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	<title>Comments on: God Knows When You Touch Yourself</title>
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		<title>By: Delrin Cane Broom Review &#187; Stiletto Diaries</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/08/18/god-knows-when-you-touch-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-3518</link>
		<dc:creator>Delrin Cane Broom Review &#187; Stiletto Diaries</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2009 17:26:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] of light to medium strikes in rapid succession.  I&#8217;ve made reference to drumming with canes here, and although it&#8217;s quite different than using a cane to leave stripes, it&#8217;s a lovely [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] of light to medium strikes in rapid succession.  I&#8217;ve made reference to drumming with canes here, and although it&#8217;s quite different than using a cane to leave stripes, it&#8217;s a lovely [...]</p>
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		<title>By: red</title>
		<link>http://shastagibson.com/2008/08/18/god-knows-when-you-touch-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-3055</link>
		<dc:creator>red</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Aug 2008 02:08:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sucks :(  I totally get the desire to give him a chance, I would have too.  Its the hard reality of being an optimist, but whatever, optimism makes life easier to navigate.  Chin up, the awesomeness of secondary relationships is that they are what they are - when they stop fitting, you let them go, and enjoy the memory.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sucks <img src='http://shastagibson.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' />   I totally get the desire to give him a chance, I would have too.  Its the hard reality of being an optimist, but whatever, optimism makes life easier to navigate.  Chin up, the awesomeness of secondary relationships is that they are what they are &#8211; when they stop fitting, you let them go, and enjoy the memory.</p>
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		<title>By: Perakath</title>
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		<dc:creator>Perakath</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 18:09:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post. I hate breakups :(</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post. I hate breakups <img src='http://shastagibson.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: tonya cinnamon</title>
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		<dc:creator>tonya cinnamon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 17:35:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hugs you tightly.....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hugs you tightly&#8230;..</p>
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		<title>By: padme amidala</title>
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		<dc:creator>padme amidala</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 16:28:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Shasta,
I am really sorry to hear about you and Varick.  I have felt the pain of a breakup with a poly relationship and questioned things like you have.  There are really wonderful things about poly but the hurt feelings from a breakup can be intense and one of the bad things about it.  I am glad that you and Jack were able to spend some time together last night and he was able to comfort you.  I know I&#039;ve turned to Master Anakin a lot during some of my breakups.  
You deserve someone very special who is going to give you what you deserve in a relationship and I think Varick was too inexperienced or mature to really give you that.  
I&#039;m here if you want to chat or talk on the phone or anything.  
HUGS!!
XOXO
padme</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Shasta,<br />
I am really sorry to hear about you and Varick.  I have felt the pain of a breakup with a poly relationship and questioned things like you have.  There are really wonderful things about poly but the hurt feelings from a breakup can be intense and one of the bad things about it.  I am glad that you and Jack were able to spend some time together last night and he was able to comfort you.  I know I&#8217;ve turned to Master Anakin a lot during some of my breakups.<br />
You deserve someone very special who is going to give you what you deserve in a relationship and I think Varick was too inexperienced or mature to really give you that.<br />
I&#8217;m here if you want to chat or talk on the phone or anything.<br />
HUGS!!<br />
XOXO<br />
padme</p>
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		<title>By: nia</title>
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		<dc:creator>nia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 15:39:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i&#039;m so glad to hear about the cuddles and fucking with Jack at the end of all the shittiness you went through this weekend love. that kind of intimacy, affection, and respect is what you deserve in each and every relationship you have. 

big hugs
nia</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i&#8217;m so glad to hear about the cuddles and fucking with Jack at the end of all the shittiness you went through this weekend love. that kind of intimacy, affection, and respect is what you deserve in each and every relationship you have. </p>
<p>big hugs<br />
nia</p>
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