Stiletto Diaries™

I Am A Rare Bird

Posted on August 9th, 2006 in Carnal Confessions, Does All Her Own Stunts

So many marvelous things have happened to me lately, I have scarcely had time to blog. I have been basking in the attention from a number of interesting people. I have been feeling fabulous.

Jack and I have been getting along better than ever, wiling away many an hour wrapped up together in bed talking and dreaming together. We feel so close and well connected to each other again. Really, it’s so good it feels like a dream.

Saturday night I had a late evening date with a beautiful woman. We spent several hours in a hot tub, in the company of an intriguing and very naked man. O and I had such a good visit, soaking in the water and discussing all manner of deep and also fluffy topics of conversation. The naked gentleman will now be referred to as LD (at his own request, I warned him that he would be blogged about). I admire someone who is so comfortable with himself, or else so crazy, that he can comfortably hang out in his birthday suit with a woman who he met only half an hour earlier.

He and I exchanged back rubs. It was sort of unusual to be so close to a naked man in a very non-sexual sort of way. I was sitting in front of him and he was gently rubbing my lower back when I felt his lips brush the skin between my shoulder blades. I did not discourage his attentions since I found him fascinating and wondered vaguely about his intentions, if he indeed had any.

Eventually the evening drew into the wee hours of the next day. O was tired and had a long day ahead of her. The hot water had lulled me into a tired and relaxed sort of trance. I dressed, gathered my things, gave LD two very good hugs, and then O and I started to head across the lawn to the gate. Just as we were about to exit LD asked if one of us could help him put the cover back on the tub. I set down my things and went back to assist him. We re-covered the tub and then he hugged me again, commenting that he really liked me and could just eat me up.

Then he paused and asked me if he could kiss me. I said yes. It was unexpected but definitely not unpleasant. I smiled to myself as I drove home in the dark. LD is nothing like the men I usually date. That in itself piques my interest. He is older, I guessed him to be mid-thirties, and have found out since then that sometime in the not-so-far-past he celebrated his 40th birthday. He is heavily involved in the theatre and well-known amongst the arts community in our city. I am sure that he has many interesting facets that are unknown to me, and which I would like to learn about no doubt. I am hopeful that he would want to go for coffee sometime, but I am too shy to ask him. Perhaps he will read this and indulge me.

The excitement of the long-weekend was far from over however. Yesterday I took K to IKEA to pick out a new bed for him. I threatened to never spend the night at his house again if he did not replace the two futon mattresses he was sleeping on which made me wake up feeling like I had been hit by a truck.

It was thrilling, we picked out a nice bed frame and a new mattress, then new bedding. I will admit that IKEA really does not have a lot of tasteful duvet covers. I was tempted to check out Linen N Things instead but K is less picky than I, and chose the “least ugly of the ugly” colors that they had to chose from. He thinks that he has better taste but actually I only suggested duvet similar to this [except in bright greens] because his room is small and I thought that the bright colors would make it feel less like a closet. Instead he ended up with a navy set with a square pattern. Then I tried to convince him to buy a sateen sheet set (NOT A SINGLE SHEET K, A WHOLE SET ) for $80.00 [actually pretty reasonable in my opinion]. But nooooooooooooooooooooo we had to get the $12.00 sheet set, you might as well be sleeping in a burlap sack! And they will be covered with those wretched little ball thingys after one wash. Ah well, I can’t be too hard on him I sleep on 600 thread count Egyptian cotton sheets so I am heavily biased.

We got all the purchases through the till and I think K nearly choked. It was probably the second biggest purchase of his young life (the total came to just under $700.00). Clearly I need to teach him how to spend money. I was satisfied though, and we had great fun.

As we were leaving the store I let it slip that Jack had recently announced to me that all of our sexual restrictions were lifted. That came with a warning that if another rules was broken the next ‘break’ would be permanent. Not more screwing up, we used our last ‘get our of jail free card’.

We unloaded all the bed parts at K’s place but before we could get started putting it together we were tugging each others clothes off and gave his futon one last round It was intense and passionate…and sweaty. We both came, me first and him shortly there after. Months worth of sexual frustration finally unleashed. It was HAWT!

I then assembled the bed, as K said in his blog, I like to just put things together on my own so I did most of the work at my own insistence. No sooner did we get the mattress onto the frame and there was more frantic animal sex. We thoroughly tested the bed, several times I think it’s pretty sturdy. I am sure most of the block heard my screaming and moaning. We were slick with sweat and out of breath by the time we finished. I made the bed before I left and commented that I should take a picture of it like that since I am sure that I will never see it made again, LOL. I was in a hurry at IKEA so we ended up with a couple extra pieces that we didn’t need, so we’ll take those back whenever I see K again. There was also a couple of screws leftover, but I’ve put together three or four beds from IKEA and trust me, they aren’t vital

I left K’s feeling like things with him and I are heading in a more positive direction. Lately I have been impatient with him, sometimes provoking him on purpose just because of frustration. I think that I needed to remind myself that he loves me and would do anything for me, and all he needs is some time to adjust. He is entitled to that.

I stopped in at V’s on the way home and had a good chat with her. Hoping that her, DF, Jack, and I can go for dinner on the weekend coming up. A bit of a double date. I am also drafting a list of people that I really want to get together with in the near future.

I hope that everyone had a weekend as good as mine. Tomorrow is Hump Day so make sure you shag if possible