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Posted on September 18th, 2007 in Does All Her Own Stunts, Mating And Relating, Polyamory

So last night Pretty Dumb Boy and I had our first phone conversation. From here on out I'll just refer to him as PB, since he's actually NOT dumb when he's talking and not typing. The 'P' could stand for 'Pretty' or 'Pervert' since he is both, and even though he's older than me I will still refer to him as Boy because he looks like he's 18 and not 30. I know I said I was going to stay away from having letters for people, but PB is just easier than typing out Pretty Boy all the time. Yes, I am actually that lazy :P

Anyway, he called me up and it was already late at night. We talked for well over an hour. Well, he did most of the talking, in fact it was difficult to get a word in edgewise. He related to me the entire history of his last serious relationship, which was somewhat poly, and yet not really. Very strange. I just listened and made short comments at appropriate intervals. People love to talk about themselves, and being a good listener seems to lull them into a sense of trusting and feeling close to the person they are talking to.

His voice is even more attractive then his face and body. Perhaps that is another reason I don't mind listening to him talk.

We left plans to meet up in the air for now. He said he would get in touch today and we could discuss it some more. He's not as huge of a pervert on the phone, which leads me to believe that he won't be over-the-top in person. I dislike feeling pressured for something sexual on the first date and he understands that, so I'm not the least bit nervous about meeting him.

He has a bit of a fixation with women watching him masturbate. He has a mile-wide exhibitionist streak and also some cuckoldee tendencies. His ex 'cheated' on him a number of times, and he found it highly arousing to hear the details of her escapades with other men. Especially when she told him they were better/hotter/more capable lovers than he is. His interest in bedding other women while he's in a relationship seems passive at best. The reason his relationship failed, according to him, is that his girlfriend was never honest and upfront about her affairs with other men. He always had to pry it out of her, even if he told her he was perfectly ok with what she was doing. I don't blame him for preferring the open and honest method of communication.

Still, he plays fast and loose with ethics since he has continued sleeping with her once in a while since their breakup, despite her being in a serious monogamous relationship. It's a bit of a turnoff, but then again, at least he's honest about it, unlike her.

He seems genuinely nice at this point, not the least bit creepy or threatening. He's also very open minded and not at all the jealous type, which is reassuring. We shall see how the first meeting goes.

Other than that, not a lot of action going on around here. A great number of important 'vanilla life' tasks are getting accomplished though, which makes me feel good despite the lack of other excitement. I might be checking out this really great Asian market in T-Dot this weekend, and if PB wants to get together there will be that as well. I also need to get to the gym and grocery shopping. Good times!