Stiletto Diaries™

Whoever Said Nothing Is Impossible Never Tried To Slam A Revolving Door

Posted on June 21st, 2008 in Are You Gonna Eat That?, Does All Her Own Stunts, Life List, Made In Ontario, Mating And Relating, Polyamory, Tie Me Up

This evening I am attending a pot luck dinner/play party at Deja’s place, along with Varick and about 10 of Deja’s other friends.

Varick and I were texting back and forth about the party on Wednesday, and the conversation went something like this:

Varick:
I’ll bet you can hardly wait to see me

Shasta:
My, you think highly of yourself

Varick:
Nah, it’s just the truth

Shasta:
And I suppose you’re totally indifferent to seeing me on Saturday?

Varick:
No
I’ll be counting down the seconds

Shasta:
Ok now you’re just being sarcastic

Varick:
No way, I always do that at work

Shasta:
*Rolls eyes*

So I think that’s the closest I’m getting to how he feels about me, LOL. I’ll take it and just be glad that he seems content to continue seeing me. I registered him and I to go to Forbidden in August, which means he and I will be spending two days and two nights camping together, which should be a great adventure. He’s already made mention of tying me to a tree, and who knows what else might be in store for me.

Due to some scheduling issues, and the fact that I’m spending part of July doing a cross-country road trip with V, I don’t think I’ll see him much next month. Forbidden will give us the perfect opportunity to get back in touch with each other. Is it hilarious that I’ve already started a list of gear and supplies we’ll need for that weekend? Mai anal-retentive OCD, let me show eet 2 u.

My contribution to the dinner tonight is a fruit tray and my chocolate fountain. Jack purchased it for me some months ago, since he knows how I love entertaining, and because who doesn’t love a chocolate fountain? Well, besides people who are allergic to chocolate (I actually know three of them in real life). This particular fountain also does cheese and pretty much anything you can melt down to the proper consistency. We’ve used it once so far, and it was a big hit, so I think the guests at the party will really enjoy it. Plus, melted chocolate lends itself to a number of erotic activities, which I’m certain this particular group will appreciate.

Last night Jack and I took the kids out for sushi (yum!) and then went grocery shopping. I picked up strawberries, pineapple, bananas, apples, pound cake, and marshmallows to go with the chocolate. Jack and I don’t often go grocery shopping together, so we divided up into ‘teams’ with the kids (one with each of us) and got the shopping done way more efficiently than I generally do on my own with the two rugrats in tow. It was actually kind of fun, LOL. Luke certainly got into it, helping me hunt down different items on the shopping list.

We’re taking them to Kung Fu Panda in about an hour. I’m looking forward to seeing a movie, and it’s nice to do a family activity together before I go out for the evening. If the weather is warm we’re also planning to take the kids to the beach tomorrow. I think I love the beach even more than they do, and relaxing in the sand after what I hope is going to be a very good night, sounds heavenly. Maybe I’ll break out the picnic basket and pack us some brunch items to eat while we are out there. Hmmmm, that’s a good idea actually now that I think about it

This party tonight should satisfy a couple of items on my bucket list:

256. Play in public at a Kink party

357. Go to a BDSM play party

Speaking of the list, I am working on a post of ‘in progress and upcoming’ items for the rest of 2008. Basically I’ve composed a mini-list of 50 things I want to cross off before this year is over. The two above items are on there, and I’ll be able to cross them off before I even post that list The mini-list is broken down into months, because some of the items area already scheduled, and then there are at least 20 that I just want to get done before the end of December this year. So, that will be posted in the next couple of days and should help me remember which list items I am ‘working on’ so that I don’t miss any opportunities to cross some more off!

Anyway, we’re off to the movies! I hope everyone has a great weekend