have been going on since about Jan-Feb of last year.

Thanks SG!!

</em>
<blockquote>Thanks for the e-mail :) First off, one correction: Polygamous means many spouses (usually associated with one man marrying more than one person). My relationship style is Polyamory, which means many loves. These relationships do not have to be really serious, but generally feelings on some level are involved. Just wanted to clear that up :)</blockquote>
Let me ask you if you think XXXXX would be open to the idea of sharing you? Do you think, given the right circumstances, that she could be ok with you loving someone in addition to her? Keep in mind that if she absolutely cannot consider polyamory for your relationship, you are either going to have to leave her to pursue another relationship, or completely give up on YYYY. Either way you need to make a choice, to do what makes you happy.

If you want to try polyamory with XXXXX the first thing you need to do is be completely honest with her about your thoughts and feelings regarding this other woman. Explain to her that while you love and adore her as much as ever, you are ALSO, at the same time, attracted to someone else. Be prepared, she is going to be seriously threatened and angry at first. It could potentially end your relationship.

Is that worth it to you? Is it that important to you to be able to pursue other relationships? You need to ask yourself some hard questions before you go forward with this.

Take Care!

XOXO
Shasta

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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 15:38:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In response to Monday's post Buy Differin Without Prescription, , Sharon asked: I’m very curious on how you are going to discuss this with your children now and on-going? That's an excellent question, and deserves a post unto itself.  As an aside, if anyone would like to ask questions about our co-habitation arrangement, effects of Differin, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <a title="Letters by Shasta Gibson, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/2090735022/"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2065/2090735022_4afb7ceb51_o.jpg" alt="Letters" width="291" height="387" align="right" /></a>In response to <a title="We're All In This Thing Together" href="http://shastagibson.com/2009/11/23/were-all-in-this-thing-together/" target="_self">Monday's post</a> <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>, , Sharon asked:<br />
<blockquote>I’m very curious on how you are going to discuss this with your children now and on-going?</blockquote><br />
That's an excellent question, and deserves a post unto itself.  As an aside, if anyone would like to ask questions about our co-habitation arrangement, <b>effects of Differin</b>, that I can't answer in a sentence or two, <b>Comprar en línea Differin, comprar Differin baratos</b>, I will likely create a post on the subject to answer your enquiry.  I know how precarious, and often rare these arrangements can be, <b>buy no prescription Differin online</b>, and I want to share as much as possible about the entire experience.  <b>Online buying Differin</b>, Our children are aware that Aiden is moving in with us.  In fact, I spoke to them each individually and <em>a</em><em>sked them permission</em> to have Aiden live with us, <b>purchase Differin</b>.  This home is just as much theirs as it is ours, and I wanted to give them an opportunity to raise objections, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  I wanted them to feel as though they have a say in what happens in our house, <b>Order Differin online c.o.d</b>, and I wanted to gauge their comfort with the idea.</p>
<p>They both eagerly agreed that he should move in.  They really adore Aiden, <b>ordering Differin online</b>, and he's so great with them.  <b>Differin interactions</b>,  I explained that Aiden had to find a job here before he could come to stay, and since then Luke, my older child, <b>online buy Differin without a prescription</b>, has asked me EVERY DAY about the job situation.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  I think the fact that he remembers, unprompted, on such a regular basis says a lot about how he feels regarding the situation.  <b>Buy Differin no prescription</b>,  He's been visibly disappointed every time I tell him "No job yet".</p>
<p>Aiden and I behave mostly platonically in the presence of the children.  I don't assume that my kids are stupid, <b>where can i buy Differin online</b>, however, <b>Buy Differin from canada</b>, and I'm sure they pick up on the fact that he's not just a casual acquaintance.  Fortunately Jack and I are generally very affectionate people, both with each other, <b>buy Differin online cod</b>, and with our friends.  This has created for them an environment where cuddling, hugging, and other forms of physical affection are normal, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  <b>After Differin</b>,  While V lived here she and I often hugged, cuddled, and told each other "I love you" because that's just how we are with each other, <b>Differin recreational</b>.  It's apparent that the children have accepted this behaviour, <b>What is Differin</b>, because Sadie hugs all of her friends and thinks nothing of giving her little gal pals a kiss on the cheek when they part ways after school.  I'm sure it weirds out some of the other moms, but I'd prefer my kids express their feelings openly, <b>Differin use</b>, rather than growing up with social anxiety and fearing human contact.  <b>Differin no rx</b>,  Nia and I are also very physically expressive with each other, and it carries over to the kids, because Sadie in particular is my little cuddle bug (not surprising, <b>order Differin from mexican pharmacy</b>, since both of her parents are).  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  It's just how we work, all of us, and so I don't expect they find it unusual when Aiden and I sit close to each other on the couch, or when I hang my head over his shoulder when he's sitting down.  <b>Buy generic Differin</b>,  These are things that all of the adults in their lives do with each other, so that saves us a lot of conversation on THAT front.</p>
<p>The major hurdle we are facing at the moment are sleeping arrangements, <b>Differin over the counter</b>.  Jack and I aren't really certain how best to address the topic, <b>Differin reviews</b>, because while we don't want to keep it a secret from the kiddos forever, we're not ready to be 100% out yet, and my kids tend to innocently blurt things out to our vanilla family and friends, <b>Differin forum</b>.  It would not be unusual for them to be in the middle of a story and mention off-hand that their Mum was sleeping in Aiden's room.  I don't think that they would question it, because I would sometimes sleep with V, or Nia would sometimes have sleep-over parties here, and V has shared a bed with Jack, so that sort of thing is also normal, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  <b>Taking Differin</b>,  It's really not about having to explain to them who is sleeping where and why, but about explaining to family if it happens to slip out.</p>
<p>As far as we've told them, <b>Differin steet value</b>, Aiden is a friend, <b>Where to buy Differin</b>, and he's going to live in our basement.  Kids are often wiser than we give them credit for, so I have no doubts that they may be onto us, <b>buy Differin without prescription</b>, but simply see no reason to regard it as out of the ordinary.  <b>Differin price</b>,  This became quite evident on Saturday when I was talking to Luke about Jack being away for the week and how Aiden would be staying with us during that time.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  Luke remarked quite casually that since Daddy was away, Aiden could be their step-dad for the week.  To him this seemed like an obvious connection, but again, <b>fast shipping Differin</b>, not the least bit unusual.  <b>Differin samples</b>,  He mentioned it again that evening while Aiden and I were putting him to bed, and although I think Aiden was perhaps caught off-guard, he took it in stride and didn't bother making an issue of it, <b>Differin blogs</b>.</p>
<p>I never want to put them in a position where they feel that our lifestyle choices are shameful or something to be kept a secret, <b>Herbal Differin</b>, so until such a time that they can understand that not everyone lives the way that we do, we feel it's best to treat things in a very casual way.  They know that they are always free to ask questions, <b>kjøpe Differin på nett, köpa Differin online</b>, and that they will get an (age-appropriate) answer.  So far neither of them have asked anything regarding my relationship with Aiden, and I don't intend to make it into a big deal when I think that really, they could care less, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  <b>Order Differin from mexican pharmacy</b>,  Their perception of the situation is that a very cool adult who cares for them and plays with them is going to be here ALL THE TIME.  This seems like a grand plan in their eyes.</p>
<p>Having V live here I believe also set a good precedent in terms of having extra adults in the house being unremarkable, <b>canada, mexico, india</b>.  They were so happy to have her here, and they've missed her terribly since she moved.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  Perhaps in a way they see Aiden as filling the obvious gap in our home.</p>
<p>Eventually, yes, we are going to have to explain to the children the nature of our relationship.  We have to be prepared to answer their questions, probably far sooner than we might like.  I hope we can hold off with a lot of complicated explanations until they are really old enough to understand not only what polyamory really is, but why people will likely have strong and often opposing reactions to our lifestyle.  I want them to be prepared for the sorts of judgmental and sometimes cruel opinions they are likely to encounter.  I want them to know that just because a lot of people, including much of our family, don't want to understand our choices, that doesn't make what we are doing wrong or dirty or something to feel ashamed of, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.</p>
<p>When will they be "old enough".  I wish I knew.  Perhaps it will wait until we're not only ready to be open with them, but with everyone else in our lives.  I doubt we will be so fortunate, and that the chickens will come home to roost before we're totally prepared, but as will all things, we'll roll with it, do the best we know how, and come out on the other side better for the experience.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>, I hope that provided some type of answer for you.  Jack and I often feel like we're wandering around in the dark when it comes to poly and our children.  We are facing all of these issues for the first time, and there really aren't a lot of resources from which to draw good advice, nor a lot of life experiences that might provide useful insights.  To say that we are under-prepared and out of our element is an understatement, but we are going to find our way, just as we have in the past.</p>
<p>I promise to post on this again, as the relationship evolves and as we handle situations regarding the kids, and our living arrangement in general, but I encourage comments and thoughtful questions on the situation.  Your questions inspire us to think, and to discuss, and sometimes look at things in ways we hadn't considered before, so all feedback is gratefully appreciated.</p>
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		<title>Dear Shasta: How Do I Get The Most Bang For My Buck?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2008 14:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hello Shasta, I found your blog through researching some toys for the bedroom. I know this is a bit strange for the blog, but I'm a male asking a serious question because I am so terribly confused. My girlfriend and I are looking to get into some anal play, and she has this fantasy where [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Letters by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/2090735022/"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2065/2090735022_4afb7ceb51_o.jpg" alt="Dear Shasta" width="291" height="387" align="right" /></a><em>Hello Shasta,</em>

I found your blog through researching some toys for the bedroom. I know this is a bit strange for the blog, but I'm a male asking a serious question because I am so terribly confused.

My girlfriend and I are looking to get into some anal play, and she has this fantasy where she wants our roles reversed. She was to do me with a strap-on, and having used prostate stimulation toys before, I am quite open to it. The problem is that we have absolutely no idea where to begin. I've looked into harnesses and strap-ons, but everything confuses me. Basically I want something that she can wear
that will be inserted to give her pleasure as well as myself pleasure. The Feeldoe fits this bill quite nicely, as it gives vaginal and clitoral stimulation (although you mentioned it was quite weak). I've not quite found any harnesses or full on belts that have a vaginal insert/clit stimulator built in, although I know that they
exist.

We are both students, so money is a little tight at the moment-- which is why we're asking for some advice before we put the money down for something. Any help would be appreciated!
<blockquote>Thank you for the excellent e-mail :D I always love hearing from my readers.

Your question is a good one! I think that I would totally recommend the feeldoe for you two. You can purchase accompanying harnesses that also come with their own vibrating bullets.

Here are a couple that are feeldoe compatible and include their own vibrating bullet (generally in a pouch of some sort):

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<a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&amp;ProdID=3039&amp;dc=sg">Velvet Vibrating Harness</a>

There are other harnesses out there that you can attach dildos to and all that, but honestly, I don't think they are as good as the feeldoe.

The only drawback is that you can't use silicone lubricant with silicone toys (like the feeldoe) so if that's a big problem, let me know and I can find you something else.

Since money is an issue (as it is for most of us) I would suggest you invest in the slim blue feeldoe and try it without a harness to begin with. Some people find it perfectly wonderful just as it is. If you feel you need a harness, then you can purchase that next, when you can afford it :)

Hopefully that information is useful to you. Let me know if you have any other questions!

XOXO
Shasta</blockquote>
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		<title>Dear Shasta: How Do I Talk To My Girlfriend About Poly?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jan 2008 16:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Shasta!! I was wondering if you could help me with something. I chose you because of knowing of your polygamous relationships, you'd be able to help. I am not a polygamous type of guy, have always been a single girl relationship seeker (although x-somes would be fun :) The reason I am emailing you [...]]]></description>
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<div><em>Hi Shasta!!</em></div>
<em>I was wondering if you could help me with something. I chose you because of knowing of your polygamous relationships, you'd be able to help.

I am not a polygamous type of guy, have always been a single girl relationship seeker (although x-somes would be fun :)

The reason I am emailing you is because I love my girlfriend, XXXXX. We've been going 26 months, and we've been through A LOT. There is this one girl though, her name is YYYY, and I swear to God, no matter what I do, I CANNOT get her out of my head. She is the most beautiful girl I have ever seen...EVER....and she's single...

I have no idea what to do, and it's been giving me heartaches, because I have no idea. This have been going on since about Jan-Feb of last year.

Thanks SG!!

</em>
<blockquote>Thanks for the e-mail :) First off, one correction: Polygamous means many spouses (usually associated with one man marrying more than one person). My relationship style is Polyamory, which means many loves. These relationships do not have to be really serious, but generally feelings on some level are involved. Just wanted to clear that up :)</blockquote>
Let me ask you if you think XXXXX would be open to the idea of sharing you? Do you think, given the right circumstances, that she could be ok with you loving someone in addition to her? Keep in mind that if she absolutely cannot consider polyamory for your relationship, you are either going to have to leave her to pursue another relationship, or completely give up on YYYY. Either way you need to make a choice, to do what makes you happy.

If you want to try polyamory with XXXXX the first thing you need to do is be completely honest with her about your thoughts and feelings regarding this other woman. Explain to her that while you love and adore her as much as ever, you are ALSO, at the same time, attracted to someone else. Be prepared, she is going to be seriously threatened and angry at first. It could potentially end your relationship.

Is that worth it to you? Is it that important to you to be able to pursue other relationships? You need to ask yourself some hard questions before you go forward with this.

Take Care!

XOXO
Shasta

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		<title>Dear Shasta: If You Were Trapped On A Desert Island&#8230;?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jan 2008 22:17:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Shasta,Recently, a friend of mine's vibrator died. I'd like to get her a replacement, but I'm discriminating in my tastes. Only the best.The poor girl needs relief. I may be her only hope.I went through your reviews, and you have several that you rated highly, but...is there ones in particular, should be stuck on an [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/2090735022/" title="Letters by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr"><img align="right" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2065/2090735022_4afb7ceb51_o.jpg" width="291" height="387" alt="Dear Shasta" /></a><em>Shasta,<br /><br />Recently, a friend of mine's vibrator died. I'd like to get her a replacement, but I'm discriminating in my tastes. Only the best.<br /><br />The poor girl needs relief. I may be her only hope.<br /><br />I went through your reviews, and you have several that you rated highly, but...is there ones in particular, should be stuck on an island, that you would just *have* to have?</em><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><blockquote>Thank you for the note :)<br /><br />Hmmmm, trapped on a desert island. Well it really depends on what sort of stimulation she likes? Does she prefer clitoral? Penetration? Both? G-spot?<br /><br />The rabbit is very popular, although prone to burning out if you use it for longer than 20 minutes at a time. If you did want to go with a rabbit, I would suggest you go with the iVibe by Doc Johnson or any rabbit manufactured by them.<br /><br />Also, my love of Fun Factory toys is no secret. Considered some of the best made toys in the world, just about anything they make (besides the layaspots, which seem to often malfunction) is excellent.<br /><br />Personally, if I had to choose only three toys to keep from my collection, these would be my top choices:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=1539&dc=sg">iVibe Rabbit Vibrator</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=2617&dc=sg">Galan II G-Spot Vibrator</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=5416&dc=sg">The Cone</a><br /><br />I had almost completely forgotten about The Cone, but amongst my pals, it's a huge hit (in fact I'm not even sure who has the thing right now, since I like to share the love).<br /><br />Hopefully one of those will be the right fit for your friend.<br /><br />XOXO<br />Shasta</blockquote><br /><br />Do you have a question for <em>Dear Shasta</em>? Questions can be submitted via <a href="mailto:stilettodiaries@gmail.com">e-mail</a>, or posted in the comments section below. Submitted questions will be answered in upcoming <em>Dear Shasta</em> segments. Questions can be on any topic you wish.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Dear Shasta: Which Strap-On Is Best?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jan 2008 22:17:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Shasta,Recently, a friend of mine's vibrator died. I'd like to get her a replacement, but I'm discriminating in my tastes. Only the best.The poor girl needs relief. I may be her only hope.I went through your reviews, and you have several that you rated highly, but...is there ones in particular, should be stuck on an [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/2090735022/" title="Letters by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr"><img align="right" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2065/2090735022_4afb7ceb51_o.jpg" width="291" height="387" alt="Dear Shasta" /></a><em>Shasta,<br /><br />Recently, a friend of mine's vibrator died. I'd like to get her a replacement, but I'm discriminating in my tastes. Only the best.<br /><br />The poor girl needs relief. I may be her only hope.<br /><br />I went through your reviews, and you have several that you rated highly, but...is there ones in particular, should be stuck on an island, that you would just *have* to have?</em><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><blockquote>Thank you for the note :)<br /><br />Hmmmm, trapped on a desert island. Well it really depends on what sort of stimulation she likes? Does she prefer clitoral? Penetration? Both? G-spot?<br /><br />The rabbit is very popular, although prone to burning out if you use it for longer than 20 minutes at a time. If you did want to go with a rabbit, I would suggest you go with the iVibe by Doc Johnson or any rabbit manufactured by them.<br /><br />Also, my love of Fun Factory toys is no secret. Considered some of the best made toys in the world, just about anything they make (besides the layaspots, which seem to often malfunction) is excellent.<br /><br />Personally, if I had to choose only three toys to keep from my collection, these would be my top choices:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=1539&dc=sg">iVibe Rabbit Vibrator</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=2617&dc=sg">Galan II G-Spot Vibrator</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=5416&dc=sg">The Cone</a><br /><br />I had almost completely forgotten about The Cone, but amongst my pals, it's a huge hit (in fact I'm not even sure who has the thing right now, since I like to share the love).<br /><br />Hopefully one of those will be the right fit for your friend.<br /><br />XOXO<br />Shasta</blockquote><br /><br />Do you have a question for <em>Dear Shasta</em>? Questions can be submitted via <a href="mailto:stilettodiaries@gmail.com">e-mail</a>, or posted in the comments section below. Submitted questions will be answered in upcoming <em>Dear Shasta</em> segments. Questions can be on any topic you wish.]]></content:encoded>
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		<description><![CDATA[In response to Monday's post Buy Differin Without Prescription, , Sharon asked: I’m very curious on how you are going to discuss this with your children now and on-going? That's an excellent question, and deserves a post unto itself.  As an aside, if anyone would like to ask questions about our co-habitation arrangement, effects of Differin, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <a title="Letters by Shasta Gibson, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/2090735022/"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2065/2090735022_4afb7ceb51_o.jpg" alt="Letters" width="291" height="387" align="right" /></a>In response to <a title="We're All In This Thing Together" href="http://shastagibson.com/2009/11/23/were-all-in-this-thing-together/" target="_self">Monday's post</a> <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>, , Sharon asked:<br />
<blockquote>I’m very curious on how you are going to discuss this with your children now and on-going?</blockquote><br />
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<p>I never want to put them in a position where they feel that our lifestyle choices are shameful or something to be kept a secret, <b>Herbal Differin</b>, so until such a time that they can understand that not everyone lives the way that we do, we feel it's best to treat things in a very casual way.  They know that they are always free to ask questions, <b>kjøpe Differin på nett, köpa Differin online</b>, and that they will get an (age-appropriate) answer.  So far neither of them have asked anything regarding my relationship with Aiden, and I don't intend to make it into a big deal when I think that really, they could care less, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.  <b>Order Differin from mexican pharmacy</b>,  Their perception of the situation is that a very cool adult who cares for them and plays with them is going to be here ALL THE TIME.  This seems like a grand plan in their eyes.</p>
<p>Having V live here I believe also set a good precedent in terms of having extra adults in the house being unremarkable, <b>canada, mexico, india</b>.  They were so happy to have her here, and they've missed her terribly since she moved.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>,  Perhaps in a way they see Aiden as filling the obvious gap in our home.</p>
<p>Eventually, yes, we are going to have to explain to the children the nature of our relationship.  We have to be prepared to answer their questions, probably far sooner than we might like.  I hope we can hold off with a lot of complicated explanations until they are really old enough to understand not only what polyamory really is, but why people will likely have strong and often opposing reactions to our lifestyle.  I want them to be prepared for the sorts of judgmental and sometimes cruel opinions they are likely to encounter.  I want them to know that just because a lot of people, including much of our family, don't want to understand our choices, that doesn't make what we are doing wrong or dirty or something to feel ashamed of, <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>.</p>
<p>When will they be "old enough".  I wish I knew.  Perhaps it will wait until we're not only ready to be open with them, but with everyone else in our lives.  I doubt we will be so fortunate, and that the chickens will come home to roost before we're totally prepared, but as will all things, we'll roll with it, do the best we know how, and come out on the other side better for the experience.  <b>Buy Differin Without Prescription</b>, I hope that provided some type of answer for you.  Jack and I often feel like we're wandering around in the dark when it comes to poly and our children.  We are facing all of these issues for the first time, and there really aren't a lot of resources from which to draw good advice, nor a lot of life experiences that might provide useful insights.  To say that we are under-prepared and out of our element is an understatement, but we are going to find our way, just as we have in the past.</p>
<p>I promise to post on this again, as the relationship evolves and as we handle situations regarding the kids, and our living arrangement in general, but I encourage comments and thoughtful questions on the situation.  Your questions inspire us to think, and to discuss, and sometimes look at things in ways we hadn't considered before, so all feedback is gratefully appreciated.</p>
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		<title>Dear Shasta: How Do I Get The Most Bang For My Buck?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2008 14:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hello Shasta, I found your blog through researching some toys for the bedroom. I know this is a bit strange for the blog, but I'm a male asking a serious question because I am so terribly confused. My girlfriend and I are looking to get into some anal play, and she has this fantasy where [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a title="Letters by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/2090735022/"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2065/2090735022_4afb7ceb51_o.jpg" alt="Dear Shasta" width="291" height="387" align="right" /></a><em>Hello Shasta,</em>

I found your blog through researching some toys for the bedroom. I know this is a bit strange for the blog, but I'm a male asking a serious question because I am so terribly confused.

My girlfriend and I are looking to get into some anal play, and she has this fantasy where she wants our roles reversed. She was to do me with a strap-on, and having used prostate stimulation toys before, I am quite open to it. The problem is that we have absolutely no idea where to begin. I've looked into harnesses and strap-ons, but everything confuses me. Basically I want something that she can wear
that will be inserted to give her pleasure as well as myself pleasure. The Feeldoe fits this bill quite nicely, as it gives vaginal and clitoral stimulation (although you mentioned it was quite weak). I've not quite found any harnesses or full on belts that have a vaginal insert/clit stimulator built in, although I know that they
exist.

We are both students, so money is a little tight at the moment-- which is why we're asking for some advice before we put the money down for something. Any help would be appreciated!
<blockquote>Thank you for the excellent e-mail :D I always love hearing from my readers.

Your question is a good one! I think that I would totally recommend the feeldoe for you two. You can purchase accompanying harnesses that also come with their own vibrating bullets.

Here are a couple that are feeldoe compatible and include their own vibrating bullet (generally in a pouch of some sort):

<a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&amp;ProdID=3038&amp;dc=sg">Corset Harness</a>

<a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&amp;ProdID=3039&amp;dc=sg">Velvet Vibrating Harness</a>

There are other harnesses out there that you can attach dildos to and all that, but honestly, I don't think they are as good as the feeldoe.

The only drawback is that you can't use silicone lubricant with silicone toys (like the feeldoe) so if that's a big problem, let me know and I can find you something else.

Since money is an issue (as it is for most of us) I would suggest you invest in the slim blue feeldoe and try it without a harness to begin with. Some people find it perfectly wonderful just as it is. If you feel you need a harness, then you can purchase that next, when you can afford it :)

Hopefully that information is useful to you. Let me know if you have any other questions!

XOXO
Shasta</blockquote>
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		<title>Dear Shasta: How Do I Talk To My Girlfriend About Poly?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jan 2008 16:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Shasta!! I was wondering if you could help me with something. I chose you because of knowing of your polygamous relationships, you'd be able to help. I am not a polygamous type of guy, have always been a single girl relationship seeker (although x-somes would be fun :) The reason I am emailing you [...]]]></description>
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<div><em>Hi Shasta!!</em></div>
<em>I was wondering if you could help me with something. I chose you because of knowing of your polygamous relationships, you'd be able to help.

I am not a polygamous type of guy, have always been a single girl relationship seeker (although x-somes would be fun :)

The reason I am emailing you is because I love my girlfriend, XXXXX. We've been going 26 months, and we've been through A LOT. There is this one girl though, her name is YYYY, and I swear to God, no matter what I do, I CANNOT get her out of my head. She is the most beautiful girl I have ever seen...EVER....and she's single...

I have no idea what to do, and it's been giving me heartaches, because I have no idea. This have been going on since about Jan-Feb of last year.

Thanks SG!!

</em>
<blockquote>Thanks for the e-mail :) First off, one correction: Polygamous means many spouses (usually associated with one man marrying more than one person). My relationship style is Polyamory, which means many loves. These relationships do not have to be really serious, but generally feelings on some level are involved. Just wanted to clear that up :)</blockquote>
Let me ask you if you think XXXXX would be open to the idea of sharing you? Do you think, given the right circumstances, that she could be ok with you loving someone in addition to her? Keep in mind that if she absolutely cannot consider polyamory for your relationship, you are either going to have to leave her to pursue another relationship, or completely give up on YYYY. Either way you need to make a choice, to do what makes you happy.

If you want to try polyamory with XXXXX the first thing you need to do is be completely honest with her about your thoughts and feelings regarding this other woman. Explain to her that while you love and adore her as much as ever, you are ALSO, at the same time, attracted to someone else. Be prepared, she is going to be seriously threatened and angry at first. It could potentially end your relationship.

Is that worth it to you? Is it that important to you to be able to pursue other relationships? You need to ask yourself some hard questions before you go forward with this.

Take Care!

XOXO
Shasta

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		<title>Dear Shasta: If You Were Trapped On A Desert Island&#8230;?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jan 2008 22:17:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Shasta,Recently, a friend of mine's vibrator died. I'd like to get her a replacement, but I'm discriminating in my tastes. Only the best.The poor girl needs relief. I may be her only hope.I went through your reviews, and you have several that you rated highly, but...is there ones in particular, should be stuck on an [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/2090735022/" title="Letters by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr"><img align="right" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2065/2090735022_4afb7ceb51_o.jpg" width="291" height="387" alt="Dear Shasta" /></a><em>Shasta,<br /><br />Recently, a friend of mine's vibrator died. I'd like to get her a replacement, but I'm discriminating in my tastes. Only the best.<br /><br />The poor girl needs relief. I may be her only hope.<br /><br />I went through your reviews, and you have several that you rated highly, but...is there ones in particular, should be stuck on an island, that you would just *have* to have?</em><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><blockquote>Thank you for the note :)<br /><br />Hmmmm, trapped on a desert island. Well it really depends on what sort of stimulation she likes? Does she prefer clitoral? Penetration? Both? G-spot?<br /><br />The rabbit is very popular, although prone to burning out if you use it for longer than 20 minutes at a time. If you did want to go with a rabbit, I would suggest you go with the iVibe by Doc Johnson or any rabbit manufactured by them.<br /><br />Also, my love of Fun Factory toys is no secret. Considered some of the best made toys in the world, just about anything they make (besides the layaspots, which seem to often malfunction) is excellent.<br /><br />Personally, if I had to choose only three toys to keep from my collection, these would be my top choices:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=1539&dc=sg">iVibe Rabbit Vibrator</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=2617&dc=sg">Galan II G-Spot Vibrator</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=5416&dc=sg">The Cone</a><br /><br />I had almost completely forgotten about The Cone, but amongst my pals, it's a huge hit (in fact I'm not even sure who has the thing right now, since I like to share the love).<br /><br />Hopefully one of those will be the right fit for your friend.<br /><br />XOXO<br />Shasta</blockquote><br /><br />Do you have a question for <em>Dear Shasta</em>? Questions can be submitted via <a href="mailto:stilettodiaries@gmail.com">e-mail</a>, or posted in the comments section below. Submitted questions will be answered in upcoming <em>Dear Shasta</em> segments. Questions can be on any topic you wish.]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Dear Shasta: Which Strap-On Is Best?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Dec 2007 07:37:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shasta</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi, I came across your blog a few days ago [and I've already read through most of it], and it feels a bit strange, e-mailing someone I've only heard of through a blog, but I was wondering if you could try helping me out. From what I've read, this isn't really your thing, but my [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/74547425@N00/2090735022/" title="Letters by Stiletto Girl, on Flickr"><img align="right" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2065/2090735022_4afb7ceb51_o.jpg" width="291" height="387" alt="Dear Shasta" /></a><em>Hi, <br /><br />I came across your blog a few days ago [and I've already read through most of it], and it feels a bit strange, e-mailing someone I've only heard of through a blog, but I was wondering if you could try helping me out. <br /><br />From what I've read, this isn't really your thing, but my girlfriend has expressed interest in using a strap on [I'm female, by the way], and I've been doing some research online about different harnesses and such, but still have no idea what I'm looking for. So far the most intriguing option is the Feeldoe, which I know you've used. <br /><br />If you've got any advice or tips or what have you to help me figure what I'm doing, it would be greatly appreciated.</em><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><blockquote>Thank you for the e-mail, and I am flattered that you've taken the time to read through so much of my blog! Please don't feel strange, I get e-mails quite often from random blog readers :)<br /><br />Ok, now for your question. When it comes to strap-ons I actually do have a bit of experience. I own a vac-u-lock harness system that I purchased for personal use ages before the blog came about. Having tried the feeldoe, and talked to a number of lesbian and bi-sexual women about it, I would encourage you to give it a try.<br /><br />There are a number of harness systems that are compatible with the feeldoe. I would advise you to order a harness if you're going to be purchasing a feeldoe (especially the larger sizes). Here are three compatible harness systems for the feeldoe:<br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=3038&dc=sg">Corset Harness</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=5492&dc=sg">Universal Harness</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.pleasuremenow.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=3039&dc=sg">Velvet Vibrating Harness</a><br /><br />The most important things to consider when shopping for strap-ons are how comfortable and adjustable the harness portion is, and how many attachments are available for it. With the vac-u-lock for instance, you must buy specific vac-u-lock attachments. With other harnesses, such as the above ones which operate with a ring holder, any dildo/vibe with a flared base will work with harness.<br /><br />Your specific needs when it comes to the dildos you wish to use will likely play into which harness option you choose.<br /><br />I hope that helps!<br /><br />XOXO<br />Shasta</blockquote><br /><br />Do you have a question for <em>Dear Shasta</em>? Questions can be submitted via <a href="mailto:stilettodiaries@gmail.com">e-mail</a>, or posted in the comments section below. Submitted questions will be answered in upcoming <em>Dear Shasta</em> segments. Questions can be on any topic you wish.]]></content:encoded>
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