Comments on: I’ll Be Their Unicorn Any Day http://shastagibson.com/2008/04/27/ill-be-their-unicorn-any-day/ My Life, With Appearances By Other People Tue, 26 Jul 2011 17:28:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Jade http://shastagibson.com/2008/04/27/ill-be-their-unicorn-any-day/comment-page-1/#comment-2313 Jade Fri, 02 May 2008 23:32:52 +0000 http://shastagibson.com/?p=653#comment-2313 I don't swing, but I do agree with the others! Call her! I don’t swing, but I do agree with the others! Call her!

]]> By: padme amidala http://shastagibson.com/2008/04/27/ill-be-their-unicorn-any-day/comment-page-1/#comment-2284 padme amidala Mon, 28 Apr 2008 17:28:14 +0000 http://shastagibson.com/?p=653#comment-2284 Hi Shasta, I think you should give her a call. You never know until you try. :) I'm glad to hear that Goodhandy's was so much fun. I can't wait to go there in June for a party. :) I can't wait to hear how Susur goes too for you. I know you were really excited about going there. I think it's neat you can write password protected posts. I'm a bit jealous because I don't think blogger allows you to do something like that. I can think of many times I wanted to post but couldn't because I wanted to make it private. Hope your having a good day! XOXO padme amidala Hi Shasta,
I think you should give her a call. You never know until you try. :) I’m glad to hear that Goodhandy’s was so much fun. I can’t wait to go there in June for a party. :) I can’t wait to hear how Susur goes too for you. I know you were really excited about going there.
I think it’s neat you can write password protected posts. I’m a bit jealous because I don’t think blogger allows you to do something like that. I can think of many times I wanted to post but couldn’t because I wanted to make it private.
Hope your having a good day!
XOXO
padme amidala

]]> By: nia http://shastagibson.com/2008/04/27/ill-be-their-unicorn-any-day/comment-page-1/#comment-2283 nia Mon, 28 Apr 2008 11:37:03 +0000 http://shastagibson.com/?p=653#comment-2283 call her!!! do it soon! absolutely! if nothing else sweetie, to make sure she is absolutely clear that you have been talking about and enjoying again and again in your mind the fun you had with them the first night you met, and how ecstatic you are to have run into them again! definitely make a date. even if they only play at the club, let her know how important it is that you make sure next time you meet there is no miscommunication, and that your dear friends nia and flavia be able to see her spectacular bum while her face is in your lap :D call her!!! do it soon! absolutely!

if nothing else sweetie, to make sure she is absolutely clear that you have been talking about and enjoying again and again in your mind the fun you had with them the first night you met, and how ecstatic you are to have run into them again!

definitely make a date. even if they only play at the club, let her know how important it is that you make sure next time you meet there is no miscommunication, and that your dear friends nia and flavia be able to see her spectacular bum while her face is in your lap :D

]]> By: Adam http://shastagibson.com/2008/04/27/ill-be-their-unicorn-any-day/comment-page-1/#comment-2282 Adam Mon, 28 Apr 2008 04:39:28 +0000 http://shastagibson.com/?p=653#comment-2282 Ooh, I know this one! In the swinger lifestyle, you'd be what almost every couple is looking for. That is, the single lady that isn't interested in stealing somebody's husband. My best advice from stories I've heard (since we've never met our Unicorn) would be to do exactly what you mentioned, call the number she provided. Unless the situation is unusual, the guy isn't really going to be much in the conversation except to give the expected approval of whatever the ladies cook up. Swingers pretty much always say that the ladies make the rules. Since you would be talking with the wife directly, that cleans out a lot of the awkwardness. The only thing I can think that might get in the way is if they only play at the club. We've met some couples that do that. In that case, patience may be a virtue. By calling you'll at the very least be showing your sincerity. Otherwise, just be a friend to them both, but especially her. My wife really enjoys the connection that she makes with women that are in non-traditional relationships, since we aren't either. Instant camaraderie and understanding all around. Really, "dating" with a couple isn't any different that with one person. It's always about being yourself, and being considerate and honest to the people you're with. You just have to keep the feelings and needs of both in mind when making decisions, which can be hard if anyone isn't communicating (or if the communication isn't getting through, like at the club). So there's my 2¢ worth, from our experience. I wish you luck and am terribly jealous of the couple! Ooh, I know this one! In the swinger lifestyle, you’d be what almost every couple is looking for. That is, the single lady that isn’t interested in stealing somebody’s husband.

My best advice from stories I’ve heard (since we’ve never met our Unicorn) would be to do exactly what you mentioned, call the number she provided. Unless the situation is unusual, the guy isn’t really going to be much in the conversation except to give the expected approval of whatever the ladies cook up. Swingers pretty much always say that the ladies make the rules. Since you would be talking with the wife directly, that cleans out a lot of the awkwardness.

The only thing I can think that might get in the way is if they only play at the club. We’ve met some couples that do that. In that case, patience may be a virtue.

By calling you’ll at the very least be showing your sincerity.

Otherwise, just be a friend to them both, but especially her. My wife really enjoys the connection that she makes with women that are in non-traditional relationships, since we aren’t either. Instant camaraderie and understanding all around.

Really, “dating” with a couple isn’t any different that with one person. It’s always about being yourself, and being considerate and honest to the people you’re with. You just have to keep the feelings and needs of both in mind when making decisions, which can be hard if anyone isn’t communicating (or if the communication isn’t getting through, like at the club).

So there’s my 2¢ worth, from our experience. I wish you luck and am terribly jealous of the couple!

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