Stiletto Diaries™

You Make Me Forget How To Breathe

Posted on September 9th, 2009 in Carnal Confessions, Does All Her Own Stunts, Life List, Made In Ontario, Mating And Relating, Polyamory, Tie Me Up

I’d set my alarm for 9am on Sunday morning, but after waking up just long enough to shut it off, Aiden and I went back to sleep until around 11.  After getting up (which seems, for some reason, to take us a while, LOL) and putting some clothes on we ventured out to find some lunch and to do a couple of errands.

Once we were back at his place he set about attaching the new pieces of chain to his bed (I just handed him stuff) and then ordered me to strip.  I did as I was told, and then laid there cooperatively while he cuffed my wrists and ankles.  I only struggled a little while he clipped them to the chains (in my defence he was also biting me just then).  After he was satisfied that I wasn’t going anywhere he surprised me with a package of clothespins.  Oh goody.  He also got out the Wartenberg wheel, which I’d tossed into my toolbox without much thought, AND THEN foolishly told him “You can have that one, I have two”.  Unfortunately it’s one of his most favorite toys.

He spent well over an hour attaching clothespins to various parts of me, gauging my reaction to having them pinch skin in different areas.  Usually he would illicit at least a sharp intake of breath, if not a wriggle, or a yelp.  Just when a particular pin would begin to burn so badly that I began contemplating calling yellow, he would move it somewhere else.  The blood rushing back into the formerly compressed bits of flesh was more painful than the application.  He took great delight in flicking the ends of the clothespins while they were latched on to my sensitive areas.  I’m sure he was enjoyed all the gasping and whimpering I did.  He used the wheel to make me squirm and pull against the chains.

Eventually he removed all of the pins, one by one, very slowly, taking his time.  When he was finished I could only lay there for some moments, panting and feeling utterly lightheaded.  After he unchained me I had a quick shower and we got ourselves sorted out in preparation for going to the greyhound kennel, as I was due to volunteer that evening and he agreed to go along with me and help out with the dogs.

It was quite a drive, but I don’t mind long stretches in the car, and it gives one plenty of time for talking.  We arrived at the kennel a little early, as there are currently twice as many dogs than I usually deal with, so I wanted extra time to get them all outside and back in and bedded down for the night.

It was deafening walking in there with 40+ dogs barking like mad.  Aiden and I were both wishing that we’d brought earplugs, but we got to it and eventually they mostly quieted down.  Aiden isn’t nearly as animal-crazy as I am, but he had to admit that some of the hounds were really cute, and that he’d take one home if he could.

We let the dogs out in 2′s, and cleaned cages and picked up bowls and replaced blankets while they did their thing in the yard.  I had mostly asked him to come with me because I enjoy the company, and I wasn’t really expecting/demanding that he help me, but he did anyway.  It was good to have help, as it would have likely taken me three hours to do it all myself.  We were there over two hours as it was, and by the time we finished it was dark out.

Since my place was sort of on the way, we decided to stop in and say hi to Jack, so that he and Aiden could meet.  We hung out for a while, I made hamburgers since all of us were feeling peckish.  It seemed to go pretty well, even though neither of them were particularly talkative.  Eventually Jack decided that he was exhausted and wanted to get some sleep.  Aiden and I bid him a goodnight and drove back to his place.  It was somewhere around 3am or so by the time we got into bed.  I set my alarm and then fell asleep almost immediately.

I woke up a few minutes before my alarm in the morning.  This seems to have become a regular thing for me.  I set my alarm and my internal clock wakes me just before it goes off.  Aiden was still sleeping, so I shut off my phone before it went off and then snuggled up against him again.  An hour later we finally got up and had a shower together, but not before I sort of ‘accidentally’ left two rather large hickeys on his neck.  Mostly because I knew that his friends would tease him about it, and he’d already sentenced me to at least a week of not wearing any tank tops due to the bite marks.

He made me eggs for breakfast and we cuddled on his couch for a while after.  Then he decided we should go visit his mum and dad, who live very nearby.  As I mentioned in this post, I’ve never been introduced to the parents of any of my poly partners before, so I was kind of angsty over the idea.  Still, I was really quite excited that Aiden wanted me to meet them.  He asked me if I would mind taking off my wedding band, at least for the first meeting, so that he didn’t have to get into an explanation just then.  I didn’t mind, as I understand how it is with parents, and I’d rather not be around for that conversation when he eventually tells them the truth.

His parents are really nice people.  I especially like his mum.  We had coffee, and she gave us chocolate cake, NOM.  I did notice her looking at his neck a couple of times when we first got there, which made me cringe a little, but she didn’t say anything.

Aiden didn’t act any differently towards me at his parents either.  When we sat down in the living room he put his arm around me.  His mom and I ganged up on him a little and gave him a rough time, playfully of course.  When we got talking about some renovations he wants to do in his place and I volunteered to bring my tile saw and help him out, she seemed pleased.  I wanted to make a good impression, and I feel like I did.

We stayed and visited for a couple of hours, and then Aiden said he wanted to make me dinner but that we needed to go grocery shopping first.  His mum gave me a hug when we left, which is usually a good sign, and then off we went to do some shopping.

After picking up supplies for dinner we went back to his place and got started.  I don’t usually like cooking in other people’s kitchens, but it was fun.  It was also dinner time for his corn snake, who was waiting impatiently for his dead rats.  I really like reptiles so Aiden let me hold him while he gave his cage a quick cleaning and then he had his dinner.  Maybe I’ll have to actually remember to take a picture of him next time I’m there, he’s really pretty, even though I saw him just before a shed, so his colors were kind of dull.

After we’d finished our dinner, which turned out very tasty, I said that I should probably get ready to go.  Then I nibbled on his ear which apparently meant for him to push me into his bed and bite me all over, LOL.  Eventually, although very reluctantly, I managed to escape and he walked me out to the Nitro.

I talked to him later that evening online, to let him know that I’d made it home ok.

“My mom just called 5 minutes ago.  You’ll never guess what she wanted, LOL”

“Do tell!”

“To tell me that she thought you were pretty awesome.  She was like ‘That girl is cool.  She’s independent, and personable, and she does housework!‘ LOL”

So, go me!  Apparently she also told him that he should keep me, which hopefully he will, at least for the foreseeable future

All in all it was a really great weekend, and it was a nice break after the chaos of our trip and the beginning of a new school year.

Last night Aiden came out for the kink much and afterwards helped me cross something off of my list:

330. Have sex in the back of our Nitro

That story, however, will have to wait for another day.